BERNARD P. "BERNIE" BEHRENS Jr.
BERNARD P. "BERNIE" BEHRENS Jr.
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BERNARD BEHRENS Obituary
Bernie had suffered the past year with throat cancer and had fought a long and hard battle. He was a brave and courageous man. He kept his dignity to the very last day. Bernie's last tasks were to make sure that his life partner of 42 years, Suzanne Jacobs would be well taken care of, and that things would be made easier for her after his demise. His last thoughts were of her.
Bernie had been retired from the Orange County Auditor Controller's office for the last 7 years. He had worked for the county for 35 years as a system analyst. Since his retirement, Bernie's time was spent "putzing" around the house, keeping things in working order, running errands, taking care of interests on the computer, and making sure that the neighbors and neighborhood were doing good.
Bernie was a quiet, gentlemanly, and polite man, always proper in conduct and appearance. He always thought of the other person's well being and comfort before his own.
Bernie leaves a brother, Michael Behrens of Anaheim; brother, David Behrens in Missouri; and sister, Janet Mills of Washington State. Bernie also leaves his life partner of 42 years, Suzanne Jacobs of Santa Ana; his "step" daughter, Shelly Chace of Riverside (her three daughters, Samantha of Riverside, with soon to be "step" great-granddaughter, Hailey Chace of Menifee and Rachell Chace of Santa Ana.
Bernie was a man of few words, but his actions of courage, pride, generosity and dignity spoke more about him than mere words could ever say. He will be missed by friends, neighbors and relatives more than he could ever imagine. His memory will be kept alive by so many who loved and knew him as the quiet, but thoughtful man that he was.
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Bernie Jr, at age 13
Jim and Shirley Condon
April 11, 2012
Suzanne, Dave, Mike, Janet, and families,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember cousin Bernie as a teenager and he was very polite, kind, and soft-spoken even then. I keep him and all of you in my prayers.
Shirley (Moller) Condon
Larry Moller
April 5, 2012
Suzanne, family, and friends of Berine Jr.
I wish to offer my sincerest condolences for the loss of Bernie Jr. Though I hadn't seen him for many years it doesn't seem he changed from the caring person I remember from our childhood.
Sally Durante
April 3, 2012
Susie and Bernie. It's always been that way. Over 40 years ago I met Bernie for the first time and he was quite, a gentleman and handsome. I liked him immediately. When the kids were growing up Bernie was so good and giving and gentle to them and then the granddaughters too! My family had many good times at Bernie and Susie's, so many celebrations and later, visits for days. Bernie always made us feel welcomed and loved. I just can't imagine not seeing Bernie and getting those famous words,"what can I get you?" Susie, Bernie loved you so very much. He was a rock. I'll miss him and I hope he is having a good time in heaven reuniting with all who have gone before him. It's so hard and it hurts to lose Bernie, until later. There aren't enough words to say what's in the heart! Love you both Sally
Russell (Rusty) Behrens
March 28, 2012
I am truely sorry for your loss of Bernie jr. I dont remember him but Dad told me a lot about him. He sounds like he was a wonderful kind and loving person, which doesnt suprise me as Uncle Bernie,David,Janet and every member of your family has left me with nothing but fond memories and lasting impressions of of a sincere, soft spoken, kind,giving and sharing family that i am proud to be related to. May God bless you and help you through this difficult time.
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Patty Ludi
March 20, 2012
Bernie, I cannot imagine what my life would have been like if you had not been a part of it. You were loved by everyone you knew, becuase we knew you were a rare gem and we were lucky to have crossed lives. You will be missed but never forgotten. Cheers.
Elias Thuo
March 14, 2012
I worked closely with Bernie for many years and remember him as quiet but very organized, efficient, honest, straightforward and very sincere. My condolences to his family and close friends. May God be your strength, hope and comfort.
Pradeep Parikh
March 14, 2012
“Please accept my sympathy�. A very gentle soul
Skyanne Wright
March 13, 2012
Such a wonderful person gone to soon! You will truly be missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers to the family. May you rest in peace until we meet again....
Mari Behrens-Schulze
March 12, 2012
Suzanne and family of Bernie Jr. My heart, sympathy and prayers go out to all of you. I know your loss is immeasureable at this time. I hope that you will find some comfort in knowing how much loved Bernie will always be. He is home now with the Lord and relaxing in his loving embrace. No more pain and suffering ... he is healthy and whole again. Please know that he will be in my thoughts and prayers and his family as well during this sad time.
Jacki Behrens-Standon
March 12, 2012
Please accept my deepest condolences. May God grant your family his grace and peace during these difficult days.
Marilyn Brennan
March 11, 2012
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Bernie was so good to take care of things after Bernie Sr. passed away. You are in my thoughts and prayers always. My deepest sympathy, Marilyn Brennan
Joe Moller
March 11, 2012
From everyone that has known you, it is easy to see that this world was a better place with you. You were loving and caring to all who were around you, and you have passed that on to your family. Keep the loving memories of Bernie near to you....it will help you get through this time. With all our love, Joe and Bette Moller Douglas NE.
Tom Lair
March 11, 2012
Please accept my deepest condolences on your loss of a much loved family member. May your memories of your loved one bring you comfort in this time of grief and for always. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Tom
Janet Mills
March 11, 2012
The world may see us grow old, but brothers and sisters see each other as we have always been. We share parents, siblings, our youth. We share each other's history and our bond lives outside the touch of time. With love for my big brother. Bernie - you will always live in my heart. Janet
Michael Behrens
March 10, 2012
In loving memory of a wonderful brother.
Bernie, we will love you and miss you always. Mike
Dianne Lundquist
March 10, 2012
God bless Bernie and those who loved him.
Suzanne Jacobs
March 10, 2012
Bernie, Bernie, Bernie!!! I miss you sooo much!!!! You left too soon!!! Thank you for all your love and support for 42yrs!!! You always came through for me, no matter what I needed. I know your last deeds were for my benefit. That was the way you were. Take care of the tasks at hand and do them in order. You were so brave with everything you went through. I didn't realize till the last year and months how brave you really were. I know you were thinking of me through it all!! That's just the way you were. Thank you for your life and the courage that God gave you. I love you. Suzy
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