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1948 - 2015
james mccarthy
November 14, 2024
Bernie was one of the finest men I had the pleasure to call a friend. Jim McCarthy
Jim Mindak
November 14, 2024
You're at peace. I miss your guidance on matters of life.

Brian Bernard
March 22, 2024
John Hackney
March 21, 2024
Basic at Polk, Primary at Walters, on to Rucker, then both to the 134th and my partner for R&R in Sydney. Bernard John Thomas O'Donnell is one war name I can never forget. I miss my friend.
James Dotson
November 19, 2023
Bernie.At the Kentucky Kampout this October talk around the campfire was filled with memories of you. Someone pointed out where you usually sat.You said very little, but the look on your face said tons. Miss you brother. Top Gun,or as you liked to call me Mr Gunn.
Jim Mindak
November 18, 2023
It's been awhile, but you are still in my thoughts. Still got the calendar.
Rest my friend, rest. Jim Mindak VVA 242
JIM MINDAK
November 16, 2022
Well, you did a great job of getting me involved in
242. I can still see you sitting on the sideline, with
that cigar and smile, when I ran a meeting. I still got the calendar and memories. Thanks, Brother.
Karen
November 14, 2022
Sweetest gentleman & friend, that´s my memory of my neighbor. To think that I almost selected a house on another street.. I would have missed the privilege of meeting Bernie. Rest easy dear friend.
Jim Mindak
December 26, 2021
I asked you for the calendar from the Helicopter
Assoc. You told me I would have to join 242 before
you gave it to me. The rest is history. Thanks for
getting me there and started. I consider you a great friend and mentor
Mr. Edward Lee Oller Jr. VVA 242
November 14, 2021
Your leadership continues to inspire me to keep the faith in the organization you helped build!
Pray for us as we pray for you...
Denis Lenihan
November 14, 2021
Sympathy and blessing to Bernard's family

Al Piantkowski
November 14, 2021

Al Piantkowski
November 14, 2021
Al Piantkowski
November 14, 2021
Brother Bernie,
Continue to rest in peace knowing that you will always be part of and remembered by, all your friends and fellow veterans.
Karen Runk
November 14, 2021
Never forgotten my friend.
Richard Zaber
November 14, 2020
It is good to keep his memory alive.

America's Finest
Al Piantkowski
November 14, 2020
Brother Bernie,
Although a half decade has passed, the memory of your service and dedication to fellow veterans will forever remain in the hearts of all that you have touched. God has asked that you climb a little higher in the skies that you once flew to join Him in everlasting peace. Rest in His peace kind sir, your work here is done.
Karen Runk
November 14, 2020
Miss ya Bernie... you left an indelible mark on the lives of those who love you. Namely me.
Ted Cohan
November 14, 2020
Travel well Brother. Miss you.
James McCarthy
November 16, 2019
Everyone who met Bernie was either helped by him ... or put to work!

Hi Last VVA Chapter Sock Hop Event.
Roger & Cathy Mc Gill
November 15, 2019
Well Bernie,
We miss you and your wisdom every day. Talk about you a lot to your daughter Val, and have met your new grandson. He is in Great hands with her, and he has even attended a VVA Chapter #242 meeting with Val. We might even see him at the Sock Hop this Saturday night that you use to run, that tradition still continues even if we did move it to a different location now. God Bless RIP Brother.
Karen Runk
November 14, 2019
Never forgotten..... Bernie is an endearing man who made ya feel special. Such a gentleman and brother to all. I miss his half grin, with a cigar hanging on the other half. His quick wit and thundering laugh. Most of all I miss visiting with him and listening to his stories. Love you man...

America's Finest
Al Piantkowski
November 14, 2019
Bernie,
Although nearly four years have passed your memory lives on in the hearts of many.
Your dedication to family, friends and fellow veterans will forever remain part of your great legacy.
Thank you for your service to our country.
May God share His blessings with you once again in the skies of heaven for your ultimate, 'Welcome Home.'
Jack Sanderson
November 11, 2016
Happy Veterans Day Bernie! I never had the opportunity to meet you but know your brother Paul and if you're anything like Paul, you were one hell of a wonderful man. RIP and God Bless!
Karen Runk
November 10, 2016
Leaving the light on for you.....
Bill Perrot
July 6, 2016
Bernie was my room mate in flight school. He was a good friend and when we built the safety sign at Ft. Wolters he was not sure if I knew what I was doing. I had been a cement finisher prior to joining the Army. It was a large concrete sign and we all pitched in and built it and it still stands today. Bernie talked me out of staying in the Army and i might be alive today because I listened to him. He always had a 'glint' in his eye and a little smile on his face. Well...brother ...now you know all the secrets.
Jack Sanderson
January 19, 2016
My Deepest Sympathy goes out to the entire family. Paul and Chris have become friends of my wife DeeDee and I and as we've gotten to know them, we've learned about eachother's lives a bit and also familial situations. Bernie, while we never met him, we know he was an amazing Man as is Paul and his fearless service to his beloved American in the war, love for country and family will be missed by all he touched. Our Prayers to all of the friends and family mourning and know God has a new Irish Angel in Heaven!
Sharon Frey
December 21, 2015
Bernie, you always gave me good advise, no matter what the subject was. You will always be in my heart, my friend. I miss you so much already. May God be with your family.
Larry Hempfling
November 27, 2015
A Friend and Brother. Bernie, you will be missed by all of us who had the pleasure of knowing you. Kentucky Kampout will not be the same with seeing you sitting in your familiar spot under the pavilion. Rest in Peace with all those who have gone before you My Brother.
James "Top Gun" dotson
November 25, 2015
Bernie,my brother.We will all miss you in Kentucky.I'll miss you everywhere.I recall the times,me,you,Rich,and Brad.Were in Key West.Just sitting around looking out over the ocean.Every now and then,you would say to me,"Mr.Gunn,are you happy?"Your smile and concern,for all veterans,made me very happy.Thank you,for your service,and you were a true american hero.Welcome home brother.

Yesterday at Abraham Lincoln Cemetery, Elwood, IL. Full U.S. Army Military Service.
November 24, 2015
Helene Hallahan
November 23, 2015
Bernie, you were once my brother-in-law but have always remained a friend - I am ever grateful for the love and support you gave me in my time of need. I will always be there for your daughters.
Helene
Bob & Carol Lammie
November 23, 2015
It is so hard to say goodbye to a friend like Bernie. His cigar chomping grin, and everything about him, will be sorely missed. And especially so by the Veterans' community that he represented so long and so well. So it is just farewell Buddy. May we meet again someday at that big PX in the sky. May the good Lord Himself wish you "Welcome Home" at last.
Roger & Cathy McGill
November 23, 2015
Bernie,
You will truly be missed by ALL of us. Thanks for all you did for Veterans and it will live on. God Bless R.I.P Brother, we will never forget you and will always love and respect you, and watch over your two daughter's and grandson. You served your family and veterans fully, now rest because the Good Lord has called you home.
November 23, 2015
Dear Bernie,
You will be missed by all of us, from the Vietnamese Veterans Association of Illinois.
KQ Dung Nguyen

I'll remember you often in my travels
Tom Thomka
November 23, 2015
Bernie, I am so honored to have been your friend!! Your support of my Chapter Presidency in the mid-90s meant the world to me. I will never forget you, nor will Sue and Rhoda.
Edward Oller
November 23, 2015
Bernie, what can I say, but Thank You... You helped me believe that I was worthy to obtain the VA benefits that I now enjoy. Even the DV license plate that I have. Because of you, I have become more active in a most important organization the "VVA" and more importantly the VVA Chicago Chapter 242. Your bigger than life presence was always welcoming and encourageing especially to us new guys. I will miss the opportunity to talk with you when I have questions about benefits or the VVA, your smile and that cigar sticking out the side of your mouth (unlight). I am sad that I will not get the chance to know you better and laugh at your jokes or funny comments. Thank you for being my vet brother. "Welcome Home" and God bless...
Ted Cohan
November 23, 2015
Travel well Brother
Jim Kalkstein
November 22, 2015
I was fortunate to know Bernie from the St. Barts and Gordon Tech days. He was a super guy who always wore a smile.
The Chwastyk family
November 22, 2015
Jenny, my caring daughter,
The passing away of your Dad has filled our hearts with enormous sadness. Bernie was such a wonderful, cordial person that those who had a chance to get to know him could have warmed with his warmth. We know that he was a great support at hard times to you, Jenny, Rafal and Brian and he gave you lots of love and a sense of security. We have loved him as a Brother and were full of admiration for his personality and character. We are grateful to him that he was like a mentor and a father to Rafal in his many important life chapters. We all loved him. Requiescat in pace
Agata, your Mamu, Wiesia, aunt, Agnieszka, sister-in-law
November 22, 2015
I was fortunate to know Bernie for twenty-plus years - a finer, more "gentler giant" never existed. He will be sorely missed by all.
Jim McCarthy
Karen Runk
November 21, 2015
This is lit just for you, Bernie....my friend and protector I already miss you terribly. May you rest in peace and always be near. With endless love and respect, Karen

Brian Walsh
November 21, 2015
Brian Walsh
November 21, 2015
Bernie, My uncle, once my boss and my mentor while deciding which path to take in serving my country as you did. Your character and loyalty to familly, friends and fellow Vets inspires us all. You will truly be missed. Rest well uncle.
November 21, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers go to Bernie's family at this difficult time Kevin and Deb Naughton
Pat & Pat O'Brien
November 21, 2015
To a true American hero,leader of all, friend, father, grandfather, husband and angel to those he loved so dearly. Thank you for all the special memories and there are many. We will miss you forever. Our sympathies are with all of his wonderful family, Pat,Pat O'Brien
Rick Sheehan
November 21, 2015
All of your brothers in the 134th will miss your smiling face at our annual reunions. Every day more Vietnam vets pass to their final reward. Berney was much loved by all his family and friends, especially his veteran friends. Berney taught me how to fly in combat and I'm probably alive today because of the good job that he did.
bob curtis
November 20, 2015
Rest in Peace Bernie. Our prayers are with your family. Respectfully, Bob Curtis ,Vietnam Veterans of
America,Chapter 242
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Mark Lawrence
November 20, 2015
Another of our heros gone but never will be forgotte.. From this VVA guy I will continue the good work. VVA Chapter 984 Rockford ... Welcome Home Brother.... Mark Lawrence
Eileen Mahoney
November 20, 2015
Jenny, Val and all - I'm so sad for you. We loved your dad. I know mine was waiting with a big warm hug and smile up there for yours. Xoxo

Bernie's Grandson.
Jennifer O'Donnell Chwastyk
November 20, 2015
You taught me how to fly Dad. I'm okay. You gave me big wings. Now it's my turn to teach Brian Bernard. And I promise you, I will... #2. Jenny.

Mike Dzikowski
November 20, 2015

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November 20, 2015

Al Piantkowski
November 20, 2015
Brother Bernie,
Thank You for your friendship and dedicated service to our grateful nation. May God now welcome you into His open and loving arms for your well deserved, ultimate, "Welcome Home."
Mess call in Heaven will now be serving, 'Bernie-Burgers!'
Rest in Peace our brother.
Gayle Charley
November 20, 2015
Dear Valerie and Jennifer,
I was so very sorry to hear about your dad. I know how hard it is to lose a dad that you are close to and that you love so very much. Both of you were so good to your dad and I know built great memories of Barney. May those good memories help you through this very difficult time.
Thinking of you.
Gayle O'Donnell Charley (cousin)
Jim & Diane Flaherty
November 20, 2015
The FLAHERTY family sends their prayers and condolences to Bernie 's family. Bernie, you brought our family a lot of joy and good times. You will be truly missed. Jim & Diane Flaherty & family.

~ ~ Fr. Dan Brandt, CPD Chaplain
November 20, 2015
Heartfelt and prayerful condolences from the Chicago Police Chaplains. Bernard will be remembered at the Police Mass on Sunday, 22 NOV, 11:00 a.m. at Mercy Home - 1140 W. Jackson Blvd. In the meantime, may family and friends know the healing touch of our all-loving, all-merciful God! [www.ChicagoPCM.org or 312/738-7588]
Fr. Thomas Nangle, CPD chaplain retired
November 20, 2015
It wasn't possible for me to be with him and end up not laughing--or at least grinning- -about something or someone. He was a big presence with a strong history of serving America, and he had quite a rich gathering of good friends. May he know God's peace now and forever, until you hold hm again.
Kathleen Walsh
November 20, 2015
The world lost another hero. Rest in Peace, Uncle Barney.

Kathleen Walsh
November 20, 2015
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Bernard John O'Donnell, Veteran Vietnam War. Chief Warrant Officer II, Helicopter Pilot. Beloved father of Valerie (Matthew) Webb and Jennifer (Rafal) Chwastyk. Grandfather of Brian Bernard. Step-Grandfather of Bart. Loving brother to Mary Blanche... Read Bernard O'Donnell's Obituary
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