Bernice E. Pechenik

Bernice E. Pechenik

Bernice Pechenik Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 26, 2013.
Pechenik, Bernice E. NASSAU Bernice E. Pechenik died on Friday, October 25, 2013 at the Stratton V.A. Medical Center in Albany. She was predeceased by her devoted husband of almost 50 years, Martin Pechenik. She leaves behind her beloved daughters, Janis Pechenik of Nassau, and Marcia McCraw (Joel Eisenberg) of Seattle, and her cherished son, Stephen Pechenik and his wife, Prudence of Troy. In addition, she leaves behind her beloved grandchildren, Julia McClawsen and her husband Greg of Tacoma, Wash., Clifton McCraw of San Diego, Natalie Pechenik of Tampa, Fla., Jeffrey Pechenik of Troy, and Iris Pechenik of Syracuse. Bernice was the daughter of the late Samuel A. and Eva Lewis Beeber. She was always so proud of their many accomplishments. In addition, she leaves behind her nephews and nieces, and a host of very special friends who have always been so supportive of her wishes. Bernice graduated from James Madison High School in Brooklyn in 1938 and Brooklyn College in 1941. She then joined the United States Marine Corps during World War II, when she was stationed at Camp Pendleton. Martin and Bernice were married in 1947 and settled in their one and only special home in Nassau, where they raised their family surrounded by love and attention. Martin was a part-time farmer, who always provided a large collection of pets for his children (dogs, cats, horses, goats, sheep, turkeys, chickens). Bernice raised her children to be model citizens by providing an exemplar of caring for others. She was the chair of the local polio drive, matron of their local chapter of the Eastern Star, involved with her children's school and sports activities. She worked both for QUESTAR and East Greenbush central schools as a special education teacher. Her students will always remember their wonderful field trips to Washington D.C., Niagara Falls, and the Battleground Campgrounds in Lake George, where they feasted on steak and lobsters. Their parents were thrilled to see their children gain working skills that would prepare them to enter the working world as young adults. Bernice was also reknowned for her weaving of baskets and chair seats. Her caning and her sea grass seats still hold many people up today. She not only instructed her students to master these skills to help earn money for their trips, but taught these skills in adult education for East Greenbush central schools. Her first love was tennis. She began playing in Brooklyn as a young girl and continued playing into her 80s. She played at many local tennis clubs and also at Ridgefield Park in Albany, where a women's league was named for her (Bernice's league). The great friendships that began on the tennis courts endured until her final days and provided many fond memories for an abundance of her friends. Her family would like to thank Ann Bergin, Teri Sewell, Jacquie Craible, Carol and George Gides, Ann and Harry Rosenfeld, Esther Cussen, Mary Lee and Robert Trudeau, Pat Leichman and Diana Westbrook for the many hours of enjoyment that she was afforded on the tennis court. Many of those women that she played with throughout the years took the time to come visit her in her final days. Her tennis playing and their friendships that were created were an inspiration to so many! She would like to thank her many friends such as Kathy and Sue, that made her days of life so wonderful. Her laughter is something that we will all remember. Bernice would like to thank the many doctors, nurses, LPN's and nursing assistants who assisted her in making her final days comfortable. Services at the Levine Memorial Chapel, 649 Washington Ave., Albany, on Monday, October 28, 2012 at 10:30 a.m. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend. Interment will follow in the Gerald B.H. Saratoga National Cemetery in Schuylerville. Those wishing to remember Bernice in a special way may make a memorial contribution to the Nassau Ambulance, PO Box 757, Nassau, NY 12123. For directions, or to sign the online guestbook, please visit levinememorialchapel.com

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October 20, 2021

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October 20, 2020

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October 20, 2019

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Sue Bishop

October 20, 2021

Another year without our dear Berni. Re-reading her obituary amazes me all over again at the energy and selflessness of this woman whom I first met at her adult education caning class. Well into her 80´s then, she was still teaching and bringing her common sense wit to those who were honored to know her. You are in my heart always, Berni, as well as Janis, Steven, Marsha and your whole family.

Suzanne Bishop

October 20, 2020

A year has passed since I wrote my first message and my love and respect has increased tenfold. Other than my own mom, no woman has made more of an impact on my life than dear Berni and I hope to be able to tell her that some day.

Sue Bishop

October 20, 2019

Berni continues to be one of the most influential people I have been honored to call friend. I can still hear her hearty laugh in my memory and remember her common sense wisdom. She took the life that God gave her and used it wisely to help others in so many ways. She is always in my heart.

Kathleen Hayes

December 18, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I just heard of Bernice's passing. We played tennis together and I always told Bernice that she was my idol! She was such a generous vibrant woman. She always had a kind word and a contagious laugh. She never failed to call me on my birthday and I would phone her. Her contributions were great and the angels are rejoicing to have her among them. God bless.
kathy Hayes

Susan Beebe

November 21, 2013

Dearest Stephen and family,
I am so sorry for your loss! Your mother was a inspiration to so many! She left a fine mark upon this earth! May Yahweh be with you all at this difficult and painful time!

Flora O'Malley

November 2, 2013

Steve, So sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Please find comfort in knowing that others are thinking of you at this difficult time.

Patricia McAuliff Bustamante

November 1, 2013

Steve,

Please accept my condolences and prayers on the loss of your mother. I am sorry we were not with you at her service. We heard the news too late while away. We would very much have wanted to be with you as you honored her.

With love,

Pat and Ricardo

Michele Hendry

October 31, 2013

Dearest Steve,

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy on your mom's passing. We know how much you meant to each other. Loss of a loved one is never easy.

Best wishes,

Michele & Tom Hendry

Veronica Lyons

October 31, 2013

Marcia, Steve and Janis -
I didn't learn of your mom's death until today and can't tell you how bad I feel that I missed her service and the chance to tell you in person how sorry I am. She was most assuredly one of a kind, with a laugh that could fill a room and an all-encompassing love of life, family and friends that I always admired and envied. My memories of her, your dad, and all of you are warm, loving, and everlasting. Please know that my thoughts often turn to you and will continue to do so in the years ahead. I wish you peace – and the joy that comes from knowing that all of you were your mom's greatest treasure.

With love -
Ronnie

Bianca/Phil Carter

October 30, 2013

Dear Steve,

We were away and just heard of your family's loss. Your mother is now in the 'originals, threw away the mold' section of Heaven, a real inspiration. Much love and many prayers to you all.

Laurie Bergin

October 28, 2013

Janis and family we are saddened to hear about Bernice's passing she will always have a special place in our hearts and never be forgotten. I am sure that chloe will miss her deeply but has janis to to fill those big shoes. Mark will always think of her as well when he is sittimg in the woods behind the house. We love you all and are thinking of you. May she rest in peace with her beloved husband and welcoming her at the gates is grannie and phil with a glass of chevis regal. Love always mark and laurie bergin

Linda Byer

October 28, 2013

Dear Janis and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember seeing your mom who had a sweet smile. Always remember the good times you shared. May her memory be a blessing.

Clytie Somers

October 28, 2013

Steve, Janice and all of your family, I am so sorry to learn of your mother's passing. She was a sweet woman, whom I always enjoyed seeing. I will raise a scotch to her. Love to you all, Clytie

October 28, 2013

So sorry to hear of your mother's passing Janis. My menory of her is sitting across from her at the DPS Craft Fair. She was surrounded by all the wonderful things she had made. Always smiling! I bought several things from her (Who could resist?). One of which was a children's rocking chair that will be passed on to a new grandchild. May all your memories keep your heart warm.

Gail H. Hartigan

Kathy and Bob Cross

October 27, 2013

Janis,Stephen and Marcia I can't even begin to tell you how safden that my best friend is gone. We had so much fun learning how to make baskets and caning chairs .Bernie filled a hole I'm my heart that my mother left . You'll never know how much I loved your mother. Bob and I will miss her dearly. We always had great fun and laughs together. She will be in my prayers always.

Susan Hanley

October 27, 2013

To Steve and family
I am so sorry for your loss.

Kim Tafur

October 26, 2013

Janis, I am so sorry for loss. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Kim Tafur

Sue Bishop

October 26, 2013

Your mother had such an impact on my life. She was witty, charming, caring of others, an animal lover (except for those silly turkeys)and had great wisdom. She was one in a million and I am so much richer for having known her.

October 26, 2013

To the Pechenik Family,

I am so sorry to hear of Bernice's passing. She was a wonderful woman with an infectious laugh, good cheer, and just the nicest person. My father and I David Rees, who passed away in 2010, have many fond memories of Bernice playing tennis at the Albany Tennis Club. Bernice brought much joy to people's lives and I am so, so sorry that she is gone.

Regards,
Trevor
Trevor L. Rees (formerly of East Greenbush, NY) O'Fallon, Missouri

Lois & Jim Bult

October 26, 2013

We were saddened to hear of your mom's passing. Having known her for over 50 years she will be greatly missed. She was an exceptional lady and always great fun to visit with.

Ken Hughes

October 26, 2013

Janis, Marcia and Steve:
I was saddened to hear of your mothers passing, she was truly a special lady who besides raising her own children so well developed her special needs students to prepare for the real world which she did so well. She will be missed by all her knew her, the world is truly a different world without her, please accept my condolences. Ken Hughes

Annie Miller

October 26, 2013

Janis, I am so sorry to hear about your Mother passing. She was a beautiful lady and my favorite gardener. I have and will always miss our chats.

pat leichman

October 26, 2013

Bernice made everyone she was with feel special. She was such fun to be with. I played tennis, not well, but she always encouraged and helped. I can't properly say how much she meant to me and my husband Herb as well. We will always remember her with the great pleasure.

Joanne Blanchard

October 26, 2013

I remember Bernice very well, she tutored my daughter Mary Ellen, when she was in 3rd grade, due an illness, she was such a great lady, she will be missed. Joanne Blanchard

Nancy Bedell- Cole

October 26, 2013

Marcia, Janis and Stephen, I am so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. I remember spending many times playing in that wonderful house as young kids and later as a teenager just "hanging out". I enjoyed spending time talking with your mom at local craft fairs and watching her weave. She was an exceptional person. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Nancy

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