Beverly M. Sherred

All I know is your wonderful precious daughter and I love this girl and consider her my sister. I thank God she came into my life.

Mom,Thankful for the time we did have together. There was always laughter when you came to visit. You loved the 3 grandchildren I gave you. They are all grown up now and the boys have kids of their own. I am sure you would just love them. Till we meet again, Love Billy.

Mom, you would of turned sixty-five today but the Lord had different plans for you that day. Things are not the same since you've been gone. I've wanted to pick up the phones and tell you all that's been going on. Maria turned thirteen the other day and you should see how pretty she gets everyday. Kenny David turned ten this past year and he's turning into being my little dear. You would be so proud of them like you were before you died on that day in October that we cried. Maria is starting to remind me of you, especially when she wants to tell you a thing or two. Some of the statements that she's starting to say, is reminding me of you everyday. Kenny David has a heart of gold this year he wanted to do chores so he could raise money for a gift for your girls. At the beginning of 2008 we had a scare that we couldn't escape. I found Ken unresponsive on our bedroom floor and it all turned out because all glory goes to our Lord. I looked all around for a sign from above but all I can feel is all your love! So I'm going to close for now and all I can say is I miss your love and all of the advice you had to give and everytime I look in the mirror I see a reflection of you and I love what I see!!

Sherrie,
Although I never met your mom, I'm sure she was a wonderful woman because you are a wonderful woman and she raised you! God bless! Maryellen

To My Dearest Family:
Some things I'd like to say
but first of all to let you know
that I arrived okay
I'm writing this from Heaven
where I dwell with God above
where there's no more tears
or sadness there
is just eternal love
Please do not be unhappy
just because I'm out of sight
remember that I'm with you
every morning, noon and night
That day I had to leave you
when my life on Earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me
and He said I welcome you
It's good to have you back again
you were missed while you were gone
as for your dearest family
they'll be here later on
I need you here so badly
as part of My big plan
there's so much that we have to do
to help our mortal man
Then God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do
and foremost on that list of mine
is to watch and care for you
And I will be beside you
every day and week and year
and when you're sad
I'm standing there
to wipe away the tear
And when you lie in bed at night
the days chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you
in the middle of the night
When you think of my life on Earth
and all those loving years
because you're only human
they are bound to bring you tears
But do not be afraid to cry
it does relieve the pain
remember there would be no flowers
unless there was some rain
I wish that I could tell you
of all that God has planned
but if I were to tell you
you wouldn't understand
But one thing is for certain
though my life on Earth is o're
I am closer to you now
than I ever was before
And to my very many friends
trust God knows what is best
I'm still not far away from you
I'm just beyond the crest
There are rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb
but together we can do it
taking one day at a time
It was always my philosophy
and I'd like it for you too
that as you give unto the World
so the World will give to you
If you can help somebody
who is in sorrow or in pain
then you can say to God at night
my day was not in vain
And now I am contented
that my life it was worthwhile
knowing as I passed along the way
I made somebody smile
So if you meet somebody
who is down and feeling low
just lend a hand to pick him up
as on your way you go
When you are walking
down the street
and you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps
only half a step behind
And when you feel the gentle breeze
or the wind upon your face
that's me giving you a great big hug
or just a soft embrace
And when it's time for you to go
from that body to be free
remember you're not going
you are coming here to me
And I will always love you
from that land way up above
Will be in touch again soon
P.S. God sends His Love
--Author Unknown

A friend in State College gave this to us because someone gave it to her when her mom passed away. It's almost the same as the other poem but a couple different verses are in it that I really enjoyed.

Mom, well another year has gone by and I tried so hard not to cry
but I got a phone call this morning to say thinking of you while your mourning. And this person was putting your favorite scent of lotion on her hands and said she was thinking of me and you, of course I started to cry and then I hung up the phone, Ken came and hugged me so I didn't feel all alone.
I saw many signs this morning as I took the kids to school, I stopped by Sheetz to get gasoline and a friend of mine was there and said how pretty I looked and I guess I looked kinda sad and she said what's wrong and I told her what today is and she came over and hugged me and all of a sudden it started to pour down rain and I figured it was the the tear cloud of the angels that came. I was wearing your pretty pink shirt today and it seems when I'm wearing something of yours that I get compliments and I always think of you when you called me gorgeous when I dressed up. Then I started to drive towards home and a school bus with the number sixty-two was on it and that's the age you were when the Lord took you home. I came in the house to get Kenny ready for school and when we got in the car, the song "I Can Only Imagine" by Mercy Me came on and I know it was a song from you.
Ken called to go to lunch today and as I turned into the parking lot, there was a car with the license plate that read "Uradeer" and I chuckled inside because that was another sign. When I headed out to the store this afternoon I parked by a car that read "Laf Ter" and went inside the store and there was a cashier named Joy, and with all these signs coming my way, I knew in my heart it was going to be a good day. Then when I headed to check out at the store, I didn't even realize that I had purchased sixteen items and that's the date of your death. I arrived home to find a card taped to my door and it was a card from a friend who was praying for me like never before. Tomorrow I'm having surgery and I got prayer today and annoited with oil the other day and I know the Lord will guide His angels my way. So as the day draws to an end, I'm so glad that the Lord and you are closer than a friend.
All I can say is I love you forever and a day!!

On November 15, 2006, almost a month after your death, I was outside raking leaves and the sky was looking pretty dreary and it made me sad. All of a sudden the sun burst through and shined on me. I needed that! Thank you Lord and I know my mom had something to do with it too because she called my daughter Maria her sunshine.
It seems like yesterday that I lost my mom because the pain is so deep and the hurting goes on and on. I'll never understand why God decided it was your time to leave us. We have so much more in life to share with you and each day I wake up, I am saddened that my phone won't ring today. All I want to hear you say is What's new and how is My Sunshine and Buster doing? Mom, you were always there for us. No matter how you were feeling that day, you always had time for us. Pretty strange how you tried to call some of your kids an hour before you passed away. I'll never forget that conversation. You told me to "Take Care" and you never told me that before and you said make sure you call me sometime. Well I call on you in a different way through prayer and we've seen many signs and wonders from above.

I wrote some things down on paper and totally forgot about it until I was cleaning up papers around my computer. On Nov 5, 2006, Kenny David said "I don't like the way life goes"! And I asked why and he said because of what happened with my Pappy Paul and my Nanny. After he said that I hugged him and went and wrote this Our hearts are broken, our lives have been forever changed and nothing will ever be the same without your presence, your laugh, your humor and your love. A huge part of my heart is missing since the day you left us. It's one of the hardest things that I will ever have to do in life, living it without you and your advice. Mom, you left me wonderful memories and everyday they keep me going, they make me laugh, cry and they keep you close and that helps me through each day. I know you wouldn't want any of us to stop living because of your death and I won't lie somedays it's tough but I know you still want us to strive to do our best because you gave all of us your Best! My mom's journey in life wasn't always easy especially the years that involved two failed marriages but in 1984 she met the most wonderful man in the world, David Sherred.

Sherrie,
I love you, I miss my sister, your mother dearly. The holidays, and the birthdays are not the same, nobody gets my humor. I know for sure that Bev is in haven looking down on us and walking with us. Bev's smile will be forever inprinted in my heart and mind. In my sister death she taught me love, and she taught me courage because she was not afraid. I remember asking Bev if she was afraid to die and with her strong conviction she said, "No". We always want just one more chance, just one more minute, and one more smile but sometimes thats not always possible, so we take what she left behind and that is her "LOVE". Bev would not want it any other way. I Love You Sherrie and so very proud of you because I know your pain was unmeasurable.
Your Aunt Marcia

Sherr,
We are thinking of you and your Mom and the special, special relationship that you shared. Just look at all of the friends that too, love you dearly and unconditionally. We all want to see you smile and I am certain your Mom would want that too. Thank you for sharing this with us. Our Love, Cindy, Gordon and Jake

In Loving memory of my mom,
thirty-nine years ago you had a son,
I called and told him Happy Birthday because God had called you away.
Everyday with me is a memory of you, mom you were the best and they'll be no one quite like you.
I could tell you anything about me and you still loved me unconditionally.
No matter what time of day it might be, I hold you close in my heart a memory. Everyday I look for a sign and it's right before me all the time. As I look in the mirror each day, I can see so many expressions of you on the way. I talked to a friend of yours the other day and she was very saddened to hear you passed away. She was in our lives in nineteen-seventy seven and now she's going to have to wait to see you in heaven. She had seen us through a lot of things and I found letters from her amongst your things. I often wonder what God had in mind when He took you away on that night that I can't get out of my mind. It seems so real of the night in October and I wonder what you were thinking as you started to feel somber. Sometimes I think of all that we went through together and God always kept are family together. You would say things that I didn't quite understand but now I know you are in better hands. So as the days mark another year without your voice to tell me how much you care but I'll always know that God is near eventhough my mom's not here.

Another year is drawing to a close and I can't stop to think of all the birthdays and holidays that have arose, I really don't know what to say because today is just another day that I have longed to talk to you but you're so far away. Mom, I've missed you so much more this year and I know I've cried a lot more tears, you are especially missed this day because a year ago today your grandson, Jeremy got married and Maria and I traveled to Canada for Maria to be in their wedding. I can remember the day it was a rainy day and I believe it was the angels tears that touched our shoulders that day. When they sent me back to Jeremy's house, I sat and cried because four of your grandkids were in the wedding and you would of been so proud to see them walk down the aisle. Everytime the end of August comes, I find myself getting really down because that's when we went on our last trip together and then you and pappy came and stayed for Kenny's birthday and then we celebrated Jessie's 16th birthday together and then 2 weeks later you were gone. I'll never forget that day, I talked to you before I headed out to work and you told me to "take care" and never before had you said those words and at 8:45 pm, Ken and the kids came to work to tell me the most terrifying news that you passed away. My world seemed crushed and I couldn't imagine life without my mommy to share all the special moments of our kids and all the birthdays, holidays and such. But right now all I can say, is the Lord has carried me along life's way and he has shown me that we will carry you with us forever in our hearts everyday.

In Loving Memory of you,
Well mom, it's been a year
and I've cried many tear,
I've missed you so much
especially your loving touch,
You taught me to be strong
For the journey that I have to walk along,
The Lord knew the day
that He would take you away,
No one is ever ready for the death of their mother
because she will never be replaced by no other,
I really miss all your calls on the phone,
especially the ones when I was traveling from home,
You had that special way
of making my kids day,
We talk about the trips that we went with you
and we're thankful for the wonderful memories of you,
We toured a castle
not knowing that in a month you would be visiting your eternal castle,
Visiting your home is not the same
especially during the holidays my tears fall down like rain,
We went through a lot together
but your strength kept our family together,
Thank you for always be there for me
and loving me and my family!!
Love forever and a day,
Sherrie & Family
You're Forever In Our Hearts

I know it's hard right now and we are dealing with a LOT of pain but what we need to think about, is all that they have gained. Health and Happiness is now FOREVER theirs. So to be happy for them, does not mean that we don't care. We WILL see them again,If we are ready too. Just remember, your Mom will always love you!

DEAR SHERRIE,

I am so sorry, to hear about your mom. She was a great lady! You guys' are like family, to me & my mom!!!

It's been 179 days since my mom unexpectedly left my family and friends.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)

©Copyright 1998-2007


She gives permission on her website to use this in a guestbook with only her name and date. I loved this poem when I read it in another guestbook so I thought my friends and family would enjoy reading it in my mom's guestbook. It's beautiful for all to read.

Hi Sherrie,
I am so sorry because I know that nothing will ever be the same. It feels like part of your heart is gone. What I try to do is to thank God for having had such a wonderful Mom. In my life I have come across so many people who talk terrible about their Mom's. They have had mothers who mistreated or abandoned them. I thank God that I was one of the luckiest people because for my first 33 years God gave me a wonderful Mom who was also my best friend. Your Mom's death has made me remember the hurt and pain that sometimes feels unbearable. I wish that I had some magic words that could help you get through this but there just are none. I hope that it helps to know that I understand that your heart is broken. Try to hold tight to Kenny and Maria and remember that they need you. My goal is to be the same kind of Mom as my mom was to me. Things will never be the same but your Mom will always be a part of you. You came from her and she lives in your heart. Thank God everyday for her and ask that He blesses her and keeps her safe in heaven with him. I have to stop now because I am an emotional wreck today. It never stops hurting but when you have kids you need to go on. Call me if you need to talk, I could stop in before work if you need me. Remember that I am praying for you and I am here if you need me.
Your Friend

Magnes' ,
I am sorry to hear about Grandma. I am glad I was able to see her and everyone else at Kenny's birthday party. I miss you guys and will keep you in my prayers.

Hi Sherrie,

I hope you are doing okay. I cry every time I think of you and how sad you must be. I am so sorry this had to happen to you – you are always so good to everyone and I guess God has a reason for it. One thing, you have a clear conscience because you were a wonderful daughter to your mom. You were always there for her. Just keep the faith and that is all we can do. I spent a lot of time in church in Pittsburgh and it really was uplifting and calming. I also spent a lot of time at dad’s grave site, because I know I won’t be back for awhile and I just sat there (in my car because it was cold and raining) and I had my lunch there. That made me feel calm as well. I made him a nice wreath for Christmas and put it on because I know I won’t be back before Christmas and I wanted to put it on myself, so I did.
I just got back home from Pgh. I MADE IT !!! What a relief – I wanted to go so bad and the only way I was going to do it was to drive myself, so I repacked and put it all in God’s hands and I got there for you, Ken and the kids. They are so wonderful and their hugs are so sincere. I know you will be there for Pappy Dave, too. I know exactly how he is feeling right now and to have you there and to be by the kids will help him – they helped me by being here with me. I send you all my love and hugs.

Sherry,
We met your mom on your wedding day and she was bursting in her love and happiness for you. These precious memories are the ones to hold close to your heart. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Bob and Linda Reese

Sherrie
You have my deepest sympathy - I was so sorry to hear your unfortunate news and i truly know what its like to lose your mom - it has been 15 yrs. since i lost my mom, infact she passed only 5 months after i had my son but there isn't a day goes by that i don't think about her - i only regret that brandon didn't get to know or love her. it will be hard but time does make you stronger and from my experience don't go to the cemetery often - talk to her in the shower or when you are cooking or driving - you'll cry but you'll smile too. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Sherrie,
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother. You are in my prayers. Cindy was kind enough to call me and tell me of your sad news. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
Take care,

I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I know what you are going through so please let me know if you need anything.

Dear Sherrie~
I am so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts will be with you.
If there's anything I can do for you, please let me know.

Dear Sherry
Debbie e-mailed me on Friday and she told me your mother had passed away. I'm very sorry to hear that. I know she had problems with her heart in the past. Just exactly did happen to her. I know how hard it is to lose your mother. Of all the people losing a mom is truly hard. Please accept my sympathy. Hope you will get through this without to much grief!

Hi Sherrie,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you and your mom were very close so this must be one of the hardest times to get through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do or if you need anything. Take care.

Hi Sherrie
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. Robin had mentioned it, but I thought she was talking about last year when you lost one of your in-laws. I lost my Dad and brother 10 years ago. I think about them every day. It is hard to believe that it will ever get easier, but it does. It does take time though.You will always have her close to you. You are so fortunate to have had such a good relationship and all your wonderful memories to hold on to. Cherish them and they will help you get through these tough times.
Take care of your self and your family,

Sherrie,
I am so sorry….I know no words will help at this time. Remember I also lost my mom WAY too early (I guess we never would say it was a good time). The only thing I want to tell you is that the pain WILL subside and someday when you talk about her or remember her you will be able to smile with a happy memory instead of crying every time. I’ve been waiting 8 years but the hole in my heart is still there and it still hurts.
Love and prayers,

Sherrie,
I am so sorry about your Mom. You and her were good buddies as long as I've known you guys. She was so lucky to have a daughter to have been close to. Just know how happy she was with you, and imagine how much more with God. Take care of yourselves. Ps. That was a beautiful dedication. Love, Heather

Sherrie,

You will have such wonderful memories to share with the entire family for ever.
I hope to see you real soon at school or in the neighborhood and continue to hear that beautiful laugh of yours. I expect it comes from your mother!

Bonnie

Dear Sherri,
I am so very sorry to hear about your Mom. My prayers are with you and your family. Be strong Sherri.
Love,Pam

Sherri: so sorry to hear about your loss. I lost my Mom who was also my best friend almost 7 years ago. Although it may be hard to believe, it will get a little easier everyday and you will begin dwelling on the good times you both shared together. My prayers go out to you and your family. Stay strong in the Lord and he will carry you through.

Sherrie,
Thank you for including me on this email. I think of you often and hold you close to my heart right now. You are a beautiful person. It was nice to chat with you the other day. If ever I can be of any assistance please let me know, don't hesitate.
Your daughter has your warm soul.

Best wishes,
Kate

We were so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.

Dear Sherrie, Ken, Maria and Kenny JR.

I wanted to express to you know that you are in our prayers and we are thinking of you in your time of need.

Though I only met your mother on a few occasions - I will remember her fondly and am thankful for the relationship that you shared with her.

Remember that the Lord gives us only what we can bear - you are in our thoughts and prayers

With love,

Don, Mary and Nicole Magnes

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Dear Sherrie and family-
Your mom was a wonderful mother, wife and friend. Bev raised an amazing daughter filled with compassion and love. You are a reflection of your mother and we were all blessed to have known her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sherrie, Ken, Maria and Kenny. We are so sorry for the loss of your mom and Nana. Bev will be missed by all that knew her. The many fond memories you have of Bev over the years will help in easing your sorrow. May God bless you all.

Dear sherry and family sorry for the lost of your mom she was a very good friend and im glad to have met her i will truly miss her my prayer are with you and your family

Sherrie, Ken, Maria and Kenny David: We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Sherrie, I will always remember the little chats she and I had when she called you at PSU! I loved knowing that someone else's mom kept track of their kid at 29+ yrs! Remember she is always near--she will remain forever in your heart. You're all in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Frosty, Pat, Kendra, Erika & Dozer

Dear Sherrie, Ken, Maria, and Kenny:
I am sorry about the loss of your mother Sherrie. You are in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please let me know.

Dear Sherrie,
I am so sorry to hear about the death of your mom. My parents live in town and I know how lucky I am to have them close by. I cherish my relationship with both of them, as you did with yours! I know you will miss her lots. You are in our prayers.

To all of Beverly's family.

Life is a precious thing. Each moment and each day is to be cherished. A terminally ill friend once said, "There is no bad day. Every day I'm alive, is good."

Although no words can take away your pain, we know prayer and faith will.

Prayer and faith and the memories of a woman so full of life and laughter will carry you on.

Beverly was one of a kind and no one on earth can replace her. She made you laugh, PERIOD

So as you grieve, allow her spirit to remind you of the joy of life and after the tears fall for a moment, replace them with the laughter Beverly's memory deserves.

WE LOVE YOU & CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR YOU ALWAYS.

Dear Sherrie and Family,
Our heart are breaking for you. We all know how close you were with your Mom. Your Mom was a very special person. We all miss you at work and will be here for you if you need us. Your Co-Workers

Sherrie & Family,
We were very saddened as well to hear about the loss of your mom. I, too, will miss our phone ringing as she trys to track you down in State College ;). I do believe that she will still continue to communicate with us through the phone. Know that she is with us in spirit and is looking over you and your family guiding you through this very difficult time. We are here for you for whatever you may need.

Sherrie and family,

I was sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom. I know how close you were to her and how important she was in your life. I can't even begin to imagine what it is like to loose your Mom. Just know that you and your family are in our hearts and prayers. Know that your Mom is never gone because you will always carry her in your heart.

Dear Sherrie, Ken, Maria and Kenny,
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom and Grandma. I know what family means to all you. Rely on God and he will get you through. Remember all the good times and treasure those memories. She is in a better place than we are!
God Bless! You are all in my prayers!
Love,
Donna

Sherrie,

I'm so sorry about the loss of your mom. You and your family are in my thought and prayers.

Please take care and keep in touch.

Maureen

Dear Sherry and family, we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother, we will keep you and the family in our prayers. May God Keep His arms around you and comfort you at this time. Love in Christ, Pastor Bob and Carol Kurka

Dear Sherrie, Ken, Maria, and Kenny you have been the best family we have met since moving to State College, Pennsylvania. Your Grandmother, Nanna, and mother was like a second grandmother to us, always comforting us, and looking out for us like an angel. She was an inspiration to all just like her daughter Sherrie who we love dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We love you. The Vitkuske Family (Cindy,Dan,Nicole,Brandon,Danielle)

Sherry and family
I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mom, Bev. I only met her once but remember what a nice person she was....that's must be why Sherry turned out so nice!
Take care and I'll keep you in my prayers...sincerely Kim Fairley CCAC in Pgh