Brent Mayhew

Brent Mayhew

Brent Mayhew Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 28 to Mar. 1, 2007.
MAYHEW Brent Charles In hospital, Shawville, Quebec on Monday, February 26, 2007, surrounded by his family, after a brief, courageous battle with cancer, at the age of 54 years. Husband and best friend of Mary MacGregor. Loving father of Janet (Glenn Humplik) and Erin. Son of the late Denzil and Eileen Mayhew. Dear brother of Ron (Carol), Barb (Paul Mercier), Sterling, Sally (Bill Keindel), Vincent (Betty), Marion (Marc Gregory), Shelley (Terry Provost) and Connie (Bob Bryant). Fondly loved and admired by many nieces, nephews and extended family. Brother-in-law of Bruce MacGregor (Cathy) and Laurie (Brian Pearson). Will be missed by Jeanette MacGregor and Margaret MacGregor. Predeceased by father-in-law, John MacGregor. Friends may call at W. J. Hayes & Sons Funeral Home, 134 Centre Street, Shawville, Quebec on Friday, March 2, 2007 from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m. Funeral Saturday, March 3 to St. Andrew's Knox United Church, Bristol, Quebec for Service at 11 a.m. Donations to Pontiac Community Hospital Foundation or the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated.

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Sally Keindel

March 28, 2015

Thinking and missing my Big Brother as I so often do. Spring is here, birds are singing, and buds waiting to burst out of the trees. Still a little cold, but when I think of you, I feel your warm embrace, giving me hope and ability to share the love you knew, knowing one day we will meet again. love You Brent

Sally Keindel

February 28, 2012

MY DEAR BIG Brother, I still reflect on that last couple of days in the hospital,while you waited on the Lord to take you home,You Praised God until you took your final breath. That door is open to all of us who knew you,to call on Jesus to forgive and to save us from ourselves. May all who knew you big brother,trust in Jesus Christ, He who knows all, and choses to still love and forgives us. He who gave His Life for all who would trust in Him so that we may have a restored relationship with God. My prayer is all those who knew you Brent, will remember that changed man, who chose to love,forgive and encourange,may desire to seek and find this Jesus you knew and loved~ May the seeds you planted in the lives around you be watered,when we allow our minds to ponder all that was important to you, your God, your family & your friends. May these seeds sprout new life in Jesus Christ, because you loved them. Brent, til we meet again I promise Brent to be available to encourge those you loved, to trust Jesus! always and forever xo Sally

Barbara & Paul

February 28, 2012

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Vincent and Betty Mayhew

February 28, 2012

God looked around his garden and found an empty place. He then looked down upon his earth and saw your loving face. He knew you were tired, suffering and in pain and knowing you will never get well again. God put his loving arms around you and took you away. He took you when he knew best and in his loving arms you will always rest.

Love you always and forever

We miss you

Marion Mayhew

February 28, 2012

Connie Mayhew

February 27, 2012

God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So He put His arms around you
and He whispered “Come to Me”
With tearful eyes we watched you.
We watched you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly,
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating,
Hard-working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us,
He chose to take the best.
It's lonesome here without you
we miss you more each day.
Life doesn't seem the same
since you have gone away.
When days are sad and lonely
and everything goes wrong,
we seem to hear you whisper
“Cheer Up and Carry On”
Each time we see your picture
you seem to smile and say,
“Don't cry, I'm in God's hands,
we'll meet again someday!”

Missing you today & always.
xo Connie

Vincent & Betty Mayhew

February 26, 2009

In Loving Memory Of A Dear Brother and Brother -In -Law who passed away February 26, 2007.

Two years have passed since we said good-bye. That day is very clear to us and very dear to us.
We miss you more than words can say. Not one day goes by without thinking of you. We miss the walks, talks and especially the hugs. As times passes another special memory comes to mind, and we smile and tuck it away in our hearts where you will always be.

ALL OUR LOVE
Vincent & Betty

Vincent & Betty Mayhew

March 8, 2008

A year has passed Dear brother, brothe-in-law since God called you away. Your pain and suffering is now over. So much has changed but you know that, you were their when we built this and that. You were there when we did the trees. Wish you were here now we miss the walks through the bush,we miss your laugh
we miss your smile, we miss you.
Love you so much Brent.
In our hearts forever
Vincent & Betty

Marion, Marc, Stephanie and Matthew Gregory

February 29, 2008

A year has passed dear bro since we had to say good bye. You are missed and loved always.

Heaven must have a beautiful garden with yourself, Mom and Dad and so many others.

Death leaves a heartache
No one can heal;
Love leaves a memory
No one can steal

Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same. But as God calls us one by one, the chain will link again.

Love you always and forever Brent,

ric gillesby

February 27, 2008

we have been thinking of you alot my brother.Sometimes it seems like a year and other times it seems we just hugged,I miss those times, the good ones ,heck I even miss those one or two bad times which I'm sure we had although they dont stand out in my mind.when things are not going good for me,I repeat over and over what you used to say,one day at a time,one day at a time.
Thank you for being our friend and brother.you are the best.
peace and love always
your friends and family
Ric and Martha Gillesby and family
p.s. save me a seat by the fire

Connie Mayhew

February 26, 2008

One year ago today your suffering ended. You left behind a spot in our hearts that no one will ever fill. We carry you with us always in our hearts and memories... Love you Brent!

Sally Keindel

January 25, 2008

I miss you MY DEAR BIG BROTHER..but I know you are with the Lord, Mom and Dad and so many others that have left us behind.. A day doesn't go by when we don't miss you. I thank God for the privledge of having the best parents, and being your Little Sister and FRIEND too!Our next reunion will be for eternity..no more tears! Hugs and love that reaches heaven

Verna & Daughters Mayhew (Lalonde)

August 29, 2007

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Jan and Dianne Polley

March 21, 2007

Offering our Heartfelt Sympathy in your Tragic Loss.
It is wonderful to have known Brent.
Years slip by and we will never forget the excellent times shared.

Andy Healy

March 21, 2007

Our condolences to the Mayhew family. Brent was a great friend who always made us feel like family. We will miss him.
Andy, Babette, Chantel, Andrea, Samantha Healy

Hikari Kato

March 7, 2007

To Mary and family,
I'm so sorry about your loss.He was very wonderfull person.I thank God for getting to know him in my life.My thoughts is with you all at this difficult time.

Beauchamp Family

March 7, 2007

Dear Sally, Bill, & the Mayhew Family,

Our deepest condolences on your loss.

liz parkin

March 5, 2007

My deepest sympathies on your sudden loss.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,
liz

Stephanie, Joel & Evianne Heidecker

March 5, 2007

Janet, Erin and Mary,
May your faith take you through this difficult time. The memories of a great man live on forever. Sorry we couldn't be there in person.
Lots of love and warm thoughts go out to your family.

Judy Horner

March 5, 2007

Sally, Vincent, the entire Mayhew family,
So terribly saddened to hear of your loss. Was shocked to hear the news. Brent was always smiling, with a cheery wave or hello. Quiet, polite and gentle is the way I'll always remember him...he set a fine example for us all.

March 4, 2007

To Brents wife Mary and his two girls Janet and Erin, and all his brothers and sisters. So sorry to hear of your sudden loss. Brents memory will live on in ours hearts. Sorry we were unable to make it over but our thoughts were with you. GOD BLESS! Aunt Leona and Cousins Pearl, Marie, Johnny, Elliott and Tanya Milliken

Suzanne Gregory

March 4, 2007

Dear Mary,Janet,Erin, and all the Mayhew clan,
There are so many of you, I wouldn't want to forget anyone.My warm condolences in your time of sorrow, go out to you all. Everytime I ever spoke to Brent,he spoke of his faith. I believe that he was ready, and is now enjoying the fruits of that belief... He is in the hands of God, (suffering no more). He spoke with love of his family, and would want you to know that he loves you, that he is happy, and desires for all of you to be happy in life... Warm Fuzzies, Love,

VeraLynn, Lee, Ryan, & James Brownlee

March 3, 2007

To the Mayhew Family,

Our deepest sympathy to you all at this time of sorrow, God only knows our pain at a time like this and take comfort in knowing that Brent will always remain with you in spirit.
~My precious child, I love you and I would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."~

Lisa Provost Lamarche

March 3, 2007

Our deepest sympathies and prayers go out to all The Mayhew Family.

evelyn grover

March 3, 2007

Mary, Janet & Erin: I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you. (Laurie's friend)

Mark, Livia, Serena, Ariana Keindel

March 3, 2007

Sally, Billy and family:
Its with a heavy heart that I write this note. It is never easy to loose someone with such a good heart as Brent. Our thought and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Lisa Carter

March 3, 2007

Janet,
Ian and I were very sorry to hear of your father's death. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Doris Orr

March 2, 2007

My most sincere sympathy is extended to the entire Mayhew family at this time. Memories will be treasures.

Murray, Gloria, Adam, Jamie & Connie Richardson

March 2, 2007

The Mayhew family

We are so sorry to hear of Brent's passing. Our thaught's and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Cherish your memories.

Dan McKeegan

March 2, 2007

Goodbye Brent,Your ready smile and peaceful nature will be greatly missed. I will remember you always.Mary, Vince and Betty, and to the rest of the Mayhew family my heartfelt sadness for your loss. Know that Brent lives on in all our hearts.

Linda Kaasik

March 2, 2007

To Mary & Girls and Mayhew Family!

We will truly miss Brent beyond words. He was such a big hearted and loving person. We will always treasure the many memories we had together!
Rest in Peace Brent and we know you will be watching over us all.
Aunt Doris, Uncle Martin & Families

Marilyn Patrick

March 2, 2007

Janet,
Tony & I both want to send you and your family our deepest sympathy.

Tammy Ladouceur

March 2, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

LYNNE(JUDD), RON, JEFF CAMERON

March 1, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

claudette lalonde

March 1, 2007

we send our love and prayers to you and your family. your friends emile and claudette lalonde

Elizabeth Lawton

March 1, 2007

Marion,Marc,Stephanie,and Matthew,and all the Mayhew Clan
It is with great heartfelt thoughts and prayers to send to you all at this time. We celebrate his life with our memories that we share and pass to each other about Brent and the way He was, that way he will always be a heartbeat away to everyone. Stephen, Justin,Dawn, and Carol

Rose & Dwight Martineau

March 1, 2007

To the Mayhew Family,
Our condolences to you all on the loss of a wonderful husband, father, brother and uncle.
Rose & Dwight Martineau

Corine MacDonald

March 1, 2007

Janet,Erin and Mary
Brent was loved by us all so much and will be greatly missed.
He was always full of positive energy and strength, it shows in all of you what a great father and husband he was.
I am glad I can be there to share the sadness of his passing and to celebrate the joy of his life with you, my extended family.
I love you all, and I will miss Brent deeply.
Corine MacDonald and Family

Jennifer Kirkey-Chan

March 1, 2007

To the Mayhew famnily,
I am so sorry for your loss of Brent. I always remember him laughing. I wish you consolation in your memories of a wonderful man. My heart and thoughts are with you in this difficult time.

Janet, Tyler and Owen

March 1, 2007

Janet and family,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you during your time of loss.

Lindsay Hardy

March 1, 2007

Janet,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Gen LeBreton

March 1, 2007

Erin,

I'm holding you and your Mum and Sister in my prayers. I was so sorry to hear about your Dad. I can tell by the way you are and the way you lead your life he must have been an amazing Man and Father, take comfort in knowing he is somewhere peacefull and wonderful.

Mark & Lila Brown

March 1, 2007

Mayhew family Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Heather Lawton

March 1, 2007

Marion and family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Chris and Heather Lawton

Michael and Natalie

March 1, 2007

Dear Janet,
We are deeply saddened to hear of your father's untimely passing. Our deepest sympathies during this most difficult of times for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Nadia Giancaspro

March 1, 2007

Dear Janet,

My deepest sympathies to you and your family. I am sure your dad will be watching over you & be your guardian angel. Be strong.

Laurie MacGregor

March 1, 2007

My dear sister and precious nieces, I am so terribly sorry for the loss of Brent. He has been a dear brother-in-law and a great inspiration to me. I will remember Brent as never being too busy to lend a helping hand or to give a comforting word. I will remember Brent with love. Peace be with you all.

Ron Sawyer

March 1, 2007

Goobye to my brother and best of friends.Brent, We will all miss you so much. Our deepest sympathy and thoughts of comfort to Mary,Janet,Erin and the rest of the family.We are thinking of you and will soon stand beside you. Love Ron for the Sawyer family and Brents many Sarnia friends

Karma Nickerson

March 1, 2007

Mary and family,
My deepest Empathy for you at this time of loss. May you feel the strength and love of your family through this tough time.
your second cousin (daughter of Patricia MacGregor)

Darrell,Deb,Andria & Adam Bretzlaff

February 28, 2007

To the Mayhew Family

Our deepest sympathy at this very difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Patricia MacGregor

February 28, 2007

Mary and family
I am deeply sorry at the loss of your husband. My heart goes out to you and your children. Life is a strange, hard and often wonderful thing, it gives and it takes away, but time does not stand still. I wish you godspeed through your journey of sorrow.
from your cousin Patricia

Amanda Muise

February 28, 2007

Marion, Marc, Stephanie, Matthew

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Joe and Christine Lariviere

February 28, 2007

Joe and I want to express our deepest sympathies to the Mayhew family. Great memories of Brent will live with us always.

Gail and Doug MacGregor

February 28, 2007

To All the Mayhew Family,

We loved Brent very much and enjoyed his enthusiasum for life. His unconditional love will be with us always. May you find the serenity to take you through this very difficult time.

All Our Love,

Gail and Doug MacGregor

Muriel and Walt MacGregor

February 28, 2007

Our sincere condolences to Mary,Janet and Erin. We will always have fond memories of being with Brent; a very special person, taken from us much too soon.

Tammy Fowler

February 28, 2007

There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than 10,000 tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love. - Washington Irving

I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to all of you. Tammy

RIC GILLESBY

February 28, 2007

REST IN PEACE BUDDY
THE SARNIA GANG

Bruce Hodgins

February 28, 2007

Mary, Janet, Erin & Mayhew Family

I am very sorry to hear about Brent - we have been friends for a long time. My thoughts are with each of you at this time of sorrow & lose. Let your memories comfort you.

Donna Provost

February 28, 2007

Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Lena, Jean-Claude and Memphis Laroche

February 28, 2007

Mary, Janet and Erin
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of a wonderful husband and father. We are lucky to have such great memories of him. We are all blessed to have had him in our lives.
Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
Lots of love,

Dawn Green

February 28, 2007

Marion, Marc, Stephanie, Matthew, and extended family,
I am so sorry for the loss of Brent. I know that he was loved and that he must have felt the love and support that you and your entire family gave him. Know that he was loved by many and my love and sympathies are with you now.

Susan Silva

February 28, 2007

Mary, Janet & Erin,
Our sympathies to you, and the Mayhew family during this time of your loss. May Brent be at Peace & Angels watch over you.
Susan Silva, Jeno & Milan Krouzil

Nancy (Young) & Kim, Erin, Jeff Beattie

February 28, 2007

Dear Sally & Bill, & the Mayhew family,

I wanted to send our deepest condolences on the loss of your brother, husband and father. I left Shawville many years ago but I do remember Brent as being a very friendly and kind person. Sally has always been this way (kind and friendly) so it must be an attribute that is found in the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts at this most difficult time.

Joanne Proulx

February 28, 2007

Dear Mary:
My sincere condolences to you,the girls and the entire Mayhew family.
Brent was a kind wonderful person that will be missed by all. You are all in my thoughts and prayers as we all try to cope with this tragic loss.

Dianne Foley

February 28, 2007

To the Mayhew clan: Our thoughts are with you in this time of sorrow. I wish to send deepest sympathy on behalf of the Poaps family, Stan, Doreen (Malette) and myself, Dianne (Foley).

Marie Garnier

February 28, 2007

Janet,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Jeremy Fitchell

February 28, 2007

Janet,
You have my sympathy.
Jeremy

Sara, Jay and Emma Stonebridge

February 28, 2007

Beloved husband and father. Mary, Janet and Erin, our hearts go out to you. He now lives with us in memory and will for evermore.

Gloria (Crouse) Picking

February 28, 2007

Sally & Bill & Stirling & Family,
So sorry to read of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.

Lisette Racine

February 28, 2007

To the Mayhew family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of your loved one at such a young age.I am sure that the good memories of good times with him and the comfort of knowing that so many people care will help ease the pain.May God give you the strength and the courage to go on.
Sincere condolences.
Lisette Racine (Mme Dubé,PHS)

Debbie Garrett & Bryson Smith

February 28, 2007

All our love and deepest sympathies. God bless you!

Michelle Crozier

February 28, 2007

Dear Janet,
I am so very sorry to hear how quickly your Father was taken from you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family every day.

Shannon Johnston

February 28, 2007

To the Mayhew Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Brent was a great man and will always be remembered.

Krista &Mike Beeb

February 28, 2007

To all the Mayhew Clan,
Mike and I wish to send our deepest Sympathies to the whole family and closest friends of Brent. He will be greatly missed by all.
Mike and Krista

Frank, Marlaine, Matthew Palmer

February 28, 2007

Sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Elzbieta Wrobel

February 28, 2007

Dear Janet.

My deepest sympathies for you and your family. My heart is with you and your loved ones.

Shagufta A Sultan

February 28, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

George, Rita Brown

February 28, 2007

Dear Mary and family,

Please accept our deepest sympathies. Wishing you strength and courage in these difficult moments....our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,

Rhon M

February 28, 2007

My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to Brent's family and friends.

He touched many people's lives and we are all better for having known him. Brent helped many of us through some difficult times and his spiritual words and kindness were always just what everyone needed to feel comforted and positive.

We have lost a great friend and we will always miss him.

Lyse Lacourse

February 28, 2007

Our deepest condolences to Mary, Janet and Erin,

We will keep you in our prayers.

Love, Robert & Lyse, Marie-Michelle and Naomi Lacourse

Tami Cabana

February 28, 2007

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and yours for your loss. May Brent watch over you until you meet again.

Janey & Terry MacDougall

February 28, 2007

Mary, Janet, Erin and the Mayhew family: Our heartfelt sympathy in the loss of your dear husband, father and brother. It was a shock to learn of his passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.

Gloria Souliere

February 28, 2007

I am sorry to hear of your loss Janet, and hope you and your family are all doing well. Please accept my deepest sympathies. I am sure your dad is in a better place now.

Kathy Radisch

February 28, 2007

My deepest sympathies on the loss of a wonderful person. Thank you for allowing me to say good-bye to him on Sunday.

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