Brett Kilb

I am so profoundly sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to all of the family

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss
I was a medical student working in the orthopedics department at BC Children's when I met Brett.
He was an incredible person, passionate about his work, absolutely amazing with his patients and such a thoughtful being. It was very clear to me since my first conversation with him that he had a heart of absolute gold. Though I only knew Brett for the duration of my summer, I can honestly say he is exactly the kind of doctor and person I will look up to.

Jess, Howard, Ingrid. We just heard and are very sorry for your loss. Our sympathies to you all.
The MacDermotts

Brad and Bonnie, I am so deeply sorry for your terrible and tragic loss. My heart goes out to you.

I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss. Brett was one of "my residents" in the Orthopaedics program at UBC. As the administrator, I am in daily contact with all the residents. I have seen many of them come & go through the program during my years here & I can honestly say that Brett was outstanding in every way. He was not only brilliant but had a winning personality, so positive all the time, so helpful, such a wonderful sense of humour. He could brighten up my day just by stopping by my office even if he was there to ask me to write him a letter, give me some receipts or check on a scheduling issue. I miss him as does every other resident in our program. Brett's far too early passing has profoundly affected all of us. My thoughts & prayers are with Jess and all or your family.

Dear Bonnie, Brad and family, We were so shocked to hear of the tragic loss of your son Brett. We hope that knowing that so many others share your grief will comfort you and the strength of your family and friends with help you at this terrible time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With sincere sympathy, Bev and Lee Mason

My deepest sympathy for this tragic loss. Brad, hearing your stories of Brett during your classes was always encouraging and inspiring. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Kilb family during this difficult time.

Dear Bonnie and Brad - I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies.

Dear Kilb family, we are so sorry for your tragic and sad loss . Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dear Brad and Bonnie. The sad news has brought tears to my eyes and has made my heart heavy. I cannot imagine the pain you must be feeling. I am thinking of you and send you my condolences. I am so sorry for your loss. From Mary Lou van Geel (Lou Thomson)

Dear Brad and Margie,
I was shocked and saddened that such a fine yong man has been taken from this world he was ready to contribute so much to. Your beautiful young man will not be forgotten. Susan and Manfred Fuerbringer, Michelle and Lisa Johnson

We can't imagine the sorrow you must feel. Sincere condolences to the families. Our thoughts and hearts are with you at this sad time.
Peter, Brenda, Owen and Mallory Minerson

Dear Bonnie, Brad and family, Very saddened to learn of Brett's sudden passing. We remember him as a young boy across the street from us on Lindsay Drive. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Steve,Maureen,Stephana and Michal Cherak

My sincerest condolences to you and your family Brad and Bonnie.

Dear Bonnie and Brad,
I was so saddened to hear about Brett. You are in my thoughts. My deepest condolences.
Erminia Russo

Howard, Ingrid, Jess and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We can't imagine what you have been through. Our deepest sympathies and love to you all.
Mary Jane & Ron Holberton

I had the pleasure of working with Brett at St Pauls hospital during his residency. He was a very wonderful person who touched many lives here. Whether it was staff or patients. My deepest sympathies to your family.

Sending all of you my deepest sympathies. It was a true blessing to work with Brett as a member of Bishop Carroll's English department. In addition to having fond memories of Brett serving as our '05 Valedictorian, I will also recall his dedication, positive attitude, and enthusiasm for learning for many years to come. He continued to make our school community proud in countless ways after his high school graduation.

As the Teacher Advisor of John Ross, I often regret how his life was cut so short. Perhaps knowing that these amazing cousins are now reunited in Heaven can provide you with some comfort at this devastating time.

To the Kilb family,
My most heartfelt sympathies to,you and yours, from Jeanne Theresa Nezic and her family, Tony, and Johnny!
My love and prayers
Jeanne

Brett, you were one of the most vibrant, fun, intelligent and kind person I've had the luck to he friends with. From sneaking into Harvard parties (and having an impromptu slip and slide) to playing kickball with Norwegians and "coach", I had some of my best memories thanks to you. You are sorely missed pal

I was very fortunate to have worked with Brett last year and I found him to be a very bright, humble and a very helpful gentleman.
He was one of the finest of the residents who was always smiling and nice to his colleagues.
He inspired all of us with his personality, hard work and I personally have learnt a lot from him.
My deepest condolences

So very sorry to hear of your loss of Brett. I remember Brett as a little guy when he played with Ryan and Scott. He was such a charming little person, and so personable. I remember when he was so excited to show the guys a brand new little Shepard pup that your Mama dog had just had. It's no surprise that he grew into such an accomplished man; he was on the way even as a little man.
Lynn, Kent, Ryan, Scott Grant

Bonnie and Brad and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I didn't know Brett personally but Suzi thought the world of him. No words can begin to be of any comfort in times of deepest grief. Know that I and the entire Smith clan hold you both in our hearts.

Carla Smith

Dear Bonnie & family, We were so sorry to hear about the passing of Brett. Our thoughts & prayers are with you at this very sad time. The happy memories you have of him will live on & will hopefully help you with the grieving process.

Our deepest condolences,

Midge & Murray Ross

I knew Brett long ago when we were kids. When I first moved to calgary Brett saw I was going through a tough time and made sure I felt welcome. He got me to tag along with him in his adventures around school. I never fully realized until recently how important his acts of kindness were to me. He was kind to everybody at St. James. Ill remember him not just for his kindness but also for his humor. He'd have a whole group of us lauphing at his antics. Im not surprised he dedicated his life to helping ppl as a doctor. I am however stunned he died so young. Yet I know that sometimes the best of us die young. His life was inspiring and ill keep that inspiration close to my heart as I move forward. Brett reached his hand out to me and now I extend my love to his family. Hold on and be strong. Hope Faith Love

Bonnie & Brad,
I can only find the simplest of words right now. I am so deeply sorry for the devastating loss of your precious son. You are clearly loved by so many - as was he. I hope you can rest in the arms of your incredible circle and be held in the coming days and weeks ahead. Know that I am sending love to you and your entire extended family and to Jess and her family as well. Brett did such important work for humanity in his short time on the planet. It is extremely inspiring to actually attempt to digest the magnitude and reach of his wisdom, his passion, his vision and his compassion. Brett clearly had the innate capacity to shift peoples lives in significant and profoundly positive ways - the magnitude of which may not truly be understood for possibly generations. I hope you find some solace in knowing that when he came into this world - he picked you to be his parents. Clearly this was a most excellent choice. He knew who could meet him, see him, guide him and then release him to spread his wings and fly. May you find some peace in the gift of his radiance - his light - his love - which will never fade. xo

Bonnie and Brad:
It's obvious from all the messages you have received so far that Brett had become a fine young man. Don, Ben, and I remember him for his intensity, work ethic, and commitment when he played for Canuck YQM. It's evident those qualities had transferred to his studies in medicine. His passing is not only a great loss to you, your family, and his wife but to the medical world as well. Hope you will find the strength to get through this difficult time.

The Saxtons

So sorry for your loss. I met Brett during residency interviews a few years ago and managed to catch up with him recently at a conference. He was an incredibly kind and all-around lovely person. He will truly be missed. My thoughts are with you.

Ingrid, Howard and Jessica
It was such a privilege to be able to watch the lifestream of Brett's service yesterday. What an outstanding family he has and colleagues and friends who so respected and loved him.

It was a beautiful celebration and made us very regretful we didn't know him - it is absolutely no wonder you thought the very world of him.

In hindsight we wished we had crashed in on one of their parties but that wouldn't have been very cool for us old folks to do!

Clearly he was an exceptional and brilliant man- which makes his loss all the more significant, but moreso is Jessica's unimaginable personal loss.

Brett obviously recognized in Jessica the same strength of character and qualities that made him the outstanding person he was and those same strengths will enable her to eventually break through this monumental pain. (Jessica you were remarkable on that podium and know you will make it through.)

We think of you and your deep sorrow, and can only wish you the comfort of knowing that one so loved, can never really be lost.

Our sincerest condolences to you and Brett's family members.

with love

Rae, Michael and family

I worked with Brett at VGH and got to know him personally through his humble and ever smiling nature. His passion for life and commitment to helping others was infectious . Brett you will live in our memories forever...

Our deepest condolences, our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Sending love to all of you at this tough time. Brett was the kind of guy that would give you the spotlight in a room full of people, and make you feel like it was just you and him. He was an unbelievable friend. I remember him fixing my arm after a bike crash in Vancouver, and he made sure I had brought enough beer over with me...one of my most favourite people and many great memories to remember for the rest of my life.

My thoughts go out to you his family, Brad and Bonnie, Justin, and Jessica.

Shea Fairbanks

I can attest to just how special Brett is. I got to know him as a surgical preceptor in Calgary. I was honoured to write reference letters for his residency application and Rhodes Scholarship application. He was an amazing young man and clearly someone gifted by God in so many ways. The world just lost a great. He will be missed. Blessings to his family.

Jessica, Justin, Bonnie & Brad.

Brett will be dearly missed. I think back to our time together on the U of C golf team. Specifically our commutes from Lakeview in the middle of winter in his little truck to attend 7am workouts. There was never a moment of silence between us and always lots of laughter. I am very sorry for your loss and will always remember Brett's fun, loving nature.

So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Glenn,Shelley,Kirsten,Jordan Bryson

Dear Brad, Bonnie and family.
Janet and I hope all of you are surrounded by much love and warm memories after such a profound loss. We are holding you close in our thoughts.

My deepest condolences to the Kilb and Zerr families and all who knew this amazing young man. Your loss...the worlds loss is beyond words. His memorial service was very moving. Even though I had never personally met him, I felt that I knew him by the time the service ended. Hugs to all.

My sincere condolences to the entire Kilb and Zerr families. This is a tragic loss. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jessica, Bonnie, Brad & Justin & families,

The service today for Brett was inspiring. The tributes that everyone expressed lifted my spirits in such a tragic time.

You were able to share your lives with an amazing person. I know that his spirit will live forever in all of us. Our heart felt condolences.

The Evens Family
John, Sharon, Jill, Gordon, Marshall & Ross

Thinking of you all at this unbelievably sad time.
Ian, Brenda and Steven Walker

Thoughts and prayers. Watching the Celebration of Life, I felt like I was there with you. Thank you for sharing. You are truly an incredible family. Kim

Brad, Bonnie, and Family.

I am so sorry to hear about Brett. While I haven't seen him in years, I heard about his successes when I've run into Brad. What a terrible loss. My thoughts are with you.

Jan Crook

We just heard of your tragic loss, we send condolences to the whole family, May you find comfort from the Lord Himself at this time of such deep sorrow

Dear Kilb and Zerr families,

I was lucky to get to know Brett during his time at Harvard School of Public Health. We met through hockey, and were a defensive pair on the Med/Law hockey team during the annual McArthur cup. The night before our first playoff game (Sunday at 9am) we were both out pretty late. Before going out, we promised to call each other in the morning to make sure we would make it to the game. After sleeping through the 7 alarms that I set, I got a call from Brett (who also slept through his alarms but randomly woke up an hour before the game) asking if we were still going. In a raspy voice, I replied yes, and, noticing the time, told him I would be there in five minutes. When I pulled up in front of the dorms and noticed him carrying the pictured deer head in addition to his hockey gear and some starbucks, I had to take multiple looks to make sure I wasn't dreaming. Noticing my incredulity, he responded by saying that we needed a coach for the team and he brought the deer head to be our coach. After taking a couple minutes to get the deer head in my car, we laughed pretty much the entire way to the rink. Much to the bemusement of everyone in the game, we brought the deer head on to the bench with us, and from that time the deer was affectionately referred to as Coach. Brett brought Coach to other parties and it was always hilarious. Brett will be remembered for his genuine compassion, kindness, and passion for life, the latter of which is exemplified by this story. He made the world a better place simply by being himself, and he was not only a friend, but also he was someone I looked up to. I consider myself lucky to have been friends with such a special person. I am deeply saddened by this great loss and send my most sincere condolences to the family.

Brett had such a large heart, with room enough for everyone, his passionate love of life was infectious. I knew him less than a year and it's so hard to deal with this. I can't imagine what his family must feel.
I pray that somehow, you will find comfort and solace in this time of grief.

Bonnie, Brad, and Family,
So sorry to hear the news of Brett's sudden passing. As I mentioned to you before, Brett had treated my Mother at VGH and he did it with care and compassion. My thoughts are with you and the family in this difficult time.

I worked with Brett at VGH in 2013/14 when I was there for a year and was shocked to hear this news today. I remember him as a genuinely outstanding doctor and a really really really nice guy. He genuinely stood out amongst his already talented peers as an exceptionally competent resident. My sincerest condolences to his wife and family.

Dear Bonnie & Brad, Ken & Simone,
Our hearts are with you at this sad time. Life is so fragile and so precious.
Walter & Olive Hayes & family

Brad, Bonnie and Family,
We are deeply saddened to hear of Brett's passing.
Brett was an exceptional young man.
Dan, Susan, Chelsea and Sean Wallace

The loss of Brett was felt around the world in a wave of shock, sorrow and complete and utter sadness. We have donated to the UBC Orthopedics program in his name, may his memory live on forever. Connie and Rich McDonald

Bonnie and Brad, I am so so sorry to hear your news. I only
met Brett once when he was young but I am sure he was
blessed to have you as parents- your amazing guidance, leadership and wisdom would have given him such strength, I am sure, each and every day. Huge hugs to you! I will be thinking and praying for you all.

My heart aches for your loss. Brett was a wonderful young man. I hope the comfort and love of those around you will help you through the pain you are all feeling at this time.

I always appreciate Brett for his zest and ability to live in the moment to the fullest. He certainly kept us all well-entertained at Harvard. This loss is hard to take in. I send much love out to his friends and family.

Dear Bonnie, Brad and family,
My heart goes out to you at this incredibly sad time. What an accomplished young man. I am certain he made quite an impact on so many lives. The last time I saw Brett he was in a baby seat in the gym. Try to remember the years between then and now with love, tears, smiles and laughter. Thinking of you. Take care, be well and gather your family and friends close to grieve and in time begin the healing process.

Our sincere condolences and thoughts go out to all family members. Brett will undoubtedly be missed but will always be remembered.

Dear Brad,
Sending you love and heartfelt sympathy in the loss of Brett.
Marion Benaschak & Audra Baldwin

Dear Bonnie & Brad. We were stunned to hear of Brett's sudden death. I am so sorry and can't imagine how this is for you both. Our thoughts are with you. Take care. Sheila Hall & Don Linton

Dear Kilb family
I came across Brett's grad 12 photo in the Bishop Carroll yearbook the day before I learned of his passing. What a wonderful young man from a wonderful family. He touched so many. For now there are only tears...but as time goes on may laughter through tears help you remember him.

I was lucky to work with Brett when he was a resident in Vancouver. Brett was one of the most kind, humble, and talented individuals that I've worked with. I am saddened by his sudden and unexpected passing and I want to express my condolences. My thoughts are with his family in this difficult time

Jess and Family of Brett.We are sorry to learn of your loss and want to send our condolences . We will keep you in our prayers.God Bless Jim & Marlene MacDonald Halifax N.S.

I did not know Brett, but I know how proud and loving his grandfather Ken Macrae was and is of this wonderful young man. Deepest condolences.
Barry Charchun

I never had the pleasure of meeting Brett but please accept my heartfelt condolences for his untimely death. May you find comfort in the hope found at John 6:40 at this most difficult time.

Dear Brad, Bonnie, Justin, Jessica, and family,

Brett was an amazing friend growing up at the golf course and we are deeply saddened by his passing, Ours though and Prayers are with you all.

Riley, Shea, Grady, Hayley and Deb Fairbanks

Brad and Bonnie,
we send our deepest sympathy to you both on this tragic loss. our prayers are with the family as you work your way through this very difficult time.

Dear Bonnie, Brad, Justin, Jessica, Simone, Ken, and all Family-
I'm so very sorry to hear about the loss of Brett. Bonnie, whenever you spoke of him you just beamed. He was so accomplished and gave so much to others, inspiring and helping many.
You are all in my thoughts.

Brad, Bonnie and Family: Sincere sympathy on the passing of Brett. My thoughts are with you and your family at this most difficult time. Sincerely Jack Neumann

I am thinking of you all everyday. All my love to you. Gigi

Bonnie, Brad, & Justin

We have such fond memories of Brett as a wonderful and kind young man in the neighbourhood and at the golf course. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you celebrate Brett's life and miss him so dearly.

Linda, Barry, Shale & Brecken Anderson

Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all since hearing this tragic news. RIP Brett xo

Brad and Bonnie, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. Much love to you both.

Bonnie, Brad & Family.....
So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time.
With deepest sympathy.

Bonnie and Brad,
There really just are no words to encompass and comment on such a loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.

Dear Bonnie, Brad and family,
We can't be with you to support you in this terrible time but we feel so much for you and will be thinking of you. May your sorrow be softened eventually by wonderful memories and
unconditional love.

Bonnie, Chloe and I send our sincere condolences to you, Brad, Jessica, Justin, Brad Jr., Bryn, Jody, and Jamie. May you be held by your friends and families as you move along on this path. May Brett shine brightly in your heart, and in your soul. And may you find much comfort in those life memories you share with him.
With kindness and love.

Dear Bonnie, Brad and family. Words cannot express how deeply sorry we were to here of your loss. Sometimes it seems there is no sense to our world.
Greg and Cindy Royer

Dear Bonnie, I can't be there in person. But I will be by you in spirit. Love you and hold you tight in my heart.

Dearest Bonnie, Brad, family and all those who love Brett,
We are heartbroken to hear of your unimaginable loss. You are all in our hearts and prayers...

Dear Bonnie, Brad and Family,
I am so saddened to hear about Brett. I have many wonderful memories of him as a student at St.James. My thoughts are with all of you at this difficult time.

Dear Bonnie,Brad & Family
Special thoughts to Justin and Jess
My deepest condolences.
There are no words to express my sadness,
My love is sent to you all.

Evelyn and Barney North Vancouver

Our hearts break for you. Our deepest condolences. We all send you many prayers and hugs.

My deepest sympathies and love for your families in this sad time. Love you, Diane "Scotty" Scott

hi there am sorry for your loss i went to school with bret and his siblings god bless you all melody

Jessica, Brad, Bonnie and Family,

Brett was a special teammate. He approached our team like he approached every part of his life - with energy, effort and an infectious positive spirit that impacted all of us. I cannot begin to comprehend the depth of your loss, but offer my sincere condolences.

To the Kilb & Zerr Families,

Brett has been someone that I admired ever since I have been coming over for sleepovers at the Kilb house. I looked up to his hard work, intelligence and his ability to stay humble and be so caring to others. My deepest condolences to you.

Dear Bonnie, Brad & family.. My deepest condolences... there are no words..only love sent across the miles.

Dear Bonnie, Brad & families,
We embrace you with love; you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of grief and mourning.
With deepest sympathy,
Colleen, Alastair, Daelan & Elliott Davies

Brad and Bonnie, our hearts break for you with news of the devastating loss of your dear son. His life was too short but so rich with love in family and friendships and so fulfilled by his many accomplishments. You are in our thoughts and prayers, much love, Karen and Jason

No words. Only love.

Bonnie and Brad, my heartfelt condolences to you and your family at this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Heartbroken for you and your family on the sudden loss of this exceptional young man. Dawn & Tim

Sending my thoughts and condolences to all those Brett has left behind. It is a great privilege and a pleasure to have known Brett, a great man who will be deeply missed.

Dear Jess, Brad, Bonnie, Justin, Jamey, Bryn, Jodi, Brad.
Know that your dear Brett,(husband, son, and brother) is wrapped close together with you at this very moment in the circle of God's love - and always will be.
"Nothing can ever separate us from his love! Death can't, and life can't...Our fears for today, our worries about tomorrow, neither a power from on high nor a power from below, nor anything else in God's whole world has any power to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord! Rom 8:38,39

Bonnie, Brad and family

Words are not adequate to express our sorrow.
We are sending our love, thoughts and prayers to you.


~ Love the Davidge family



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Dear Bonnie, Brad and family
Our thoughts are with you and we are so sorry to hear the loss of Brett. Our kids all went to school together and to this day, they all kept in touch. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Erin and Larry Miller

Bonnie , Brad and family - our deepest heartfelt condolences to you all during these most difficult days! We share your pain and gain strength knowing that your Brett is wrapped safely in God's arms and is at peace watching over all of you with immense love. You are all in our thoughts and prayers! God Bless you all - lots of love - Tim & Karen xoxo

Bonnie and Brad. Sending thought, prayers and hugs your way. I am so very sorry for your loss. xoxo

Bonnie and Brad
My heart goes out to you both. You are in my prayers.

Bonnie and Brad and family, it saddens me that you have suffered this immense loss. My heart is heavy and filled with sadness. If there were words that would take away the pain I would utter them. Thoughts and prayers with you all.

Bonnie and Brad, sending you and yours my deepest sympathies on the passing of your wonderful son. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. Sending you all hugs and love. RIP Brett.