Brian McKinstry

Brian McKinstry

Brian McKinstry Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 4 to Oct. 5, 2007.
McKINSTRY With the greatest sorrow, the family of Brian Edmund John McKinstry announces his peaceful passing at St. Paul's Hospital on October 2, 2007. During his final days, Brian was surrounded by the love and laughter of family and friends. Brian is survived by his three children, Kai and his wife Tara; Katia and her fiance Dave, and his youngest daughter Nina; his brother Errol and niece Meghan; his sister Barbara Lynn, her husband Greg and their children, his nieces, Ahme and Caitlin and his nephew Jamie; several dear cousins and their families, and his sweet little Lily. Brian was predeceased by his parents Ernest and Ruby and by his wife and soulmate of 30 years, Monica. Brian grew up in Saskatoon and studied German and Russian at the University of Saskatchewan before moving first to Vancouver to work as a professional instructor at Capilano Golf Club, then to Germany where he lived for three years working as a golf professional and then as an operator of tour buses destined for the Soviet Union. It was during this time that he met Monica and returned with her to start a family, first in Edmonton while completing his Master's degree, then for five years in Irvine, California while pursuing his Doctorate in German literature. Settling in Saskatoon in 1981, Brian and Monica completed their family in 1986 and enjoyed a beautiful life together. His work with the Saskatchewan German Council furthered the cultural mosaic of the province. While golf and tennis were lifelong hobbies, Brian's passion was his family he will be remembered as a devoted husband and father who supported the endeavors of his children and wife as his own. Brian was an outstanding athlete, scholar, and wit a child at heart who touched so many with his generosity, his enthusiasm, and his easy company. The family expresses gratitude and admiration for the care provided by his nurses and doctors. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Brian's memory to the Saskatoon SPCA, in hopes that others may share a special bond like Brian and Lily had. The Memorial Mass will be held on Saturday, October 6 at 9:30 a.m. at St. Anne's Parish, 217 Lenore Dr., Saskatoon. Interment at Woodlawn Cemetery. Arrangements are in care of Dalmeny Funeral Home, 254-2002.

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October 13, 2007

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Deb & Denys LeBrun

October 13, 2007

Dear Kai, Katia and Nina:

We are very sorry to hear of your loss; our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time. Denys and I always had great visits with you and your parents. We will always remember the good times, the laughs and meeting all of you children. What great teachers you had and wonderful children you have grown up to become. Take care and God Bless.

Please contact us, I'm the sister of Maxine.

Denis Downey

October 12, 2007

A great irony in life is that in the natural course of things childhood friends move far away and are separated by such distances that contact fades so that we often never learn of some beloved person’s serious illness or death until it is too late. I discovered only today from a letter my sister received in Calgary that Brian had died. Brian and I were best friends for so many years and no one knew him better than I did. His athletic talent was astounding. One summer we both bought tennis rackets. By the end of the summer Brian was junior provincial champion and almost won the Canadian championship playing on clay courts for the first time in his life. So many fun times we had together. I remember after he had returned from Russia we had a water polo skit at a Riverside Swimming Pool aquacade where we posed as hockey players adopting the sport of water polo. Brian brought down this house in the role of a Russian hockey player when he explained in a heavy Russian accent “Little known fact. Russians invented water”. Sadly I never got to know his children or the people he came to love after we went our separate ways. To those individuals all I can do is to extend my deepest sympathy. Brian was so clever, had such a tremendous sense of humor, and possessed such athletic talent that his death is most surely a loss to everyone.

Gloria Suchar

October 11, 2007

Kai, Katia and Nina, it is my hope that you find comfort in the wonderful memories of your Dad. Neither of you will know me. I worked with your Dad for a number of years when the Sask German Council office first began on Cythnia Ave. He was a very easy going jovial person, with a great sense of humor and a determination in perserving the German culture in Saskatoon and area. I was absolutely shocked to hear of his passing, I planned to call the office to chat and perhaps have coffee to reminisce sadly that is not to be. I remember conversations about Kai and Katia's activities and Nina I believe wasn't in school at the time. It was evident he loved and was very proud of his family. My thoughts are with you and I pray you will find comfort in the memories of him and your mother.

Gloria Suchar

Julie Janzen

October 11, 2007

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. Brian will be missed by many of us on the tennis court and on the dance floor.

Maxine Whitehead

October 7, 2007

Dear Kai, Katya and Nina, We are so sorry for your loss and we are all thinking of you at such a sad time. Your Dad loved all of you and your Mother so much. We often think of you and want you to know that we are sending you all our love. Take care of each other during this difficult time. With our deepest sympathy, Maxine and Dave Whitehead, Charity and Anders Galasso with Sofia and Matteo, Paaren and Hollie.

Dennis Anderson

October 7, 2007

To Nina, Katia, and Kai. Our hearts and thoughts are with you during this sad time of Brian's passing. Brian was a true friend and colleague of life. We golfed with joy and in anguish, we laughed, we debated and discussed the issues of the day, and we shared our personal disappointments and triumphs. Although Karen and I moved to Kelowna a few weeks before Brian was hospitalized, I am thankful that he and I were able to visit many times over the telephone. We will miss him and we will remember him. With deepest sympathy, Dennis and Karen Anderson

Eric & Barbara Sprigings

October 6, 2007

We are so sorry to learn of Brian's passing. Our many hours on the golf
course wil always be remembered fondly. It has been a pleasure to call
Brian our friend.

Donna Goertzen

October 6, 2007

Dear Kai, Katya and Nina, I am so sorry for your loss. I will write you privately but wanted you to know that I am thinking of you at such a sad time. I just heard today and am too far away to be at the funeral. He was a very special man and he loved you and your Mom so much. Take care of each other and my thoughts are with you. Donna

Dennis Garreck

October 5, 2007

To the McKinstry Family,
May the many fond memories of your Dad comfort you at this sad time. I have known Brian for a number years as a fellow Executive Director and cultural worker. As many have said Brian was an honourable man with a caring nature and a strong advocate for culture in the province. His quiet contributions will be long lasting. With sympathy,

Andrew Roberts

October 5, 2007

Please accept my deepest sorrow in Brian's passing. I will always remember Brian fondly as a real gentleman and a fellow avid golfer.

Gerry & Connie Brown

October 5, 2007

Brian was a keen competitor, a frustrating challenge, a provocative thinker and a wonderful friend. We will miss him. Our deepest sympathies …

Michelle Alting-Mees

October 5, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Pamela Wilson

October 5, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of Brian's passing. I had the privilege of working with him in his capacity as the Executive Director of the German Council. I know how important his family was to him as he spoke of them often and fondly.

Lanny White

October 5, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Danylo Puderak

October 4, 2007

Brian was a very principled man who fought hard for what he believed in. His work for the benefit of the German and multicultural communities of Saskatchewan is appreciated. Rest in peace, Brian! You will be missed.

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