Brian M. Roman

I miss you, Love Kalista

Happy Birthday Brian!!

I had a great party for my birthday this weekend, you would have yelled at me while we were playing cards...
I love you. I miss you.

missing you tonight....trying to figure out a lot in my head...make sure im doing the right things....on the right path....i just wish i could talk to you....

Just wanted to let you know Ive been thinking about you. I Miss you and wish that you were still here with us. I guess Ill just have to wait until the day we can meet again...
I Miss and Love You Bri ~ xoxox

Merry Christmas!

Thinking of you as always...XOXOX

Just stopping by to say happy thanksgiving. I miss you. We went out last night, you crossed my mind more than once. Love you Roman

So I went home last week - it was great. I visited your grave and placed a single red rose there from Kalista and me....it looks so beautiful up there. You're surrounded by all the beauty of NY in the fall Roman.

Visiting you gave me the closure I was looking for and needed so badly. My heart is no longer heavy, and my thoughts of you are no longer upsetting. Matter of fact, I had a great dream that nite of you.....

I miss you everyday. I know you know that though. Kalista misses you the most it seems.....but she has grown into a beautiful young lady in the past few months - I know you would be proud of her...

All is happy and peaceful now...finally...moving on feels good...and I know it's what you would want for us. You will forever have a place in my heart.

All our love....XoXo

So tonight I watched a repeat of a show we used to watch all the time....and one of the characters' friends' was dying and the woman was having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that she wouldn't ever see her again....and it was the first time I've cried in a while. It made me think back to that morning and having to say goodbye to you......

I miss you.....so badly. I miss your smile. Your laugh. Your bright blue eyes.....I miss watching you play with Lis and seeing your smiling face everyday after work. I miss the nights we would stay up and laugh til our bellies hurt....I even miss our silly arguments. But most of all, I miss missing you and knowing that you would be coming back soon...

I love you always. It's not the same down here without you....you always had the best way of looking at things....

One year babe.....one year. It feels like it happened today....all over again.

All our love -
Your Girls (Kate and Kalista)
XoXo

Wow...so I was just thinking about what yesterday felt like last year....going hiking on Buck Mountain...weather was crappy...but once we got up to the top and you proposed it was THE perfect day. (even if it was rainy)
i remember walking back down and not being able to stop staring at this diamond glistening on my finger....you made me the happiest girl in the world that day....

I miss you everyday. I love you always. I just hope I showed you every day what you meant to me.....the way that you always showed me.

XoXo

As your anniversary date approaches, it is so bittersweet for me. While I miss you so very much, I can now look back on our time together and understand just how much you taught me about life, and about myself. Without being with you, I would never have found the happiness that I have today. You made me a better person and taught me how to love and respect myself - something that no one else could ever help me do. And while you will always have a place in my heart, I am healing and moving on. You would be so proud of Kalista...shes in 2nd grade. She's smart, tall and extremely beautiful. (I can almost hear you saying "Just like her mom") :)

There are still moments where she breaks down and misses you....and I wish I could take her pain away. Losing a parent hurts forever. She said the other day that she knows you weren't her real dad but she felt like you were. I know how much that would have meant to you to hear her say that.

You made a mark in all our lives. Branded in our hearts for eternity. I am so grateful to you for everything you did for us...we were so lucky to have you in our lives at that time, albeit too short....

love you always Roman.....

Hey you ;) So...its quickly arriving...Ill never forget the call or the day...You know, Ive been working with this "kid"/boy at work who is trying to learn to deal with loss. And isn't it ironic, that this time of year is the hardest for me...I can honestly say I absolutely hate fall/early winter...I have lost 2, not just 1 but 2 very important people in my life this time of year. And it seems so hypocritical to try and help someone when I am in need of "help" myself. I Miss You SO much and struggle this time of year to deal...I am certain that you are watching, and I know some how I get my strength to counsel and deal from the both of you...I cant wait til the day when I can see you again! I Miss You! And I can honestly say that in many ways you are still here...

Thinking about you a lot today. Sun's shining, nice day...
I miss you bri. I could definitly use some of your big brother advice. I love you.

Radar, Sara and I were just thinking about you and I was remembering that night the MPs were making me do the roadside olympics and you were telling them I couldn't speak english. I miss you bro.

So...just thinking about you. A little over a year ago we were all at camp having a GREAT weekend. I wish it would have never changed. Now so much is different...I MISS you terribly!

Katie and Kalista left today...I can't believe how much has changed in less than a year. Last year at this time Katie and I were sitting at my kitchen table going over last minute plans for your surprise party. She couldn't do it around the house because you were getting nosy. :) I remember how excited she was that it was all going to work out and how surprised she was at how clueless you were about it all. I'll never forget your face that day...how happy you were to see all your family and friends. I'll never forget the day that you and Katie walked into my kitchen offically engaged and how happy your both were. I miss you Brian. I love you and you'll always be one of the best brothers I'll ever have. I hope my mom hit you when she saw you and then gave you a big hug once she made her point. You cross my mind everyday..I guess I just wanted to let you know that.

I graduated today :) I had the "worst" case of chills in the moment we were walking out...I believe it was the two of you ;) I miss you terribly, but I know you are proud. I just wish you could have been there, you always said you would be...But I know/hope it was you (and Russ) that were walking beside me. I Love You! Take care of the girls...they miss you more than words could ever express.
I cant wait to see you again... :)
Love You!

Seven months tomorrow babe..... Oh how I miss your beautiful smile and bright blue eyes. And that gaze that would pierce through my soul. I miss you.... So much. Though my heart is healing and starting to scab, my mind still is having difficulty grasping the concept of "you're gone". Eventually I know it will....but until then....it is so very painful. Kalista talks about you all the time. SHe misses her "dad". Im so glad you got to hear her say that to you in time. I know it meant the world to you. I love you, and miss you with all of my heart. One day we'll be together. And though I sometimes wish that time would come sooner rather than later, I know it cannot. I will think of you every second of every day until that time Brian. Stay with me until then.....you were all I ever needed to know I would be alright. All my love...

So...today is 6 months :( I still hate to believe that you are gone, but you are. We all miss you terribly! I graduate in May :) You know you guys were supposed to come out to CO for my graduation, but I know you'll be watching from heaven. I wouldnt have made it through (some/alot) things without you. So...THANK you for everything and for just being you! I miss you, and I cannot wait til the day when we can all be together again.
Love you ~ xoxox

Hey you :) Just thinking about you...I still remember the last time I ever saw you. I still cant believe it! But I know its true. You are gone :( I dont think I will ever understand why...why you? why Russ? But atleast I know the two of you are together...however much that may hurt the rest of us. I wish and hope someday I can understand...as for now I must just deal. I hope you know how much you meant to me and all of us for that matter. I love you Bri, and I miss you terribly! Kate's birthday is Fri, I hope you will be with her and give her some comfort that day, Im pretty sure she needs it. We'll all be getting together again in June, and I hope you party right along with us. You know you'll be in our hearts.
Love You and Miss you!!
Cant wait til the day when we can meet again...does God know what he's in for~lol
RIP...

Well...it's our first Christmas without you in 5 years.... the hardest thing to do was wake up this morning to watch Kalista open her presents, and look next to me and realize you weren't there to smile at me. There is such an emptiness inside me. Around me. I watch your family's pain and it kills me.... We miss you so much Roman. I would give almost anything to have you back... where you belong... with us. Know I love you, and always will. Merry Christmas my love.

brian its such a shame that your gone. Merry Christams know your in a better place

MERRY CHRISTMAS! Still cant believe it...but now you have Grandma Roman with you. I hope you were there to greet her :) Such an amazing woman, and I barely knew her. Bri...I really do miss you and the life you are missing with Katie and Kalis. ...Happily Ever After... Merry Christmas! Love and Miss you more than you will ever know <3
Love and Miss you...XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX
Dyrcka

It's Thanksgiving...who's going to drink Jameson now? I miss you more than I'll ever allow anyone to know. I love you Brian. I'm thankful you were a huge part of my life.

To Katie, Kalista, Brian's friends and family,

I just recently found out about Brian's passing and I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Oh...Brian...So its almost been a month since God decided to take you. I still cant believe it, I just dont understand. From what I know and have been told you were the happiest you've ever been :) You were about to begin the rest of your life w/Katie and Kalista, and to tell you the truth I couldnt wait for you guys to begin that chapter in your lives <3 I remember when she came down to Jacksonville for the first time, from that time on I knew you two were meant for eachother. I could go on for days reciting all my memories of you, but I wont. I want you to know you were an AMAZING person and I am so thankful that I was able to know and love you! Ill never understand why God decided you needed to join him, but I know you are enjoying everlasting peace and happiness and hopefully you and Russ aren't getting kicked outta heaven ~ lol Atleast I know we can count on the two of you to be our angels. I MISS and LOVE U and U will NEVER be forgotten. Until we meet again...

Almost one month later, and while its getting better everyday, I still feel like someone ripped my heart and my lungs out of my chest. Feeling any emotion whatsoever hurts and I've felt like I couldn't breathe since the morning of that phone call from the hospital. Roman - I miss you. So much... Life without you is so different, so bland. I counted on your smile and laugh to get me through each and every day - and well, without it, I feel lost. They say things happen for a reason - so the reason behind this better be a good one, or someone up there has some explaining to do.... I love you always. No one will ever have my heart again....it belongs to you.
Always in my heart, forever in my soul.
Love and miss you Roman - Your girl.

Katie,
John and I were so sorry to hear about your loss. Just remember that we're all here for you and here to support you in any way you need.

Love,
Sarah and John Wible

I wanted to let you know how very sorry I am for your loss. I got to meet Brian for a very short time while he was attending school at the Carpenter's Apprenticeship. I was shocked to hear what had happened. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Ruthanne - Carpenters Apprenticeship

Dear Katie,
We just heard what happened. I wish I was there to give you and a Kalista a big hug. I only met Brian a couple of times but I could tell how much he cared for you and how happy he made you. We are so sorry. We will keep you in our prayers.

Today makes 2 weeks. I'll never forget that phone call......it still seems as though it's all a bad dream, even though I know it's not. It's so weird to think you're not coming back....that life just continues without you. It's so unfare. But for what it's worth.....I'm really glad to have had you in my life. You were always there. Whether it was just family dinner, we needed a laugh, or we really needed something, I knew we could always count on you. You definately have always been your own man, and that's what made you special. I'm so grateful that you were a part of our family. But more than anything...I'm grateful for how you were with Katie and Kalista. You've showed them so much unconditional love......that's exactly what they needed. Their lives are forever changed by you.....and all our lives are forever changed without you. So thanks Brian for being you. I miss ya....and always will. We'll take good care of your girls for you!

Love you Roman!!

Heaven must have needed a very special angel. That is the only reason I can think of as to why Brian was taken from Katie, Kalista, his family and friends. I used to babysit Kalista and that is how I met him. Her face would light up when he would come to pick her up and Katies would light up as well when she would talk about Brian. He always made her smile. I was so glad to hear that he finally asked her to marry him. I am so sorry for all the sadness you are going through but I don't think Brian would want it to last too long. He would want you to smile and laugh again. He will always be with you in your heart and in your mind.

Aunt Katie -Losing uncle Brin was vary sad.I hope you and Kalista feel beter soon.I am very sad too.LOVE YOU FAVORITE NEFEW DYLAN P.S I hope we can still have a good time.

Though words are not up to the task of communicating our sorrow for your loss, words are all we have to let you know we care. Mourn, as it is proper to do, but, at the appropriate time, celebrate life. Life is precious, because it is available only in limited quantities. Honor Brian, by living your lives to the fullest.

To Katie and Kalista, the Boland Families and the Roman Families,

I have read through all the entries and I have a sense of what a lovely young man Brian was and how much he mattered to those whom he loved and those who loved him.

I know I would have liked him and not just because he loved my cousins Katie and Kalista.

Any parent would be proud to have such a fine son who served his country so well. I can't even begin to imagine his loss for his family and friends.

I don't know how such grief is to be endured except by a faith that will require courage for every day without Brian and the love and support of his and Katie's families and friends as well as the clear knowledge that love is stronger than death.

If prayers can fly faster than emails across the Atlantic from Ireland, then know that you are all in my prayers here in Dublin.

Losing Brian has been the most painful experience I have ever gone through. I was lucky to have had him for as long as I did. He was a great man, who was always ready with a joke to make me smile and love him more. Our love was true, and pure, gentle and honest. I know that there will never be anyone like him. I miss you Roman. And I will always love you.

Paul, Jean and Family - our sincerest condolences - Eric, Kevin, Rick and Pattie Hoefer

Katie,Kalista, Boland & Roman Families
I am so sorry to have learned of your Brian's passing.
I send my sincerest condolances to you all.

Mr. Roman & Family:
I was so sorry to hear of your loss of Brian. Mr. Roman you were always like a second father to me at school so at first I must admit I was shocked to think that this could happen to such a wonderful family. Brian lived a very full life and I know you will always be very proud of him. My deepest sympathies are with you. Brian's star will shine bright to let you know he is watching over you all.
Love Always,

I am so sorry for your loss. I knew Brian through middle and high school, and loved how he was always smiling and making us laugh. My deepest sympathies are with Brian's family and loved ones.

Mr. Roman and family:
"Even in the desolate wilderness, stars can still shine."
I hope you can find your star during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you.

Kathy, Katie, Pete, and Paul,
I send my love to all of you during this difficult time. He was a truly amazing man who brought smiles and laughter to many. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May he be smiling down on all of us from heaven.
Love Sarah

Paul,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I know when he was in Iraq how proud and worried you were. It is such a tragedy that he came home to you only to be lost in this way. Mandi always said that you were the best teacher and advisor! I can only imagine then that it follows that you are a terrific dad and this loss is unbearable for you and your family. Our deepest sympathies to you all.
Sincerely, Bernie, Patti, Mandi and Matt Percoski

I am so sorry for your loss, Brian will always be in our hearts, and will never be forgotten.
RIP Brian.

Brian was an amazing guy. Was always available to talk and make me laugh. I have many fond memories of Brian that I will always cherish. Roman family, I am sorry for your loss, your all in my heart.

I only ever knew Brian as "Pete's older brother," and unfortunately we never really became acquainted. His legend lives on in the tales of his family, friends, and fellow Marines. My deepest sympathies and condolences to Pete, Paul, Kathy, Kate, Kalista, and all affected by Brian's sudden and tragic passing.

Katie,
We were so sorry to hear about your loss.
Maryalice & Charles Hannan

I'm so sorry to hear about Brian. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Dear Paul, Jean, and Kathy,

Donna and I want you and your whole family to know that we love you.

Our hearts go out to you. May God comfort you in this time of sorrow....We thank your son for serving our country and we are sure you are very proud of him.

Our deepest sympathy goes out to you
and your family.

The Roman Family,

Our deepest sympathy in this time of great loss. Brian will live on in the memories of all who had the privledge of meeting him.

God Bless,
Bryan and Kristine Iwanowski

You are in our thoughts and prayers during these very difficult times.. We will remember Brian's spirited personality and contagious smile. Be strong. Love John and Kathy

Brain's Family & Friends,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

I did not know Brian, but, I keep you & your family & loved ones who knew him in my thoughts & prayers. May Brian rest calmly at peace and his spirit fly freely.

Brian’s Family & Fiancée,

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Please
keep in touch.

Julian and Annette DeLyser

You both were the best Science teachers to us and we are so sorry for your loss, your son was quite the accomplished person and made great use of his time here.

Mr. Roman and Famiily,

I am very sorry for your loss. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. I will keep you, your son, and your family in my heart and prayers.

To all of Brian's friends, family, Katie & Kalista,
My heart goes out to everyone who knew Brian and what a wonderful person he was. News like this is always a shock and so unexpected. May God help you and give you the strength to get through these hard times. My thoughts and prays are with each and everyone of you.

Kathy, Paul, Peter
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. God Bless!

Friebel's,VonDell's-Voorheesville
Duval's-Schuylerville

Kathy and Paul,
We are so sorry for this shocking loss of your Brian. Know that your GHS family sends you love and support. May your memories of Brian bring you some smiles and comfort during this time of sorrow.
The Penna Family

Katie and Kalista,

We were extremely saddened to hear of the loss of your wonderful Brian. We can't imagine how difficult this is for you. You are in our thoughts everyday.

Boland and Roman Families,
I send my deepest condolences for your loss. May GOD, friends and family help you through this tough time.

Kathy, Paul, Peter and all of Brian's family and friends,
There are no words to express the sadness in my heart since hearing of Brian's passing. Though it has been many years since seeing him, it seems only yesterday he was born. Things such as this make no sence, but we must have faith that his purpose here was complete and he's on to another, better place. Please know that you are and will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. May you find peace over time, in knowing that Brian will live on through all those he touched.

Katie,
We are so sorry for your loss. We didn't have a chance meet Brian but I know he must of been a great guy.

Kathy and Paul,
I'm am so sorry for your loss. Brian was a wonderful person and friend.
You are both in my thoughts and prayers.

We were so saddened and shocked to hear about Brian's tragic passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with each and everyone in Brian's family.

Brian was a master of making people laugh and smile. The memories of him will never fade.

To Brians family,
My favorite memory of Bri is his big smile. No matter where I saw him,(the halls or one of my classes at Guilderland High or Farnsworth), he always had that huge grin on his face. I opened up my year book and laughed at the message he wrote, and he made sure to include our little inside jokes. He was truly a special person, and has a special place in my heart. I pray that the good Lord will wrap his arms around Bri's entire family during this difficult time. Brian and his smile will be missed.

I met Brian about 10 years ago when I was in high school and we worked together at Crossgates Mall. We became friends but lost touch when I moved to NC for college. Although I only knew him for a short time, I will always remember the fun times we had together and how he made me laugh. I was saddened to hear of his sudden passing. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

I'm sorry to hear of your loss and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Roman family during this time of mourning. May God give you the strength you need to make it through.

I don't know what to say, Bri. I just keep replaying kickball and foursquare, hunt the flag, kick the can, and being 8 years old in the neighborhood. I never thought I'd have to miss you like this. RIP.

Sgt Brian M. Roman,
To the family members of Sgt Roman, I just wanted you all to known that this young man was a true and caring young Marine. He is the type of Marine that i would always look up too. When i first checked into 2nd AABN he was the Marine that was known for speaking his mind and was very intellegent when it came towards his job. Sgt Roman tought me more about my job and being the leader that i am today.

Semper Fi Marine
Sgt Daniel Davis

My condolences to your friends and family.

Katie,

I am SO sorry for your loss. Hang in there sweetie, if you need anything please do not hesitate to call. My thoughts and prayers are with you and his family.

Katie,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You and his family are in my thoughts & prayers!!

Paul,
John and I are so sorry to hear about Brian. Our hearts ache for you. Brian was a really great kid- we always enjoyed him.
You all will be in our prayers and thoughts.
Take care.
Sincerly,John & Jo Anne Nick and Steve, Mike and Val(Menia) Nick

To Brian's family, Katie, and Kalista...

Please accept my deepest condolences on this tragic loss. Brian was an amazing man and will be missed. Please know that you are all in my thoughts. I just can't believe this and my heart just aches.

Cathy and Paul:
I was very saddened to hear of Brian's sudden passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

We are so saddened at Brian's loss. We came to know Brian at Farnsworth Middle school as a classmate of Danny. He was a beautiful, energetic young boy, and we can still see him running up and down the soccer field! Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of the family. Love & prayers, The Douglas Bauer Family

Losing a child is the most awful thing a parent must bear. Our prayers are with you. Brian and Michelle were friends in high school and she still speaks of him with great fondness.

Katie, Roman and Boland Families,

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

God Bless

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

I'm so sorry for your lost he was a great guy.

Kathy and Paul: I'm so sorry to here about Brian. Please know that both you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Paul, Kathy, & Pete,
Sorry to hear of your loss, the thoughts and prayers of our family are out to you. Remember you still have a "family" at Guilderland and we can assist you through these times.

Brian you will be missed my friend but not forgotten..From a friend to a brother you have guided me in the right direction when i became a nco.. For all the great laughs we had traveling together whether it was chasing iraq's in the desert or goofing off on the way home on liberty.. You are a true friend and I am very much proud to have served with you.. I love you ...Semper Fi

So...I am the first. Not such a good thing to be first for. I still cannot believe you are gone. Why does GOD keep doing this?? You had SO much left to do. I LOVE and MISS U! I feel so bad for Katie, you and Kalis were her life and now tragedy has taken you away. I was SOOOOO happy you finally got officially engaged, I couldnt wait for the wedding. You'll always be special to her and to the rest of us. One thing I thank GOD for was the opportunity to know and love you, and for the weekend in July :) Until we meet again...RIP