Bron Barnett Ingoldsby

I always thought that I was Bron's favorite student. I considered him one of my best friends and my greatest teacher. From reading people's entries, I realize that I may not have been his favorite student, but that he made everyone feel so special and important. What a wonderful man to love so deeply and care so fully about everyone.

Bronchez,Que Saldades! Bron was my professor at Ricks, gave me my love for family therapy, cheered me on as my mentor long after I graduated, actually he never stopped. He had an amazing gift for making people feel confident, and always had us laughing. His influence in my life continues on. My prayers and thanks for his wonderful family!!!!

Querido Bron! Gracias por tu amistad, extranare tu presencia.

Tu amiga que te quiere de Colombia!

Cecilia Vargas

We have been friends with Bron every since he and Lee were district leaders together on their missions in Columbia. At BYU we had fun doing a few things with Bron and Val now that we were both married. Over the years they stopped in to see us various places we lived and we went to see them in Rexburg, Sugar City and Orem. Our oldest daughter Deserae and the twins were around the same age. Lee, Bron, and his brother Todd once went down to South America together and even tromped through the Amazon together. Val is from Lethbridge, Alberta, Canada. We lived in Shelby, MT., which was on the freeway to Lethbridge. We have good memories of being invited up to Lethbridge some summers to visit with Bron, Val and girls while they were visiting her family. Hilary left the CTM in Brazil 2 days before our son Dane entered the CTM there. We kept in touch as we planned our trip to Brazil since Bron had recently gotten back from there at the end of Hilary's mission. We were excited for Bron to show us around BYU since we had not been there for 25 years, and he loved showing us some of the changes. Val had a delicious meal at their new home in Orem and we enjoyed seeing Curves. Now that we are empty nesters we planned on doing more with the Ingoldsbys. I wanted to start planning missionary reunions again, with Bron being at the center since they lived in the area. Lee and Bron hoped to do more traveling to Columbia/Venezuela. Besides our deep sympathy to Val and the girls, we feel very sad because now we are at a stage of life to have begun doing more with the Ingoldsbys. Thank you to those who wrote about Bron being their teacher. We regretfully never had kid's go where he was teaching,(although Val tried to help us on that with Rick's band) so I have often wondered what type of teacher he was. I have a friend who insists that we call it "crossing over". We weren't ready for it to happen yet. Since we don't live close, thanks to you that can give Val and the girls closer support. Hilary, Marie, and Val, we are thinking of you often. Love, Lee and Rhua Lee Gibbs Moscow, Idaho

Hil, Marie, and Valerie, my hear is with you. I wish there was something I could say to make it easier or something I could do but all I can say is hang in there. There will be days when you don't understand and days when you hate life but just know he is in a better place and no matter what you will get to be with him forever. Take it one day at a time and know how special you are and that you will always have him with you. I love you all and if you need anything let me know!!!

Bron was an amazing person and I feel honored to have known him. He was a great husband, father, and friend. He loved everyone and made you feel as if you were of ifinite worth whenever you were around him. He always had a smile on his face and made you feel at home. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Valerie, Hilary, & Marie. Bron's memory will live on and be cherished by many.

I send my love!!

The first time I met Bron Ingoldsby when I was in the second grade I knew I had an instant friend. He was one of my best friends fathers, and has always been interested and concerned in my life and the lives of everyone around him. He always made us laugh, gave great advice, and helped us to feel welcome in his home. Most importantly he raised two wonderful and caring daughters who have turned into amazing people. We love and miss you Bron, and our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Thank you Bron for the example of fatherly love and devotion to your family. You are one of those that I look up to for imitation for my future family. You are going to be missed dearly

Occasionally we find friends whose families become our family as well. Bron always made his girls' friends feel welcome in his home. He was one of those "Dads" that holds a special place in my heart.

Val, Hillary, Marie,

We love you and continue to pray for you. Reiah prays for Heavenly Father to "take care of Uncle Bron and Willow"(their cousin who passed away last month). We know that He is taking care of them. We have many happy memories and even some videos of the good visits we have had in your home. We love you.



Dieter, Bridget, Reiah, Leo and Roen Waite

Brother Ingoldsby was a great man and father. I served a mission with Hilary and learned of his selfless service and great example. I know that he loved his children and wife more than anything. My heart goes out to his family.

I love the Ingoldsby Family and their contribution to the Sugar City/Ricks College/ BYU-Idaho Communities. I especially appreciate the support that Bron and Valerie have given to their daughters to participate and serve others. I was blessed to have them both serve with me in the Urban Studies program in Chicago.

I've enjoyed them in my classroom, and in my home. They will continue to bless lives as you have done Bron. You have taught them well, and they will continue to influence others because of your example. Your legacy lives on.

Bron, aka "Papa Ingoldsby" was always interested in whatever was going on in your life, no matter who you were or what you were doing. Many good times were spent in the Ingoldsby home in the last 18 years or so and everyone always felt welcome, he will be greatly missed!

Even though I was only able to get to know Bron for a short time I'm truly grateful for his Christ-like example and for the true love he showed to everyone. I can't even begin to imagine what his family has suffered but my heart truly goes out to them.

Our deepest sympathy and heart felt prayers go out to the family on the passing of Bron.

My heart is so very sad to hear of Dr. Ingoldsby's passing. I know words don't seem to do much, but Dr. Ingoldsby was such an inspiration to me. He was my mentor at BYU and was truly an example of Christ-like love. I was his teaching assistant until I had to come home to take care of my own mother fighting cancer last April. Dr. Ingoldsby helped me deal with my mother's illness as he struggled with his. He was such a comfort to me. My mother passed away last month and I'm so sorry for the loss that you are going through. You have a wonderful father and I know that you will be reunited with him one day just like I will my mom.

I knew Bron when he was a young man. Back then, his favorite hymn began with the words, "Have I done any good in the world today? Have I helped anyone in need? Have I cheered up the sad and made someone feel glad?" Bron set a fine example with his cheerful and caring attitude. When my husband and I last visited Bron in August he expressed love for his family. He spoke of the joy of being a grandpa to Bronwyn referring to her as a light in his life. He no doubt will continue to love his family forever.

Bron, you are such a wonderful man. You were so funny and so encouraging. You left so many footprints on so many hearts. You have the most beautiful family and they have given you such a beautiful good-bye. It was such an honor to know you. You will always be in my heart and prayers.

Bron was so full of caring and good humor. He was one of my favorite cousins. I will misss him. Our deepest sympathies to the family. Doug and Donna Coppin

Bron was my favorite cousin, and I laugh as I remember the fun we had sliding down Slick Rock, playing kick-the-can, making up songs, and just being kids. He was an exceptional person, one who touched others in so many positive ways. I feel lucky to have known him, and we'll all miss him.

My heart goes out to Bron's family. I knew him well, as my sister in law is his sister. He was different than anyone I have met in that he was a most unusually pleasant and happy man.

I was greatly saddened to learn of Bron's illness and passing. He was a great force for much good wherever he went. Valerie, my prayers are with you and your family.

Warmest regards,

Crystal

Professor Ingoldsby was a wonderful teacher. He was caring, kind and considerate. I found his classes extremely enjoyable. I especially loved the stories he would tell inorder to prove his points, they were always humorous.

I was devestated to see that this wonderful man had passed away when I visited BYU's web page today. He was one of my favorite teachers in my years at BYU. I learned much from him and am grateful for the oppurtunity I had of attending his lectures. I feel a loss for those students to come that will not have the priveledge that I had.

Bron encouraged me to apply to and attend graduate school. He introduced me to his colleagues at a conference two years ago and helped fuel my passion and love for family sciences. Bron's words of encouragement, humor, and compassion were always welcomed. I'll keep his sweet family in my prayers, may our Heavenly Father bless and comfort you during this time.

I will always be grateful for the hours I spent in Dr. Ingoldsby's class. Though he had recently been diagnosed with cancer, he taught us with love, compassion, humor, and enthusiam. He remains a hero in my eyes and in my heart.

I am grateful to have have known Dr. Ingoldsby inside the classroom as a student and outside as Hilary's friend. In all settings he was an inspiration to me helping me decide on a master's program, teaching me family theories, and above all else teaching me how to live life to the fullest and love other people.

Brother Ingoldsby was my favorite professor at Ricks College. He helped me to love school for the first time in my life. Not only did he make his students laugh, but he also challenged and encouraged us. What I remember most is how much he loved his family because of how often and how highly he spoke of them.

Professor Ingoldsby made learning fun! His enthusiasm was contagious and I found myself craving more knowledge during every class. I am grateful for his willingness to share so much with us as students. I learned a great deal about cross-cultural development last semester, but more than that I gained a greater love of learning and desire to use that knowledge to help others. I greatly admire Professor Ingoldsby for his dedication and optimism in life.

Bron was an incredible man! Every time I talked to him I laughed, learned, enjoyed life and truly walked away with a smile. He was an awesome professor, a great friend, a stellar mentor and much more! I was always inspired to hear of his work and loved to hear him share stories. I am grateful to have known him for my 23yrs. Our prayers are with his family.

Tarl, Debbie & Kalyana Lambson

Years ago, while attending Ricks College, I used to babysit the Ingoldsby twins with Toni Lynn Neal. What fun it was to be with the Ingoldsby family! It was then that I had my first experience with family science! I took Dating, Courtship and Marriage from Bron. He was such a warm and caring teacher. Did I mention funny? I don't think that I have ever laughed and learned so much at the same time! I am so grateful for the time I had in his classroom and the tremendous impact it had on my life. I now teach MFHD classes at BYU. May peace and comfort attend the Ingoldsby family at this time.

Prof. Ingoldsby was an amazing teacher and I must say that in all my years at BYU I think he was the kindest and most enjoyable professor that I had. I was touched by the kind of person that he was.

What a wonderful teacher and person! I only had Professor Ingoldsby for one class, and I loved every minute of it. His lectures were interesting and always filled with a great sense of humor. Even though I have never met his family, I know that he loved them very much. This love was shown through the way he taught about family in his class and the stories that he shared with us. I am so thankful that he could be a part of my life as a student. He will be greatly missed by the students at BYU.

I have never met someone who so enthusiastically and unabashedly loved people. Brother Ingoldsby was and is a huge example to me of what it means to have charity. I am grateful to have had him in my life and know that I am not alone in this. I want his sweet family to know how much I love them and that they are in my heart and prayers.

We will deeply miss our very dear and highly respected friend. Gone too early, but, oh what a legacy he left! No one could miss that Bron's family was his pride and his happiness, nor his love for the Lord. We admire him for his courageous battle for over a year against a relentless foe. We extend our love and our sympathy to Valerie, Marie & Todd & Bronwyn, and Hilary.

I was only a student of Dr. Ingoldsby's for a little more than a month, but he quickly became one of my favorite lecturers after 4 years of college. His strength and selflessness (he came to class and taught us even while he was undergoing treatment, when most would have stayed home in bed) in the face of such adversity were a great example to me, and I'll never forget the lessons he taught--not just because of what he said, but because of who he was.

Professor Ingoldsby was an amazing man. I loved coming to his class and always got excited to see what interesting things he would share with us. (Especially his Calvin & Hobbes cartoons). He has changed the way I view my family and how I will interact with my future family. Thank you.

What a wonderful teacher, incredible example, and great person. I only had Dr. Ingoldsby for one semester, but he helped open my eyes to the positive ways we can look at other people, and do what we can to improve life around us. Thank you, Dr. Ingoldsby

Bron will be remembered with much love and admiration for all he accomplished, and also for his great attitude and positive outlook during his illness. I am grateful for having known Bron. My love and sincere sympathies go to Valerie, and the rest of the family.

Bron had such an amazing sense of humor and wonderment that will be missed by all of his friends, students and colleagues at BYU. May our Heavenly Father send His peace and comfort at this time to be with his family.



With Love,

I gained much from my short time working with Bron. He was always positive and persistent in dealing with his challenges. I hope I can follow his example.

We will miss Dr. Ingoldsby deeply. He is a warm, friendly, and generous man whose humor put many at ease and whose example inspired countless students. He has touched many, many lives, and his influence will continue to be felt in their lives.

We send heartfelt sympathy to his family in this difficult time.

I will miss my cousin Bron, and will always treasure the memories our families shared. Our sincerest sympathy to the Ingoldsby family,

I will always appreciate Bron's courage in the face of his illness. He is an example for all of us.

Our family wishes to extend our love and support to Bron's family.

With Love and Sincere Sympathy,

Russ & Eileen Crane and family