Bruce SWAIN Obituary
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Brad Cooper
November 23, 2025
Bruce, (aka) Batman I sure had a lot of good memories of you here at the MATES in Colorado. We had a blast pulling jokes on the other guys and gals in the shop. You left us way too soon and always think of you on October 26th as it was the same birthday as Becky's was. Rest in peace my friend, Brad Cooper.
Brad M Cooper
October 26, 2025
Bruce your birthday falls on the same date as my wife´s so always think of you on this day the MATES gang are all retired now and I stay in tough with many as I can. We called you Batman and it was a shame to lose you at such a young age. Never will forget you brother rest in peace until we meet again, MSG (ret) Brad Cooper.
RON FOREHAND
November 20, 2024
Rest in power BROTHER,
Pamela Swain
October 26, 2024
Wow October 26 is the day that you celebrated your birthday. Less than a month you transition from this space.. I can’t tell you any words what my heart feels at this time.. I’ve learned to mask the tears during the day and cleanse during the night. There isn’t a day that goes by that I am reminded of your spirit.. we were best friends before we became husband and wife. I love how we made a big deal about our birthdays. That was the one day that you would get the cake that you loved and it was just for you and you decided to share it with me.. It seems strange that I will not purchase that cake because it remind me so much of you. Although you are not with me physically, I know that you are celebrating this day with the Lord.. You are so missed and loved.. happy heavenly birthday, your wife, Life. Pamela.
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Pamela Swain
October 25, 2023
Wow Bruce, so much has happened since you departed. October 26th, 2023, you would have been 61 Years old. I honestly thought we would be sitting back discussing how the years have gone by and we are still hanging in there. I know God loved you best.....I am still hurting, but there isnt anything I can do to stop the pain. I know you spirit surrounds me and so many others. I wish there were visiting hours in heaven. Happy Heavenly Birthday....I know you are celebrating with so many family members. Each time some of your military buddies bring up your name....the tears begin to fall all over again. So many people miss your presence. Love Always, Pamela
David Colgate
November 20, 2022
Rest In Peace my long time friend, when I see my wife make oatmeal cookies guess what I think of you!
Jesse Gomez
July 9, 2021
Jesse Gomez
July 9, 2021
Jesse Gomez
July 9, 2021
I am sorry I didn't find him in time.I was stationed at the Rock with him back in 82-83.He used to come to my room everyday.A few guys used to hang out.I still talk to Bowie who used to work with him in the motorpool.We had some good times.I have some pictures of him ,I just need to find my photo albums.when I do I will post them on Facebook.Jesse Gomez from Tracy California.My condolences,I'm truly sorry I will see him again one day,God willing.R.I.P. Swain and God bless his family
Pamela Swain
April 1, 2021
Pooh bear,
Here I am again...on this journey that I still don’t understand why you are not here. I’m told that it’s suppose to get easier...not true! You just learn to cope. Everyday and every night I’m reminded of my best friend and husband ate no longer here with me. I no longer explain the emptiness I feel...I just talk to God. Baby I miss you. Thank you for loving me. Love and always missing your presence. Love Pamela
Robert Thompson
November 20, 2020
I still love and miss you and I know you with me every day love you bro ❤❤❤
Gerald Swain
November 20, 2020
My Brother Bruce, even though it's been some years that you got your wings my heart is still empty of your lost a piece me is missing, l miss our talks and the times we spent together, l love you and that will never end we will see each other again as it is good will that one day we all will receive our wings RIH little bruh
Gerald Swain
November 21, 2019
My dear beloved brother , I miss you so much, the talks we had about our NYG and or about cooking bean pies and grilling and just spending time in Florida with family...RIH my brother we will see each other again
Toy' Graduation
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Friends for life
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
8th Grade Prom Sweet-hearts
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Family Cruise - Cozamel
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
5th Grade
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Yes, I'm the man
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Comfortable Love
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Men Talk
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Chef Bruce in Jacksonville
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Family Time - Forehands' visit
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Bruce Chilling Out at home
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Cruising Together
Pamela Swain
February 26, 2017
Pamela Swain
March 11, 2016
Bruce, my Sweet-heart and Pooh-bear. I thank you for loving me and being my best friend. The fact that you asked me to marry you was such a surprise and delight. You have shown me so much and I have met so many wonderful people under your protection. Your love is everlasting. As I begin this new chapter of my life, I thought you would be front and center (as we so often talked about), but God had better plans for you. I know spirit and energy surrounds me and I will never feel alone. Words could never express my love for you and how you have made me whole. You are amongst the angels that God has called home. Please tell Mom Matilda, Pop Pop, my Dad, My Mom, Tyrone, Sandra, Uncle Bob, Mrs Hollis, Joanne, Pam and the many relatives and loved ones that have passed on. Pooh Bear, I truly thought we had forever, but forever has gone away....it's so hard to say good-bye to yesterday. One of your favorite songs. Baby, wait for me! I will always love you and will always be your Bonnie. Cherishing the memories of a love that will never be forgotten.
David Colgate
January 27, 2016
Bruce my friend we worked together for many years and we had great times! You and John H. We traveled together, trained together in numours states! We worked on more M -1 tanks than we care to guess at but my body shows it and if you were still here you too. I will always remember you my friend
Tonja Swain
November 18, 2015
Where does the time go? One year ago today me and my family lives forever changed. We lost one of our links, our brother Bruce went home to glory. He has now reunited with the links that started the whole chain. They are forever missed and loved. My brother Bruce I pray you have eternal peace, residing in heaven above. I love you and miss you dearly every second, minute of the day. It has truly been a rough year. I know you are watching over us! 4ever in our hearts! A LOVE THAT WILL NEVER DIE!!!!! Your sis.....
Tonja Swain
October 26, 2015
Happy 53rd Birthday in heaven Bruce! It's still your day.....now your celebrating with mom, dad, and so many others.....y'all turn up for us too....love you, forever in our hearts!!!! Your Sis....
October 26, 2015
Happy 53rd Birthday in heaven Bruce! It's your day, your now celebrating it with mom, dad and so many others. Y'all turn up for us...forever in our hearts.
Amara Swain
October 26, 2015
Dear my beloved Uncle Bruce, I just wanted to stop by and wish you a happy birthday , there is not a day that goes by that you aren't on our minds, we love and miss you dearly. Forever and always. R.I.H Uncle Bruce ❤
Joyous Time
October 20, 2015
Pam's 50th Bday Vegas Celebration
October 20, 2015
Happy Baby - Bruce Smiling
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Bruce's 50th Cruise Celebration
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
A Moment in Time
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Bruce's Last Birthday Celebration
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
The Love of Brother and Lil Sis
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Bruce Loving his Fish (Andre and Robyn's House)
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Like Father ....Like Son (R.I.P.)
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Engagement
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Bruce and Saki
Pamela Swain
October 19, 2015
Michelle and Bruce in Jacksonville, Florida
Michelle Oohlala Bryant
October 19, 2015
Bruce's Zulu Warrior Chain
Ashton Britton
October 19, 2015
Bruce didn't smile much, but I remember a big grin whenever Amy got him talking about he being a "Zulu Warrior"! Stay in peace lil Sis.
Kim Evans
October 19, 2015
A quiet man, a gentle spirit , one who loved his wife. Great character from what I could see and feel. Not very talkative but that was ok by me, sometimes being quiet shows more than words could ever say. You are missed and will always be loved.
Ashley Brown
October 19, 2015
Came across one of your pics today, and was reminded that football season will never be the same without you. Im gonna hold it down for you Bruce, Go Gmen! BTW, I'm keeping my eye on Pam. You know she gets confused about what team to route for. Miss you much.
Vegas was Wonderful
October 19, 2015
Karla Grant
October 19, 2015
First Pam, I want to start off by saying that you are such a strong woman and I pray for your healing all the time. I was able to witness first hand, the LOVE and FRIENDSHIP that you and Brucie shared!!! When I lived with yall in Colorado, Brucie was there when Kyle took his first steps. He was always so proud to see how Kyle had grown into a young man through the years. One of the first things I had eaten when I arrived in Colorado was a double cheeseburger with onions; Thanks to Brucie Lol I did not like onions, but he felt that it made more sense to get me a double cheeseburger with more meat, rather than the junior bacon cheeseburger I had asked for. He told me to just take the onions off Lol. And If I wanted Orange Juice, Brucie brought me back apple juice Lol. I am going to miss calling Brucie with some of my weird inquiries about how to fix something or describing the sound of something in order to receive his advice. Also me and him going back and forth about Lebron, the Knicks, and Giants, every time you and I were on the phone.I always ended up saying, "Put Brucie on the phone." I am still in disbelief about this situation and it is hard for me to even write this and I miss him so much. I will always admire Brucie's loyalty, genuine and caring personality, and always willing to help others. If you said you would do something, you never went back on your word. You were the BEST cook I know. I never told Pam the she was second to yours because I did not want to hurt her feelings Lol. The three of us had so many jokes that we shared and some only saw that serious side to you. You made me laugh so much with your amazing sense of humor. Pam I will continue to pray for you. Brucie's memories will always be here and I will always admire the Love you shared. Not everyone can have a husband for a Best Friend. Pam you are the true definition of strength and my admiration of you is beyond what words can describe. Love You Always!!! Your Niece
Almateen Thorne
October 16, 2015
What is a childhood friend?
Bruce "Born" Swain was a real friend because whenever he saw you, he always spoke to you from the heart unfiltered. He saw you the way you really are not the way you pretended to be. He talked good about you behind your back and he talked bad about you to your face. He had a real honest soul that's what I loved about him. He will be deeply missed.
Michelle Bryant
October 15, 2015
PAM, as I read all the lovely tributes to Bruce, my Heart is touched. I reflect back on growing up and our childhood memories as cousins. Our families have gone through Sooooo much as we lose loved ones. Bruce was a Wonderful man. I am so glad to have been able to see him before his decent to Heaven. May God forever Bless all whom was touched by his warm spirit. Muahhhh and much love.
Robert Thompson
October 9, 2015
Love you bro miss you I'm sorry we didn't get a chance to do the things that we talked about that would always be between me and you Love you please do not forget to tell mom and dad I said I love them
ROBERT THOMPSON
October 9, 2015
Love you bro miss you
Bruce and Uncle Jr.
Bruce Swain
September 30, 2015
Bruce and Uncle Jr.
Pamela Swain
September 30, 2015
Laughter warms the heart
September 30, 2015
Bruce in Florida
September 30, 2015
Bruce and Uncle Jr.
September 30, 2015
Saki - "Your Canine Buddy" Swain
September 25, 2015
On behalf of Saki, you are dearly missed. He was so connected to you. Each day I watch as he looks for you. Just like Saki...we miss your presence everyday.
Gerald Swain
September 23, 2015
My beloved brother Bruce Eric Swain , who is sadly missed it's gonna be a year since God called you and every day my
heart is so sadden because I miss you so much, I'm holding back tears right now I will see you again bevause will all must pass that wsy and when it happens we can rejoice in Gods glory
Tonja & Bruce Swain
Tonja Swain
December 18, 2014
Bruce, my beloved brother! It's been one month today we got the devastating news of your passing. Our lives are forever changed. You took a part of us with you. We can no longer talk to you, hug you or hear your laughter. I still can't believe your gone. I'm waiting for someone to wake me up from this nightmare. We love and miss you so very much...I can't stop crying. You will forever be in our hearts!!!! Love you...your sister
Wanda Jones-Hill
November 29, 2014
Pam, at a time like this words seem so inadequate. It is my prayer that your faith and your memories will bring peace to your heart and a smile to face when you reflect on your life with Bruce. I will keep you in my prayers.
Tyrone Johnson
November 29, 2014
Pam, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Bruce. He was a wonderful person. I am very grateful to have crossed the paths of two beautiful people. God Bless the Swain and Richardson family.
Donnie Alston
November 29, 2014
Bruce, I thank God for allowing our path to cross. You leave so many wonderful memories behind. Like ! Big Swain Cookies. . I love you and Pam so much. This is hard and it hurts like crazy. Thank you for being the man god bless you to be..
Debbie Rouland
November 28, 2014
God Bless Swain & Richardson families. Much Love Gene, Kenny, Debbie, Chrissy & Paul Rouland
November 28, 2014
Pam
So Blessed to have known Bruce. He was a wonderful person. My heart is heavy thinking of him. God is Awesome..He won't leave you. My entire family sends condolences to your family. Peace Love & Blessings. Gene, Kenny, Debbie,
Chri
Chrissy Rouland
November 28, 2014
Pam
So Blessed to have known Bruce. He was a wonderful person. My heart is heavy thinking of him. God is Awesome..He won't leave you. My entire family sends condolences to your family
Suzanne Bolden
November 27, 2014
Ms. Lady, May God continue to give you peace. My buddy Bruce...the one that knew what it was like to be Barnie..just like I did...You stay encouraged and know we will see mr man again. Love ya....
Naomi Reid
November 27, 2014
Pam my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time. So sorry for your loss.
Jacci Allen
November 27, 2014
Bruce. Gon too soon. Much love Iron Man
Cassie Moore
November 27, 2014
Pamela,
I've known you for about 3 years now. I never got the chance to meet Bruce, but I feel like I've known you and Bruce for a long time. You always talked about Bruce and all the great life stories you two had. Take joy in all the memories you had together. Xavier and I will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Kimberly Polite
November 26, 2014
I am praying with you. HE didn't bring you this far to leave you Pam! You are gonna be alright. He will c u thru!
Kimberly Polite
November 26, 2014
Bruce... Bruce ....Bruce Where do I start! I remember meeting ur wife 27 yrs ago in Germany.
I remember double dating with you and Pam in Nuenburg Germany. There we met an organ grinder and his monkey. You swore the monkey was a pick pocket. You then explained the monkey's pick pocket procedures to us. So funny!!
I remember driving home from work, one beautiful German fall day. Guess who I see!! Bruce Swain!! walking down a long road with his and her bicycles for he and his girl. He, of course refused a ride; and man I'm telling you... I've always wondered how you were able to get two 10 speed bikes down that road and up several flights of stairs to ur apartment, "unscaved" before I could even turn the corner. But you did it!
Birthday parties, board game night, cook outs, picnics with you two; one never knew how the night would end. But one thing was SURE! ! THINGS WERE NEVER DULL WITH YOU TWO. Bruce I'm gonna miss you man... man you got me feeling (old) I am still trying to process this....Pam I got you covered for the next 27... I hope you feel me! Much love 4 u girl! !
Bonnie and Clyde
Pamela Swain
November 26, 2014
Teresa Tanner-Hicks
November 26, 2014
Our sincere condolences to Pamela and The Swain family. Praying for peace and strength for you. RIH Bruce ??
The Hicks Family
Phyllis Woodberry
November 26, 2014
My Condolences & Sympathy to Pam n the Swain Family May God continue to wrap his loving arms around y'all.. Pam just know I am here for you RIP BRUCE ??
Kecia Sanders
November 26, 2014
Condolences go out to Pam and the entire Swain family! My prayers for peace and comfort continue to go up to an ever loving God!
Bruce so many memories! I smile when I think about the big Van....piling in on Sunday nights to get to the skating rink! Quite peaceful Bruce always the perfect gentleman! So very fortunate to have known you, laugh with you and cry with you! You will be missed! Rest in Peace Born!
Phyllis Woodberry
November 26, 2014
My Condolences to the Swain & Richarson Family. Pam may God continue to wrap his arms around you at this time of sorrow. I am here for you. RIP BRUCE ??
Andi
November 26, 2014
To Pamela and family. I'm so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy. May God watch over you.
Andi
Miller Lucky
November 26, 2014
Our loving condolences ... Miller & Shirley (Guy) Lucky.
Ronald/Kalie Forehand
November 26, 2014
Bruce unexpected passing, left a impact on us, looking forward to our next holiday to cook together or next vacation to spend time with my Friend and Brother, left us numb! May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived. RIP Bruce.
RONALD/KALIE FOREHAND
November 26, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Twanda Allen-Brisbon
November 26, 2014
Many wonderful memories from long ago. A friendship for a life time, I will forever hold dear to my heart. My heart felt condolences from my family to yours, Pam.
Trey House
November 26, 2014
Dear Pamela,
I am so very sorry to hear about your loss of the love of your life. It is with great sympathy that I write these words to you as I know how hard of a time you must be going through. However, I know your faith in Christ will guide you through this trying time, and that through the grace of the Almighty you will once again be joined with your lost Love. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Trey
Frank L. Williams
November 26, 2014
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Teresa Watkins
November 26, 2014
With deepest sympathy, our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Terri Briggs
November 26, 2014
A candle is lit for the brightness that GOD will continue to shine on you and your family Pam ... ...be well and I will continue to pray for you
Darcy Maness
November 26, 2014
Oh, Bruce - what a pleasure it has been to know you and to get to work with you. You never entered a room without lighting it up and smiles were still hanging around after you left the room. You will be so missed by so many. So sad that a man with such a good heart could have had such a bad heart. You did it, though...you left your mark on this world and it is all good! Love ya, Bruce. RIP
Troy McCray
November 26, 2014
My sincere Condolences, May God Be With You.
Susan Lowe
November 26, 2014
To the Swain and Richardson Families, Bruce will always live in my heart...That cool dude!!! Pam I love you, my heart aches with you. Know that I am with you in spirit. I am praying for the peace that surpasses all understanding. May God continues to hold you in his grace and mercy.
November 26, 2014
Bruce you pulled a fast one on me, just like my loving sister Joanne. Words can not describe what I am feeling right now.
Your loving Cousin,
Bridget Rives
Jimmy Purkett
November 26, 2014
Hey cousin you will be missed by many especially me, it seems like it was just yesterday the time we spent together when we was growing up, but I know we will meet again. Love you cuz!
Pamela Swain
November 26, 2014
My Pooh-Bear.....Baby, you will be dearly missed. I am still in shock, but with the understanding that I will be with you again. This walk will be tough because you and I were like Bonnie and Clyde. I have asked for God to grant me strength to make it each day. My love is always. Your Wife for Life....Your Wife in Christ. "Pamela"
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