Bryan J. McCarthy

1960 - 2014

Bryan J. McCarthy obituary, 1960-2014, Asbury Park, NJ

Bryan J. McCarthy

1960 - 2014

BORN

1960

DIED

2014

Bryan McCarthy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 11, 2014.
Bryan J. McCarthy
Oakhurst


Bryan J. McCarthy, 54 of Oakhurst, died on Sunday, June 8, at home. He was born in Jersey City, NJ and grew up in Union City, where he attended Union Hill High School. He later relocated to Ocean County. In 1985 he became a licensed electrical contractor and he worked his entire adult life as an Independent Electrical Contractor. In 1989 he and his wife Nancy moved to Asbury Park where they enjoyed living with a beautiful view of the ocean and Deal Lake. They later relocated to Oakhurst where they have resided for the last 23 years.

Bryan was the owner/operator of Bryan J. McCarthy Electric, LLC and was a Microsoft Certified Systems Engineer (MCSE). He was an active member of Trinity Church, Asbury Park where he served on the Vestry and the Building and Grounds Committee. He was also a long time member of the Asbury Park Rotary Club, as well as the Asbury Park Chamber of Commerce. He was a past-president of the Spartan Football Club, Ocean Township High School.

Bryan is predeceased by his sister, Helen Kostbar, his brother, Nicholas McCarthy, his nephew, Robert T. Brazill and his Dad, Tom Hastings. He is survived by his wife of 25 years, Nancy Stewart McCarthy and his son 2nd Lt. John N. McCarthy, currently stationed in Pensacola, FL. He is survived by his sister, Mary Blum and her husband Joel, of Mahwah, NJ and his sister-in-law, Bonnie Brazill of Howell, NJ. He is also survived by his Mom, Myrtle Hastings of Manchester; sisters, Susan Frick, and her husband, Bill, of Lacey, Holly Pallino, and her husband, Larry, of Manahawkin and June Farrington, and her husband, Rick, of Beachwood; a brother Robert Hastings, New Bern, NC. He is also survived by his nephews Randall Blum and his wife Stephanie of New Milford, NJ; Sgt. David Blum and his wife Christine of Paramus, NJ and his grand-niece, their daughter, Anabelle Blum, his nephew Sean Brazill of No. Beach, NJ; and his nieces, Kathleen Maynard and her husband, Michael of Port St. Lucie, FL, Jennifer Taylor and her son Aaron Fontaine of No. Olmstead, OH.

Family and friends may call Friday, June 13th, 4 to 8 pm at the Buckley Funeral Home, 509 2nd Ave, Asbury Park, NJ. A funeral mass will be held Saturday, June 14th, 10 am at Trinity Church Asbury Park, 503 Asbury Ave, Asbury Park, NJ.

Donations can be made in Bryan's memory to the Semper Fi Fund which is a non-profit program set up to provide immediate financial assistance and lifetime support for wounded, critically ill, and injured members of the US armed forces and their families. People can donate on-line at www.semperfifund.org/donate. Condolences to the family may be expressed on our website: www.Buckleyfuneralhome.net.

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June 5, 2024

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July 4, 2014

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June 30, 2014

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Caroline Touzeau

June 5, 2024

Bryan was such a sweet guy. I think about him often and feel sad that he left this world at such a young age. He was so proud of his family. My deepest condolences to all who knew him.

Kathi Kennedy-Guido

July 4, 2014

Dear Nancy,
I was so sorry to hear of Bryan's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and John.

pooh bear

June 30, 2014

Will always love you.

Crystal Alexander

June 29, 2014

Dear Nancy and John,
I just learned of Bryan's passing two days ago. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Bryan was always very warm to my family and there for us when we needed electrical work done. He will be truly missed.
May God bless you both

Caroline Touzeau

June 27, 2014

Dear Nancy and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss and saddened by the news of Bryan's sudden passing. I have never had the honor of meeting him, but spoke with him countless times on the phone over the last 10 years. He was such an upbeat man and he spoke well and highly of his family and he was very proud of your son! I am going to miss our little weekly conversations. My condolences to Bryan's entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you and may you find comfort in God.

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June 18, 2014

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June 17, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

Heather Tapping

June 13, 2014

Nancy I am very sorry to hear this sad news. There just are no words....
Heather

Mary Pat Fischer

June 12, 2014

Nancy, Was so sorry to hear about Bryan. Remember the days when we all lived at The Presidential in Asbury Park - seems like just yesterday. Would run into Bryan periodically and always enjoyed our conversations. Will miss him as I know you and your son will.

June 11, 2014

R I P Brian
Tom Olson Smithville NJ

June 11, 2014

Nancy and John,
Utter shock is the only way I could describe the news of Bryan's passing. On behalf of the Spirito family we want to offer our deepest condolences, and will pray for you and John to be strong. He was a wonderful man, and raised an amazing son. Bryan's face would illuminate everytime he spoke about his son, his pride and joy. Nancy, if there is anything I or my husband can do for you please don't hesitate to call. Once again, our most profound sympathies. Love, Mario, Mary-Ann, Christopher and Marc

Roie Panduri

June 11, 2014

Our Friend~Our Neighbor~We have years of special memories together. Our all time favorite was New Years Eve, 1999, party at Schena's everyone in the world was waiting for the big black out. At midnight, the lights went out! We were freaked until we looked outside & everyone else had lights! Leave it to Brian to hit the breaker switch. I will miss you teasing me all the time! Believe it or not, as I type this, I hear your voice saying my name. You raised an amazing son. We are all proud of the man he has become. Rest well my friend & find Madge up there. She will take good care of you & cook you lots of (as you use to say) "I" talian food. ONE more thing!~Fiore will be at Nancy's beck & call when ever she needs him. <3

Susan Frick

June 11, 2014

Nancy & John,
I am so heartbroken that Bryan has left us but I know he will never truly leave you and John. Bryan never forgot where he came from...where we came from, I can't help but remember the cute little mischievous boy telling us a "story of what had happened to the cookies" and he would get that little smirk, and his dimple would show, and we would all laugh. He had a kind heart and was always offering any kind of help or support over the years to all of us,he spoke of his wonderful son who he was so proud of and his loving wife Nancy who gave him such happiness. I know he is catching up with Nicky,Helen & Dad who is probably saying "hey Buddy Boy Bryan,& Bryan will answer hey Dude!"

June 11, 2014

Nancy and John,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear about Bryan's sudden passing. Please know that our entire family sends you our deepest sympathies. Much Love, Shauna, Bob, Ryan and Patrick Burgess

Gary Eldridge

June 11, 2014

Nancy, I am so shocked at the news, please accept my sympathy in your time of sorrow,
John, your father was so proud of you and your accomplishments and the fine young man you've become. My thoughts are with you and your mom at this sad time.

Robin Whitney & Tommy Vignola

June 11, 2014

Nancy & John - Bryan was a good man whose company we didn't have often enough. Deepest sympathies for your loss. Our prayers are with the entire Stewart/McCarthy family.

June 11, 2014

Nancy and John, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. What a great man. You are in my prayers, Billy McKeon

Debbie Abrams

June 10, 2014

Nancy-my heart aches for you and John so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and love! Love Debbie

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