Bryce Kupchella

Mr. BC will never be forgotten. I think of him very often and the suffering his family endures. Know you are in my prayers. Sister Agnes Cousins

Bryce...Well I've tried to post three times now so hopefully this one works! We love you so much Bryce and there is a large hole where only you can fit. We take heart knowing that you are watching over us and that we will see you again soon. We miss you so much, but know that you are putting in a good word for us. I can't believe the amazing outpouring of love, support and kindness by all those who loved you and whose lives you touched. I don't think that we will ever understand this and we will always miss your amazing smile and loving hugs, but until we see you again know that we will always miss you and that we will always love you!
Alena & Matt (your big sis and your brother-in-law and friend)

To our son Bryce,
It is with much sorrow that we are writing this letter. If only you could know how very, very much we miss you. If only you could have stepped back and talked to us, we would have moved heaven and earth to help you in any way we could. What you felt was unacceptable was only a minor problem in the scheme of things. Please know that we are so proud of what you accomplished in the 20 years you were here. What we will miss is how much more you could have done and we will never know your children. You would have been an amazing elementary teacher or an awesome officer in our United States Army. You touched so many lives. We know you saw how many people came to see you at the funeral home, at the funeral, and at the Military Memorial. Everybody loved you and appreciated you. Whether is was making class interesting, being a great lab partner, helping people study for exams, encouraging people, being a coach (flag football at IUP, powder puff games). Bryce, you touched so many lives, but you had so much more living to do. We so looked forward to see in what direction you were going on any particular day. We wonder what your experience in Mexico would be like, your semester abroad; you had such an interesting future ahead of you. We miss you and will forever miss you. Your leaving has changed our lives forever.
Until we see you in heaven....we love you.
Mom and Dad

To: Everyone and My Family
I lost my brother and my best friend. Bryce and I had so many fun times together, too many to even write down. I loved Bryce not only because he was my brother but because we were so close. So many people have told me how he would talk about me to them about what i can do in cheerleading and how proud he was of me cecause i was a cheerleader. I was also very proud of him. He was so brave and courageous and if he wanted something, and i mean anything, he would work hard to get it. He had so many things that were amazing about him that i cant even write them all down.

To: Bryce
I love you! And I'm going to miss you forever. Everything that I do I will always think how much you would love to do also. Nothing will ever be the same again. Like the beach, and family gatherings, and when we go to Disney for Turners. Again, I love you Bryce and i always will. Goodbye for now till i see you again in heaven with everyone who we love who has gone before us and also with the Lord our God!

The days will always be brighter because you existed,
The nights will always be darker because you're gone,
And no matter what they say about time healing all wounds, there is some pain that will never go away....not until the heart stops beating and the last breath is taken.

You are missed Bryce. I know I'll see you again....

Dear "Brycie"

It's been over a month now
since you passed away
We still can't believe
you left us that way
You were to young to die
with a lifetime to live
So much to share
So much to give

We'll treasure every memory
We made through the years
Happy times, Family times
Fun at the Beach
You'll be with us in Spirit
But still out of reach

You were always Kind
Caring Fun-Loving and free
You learned at a young age
what others never see
For some it takes a lifetime
and some will never know
It's your love - So unconditional
For Family, Your Friend, for everyone you knew

It was as though you could see
into each person's soul
Always seeing the good
Never the bad
You knew what to do
to make their hearts glad
You cared for them all
You left no one out
You left us a legacy
We can't live without

We're asking all who knew you
To pass your Love on
Give a Hug, share a smile
A kind word, to show them you care
This world will shine much brighter
with more happiness than tears.

We can't say Good-bye
But "until we meet again"
You'll be in our prayers, our hearts, and always in our thoughts

Cuz Brycie, You're too Beautiful to forget. Thanks for loving us!

We'll Love and Miss you Forever and Always!

Aunt Angie, Uncle Dan, Cousins Chris and Jordan

Dear Patty, John, Alena, Matt, Josh, Mallory, and Devon,

We have read all of the beautiful tributes written about Bryce; we have tried numerous of times to tell you about our memories of our dear Bryce. When we try to write, we feel total emptiness and no words come to us. How can we explain the depth of our love for him and how deeply he is missed? His death has left a deep hole in our hearts – a hole that we will always have.

Since Jerry and Bryce shared the same birthday, we always felt a special bond with him. We remember the summer we hired Bryce to help paint our home. We would come home from work and see Bryce’s smiling face. He’d be painting while listening and singing to the 80’s music on the radio. We remember Bryce and Josh tossing Nolan and Bridget in your swimming pool. We can still hear their giggles of delight. We remember him always running behind Heather, Brian, Alena, and Josh as they played tag in the yard. We remember his beautiful smile, his warm hugs and the total kindness that marked his every move.

In the morning when we wake, we love to look at the stars in the morning sky. As we look at it we think of Bryce, Bert and Michael and all who have gone before us. Sometimes, if the moon is still shinning, we picture all of them as moon beams shinning in our back yard. They guide us not only through the dark of night, but also through the early dawn. We can’t hold a “moon beam” in our hand, but we can hold “them” in our hearts. There is a line from a beautiful Irish Blessing that runs through our minds as we look at the sky. It goes, “May God hold you in the palm of His hand until we meet again.” We love and miss you, Bryce. We wish you a good journey.

Patty, John, Alena, Matt, Josh, Mallory, and Devon - we love you and share your pain. We pray God will give you and all of us the strength we need to continue our healing.

Love,
Jerry and Susie Huber

Wow!! That is all I can say after reading the previous entries. Bryce was not only my cousin, but a friend. Bryce was kind, loving and thoughtful to you whether you were a friend or family. He could always make you laugh or have a great conversation.

One story I remember about the kindness of Bryce: 10 years ago, I was in visiting from Alaska. Uncle John had gotten 4 tickets to the opening game for the Steelers. Bryce knew I was heading back to Alaska a few days later and offered his ticket to me for the game. He told me that I was so far away and wouldn't have the opportunity to go again like he would. Bryce was only 10 years old then, but he was always thinking of others.

Bryce, the world is an empty place without you. You touched so many lives by being the genuine person that you were. You will be missed by us all.

We love you!!

Brian and Cindy Huber

Bryce leaves a wound that will never quite heal. We must accept our loss. We become the light for those who mourn and grieve. We are the beacon of hope for Pat and John, and their children and families.
Bryce was my cousin, and cousins mean a lot. You can count them aplenty in our house. Each is dear and unique. Bryce was the smiling, fun one, the one to lend a hand to the adults or spend hours playing with the smaller children; giving them rides, playing in the pool, teaching them a new sport. The Kupchella house--always filled with great times, love and compassion for all people and things.
Remembrances of days gone by, Bryce with his Payne Stewart knickers at a family reunion, or the first time we went to Disney and all the boys got Ninja masks. Or the last time I saw Bryce, at the beach, helping as if he were the overseer of the house. I enjoyed talking to him about his career opportunities, both in military intel and becoming a teacher. What a fine, handsome gentleman he had become.
Bryce, I know you are alive with the angels and looking down upon us all. Thank you for the years we had. We miss you deeply and will love you for a lifetime. Love, Karen, Glynn, Ryan and Brad

I don't know where to start. Bryce was one of the most important people in my life. He was apart of every plan i had for the rest of my life. He was going to be my best man, he would have been the godfather to my first child, we were even going to get retirement property together at a lake somewhere. He's everything I ever wanted to be! There are way to many momories, and every one I can Remember he has this huge grin on his face. He was a lot more than a cousin to me, he was my best friend and my brother! He took a large part of me with him when he left us. I can't wait to hang out with him again when my time on this earth is done. He touched so many people, and made such a difference in this world in such a short time. I only hope I can make a difference like he did. I loved Bryce with all my heart! There will never be a moment that goes by when I'm not thinking about him! I miss you Bryce!

To All Who loved Bryce!
Today it's been 1 month since I lost one of "My Kids" -my nephew and godson Brycey Mycey--a child of my heart and soul---a child I could not have loved more if I'd birthed him myself--
If I could talk to him one more time--this is part of what I would say--
Bryce, my Bryce,I have had the whole range of feelings since you left-anger,denial,frustration,guilt,fear, emptiness,loss and especially overwhelming sadness. there was so much left for you to do and experience...I told everyone at your funeral that I wanted their memory of you in their life--It could be the comedy of the year!! You did reach your goal of being a teacher!!Just read all the entries here and in the memory books from the funeral and you'll see how much you touched peoples lives and how much you taught each and every one about life and love. And you know what?? When you impact people the way you did--YOU BRYCE-- it doesn't stop--it's a ripple effect that lasts for generations, maybe even eternity---people talk, people share truths, they share lessons, they share value systems, and life lessons learned by "significant emotional events" in their lives and they tell their children, their children's children and it goes on and on---YOU go on and on!
You will live on and on in more ways than we could possibly know in 3 days..You knew how to make people feel like they were the most important person in the world--you had the ability to play on the floor with babies and a few minutes later be giving the elderly the respect they deserved--you asked questions and learned from everyone and then you taught it back! You taught us how to take life lightly and laugh--you never gave up the child with in you and you experienced the whole world with childlike wonder, curiosity and creativity---you lived the moment and enjoyed it all--you believed in people and helped them to believe in themselves---you knew how to put yourself in other's shoes and taught empathy.
In other words--you taught us how to make our "dash" count!
But most of all you knew how to love unconditionally--so maybe that's why you had to leave us so soon..I believe unconditional love is the one main lesson we are all here to learn..and you did..
When I think with my soul I know we'll be together again and I'll be able to touch your hair (whatever the style!) and hug and kiss you---but for now I'm still thinking with my human heart and it's broken--it's full of holes--it's swiss cheese--it hurts to breathe and I can't shake off the heavy coat of sadness and grief. I have to hold onto the fact that you were here for a reason--to be a great teacher!
As your aunt and godmother I am so proud--PROUD- to have known and loved you and had your love in return. I am so very GRATEFUL to God for giving you to us even for a little while. Fortunately and unfortunately the more we love-the more we hurt and the greater the pain in the loss but I will take the pain for the rest of my life as your gift to me--it means we loved and still love each other. Sharing your life has been a wonderful journey, Bryce--one I will treasure for the rest of my life and I hope that we can all smile when we are reminded of you everywhere--the beach will never be the same--
I promise you that your life and the lessons you taught me will help me to make a positive impact on the world and help people like you did---it is YOUR legacy, my Brycey---you will live on!!
I love you through eternity--until we meet again! Love & Peace, Aunt Bernie (& Uncle Rick too)

Bryce didn't hide his light. He let it shine.
He made a difference in people's lives.
The world is better because he was here.

Bryce is a reflection of his family.
Bryce cared deeply about people because he came from a family that cares about others.
Bryce shared with others because he came from a generous family.He opened his heart to help others. I can imagine what a wonderful elementary teacher he would have been.
Bryce loved deeply because he came from a family that loves each other. Love can’t be conquered or diminished by death. Love goes on because LOVE IS.

But Bryce was also his own unique light.
He had the ability to make others laugh. You couldn’t help but have your spirits lifted just by being around him and his antics—I can imagine a smile on God’s face as Bryce models his Bagger Vance outfit for Him.

Bryce had a great enthusiasm for life and enjoyed everything.

Remembering Bryce reminds us to have fun in life and to help others.

He had a great impact on our family—our kids and we always enjoyed being around him.

We will miss Bryce and the many sparks of light he brought to the world.

God bless you all.

Love---Tim and Marge Kasper

A month has gone by and I still can't believe it. I keep thinking back and I can't seem to make up my mind....

It seems like just yesterday I was sitting in front of Bryce in English class going on and on about Oedipus. When we would sit there and make random jokes about anything and everything. He would always cheer me up and it was rare that I actually had to return the favor. I can remember sitting in class freshman year and hearing the name Bryce Kupchella and thinking "who is that?" Now almost all the greatest memories I have of those 4 years involve him in some way or another.

Other days it really does feel like it was almost 2 years since we graduated. Sad, but true. It seems like forever since those things happened.

Between drama, classes, and just randomly talking there are so many memories that I can't even begin to write down.

And I know that some things will never be the same. Like I can't stand to hear the tube thing that he and Timmy used to have so much fun making the noise for (if you were in my class you know what I'm talking about). Or even the nicknames that he, Timmy, and Jeremy starded using for me. I'll never forget him.

Rest in Peace Bryce
<3 Jeggs

The poem titled, "To an Athlete Dying Young" by A.E. Housman, 1924, is considered a classic and surely applies to Bryce. It is found in the book, "A Shropshire Lad."

Dear Kupchella Family,

We will always think of Bryce with a smile because every time we saw him, that’s what he was doing. Always a smile and a hug and an easy conversation— a true joy to be around. Our children will always think of Bryce as the very energetic “chair” at Josh and Mallory’s wedding who wore a jedi robe at the family reunion…

We will also think of Bryce with a deep sense of loss and sadness, not only missing him and knowing how very desperately you are missing him, but also thinking what could have been. But we know that the love and kindness and compassion that Bryce so genuinely gave to those he knew and to those he would have known will live on. Although the world has lost his physical presence, the light and love of his spirit and energy continues in each and every life that he touched. And it is through those lives that he will continue to make a difference in this world.

Bryce will always be sadly missed, but he will live forever in our
hearts and minds because, as Emma and Nathan so eloquently said, “He’s kind of hard to forget…!”

Our thoughts and prayers will be with you all, now and always.
We love you.

Love,
Christy, David, Emma, Nathan and Olivia

Dear Aunt Patty, Johnny Paul, Alena, Josh, Devon, Matt, and Mallory,

We know that you take comfort in knowing that Bryce has gone to a better place, and is able to join those in your family who have gone before him.

May the Lord shower blessings of peace and strength on all of you, just as you all and Bryce have always blessed those around you with your presence. We also hope you take comfort in knowing that Bryce made the most of the time he had. We should all be so lucky to have lived such a genuine life. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and that you are surrounded by love.

May peace always be with you,

Dan and Nikki

Bryce was always someone you could turn to if you needed a smile. I'll never forget how determined, talented, and hard working Bryce was on the football. That is where I spent most of my time with Bryce, and he never once gave anything less than his all. I feel honored to be able to have known Bryce and to have called him a friend. He was a dear friend to my sister Gracie, and I know she will always cherish him in her heart. For the entire Kupchella family I express my deepest condolences. Bryce had an impact on every life he touched, and I know he will forever hold a special place in my heart. God bless all of you.

Prayer, faith and family are three things that help us through the trials of life. Prayers. May you know that you have the heartfelt prayers of so many people. And never forget the importance of prayer in your lives. It gives you the power to overcome anything. Along with faith. Seldom does a family show more faith than yours has. May you find comfort in your faith. And may you find comfort in your family as well.

Family. Your family has a strong character and a unique closenes that is becoming scarce these days. The strong and loving bond is evident in your children. The love for each other, everyone else and the happiness and joy found in life. Bryce too, showed these characteristics. It is shown in these testaments. He touched so many lives, brought laughter and smiles to everyone around.

I, for one, will never forget his fun and interesting stories that rang through the various family get-togethers. And his smiles he regularly gave everyone. Maybe a little bit of the Szekeresh picking rubbed off on him too...but regardless, Bryce always lightened up the room. It was equally fun to see him around campus or in the Co-op store for more random stories and smiles....I was so excited when he started to play ultimate frisbee. It was a nice change to have some more Szekeresh on the team. Although I was a little surprised when, on the first day he tackled one of our best players. “That’s not allowed, Bryce. It’s a noncontact sport,” I said. “What?!? Aww, man...okay.” All of the team liked him too. And he quickly picked up the sport. Niether surprising at all.

Regardless of what he did, Bryce put his passion and heart into it, along the way carrying a unique light that only Bryce could illuminate.

May you take pride in all his accomplishments and know he is still changing all of our lives. I want you to know, that although I have been far away during this time, my thoughts have always been with you.

Remember, love is eternal and prayers are with you forever.

I knew Bryce through the ATOMS program that was at BVHS during the summers when we were younger. I also got to hang out with him a few times during the summer when he was at his grandpap's house because he lived right up the street from me. Bryce was an amazingly funny kid who could put a smile on everyone's face. He was a kid that was able to touch the lives of so many people even by just talking to them for a few minutes. Bryce will be missed greatly and he will never be forgotten. *God Bless the Kupchella Family*

Kupchella Family,
These postings are a testament of how Bryce lived his life. He was a very loving & caring young man. There wasn't a person that he met that was not his instant friend. He put everyone before himself. "Infectious" is the one word that describes him the best. When he walked into the room, he brought the sunlight with him. He was always good for a laugh. We can still see Bryce & Sean running down the streets with the sponge cowboy hats & glasses. Our neighbors all knew Bryce by the time he traveled back home. We will miss our Bryce Miester tremendously.
Please know that we are & will always be here for you as you are for us.
Much Love, The Szekeresh Fam.
Colleen, Kelly, Sean & Jared

There is no place to begin with this entry. There are so many stories and memories of Bryce that if we wrote them all, we would fill this entire guest book. We miss Bryce more and more each day. He touched both of our lives in ways that are unexplainable. There is not going to be one day, one holiday, or one moment of our lives that he will not be in our thoughts. This just does not seem like it is real. The thought of Bryce actually being gone is something we never thought we would be dealing with this early in our lives. We wish he would have had the opportunity to be the teacher and army officer that he wanted to be. Bryce’s dreams were huge, and we are positive he would have accomplished each and every one of them. Now, as his family, all we can do is be strong for each other. There is definitely a huge hole in our lives without Bryce; a hole that will NEVER be filled. We wish he could have been an uncle to our children one day. I don't think there is anything that will be harder for us to face in our lives than losing him. Bryce was our brother, our best friend, our roommate, our constant source of laughter and smiles, the best man at our wedding, and above all our inspiration to do things with as much determination, drive, and love as he did. Bryce touched so many people in his short time on Earth. We only hope we can love, inspire, and teach as many as he did in our entire lives. We love Bryce and we will NEVER completely recover from this. We will never forget him and what a special role he played in our lives. Until the day we meet again, he will always be our angel.

Kupchella's,

Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you all or of a memory of Bryce. He was such an amazing person - brother, son, cousin, or friend, he was always good for a smile and a laugh, and he was something special to all of us.

This is a poem I wrote last year. I hope that it can bring some peaceful and prayerful thoughts to your heart.


God in every moment

God does not abandon us in times of need—
He is Love,
and in that Love,
He sends us beautiful signs of His ever-presence,
and the wings of everyday-angels to lift us up.
He gives us comfort in a card from a caring friend,
and strength in an uplifting surge of belief that,
“I can go on”;
He gives us prayerful moments to quiet the soul,
and faith to keep us moving along the sometimes rocky path.
And so importantly,
He gives us family and friends to cry with during moments of pain and deep sorrow,
but also to smile and laugh along with in those moments of remembrance.
God is beside us with each and every step we take—
let us take moments to pause in God’s presence,
and lean onto His ready shoulder;
and then,
let us fall into His open arms,
and find comfort and renewing strength in
His loving, Fatherly embrace.
It is then that we will find
God, the Father, in every moment.


My heart breaks as I think of the pain of your loss.

All my love,
Katherine

Thanks for being the best friend a girl could ever ask for, Pooh-bear! I'll miss you, our crazy pranks, and our weekly dates. I'll miss our plans to run away and get married in Vegas, and our future beautiful Spanish-speaking babies. It won't be as much fun to sit around and make fun of people, or play soccer in the hallway. No one could be a better France World Cup Player. Ka-Chow! Maybe I'll actually win once in a while now. No more bruises on my face from you punting the ball into it! lol. ? I'll still watch The Italian Job and other movies Wednesday nights and eat one of "our" special bags of junk food. You know, you're going to make me fat, having to eat your share. ;) I miss going out for the night and coming back and my female residents freaking out that "the cute guy stopped by again!!" haha. It made me laugh that even though I reminded them of your name, they never used it! I will never, EVER forget you, Babyface. You were one in a million. And you'll finally get your wings to be the angel in heaven that you were to me here on earth. It never gets easier, love. You're my friend, my hero, my everything. Since the day you left until the day I see you again in heaven, I'll be thinking of you always. I love you with all of my heart.

Love always,
Kristin "Pookie" Squires ?

I met Bryce this semester in Spanish. He was the life of the class. No matter how gloomy the day had begun to be, when Bryce walked in he brightened up the room and your life. He would sit there and sing along to the songs (in spanish) that our professor plays at the beginning - his favorite was "Que Hiciste?" by Jennifer Lopez. I will forever think of him when I see Cars, or a turtle, or Sol y Viento. While this has been so terrible for us all, Bryce taught me so so much in those few short months. He showed me how to make the best of things, and how to get out there and try something new. Thank you for sharing Bryce with all of us - he made the world a better place ... and I'm sure he's made Heaven all that much brighter for us to look forward to.
My heart and prayers go out to you all.

Dear Kupchellas,

I almost didn't come back to IUP for this semester, and I'm so glad I did, because if I wouldn't have, I never would have met Bryce. He was in my Spanish class, and we agreed to be partners for Spanish projects. We had a great time working on those, and discovering that we were both huge Star Wars nerds. I'm pretty sure we spent about 75% of the time talking about Star Wars/Harry Potter/Disney, and only 25% working on our Spanish. Just like a lot of people, I fell headlong into friendship with Bryce without even meaning to. Spanish was a blast because he was around. I looked forward to getting random text messages from him about the merits of Cars versus Happy Feet, and other animated movies. Plus, we had similar political and religious views, so it was always fun to talk about that as well. Basically, I love to talk, and Bryce loved to talk, and I loved and will cherish every single second I spent with him. I leave in April for the Peace Corps, but I know will take Bryce with me wherever I go. I miss him so much, but I believe I will see him again someday.

Dear Pat, John and family, Our sincere sympathy goes out to all of you. It's been a few years,and how families are so busy with their lives, but WOW, what a great son you raised! He truly touched alot of lives, and enriched so many.I remember working with Rose and loved hearing about the family vacations, school events, and holidays, supporting each other no matter what. She is so proud of them all. You are such a wonderful family and I pray that those wonerful memories will lessen your pain and help you through this most difficult time.God bless you and hold you in his arms.

Dear Kupchellas,
My deepest sympathy, words can not express how much Bryce meant to all of us. He really was the heart and soul of our class, and even in his passing he has brought us closer together. I only had the privledge of knowing him our four years spent together at Bishop Carroll, although I have so many countless memories of him. He was always there singing and skipping around the hallways. His smile was there to greet you as you went through the lunch line, and when everyone was through the line, he always had a handful of extra cookies to share. Everytime there was an opportunity to sing, or laugh or have a good time,he took it and even if the opportunity wasn't there he created one. We were involved in SADD, SAC, National Honor Society, and Anti Tobacco collition together. I'll never forget the kids faces and the respect that they had for everything that he had to say. I will always remember his smile and his laugh, he left us all too soon. Love you Bryce.xoxo.
Emily Drahnak

I knew Bryce through IUP ROTC, and I'm so lucky to have had that chance. He was always there cheering me on and pushing me harder during contract PT, and never failed to make me laugh every day I saw him. ROTC is missing a large chunk of it's heart that belongs to Bryce, and his laughter will forever echo inside those walls.
"The life that flowed inside of you, burns inside of me"

Dear Kupchella Family,

Our hearts ache daily and our souls feel empty since the loss of Bryce. He will be dearly missed always and never forgotten. He will forever be remembered with a tear and a smile when we think of him and his bright and full-of-life personality. We will never stop praying for you and send our deepest love and sympathy.

Melanie, Oliver, Griffin and Sabina Wolf

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

John,Pat,Alena,Josh and Devon:
Bryce's smile and his lovable spirit will remain in our memories.
We are all lost for words to tell you how we feel your pain.
Love you all!
Connie Dave, Julie & Leah Mercik

Dear Pat, John, Alena, Matt, Josh, Mallory and Devon:

I came away from attending the viewing and mass feeling that Bryce just didn't realize how many lives he had touched in his 20 years. It was just the way he was. What an amazing son, brother and friend! It's still so hard to believe, even weeks later.

Each day since I heard the news, I wake up and think of Bryce and say a prayer for all of you. I then think about his spirit of life and how I can bring that to my day. That is my gift to you and the spirit of Bryce.

Sometimes things happen on earth that we can't understand. This is definitely one of them. But, whatever the reason, we will always remember Bryce and his beautiful smile and lively personality and the way he lived his life.

We believe our life is better knowing all of you. Our prayers will continue for the whole Kupchella clan and we pray for your hearts to lighten each day as you remember the very bright light you named Bryce.

All our love,
Tammie and Randy Ebersole

To those close to Bryce,
I just wanted to share my sympathy with all of you. He was such a fun person and a great friend. My group of friends and I met Bryce's family while our youth group from Ferndale was staying across the street from them in the Outer Banks 6 years ago. Our trip would not have been the same without meeting Bryce, from fighting over who gets which half of the oreo to throwing Boys II Men dance parties on the deck. When we were not at the beach we would try to hang out from time to time. Although we did not get together as much as we all would have liked to, when we did it was as if we had been friends forever, and was always a great time. I loved Bryce's spontaneous humor - I remember one time specifically coming home after a long day of classes and being particularly stressed, I went to my computer and found a message from Bryce left on my instant messenger. All it said was "cowabunga dude," which really means nothing, but it reminded me of his crazy nature and the fun times we had, and put a smile on my face. I would periodically receive messages like this, always with the same reaction.
Bryce will be greatly missed. My heart goes out to all his family and friends.

I alomost thought of Bryce as my cousin; because his cousin, Mitch, is like a brother to me. Every time I saw Bryce, I knew it was going to be a good time. No matter what mood you were in, he'd change it around in a second. He was just that way, contageous, as I've heard. He'd make a mud puddle a playground, and a bull his best friend. He'll never be forgottnen, and he'll always be missed. He's touched soo many people. He would always brighten my spirit, now I believe his spirit will brighten the world.

Bryce, I'll miss you, man. Everyone will. But we all know we'll see you again someday, with that great big smile on your face saying.. "Did you bring your lightsaber? Cuz I got mine!"

Though we remember Bryce as a child - his contageous smile - it was later in his life that we got to know the wonderful young man Bryce had become.

Our time spent together as a family on our beach vacations brings the most memories... with Bryce spontaneously racing down the dunes, rolling in the sand, and running into the ocean in one non-stop motion, yelling all the way, we would look at one another, smile, and say "that's Bryce!" I think of his humor at night while we played games, how easily he could share hugs, and in his ever-willingness to help without being asked, interacting with everyone.

We'll miss him, grateful to have had the opportunity to know this compassionate, loving young man. "That's Bryce"...

Dear Kupchella Family,
We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear son and brother Bryce.He was such an incredible young man, with a great smile.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
With our deepest sympathies,
The Espe's
Scott,Chrissy, Luke, Erik and Aimee

Kupchellas-
When Josh and Mallory started dating and Josh was around more and more, his little brother started coming around more and more. And it went from Bryce coming over to visit every now and then to Bryce moving in and what a blessing that was. Bryce brought so much joy and happiness to the apt. of 400 Malibu Drive. There wasn't a conversation I had with Bryce where I wasn't laughing. He was a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen no matter what, no matter when. I feel like I became a part of your family through Josh and Bryce, always welcome and always excited to see the whole Kupchella family. Bryce was an inspiration to all. He was always the smiling face I'd see first thing in the morning...no matter what time it was..which was usually pretty early! He always got my day started off with a smile. I have countless Bryce stories I wish there was enough room to share them all! None of those stories are dull!! Bryce always brought lots of excitement to my life. I will continue to miss and think about him everyday of my life. Bryce and the rest of the Kupchella family will be in my thoughts and prayers always and forever. Bryce truly was an extraordinary person and you should be proud of that.

Love you all!

To all of Bryce's family,
I am lucky to have been part of your family for a little over a year.

My friends and I were immediately attracted to Bryce's personality his freshman year when we did "Godspell". It was apparent right away that he was confident and loving. Bryce would make even the shyest people feel like a part of the group. He had a talent for making people feel good. That was also the time when he introduced me to family guy, honeybuns and the phrase “alright, giggity, giggity”

I remember the first time I came to your house and I feel down your stairs. Most people would have laughed, but Bryce just picked me up and dusted me off. That is what he has been his whole life, a pick me up for people who needed him.

And of course I will always have the memory of “Hello Muddah, Hello Faddah”. He is the only guy I know that wouldn’t be embarrassed to dress in an oversized onesie and thick black glasses. Not surprisingly, he was the star of the show.

I am consoled by the fact that he lived his life to the fullest and put 100% into everything he did. He will make a great angel for all of us. You are a wonderful family and will certainly always be in my thoughts.
Love Always,
Sarah

Kupchella Family,

I work in the Bursar's Office at IUP and Bryce was one of my ROTC Cadets that I work with. I never had the chance to meet Bryce, however after attending the memorial service with a few other IUP employees I felt like I knew him forever. From working with our Military students here at IUP, they have each become apart of my life in a special way. Our Military students come by my office everyday and that is what brighten's my day. If you ever need anything, please contact me. God be with all of you during this time. You will all be kept in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear KUPCHELLAS'...

We have witnessed the infinite ways Bryce has touched so many people in a positive way here on earth just by reading the responses in this guest book!! We want you to know that he was a best friend to OUR DAUGHTER Lauren!! She has countless funny Bryce stories and will always remember him as will we..And from the movie "It's a Wonderful Life"...the little girl says "Every time a bell rings an angel gets its wings!!!" GOD BLESS The Adamses

Kupchella Family,
I met Bryce at IUP our freshman year. With him going to BC and me being a short trip away at Richland, I am sad that I didn't meet him sooner. However in the year and a half that we were able to know each other, he gave me so many memories to hold on to. I have never met anyone so charismatic about life. He really taught me how to be a better person. He was the cool kid who never tried to change to be someone he wasn't. Know that you all did a great job making him the person he was. You are all in my prayers.

Kupchellas, it's Allie Daniels here. I want to let you know that you are all in my prayers. Bryce was the epitome of an amazing person. I always admired him. I know you made him what he was, and you should be proud. I just thought I'd share a song I wrote for him a few years back. He even wrote a rapping part to it to spice it up for me. He was incredible. I love you all and hope to see you soon.

He's Pennsylvania nice,
May the force be on his side.
He's kick butt fun and he's the one
who makes it worth the long long ride.

He's my bodyguard,
Bubble Tape makes him crazy.
His football skills could give you chills.
He's goofy but he sure ain't lazy.

And his, manhunt.
And his, accent.
Lightsaber wars he'll win.
Plus he's so smart and well rounded.
Keep doin "That Thing You Do"
Cuz you're my favorite cousin.

He was never afriad to be just as silly as me. He will be missed.

I love you guys, and you are in my constant thoughts and prayers.

Rest in Peace

Dear, dear Kupchella family,

Bryce was one of my favorite people in this world. He could make me laugh even when I wanted to yell. He could make me smile when I wanted to cry. Mostly, he could make everyone else in the room happy just by being there. He was an extraordinary guy. What a ray of sunshine. He was, in fact, the first person I would see every morning during this past summer. We liked to work out together (aka run and do crunches while watching CMT videos). He and I swam together up until his last week...I will never forget him pushing me to continue on. "Dos minutos!" he would say! Yes, he spoke to us in Spanish quite often. He spoke it well. He would even send text messages in Espanol. Oh wow, he was amazing. I was so envious that I never had his motivation, or his energy. He put 1000% into everything, and, because he was Bryce, he never boasted about it either. I like to call him B Kup. He was my buddy, my friend, my roommate, and my brother. When Josh and Mal were married, I couldn't help but feel like I was marrying into your family as well. I love every single one of you just as much as I loved Brycey. I loved walking downstairs into his room and feeling like I walked into a daycare. I loved singing Disney tunes with him at the top of our lungs as we were cruising in my Jeep. I loved eating Papa Johns pizza with him because he knew it was my favorite. I loved talking about becoming a teacher with him. He always reminded me of why I became a teacher. I loved running downstairs and saying, "Bryce, does this outfit look ok? And what should I do with my hair?!" when none of my girl roommates were home...because I knew he would be honest, and that he had great taste. Oh I could go on for hours! I loved going to the Kupchella house and knowing that Bryce would find you, hug you, and make you feel oh so comfortable. I loved hearing him tell stories. His dramatic approach to everything made him so special. I now love Hannah Montana because of Bryce. I loved hearing him laugh with one of his friends as they sat on the couch and read comic books together. I loved having him at our house for parties because he and I would always end up finding each other and become attached at the hip. I loved seeing him asleep on the couch so that I could wake him and say "Bryce, you should go to bed".

Most importantly, I loved refering to Bryce as "blood". I couldn't explain it any better. He was a part of me, a part of all of us. He was an angel on Earth and now he is an angel in Heaven. And unfortunately, the last time I saw him sleeping, I couldn't just go up and say "Bryce, wake up and go to bed sillyhead". I have cried more than I have ever cried before. It hurts my heart everytime I think about him.

Kupchellas, I love you all...this world is such a brighter place because of Bryce. And he wouldn't have been half the person that he was if it weren't for his beautiful family. May God continue to bless. And, without a doubt, you will be in my prayers forever.

"BJK"
-my support; my strength; my hero

With love and deepest sympathy...

Kupchella Family,
I just want to begin by telling you how deeply sorry I am to hear about your loss. When Bryce passed away I heard someone say that the world would be less brighter now that he is gone and I think that truly exemplifies Bryce and the thousands of lives he has touched. It was always nice to see Bryce on campus and talk to him. Whether it be for 5 minutes or a half hour, he never failed to bring a smile to my face. You deserve to be commended for raising such a wonderful son, brother, friend, classmate, - - just an overall amazing person in general. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time.

Love always,
Anne Popovich

Dear Josh & Mal and the Kupchella family,
I only had the pleasure of meeting Bryce a few times and he always seemed very chipper and pleasant, however I've been good friends with Josh and Mallory for about 3-4 years through IUP/ROTC/National Guard and love them dearly. Josh and I are LT's together in the 252nd EN CO and our drill in October was the same time as Ranger Challenge. We drove all around the Gap tracking down the team so Josh could get a picture with his beloved younger brother he said his mom wanted...we found them on their way to the 1 rope bridge and I'm so glad that we did. I'm very sorry for your loss. We all wonder what words can be said to take away your sorrows and we all wish we could help you heal faster but we know only time will help.

May you find strength in one another to get through this.

Respectfully,

People have asked me if I was "close" to Bryce. It's a strange question to have to answer. We're second cousins -- once removed -- but yeah -- in a family such as ours EVERYONE is close. I saw him mostly in family reunion settings up until we moved here three years ago. Since then I've seen him at high school events and other gatherings -- never have I known anyone so outgoing and friendly. Bryce was always ready with a hug and a "How are you?!" -- always ready to talk to the younger kids or the ones who were shy and to pull them into the center of the chaos that is life in a large, wonderful extended family. I personally appreciated the fact that he befriended my sons at a time in their lives that they were new to the area -- or new to the university. He made everyone love him.

Bryce -- it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do to tell Cory what happened. He was devastated. And then to tell Kyle who didn't really know you nearly as well. But we all are close -- you are family. You are loved and always will be.

JP, Pat, Alena, Josh and Devon -- you guys are all amazing. The poise that you had at the funeral -- I was most impressed. The faith you have is contagious. I'll keep praying for all of you that you continue your healing. The memories of Bryce make me smile all the time ... I'm sure they do the same for you. That was apparent at the funeral.

Take care ... I love you all.

to my Brycee
I sit here and look at your picture and still can't believe it so many things go through my head... Not Bryce.. is the biggest one so many people have said that.. you were the light of the world to so many people thousands to be exact. I don't even know that many people..Wow! you touched so many peoples lives. I am sure you know that now, I'm sure you saw that looking down from heaven... Some little things about Brycee, I loved you even before you were born I was visiting you great grandma Kupchella with your mom and dad and sister Alena and brother Josh you were still inside your Mom Josh was running around in the small house and I said to grandma what do you think? Is Josh just like Johnny Paul? She shook her head in her quiet way with a smile and said no he looks like his dad but this one (she pointed to your moms belly and said he will be like his dad..) Well no truer words were spoken. You came out and I swear hit the ground running, From the first time I saw you with that great big smile to the sunglasses when you were a baby and how could we not mention the BINK-Y mom as you would say.. You never stopped chewing on things even your army men, when you were in high school. I can still see you running on the beach showing grandma (minga) how you could run she would say your little legs moved so fast she couldn't see them.. You would flash her you great smile she would say you warmed her heart. Have to mention one word here Chicken Pox!! You were a joy at every age, We were so proud of you being a altar boy.. I will never forget you singing in the bathroom.. We always knew you would do professional singing of some sort and you did that so well all the Plays and Musicals you were in we all beamed with pride. We can't forget to mention all the football and tee ball games you were in you were the STAR !!! Disney will never be the same.. Just this past March you getting the toy Cars from the movie Cars and running them through the airport!! You always had time to help people never hesitating always wanted to help, even at our easter egg hunts you would help others find there eggs first before youself, we had so much fun didn't we.. Your academics were outstanding you in all your work over load would take time out to help others You were my son Mitchell's mentor best friend and confidant.. He misses you so.. as we all do. Another time that sticks in my head is when you camp out in front of the movie theater for days to get the first tickets to see the star wars movie, your wonderful jedi costume that your mother stayed up to make you(Mitchell and Timmy too) light saber battles, all the birthdays.. all the christmases playing santa claus walking up and down the street with Mitchell ringing the bell saying ho ho Merry Christmas... Then you went to college and still made time with a SMILE to help so many people I will never forget the last time you came here for Mitchell's birthday you had been with the cadets (rotc)it was already dark (sept30-07)You came bursting through the door with you fatigues on and all camo face and tried to rub it on you sister (Devon) with a big smile!! I think everyone got a rub of that cheek that day.. At your brother Josh and Mallory's wedding (sept1 -07) you gave the bestman speech because you were the bestman!!. You said Josh was your hero so many times well I know you were his... You meant so much to soooo many people. A part of us also died the day you left us.. But I know we will always see that smiling face when we need to.. if only in our hearts... I could go on and on with Bryce stories there are so many... We love you and will miss you.. till we meet again my dear Brycee All our love forever Aunt Rose (your fairy godmother) Uncle Rick and your loving cousin MItchell

Kupchella Family & Bryce,
As many have pointed out, Bryce brightened the lives of everyone he met. He was the kind of person you could have been out of touch with for a year, but knew you could call if you were having trouble.

Speaking for our entire family, Bryce was a huge part of our lives. From him wearing his winter boots all summer long as a kid to spending Christmas mornings together, not one memory will be forgotten. When attending family parties, Bryce was the one to be sure to ease any awkwardness.

We are still in complete disbelief, but know he is looking over us from Heaven. Bryce changed all of our lives permenantly, for the better. He taught us to love every day, good or bad; and to appreciate the little things in life like the love for family and friends. We miss him greatly, but memories will always warm our hearts and bring smiles to our faces.

We love and miss you more than you know, Bryce.- you aren't just a neighbor and a friend to us; you are a son and brother.

Know we are here for you and would do anything to ease your grief.

We Love You!

Well, it's been two weeks and I've not quite figured out what hasn't been said of Bryce in this short amount of time. He was a remarkable person; one-of-a-kind; truly unique and irreplacable. Bryce was his own self and cannot be compared to anyone else n earth. He was such a positive person who loved life every day; I never saw him sad or upset. He was always laughing at something in his unforgettable laugh. He was always at the lunch line with the trays, ready to greet all who passed with his distinct smile - also, he always had something to say as you passed. He was always having a good time; making people laugh. He was such an involved person with every aspect of school and sports and various other activites - he was the life of any party. There are truly an infinite number of adjectives that could describe his personality and the life he lived. I am glad that I had the privelege of calling him a close friend and for having had him as a fellow classmate at Bishop Carroll. He truly was a keystone to our class as a whole - a remarkable presence in our class. No one will ever know what he could have achieved, but I am sure that it would have been great. He loved so many people and cared for everyone he met. Countless people will grieve his passing and look forward to the day when they'll be able to see his smiling face again. I know I will remember him all the days of my life and will never forget the good times I had with him and all of the happiness he brought to my life and the lives of so many more. I know that he is in Heaven with God looking down over us and protecting us. He is still with us and is a part of our lives and memories. All we can do is live good lives, ones that Bryce would be proud of and never forget how fragile life really is. unfortunately, he left us all way too prematurely. We should all charish the times we had with him. He will be severely missed.
I miss you Bryce and I will never forget you. You had a tremendous impact on my life, which I am forever grateful.

Love, Jeremy (Germ), or as Bryce called me, "JP-18-BigDogz-Bite-Hands-Off-TheMerchandise..."
-Don't ask me how he came up with that, but it is just another classic example of Bryce's personality and his absolute randomness.

bryce was a amazing person and i learned so much from him, he was always laughing and hard working in class. he really was a great person and this is a terrible lose.

I went to IUP with Bryce. He was one of the few friends I had at school.
He was my physics lab partner last year. And believe it when I say
that, we had a blast! He was so much fun and so intelligent. We would
sing and laugh our way through presentations and labs. People thought we were crazy! And we got an A! I would stop to see him regularly at the Co-op store and he would always brighten my day!. I saw him for the first time this semester on thursday morning at the hub computer lab. I was so happy to see him and get the chance to catch up on things. I am so thankful I got to see him and talk to him. Bryce radiated happiness, kindness, unselfishness and so many other nesses. He was a shining
light. As I continue in my studies to become a teacher, my memories of
Bryce will help push me during trying times. He was such an amazing
man. I will miss him and always try to smile at the thought of him,
like I am now.

To the Kupchella Family,
A week has gone by that seems like an eternity. Bryce was one of my favorite, fearless actors who would do anything for a production. Be assured his spirit will live on, on the BC stage. You will always be in our prayers.
St. Genesius, patron saint of actors, watch over Bryce as he joins you in heaven

Dear Kupchella Family!!
"Spirit in the Sky"

We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers....The Adamses

Johnny Paul, Patty, Bernie, Rose, and all of your family: I was out of town last week and couldn't come over to see you to express my deepest sympathy to all of you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kupchella Family,
Our hearts go out to you during this most difficult time of mourning. May your find peace and comfort in knowing that God has a perfect plan for each of us.
In Deepest Sympathy,

our hearts are broken we will never be the same... Your love for all and helping hand, being a tutor a mentor a friend but most of all a loving nephew and godson till we meet again my sweet sweet bryce We love you Aunt rose Uncle rick and your loving cousin Mitchell

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

I am deeply sorry for your loss of Bryce. It is amazing how much he accomplished and how many lives he touched. My thoughts and prayers to you all.

So sorry to hear about your son, we lost our 16yr old son about 3 wks before your loss - thinking or you. "God Bless"

To The Family Of Bryce Kupchella:
Please accept our sincere condolenses on the loss of your son. He was an extraordinary young man who was loved by so many. God must have needed a very special angel in heavan. Be comforted knowing Bryce touched everyone he met. Our prayers are with you all. The Ashley Rake Family.

I only had the privilege knowing Bryce throughout high school but he was someone I could never forget. Bryce had a contagious smile and every time I saw his smiling face I couldn't help but smile also. He always made the day better by just being his cheerful and kind self. I will never forget the amazing person that he was and know that he will always be missed.

To The Kupchella Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I barely knew Bryce but found him to be a Great guy who was always smiling and that is how I will remember him. I am truly sorry for your loss. Your family is my thoughts and prayers. May God help you through this difficult time.

Dear John, Patty & Family,
We are so very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. You have our deepest sympathy.

Tony & Loretta Hugar (Dayton, OH)

Bryce will always be our special Santa Claus. I know he will be looking down on us this Christmas Eve. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love , Patti

Dear Kupchella Family,
I am deeply sorry for the lost of Bryce. Everywhere he went he either had friends or he made new ones. I went to school with Bryce starting our junior year at BC. My most memorable moment that I had with him was that year when I was playing basketball, I had made a shot and I heard this guy saying, "She's in my english class!" It still makes me laugh to this day. We went to ODO together and had the greatest time going white water rafting. I will forever keep your family in my prayers.May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Bryce,
You have touched so many lives in such a little time. You were a great person and you always kept everyone smiling. Keep en eye on everyone while you are up there.
Miss you terribly.
Amanda

Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. May God grant each of you peace and comfort at this difficult time.

John, Pat, Alena & Matt, Josh & Mallory, and Devon,

My heart goes out to you all and your family. Bryce was an amazing person and he touched so many people's lives. May your memories bring you comfort. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

My deepest sympathies,
Amy Koren

Dear Kupchella Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss
I met Bryce about 3 years ago through Outdoor Odyssey and he changed my life forever. He was the most amazing person i have ever met. He was always smiling and going out of his way to help others. He is part of the reason I am going to school to be a teacher he was a great person who inspired others to do great things. And some day when I become a teacher I hope that I can inspire people the way he did. He touched my family in such a huge way in such short period of time when I brought him home to meet my parents for the first time they fell in love with him. He was a great person and I love him and miss him dearly
Your family is in my prayers
God Bless

I will never forget drama with Bryce all four years of high school. He always made it a fun experience for everyone involved. I will never forget my "I Can't Dance" partner. He left me with so many memories that I just have to smile when I think of all of those musicals. He will be greatly missed, but I promise your family that I will be the best teacher I can be, with Bryce as my inspiration.

John, Pat, Alena, Josh and Devon,
I cannot even begin to express how sorry I am for your loss. Bryce was hands down one of the most amazing people I have ever met in my life. I am truly blessed to have known him and been able to call him my friend. My deepest condolences and prayers go out to you in your time of despair. His smile, energy and passion for life will be deeply missed.
All my love.

Last fall I had a math class with Bryce at IUP and in the spring we both went to Philly for the Urban Seminar. I didn't get a chance to get to know Bryce too well but no matter where he went he lit up the room. He was smiling and full of life sitting in the front row at 9:30am. Bryce was always ready and willing to help anyone with anything. He had passion for everything he did in life and that showed. I remember looking at him, thinking "Wow, he's going to be a great teacher. The kids will love him!"
I am truely sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how deeply he is missed by those who loved him. I will carry his memory with me and spread his joy for life with every child I teach.

Dear Kupchella family,
I went to high school with Bryce for 3 years and he made those the best 3 years of my life. He was such a great friend and could always make everyone smile. He made my 2 years on drama stage crew a blast!! Light saber battles and singing songs with him just made it so much more fun!!
I wish I could've made it up to pay my respects in person, but you all have been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.

Dear Kupchella Family,

I met Bryce in the ATOMS program when we were about 9 years old and have loved him ever since. No matter how long we went without seeing each other, every time we reunited it felt like I'd just seen him yesterday. We would always try to coordinate our Outdoor Odyssey refreshers because we had so much fun up in those mountains; tye-dyeing shirts, challenging each other on the tower, and throwing cereal across the chow hall! I used to love the church picnic in the summer just becuase we would do dishes together while we sang and danced to Disney songs! Bryce had a smile that could warm anyone's heart and memories of him will always make me happy.

Dear Kupchella Family,
Bryce was such an amazing guy. He touched so many hearts, and he will never die in mine. He has taught me so many things about life. He was honestly just like another brother to me. He helped me threw so many hard times, and he always knew what to say to cheer me up. Just from working with him at the co-op and just going out and having fun, he ALWAYS had a smile on his face. I just want you to know that you have so many people to help your family through this hard time, and you are in my prayers.

Dear Kupchella Family,
Bryce was a good friend of mine and a fellow cadet in ROTC. He was a great guy. You have my deepest sympathy and prayers.

I when I first met Bryce, I was a little taken back by his outgoing character and that unforgetable smile that he gave to everyone. It was soon that I would grow to love this about him. He was the most genuine person I have ever met. He was the kind of guy who would give you the shirt off of his back and not think twice about it. I miss him... a lot. I miss his smile, hearing his voice... I miss my friend. My condolences and prayers go out to his family. Your son, your brother, was a dreamer, he was an inspirer, he was the best friend a person could have ever hoped for. I am so sorry for your loss.

Dear Patty, Johnny Paul and family,

My sister Karen (KT) was at my house when we learned of Bryce's death, and we were both deeply saddened by the news. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. I pray that the strength and love of your family and friends will comfort you at this time.

With deepest sympathy,

Dear Kupchella Family,
Bryce was an amazing person to my family whenever we came out for holidays. He was always nice to me and always made my brother David feel comfortable. He always was nice to David and I always saw that extra care that he would put fourth towards my brother. He was an amazing person and will never be forgotten.

the world lost an amazing person. he was the kind of person to make you laugh when you didnt even want to smile. bryce brought out the best in someone, and he will never be forgot. I LOVE YOU BRYCE & ill never forget our cheerleading talks & how we use to make wishes on 11:11

Bryce was a fellow ROTC cadet and a good friend of mine. He would always go out of his way to help other people out and will be dearly missed.
I will keep your family in my prayers.

I am soo sorry about all of this its a terrible thing to happen to such a great guy. I have so many memories with Bryce at St. Mary's and at family reunions, I will never forget his smiling face whenever he'd walk into a room. He will be missed by so many.

Dear Kupchella Family,
I am sorry for your loss, Bryce was an amazing person. He always had me laughing about something, and I'm going to miss that. I got to meet him last year and we talked now and then when we lived in the same building. He was truly an amazing guy, that will be greatly missed by a lot of people. I just wish i had the chance to know him better, but I will never forget him, and your family is in my prayers.

Bryce is a great loss to us all. He was not only a fellow ROTC cadet, but a really good friend. He would always go out of his way to help other people out. Bryce will be missed dearly.
I will keep your family in my prayers.

My deepest condolances to the Kupchella family. Losing a child is so difficult. Reading his obituary, it is evident Bryce was a remarkable young man and accomplished much in his short life time. You have much to be proud of. I knew Patty and Susie from back in the 80's when I lived in Vinco. Please know you are in my prayers.

Dear Kupchella Family,
I've only known Bryce for about a year but I can already see what it is about him that makes everyone love him so much. No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Bryce was the kind of person it is impossible to forget. He left an impression on everyone's heart he met in some way. I have been through a lot with Bryce, and he has helped me get through so much. I will never look back at all the memories we have shared without a smile. All of the Bishop Carroll days, and the amazing times we had together. Mostly I will never forget how Bryce always led me to adventure- He couldn't help but find it no matter what we were doing or where we were going. As I walked in to see you for one last time, I will never be able to forget me, you, and timmy's song being played (semi-charmed kind of life). Bryce, please see how much we all miss you and be our angel!
"You're on my heart just like a tattoo, just like a tattoo, I'll always have you" - Thanks for allowing all of us to have met and been so close with you. I'll always keep you close to my heart.

We didn't know Bryce, but we wanted to offer our deepest sympathy. Friends of Bryce's cousin Karen M. Tummino - Liann Hamerlinck and Linda K. Johnson, from McLean, VA

I'm truely sorry for your loss. Bryce was a great guy and we will miss him greatly.

Dear Kupchella Family,

I am deeply sorry for the lost that you all have suffered. There are words that I can express to show my concern. However, I do know that Bryce loved you all very much. During our two semesters together, all he talked about was his family. It was very apparent that you all were deep in his heart. I pray that God comforts you and keeps you in this time of sorrow. Take care!

Sincerely,
Mark Peterson

Bryce was a good person!
he would get along wtih anyone and do anything for anybody!!!

my thought and prayers are with his family!!!

he may be gone but he will never be forgotten

Dear Kupchella Family-
Bryce was a good friend of mine, and a fellow soldier. I was with him not only in ROTC but in the National Guard and he was a great leader and continues to this day to lead by people trying to follow in his footsteps. He was a great loss for he was loved by many. I will keep you in my prayers.

Dear Kupchella Family,

I dated Bryce as you all know and we remained friends. He was always making people laugh, smile, and always helping people when they were in need. No one will ever forget his smile, his way of taking over a room or the way he taught so many people and changed their lives. He helped me so much in school and encouraged me to stay in teaching. I will always remember him in the future while I go about teaching and I will make sure to inspire people as he did to keep his legacy going. He was truly one of the few people in the world that go out of their way to get people involved and teach them things they did not know. Everyone wants to leave this world with people remembering them in a good way and Bryce accomplished that and so much more in his 20 years. I am so sorry for your loss and my throughts and prayers are with you and your family.

There are no words of comfort for a parent when it comes to the loss of a child, no matter how young or old. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all at your time of grieving and loss. And though no one can take away your sorrow, may the support and prayers of family and friends help to give you the strenght you need.

I am sorry for your loss

Kupchella Family,
Our daughter Amanda dated Bryce and we got to know him pretty well. He was what I would have wanted had I had a son. He was always fun to be with and took center stage in any setting. Amanda had thoughts of quiting school and Bryce was there to encourage her to keep going. I thank him and I am sure Amanda will look back when she becomes a teacher and remember who gave her that needed push. We attended the viewing lastnight and the line outside showed just how many people he touched in such a short time. Many people live longer, but not many touch as many as Bryce did in his 20 years. Know that he will be remembered as one who brought happiness to many.
Our thoughts and Prayers are with you.

Dearest Kupchella Family,

My sister Patty told me of your loss last evening...Please know that you are in my prayers...Sincerely,

Dear Kupchellas,
Even though I didn't know Bryce;I know from Alena what a wonderful,caring and close family you all are. There are no words to allow the expression of sympathy my family and I feel at your loss. At times like this our memories are what ground us. From speaking to Lisa I know you have warm and wonderful memories of Bryce. May those thoughts keep you close to him as the weeks pass by, may God's ear be close to your heart, and may you some day find peace in your memories.

Sincere sympathy in your tragic loss.

Dear Kupchella Family,
I have been out of town and arrived back Monday Night (November 13th). After Mass on Tuesday, a former student told me about Bryce. No words can express my sorrow. Sincerely, Sister Agnes

Dearest Kupchella Family,

All of Bishop Carroll cried.

Bryce was a shining star among the very brightest of them, and he will always live in our hearts.