Calvin Dana McIlwain obituary, 1953-2017, Gorham, ME

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Calvin Dana McIlwain

1953 - 2017

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Laurie Morris

November 30, 2017

Calvin, I love you in a place where there's no space or time....I love you for my life you are a friend of mine.... Luwee

John McNeil

August 25, 2017

Calvin.. Just a year ago we talked about Jim O , Brownie and etc. who have departed.. Now you join them.. RIP my friend and in your journey do not forget to lock your truck , cut your wheels to the curb and god forbid the cones.. Peace....John

Gloria McIlwain

August 18, 2017

Calvin,to know you,--was to love you.
I will miss our conversations.
Aunt Gloria

Leslie Dixon

August 18, 2017

To the entire McIlwain family- I'm so sorry to hear that Calvin has passed. I hope that your wonderful memories of him will bring comfort. Calvin was one of a kind, with a genuine caring heart, and smile that lit up a room! I feel blessed to have known him. Rest in Peace Calvin

August 18, 2017

Praise the Lord our Brother is Home.

Cathy Reny

August 16, 2017

I call it a blessing to be included as a friend as well as part of this wonderful family. I do not think he realized just how his life on earth impacted so many. That impact will continue as Calvin's story is told by so many that were fortunate to know him. It's about the LOVE..... It will always be about the LOVE. My heartfelt thoughts and love will continue to be with this beautiful family as the days pass on. I will see you again Cal.

Anthony Scala

August 14, 2017

I'll miss you my friend. Rest in peace.

Dale Carstens

August 14, 2017

Knew Cal for a long time at NET, he was one of the nicest and most caring men to work with. I always enjoyed our morning talks in his tool room. You'll be missed Cal but I know you will make Heaven an even brighter place.

Ian Sellick

August 14, 2017

It was a pleasure to know Calvin from our years at NET. May God bless you and your family.

Andrea Gholston

August 13, 2017

My memory of my Cousin Calvin will be forever sweet as well as sad since we had just connected for the first time 4 months ago. We bonded immediately as if we had known each other our entire lives which was as it should have been. We were born in the same month; our birthdays 5 days apart. My heart will forever be missing the piece that belonged to him. He, the first born male cousin and me the 1st born female cousin; our parents the eldest male and female McIlwain siblings. I have lost my counterpart and sidekick for uniting this family after just finding him. We had made great plans for future excursions into our new "cousinhood". My condolences to the rest of his family whom I have not met yet. I know how they feel. My heart is broken and I miss him so very much..

Andrea Gholston (California) Daughter of Helen Alberta McIlwain Gholston.

Anita Guimond

August 13, 2017

Jeff and family,
So sorry for the loss of your brother...God bless.
Love ya,
Aunt Anita & Uncle Phil

August 13, 2017

I am so sorry for the tremendous loss, of your beloved Calvin, who touched & inspired so many lives, on & off the stage. Your beloved, incredible, Calvin has left the greatest legacy, a man can leave his Family & Friends, the everlasting, legacy of true, love His radiant, smile will shine on in our hearts & in heaven above! Love&Prayers, McIlwain Family

william McGeough

August 13, 2017

Jeff so sorry to hear about Calvin's passing, my condolences to you and the family.

Carol Cohen Lance

August 13, 2017

My heartfelt condolences to the entire McIlwain family. May God provide peace and comfort in the days and weeks to come.

August 13, 2017

My sincere condolences to the Mcilwain familys, Cal was a good guy from a good family. I am glad I had the privilege to know him. David Duffy

Jerry Slack

August 13, 2017

It is distressing to learn of Cal's passing, and I offer my condolences to CJ and the other family members. I first met Cal when he was on the old NET test board at 45 Forest Ave, and then worked with him for years at Davis Farm Road. Cal was a warm, funny guy who brightened any room he entered. The world is a lesser place with his passing. Rest in peace old friend.

Anita Quinlan

August 12, 2017

Dear Gina and family,
I am so sorry and saddened for your loss. Calvin was such a wonderful guy. He could make anyone smile. I am thinking of you all, and sending big hugs and lots of love. My deepest sympathy and condolences.

Doris and Stan Pollack and family

August 12, 2017

We extend our deepest sympathy to Gina and the entire Mcllwain family. Calvin personified the love, beauty and peace that this world desperately needs. He was a talented and love filled man that made this world a better place. Calvin will be sorely missed. We are grateful for his presence in our family's lives. May his memory be a blessing and a constant source of pride for his family and friends.

August 12, 2017

We send our deepest sympathy to Gina and the entire Mcilwain Family. Calvin personified beauty , love and peace so desperately needed in this world. He was a talented and loving human being that made this world a better place.
Grateful he entered our family's lives.
May Calvin Rest In Peace

Doris and Stan Pollack and Family

Larry Burris

August 12, 2017

Thoughts and prayers to the MCILWAIN family.

David Scott. Leighton

August 12, 2017

To My Beautiful Cousin Gina, her wonderful husband Calvin, all the kids and their entire family, My thoughts and prayers are with you now and forever. Calvin was a lucky man to have so many that loved him and his family was so lucky for the love he gave. I will always remember the wonderful times I had seeing and talking with Calvin when I came to Maine. I am blessed to have him as part of my Family.

Anita (Moski) Thurlow

August 12, 2017

God Speed my childhood friend and next door neighbor. We all played daily together on Montreal St., up on the hill. Hadn't seen you in years, but never forgot you or your siblings. So enjoyed the couple of times we saw your band play at Old Orchard and you got to meet my husband and he you. Prayers and healing thoughts for your family.

René Johnson

August 12, 2017

I am sending all my love and healing strength to the family. Uncle Calvin will surely be missed!

Bonnie Bickford Adams

August 12, 2017

Thoughts and prayers go out to the family in this difficult time. May God comfort you and surround you in his everlasting love and peace.

Robert Jr. & Cynthia James

August 12, 2017

Dear Miss Ruth, and the McIlwain Family:
Our thoughts and Prayers are with all of you. We will always remember Calvin and his beautiful smile, and all the memories of growing up together at Green. Much Love to You All.

Glenn and Esther Mariani

August 12, 2017

Very sorry for your loss. Met Calvin a few times while he was playing with the Kenya Hall Band. Great guitar player and and nice man. He was a class act and we will miss him. Sincerely, Glenn and Esther Mariani

Rebecca cormier

August 12, 2017

My heart is filled with pain for the Mcilwain family. They have lost one of the many Icons is there family. He will be missed by us all. far and near. R.I.P. Cal. your friend always Rebecca Cormier.

Mary Anne Conley-Baker

August 11, 2017

I knew Calvin back when I was a teen. I know some of his family members as well. Always remember him fondly. My condolences to all his loved ones. I know he will be missed.

Linda Macdonald

August 11, 2017

We were friends he was someone that was memorable, one of the kindest guys you will meet. Have not seen him in 30 years but will never forget is laugh or kindest. You were blessed to know him. I am sorry for your loss. He was very special. I was always proud to call him my friend

Karen Goodwin

August 11, 2017

Whether it was having a phone conversation, a conversation in person, or watching him perform with the band, Calvin was a true joy to be around. My thoughts are with the entire family.

Cheryl Sanborn

August 11, 2017

My heart ❤ goes out to the McIlwain family. Calvin was such a wonderful person and someone that could always make you laugh. His smile and sense of humor was one of his many great qualities. I am so lucky I knew him and got to see him at Gossnel House and even though he was not feeling well he had a smile on his face and made you laugh. Rest In Peace my friend. You are missed by so many

Francis Amoroso

August 11, 2017

Cal was part of the wonderful mcIlwain family. It was an honer to know him

Christine Duncanson Huot

August 11, 2017

My words are so small for a loss so great. Calvin & I reconnected a few years ago and it was as if no time had passed. He will always be remembered for the kind & loving man he was.
Christine A Duncanson Huot

Linda Scala

August 11, 2017

Calvin brought love and music to all he knew. I did not know him well; but, he was one of my belated husband's very good friend. Peter told me of many "Calvin" stories. God rest your soul Calvin.

Carrie Bibens

August 11, 2017

I am sorry to hear of your loss. While I didn't meet Calvin I have known Gina for years and she always spoke about Calvin in loving and endearing way. My heart goes out to her his children and extended friends and family.

Laurie McIntosh

August 11, 2017

Gina,
You will forever be intertwined in the Love and Light you and Calvin created in this lifetime. For Calvin will always be with you and you him in God's loving grace. Energy never dies. It tranforms, and what an energy his Soul is filled with. Though Calvin's body made way for his next phase of God's plan, you will always be a part of that plan, Gina.
Much love and light to those who mourn Calvin's passing. May you all be blessed with peace, comfort and much love...♡

Christina Swasey

August 11, 2017

Sincere condolences to the McIlwain family. Calvin is a beautiful soul who shall be missed. Will have to find my copy of "Love Can Make You Happy" and give it a spin this weekend. Godspeed Calvin!

Archie Mullin

August 11, 2017

Loved from the day I met you. Munjoy Hill and heaven too. Doesn't get any better than that. RIP buddy

August 11, 2017

Our sincere condolences to the entire Mcllwain family. Very sorry to hear of his passing. Always greeted us with his smile. He will be missed by everyone.

Tom & Diane Bore
The Villages, Florida

Chris Pidhajecky

August 11, 2017

Calvin was always a pleasure to be around. A truly nice person. So sorry for your loss

August 11, 2017

Gina, I just heard about Calvin. I am so very sorry for your loss. Lots of love to you and your family!
Michelle Huckins

Sharon Lynch-McLeod

August 11, 2017

To the McIlwaine Faimily,
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a beautiful soul. I grew up on the Hill with your family and later in life Rev. Jeff has helped several of my family members in their darkest hours. The closeness of your family was always evident even when I was a teenager. While your loss is great, your faith and closeness will help you through. May you find comfort in one another and in all the wonderful memories you share, until you reunite in eternity.
God Bless,

Ina Quattrucci

August 11, 2017

There are no words to describe my sadness. My deepest sympathies to the McIlwain family especially his wife and children. He was such a great person and friend. I will always remember that smile and his huge personality. God gained another angel. Rock the heavens Calvin.

Paula Voltz

August 11, 2017

Gina..I'm so sorry for your loss.Love and condolences to you and your family. ...

Paul Saucier

August 11, 2017

I was sad today to read that Calvin had passed. My heart goes out to the family and his many friends who had the gift of crossing paths with Calvin. He will be missed by many. My thought and wishes go out to all.

Leanne Brainerd

August 11, 2017

Calvin was such a bright light that he made everyone around him shine. He will be missed by all that knew him because he touched each and every soul he met. My heartfelt sorrow to Gina and all of the family. May the love and memories of Calvin keep you shining.

Paul Saucier

August 11, 2017

My condolences to the family. I grew up with most of the family on Munjoy Hill. Calvin will sorely be missed by all that had the pleasure to spend time with him. My prayers are with Calvin's family as they deal with his untimely passing.

Paul Saucier

August 11, 2017

My condolences to the family. I grew up with most of the family on Munjoy Hill. Calvin will sorely be missed by all that had the pleasure to spend time with him. My prayers are with Calvin's family as they deal with his untimely passing.

Amber Roberge

August 11, 2017

My sincere condolensces for this great loss! He was loved & will be missed by so many! ❤

Sheila Stovall

August 11, 2017

I have known Calvin and the McIlwain family since I was a teenager. He was one of the nicest, funniest people I've known. My heart and prayers goes out to you all.
Sheila Stovall

Theresa Horton

August 11, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the Mcllwain Family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Carl Crosen

August 11, 2017

Rest well my friend......

Patty Cain

August 11, 2017

My sincere condolences to all of the extended McIlwain family. I was at PHS with Cal, but didn't know that until we became friends while working "outside" for "Ma Bell". He most certainly was a bright light in my life. He will be truly missed by so many. May the love of friends give you comfort, and the love of GOD give you peace.

Genie Kelly

August 11, 2017

My deepest sympathy to the Mcilwain families. Nobody could light up a room and make you laugh like Calvin could. He certainly has left all of us with wonderful memories. His smile, compassion, kind spirit and laughter will always live on in our hearts. The talent in the heavenly rock n roll band now has one of the best!

Terry Serappa

August 11, 2017

My grandfather passed away at Gosnell while Calvin was there and it happened to be on the day that the family had a beautiful celebration with music that I was able to be a small part of. What a beautiful tribute to this man. I did not know him, but wish I did.

Jeff Wing

August 11, 2017

My sincere condolences to all of the McIlwain family? I thought Calvin was the coolest guy I knew, even back when I was a little kid living just around the corner. A very talented and nice man and so sad to hear of his passing. RIP!

Margaret Feeney LaCombe

August 11, 2017

Gina and family, I am so sorry for your loss, Calvin was a wonderful man.

Winston McGill

August 11, 2017

My condolences to the Mcllwain family. Rejoicing for Calvin as he's one with the creator.
Take good care.
Winston

Rev Margaret R.E Lawson

August 11, 2017

To the McIlwain family: My prayers go out to you upon hearing the passing of Calvin. While Pastoring in Portland, he was an occasional drummer for the church. Sis. Ruth, Rev Jeff, Daryl, Sis. Donita, and the rest of the family, please know earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal. May God be with you and yours during this difficult time.

Sharon Arsenault Quatrano

August 10, 2017

Rest in peace my friend. My deepest sympathy to Regina, Calvin's children and all his family. You are in my thoughts and prayers in this very sad time. May God bless you all and give you strength to deal with your loss.

Virginia Peterson- Barfield

August 10, 2017

My sincere condolences go out to the McIlwain family. I lived across the street, Montreal, from you all, from 1960 to 1968, when I got married. I went to school with Dinitta, graduating in 1966. We had so much fun playing in the street, football, hide and seek, and just hanging out. Calvin and I wrote on Hill Kids Past and Present, about how much fun we had playing on Montreal Street. I will never forget your family and the love that you all shared. I know Calvin will always be missed love you all

Nancy Heckley

August 10, 2017

My deepest sympathies to Dustin, Donna & the rest of Calvin's family. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you!

August 10, 2017

Dear Jeff, We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our hearts go out to you and your family Love to you all. Melba and Wayne Bailey (Saco,Maine)

Jerry and Cecelia Corey

August 10, 2017

Sincerest condolences to Marc, Cheryl, and family in your loss.

Jerry and Cecelia Corey

August 10, 2017

Sincerest condolences to Marc, Cheryl, and family in your loss.

August 10, 2017

Gina, I am loss of words for comfort, I am so sorry ! Every time I saw Calvin he made me smile, he was a wonderful person with a huge heart. Love to you and your family!
Marie and Terry Wogan

Brian Bickford

August 10, 2017

Dear Jeff- Our heartfelt condolences. Brian Bickford & family

Brian Bickford

August 10, 2017

Dear Jeff- Our heartfelt condolences. Brian Bickford & family

Kevin & Amanda Pizzo

August 10, 2017

To Gina and family. Our deepest condolences on the passing of Calvin. He was a terrific man and always lit up a room when he entered. We have many memories of him and we were blessed to have known him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.

Theresa Sampietro

August 10, 2017

God Bless you Calvin, You are now in Gods hands

Lillian Reason

August 10, 2017

My sincerest condolences are extended to the McIlwain Family. Know that prayers of comfort will be expressed on your behalf.
Lillian Reason
Hartford District WH&OM Society
New England Conference
AME Zion Church

Lillian Reason

August 10, 2017

My sincerest condolences are extended to the McIlwain Family. Know that prayers of comfort will be expressed on your behalf.
Lillian Reason
Hartford District WH&OM Society
New England Conference
AME Zion Church

Vicki Schrader

August 10, 2017

I never knew you but have met your son, Dustin. I pray that your family finds peace knowing you are with Jesus now. Sounds like you impacted many people! That is a wonderful legacy to leave behind. May you Rest In Peace.

Edward Fowler

August 10, 2017

God Speed Cal !!! One of the Good guys from Munjoy Hill Until we meet again !

Bonnie Rand

August 10, 2017

Wow...Calvin was a friend for many of my telephone years and we shared many laughs. Thanks for making my life more joyous. Bonnie Rand

August 10, 2017

Wow...Calvin was a friend for many of my telephone years and we shared many laughs. Thanks for making my life more joyous. Bonnie Rand

Tom D'Alfonso

August 10, 2017

Rest in Peace Calvin, the Class of 71 continues to dwindle

Cinde Cormier

August 10, 2017

Gina and family,
My heart goes out to you. I know Calvin was your love of your life and also your dearest friend. He was a loving and wonderful father and grandfather. Calvin was truly one of a kind. He will be sadly missed by so many. He will forever hold a light in the world.

LaDonna Burley

August 10, 2017

Gina and family, I am deeply sorry for your profound loss. Calvin was a man of deep love and integrity. I pray that God and all the angels guide and protect you and that you find comfort in knowing how much he truly loved you.

Matthew Devoe

August 10, 2017

Thanks for letting me be a part of your life It was an honor and priviledge RIP

matthew Devoe

August 10, 2017

It was an honor and pleasure having you be a part of my life. Thanks for making it better .

reggie Brown

August 10, 2017

Gina and family, Tammi and I would like to send our deepest sympathy during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers

Reggie Brown

August 10, 2017

Calvin was a one of kind good man. He taught me so much about music and friendship. I spent 6 wonderful years with you on my left performing with Colorblind. Talk about being silly and having fun. Those were some good times my man. I will miss you calling me "Frankie". made me laugh all the time.Let me lay a mic stand down this time. You will truly be missed by so many. Fair wind and Following seas my friend until we meet again.

Lydia Boose

August 10, 2017

Calvin, the world is dimmer and quieter without your bright smile and contagious sense of humor. It was obvious to all how much you loved your wife and family and life. Your music was precious to all who ever had the privilege of hearing it. I pray for peace and strength for Gina, Jeff, Dannita, Buddy, Daryl, Yvonne, Scott and Mark and, of course, Mama Ruth.

Lydia Boose

August 10, 2017

Calvin, the world is dimmer and quieter without your bright smile and contagious sense of humor. It was obvious to all how much you loved your wife and family and life. Your music was precious to all who ever had the privilege of hearing it. I pray for peace and strength for Gina, Jeff, Dannita, Buddy, Daryl, Yvonne, Scott and Mark and, of course, Mama Ruth.

Lydia Boose

August 10, 2017

Calvin, the world is dimmer and quieter without your bright smile and contagious sense of humor. It was obvious to all how much you loved your wife and family and life. Your music was precious to all who ever had the privilege of hearing it. I pray for peace and strength for Gina, Jeff, Dannita, Buddy, Daryl, Yvonne, Scott and Mark and, of course, Mama Ruth.

Reggie Brown

August 10, 2017

Calvin was truly a one of a kind. He taught me so much about music and friendship. I spent 6 years wonderful with him on my left performing with Colorblind. Talk about being silly and having fun. I can't forget the "helicopter". Cal, I'm gonna miss you calling me "Frankie".!! I'll have to lay the mic stand down this time my friend. Fair wind and following seas.Until we meet again my brotha.

Tammy Leclerc

August 10, 2017

Heaven a waits a beautiful soul my deepest condolensces to the family .He will be greatly missed . Peace.

Linda Cohen

August 10, 2017

My deepest sympathy to Calvin's family. We were friends as teenagers, lost touch and then reconnected on Facebook a while back. I am not surprised by the outpouring of love for Calvin on Facebook, as he was such a good guy. May your memories keep him close to you always.

Mike Leding

August 10, 2017

We are very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers.
Love,
The Leding Family

Kenny Fasulo

August 10, 2017

Calvin, like we talked about, forever in my heart, soul, mind, and music. You're my True Funk Soldier whose presence will always be felt. God Bless you and your beautiful family.

Love always, Kenny

Kenny Fasulo

August 10, 2017

Calvin, like we talked about, forever in my heart, soul, mind, and music. You're my True Funk Soldier whose presence will always be with me.
God Bless you and your beautiful family.

Love always, Kenny

Gabriel Salcedo

August 10, 2017

May God bless him and find him a beautiful place in heaven
My sympathy to the family and condolences

Jean Kerrigan

August 10, 2017

Gina Rachelle and family, and all Calvin's family...I am so sorry for this loss for you all. There are several links between my family and all yours, and the fun times as well as the sadder ones keep it that way. RIP

Pat Wakem

August 10, 2017

Dear Gina and Family, Words cannot express the depth of sympathy we have in our hearts for you and your family during this most difficult time. Please know that we are here for you. Pat and Keith

Paul Zion

August 10, 2017

My deepest sympathy goes to Mark and his family. If you guys need anything mark you know how to get me. Love ya my brother

Mark Axelsen

August 10, 2017

Cal- I love you more than you will ever know! Best Father In-Law a man could ask for!

Mark Axelsen

August 10, 2017

Cal- I love you more than you will know! Best Father In-law ever!!

Stephanie Curran

August 10, 2017

Dear Regina and Family
We are very sorry to hear from your dear mother of your loss. Please know that you and the entire extended Curtis family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May the many happy memories you shared be of some comfort to you now.
With our deepest sympathy
Stephanie Curran and Mom Helen Doughty Curran
East Elmhurst Queens New York

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