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Carrie Frances Wagner
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Carrie Frances Wagner Carrie Wagner, 43, of Austin, Texas, died at home on Sunday, February 6, 2005. She is survived by her partner, Jenny Winkler; mother, Ann Kaslander; father, Richard Wagner; sister, Amanda Wagner; brother, James Wagner; sister-in-law, Essie Wagner; nephew, August Wagner; and niece, Nora Wagner. Carrie enjoyed her career in the Office of Finance at The University of Texas System. She liked to play recreational tennis and softball. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. She said to give everybody a hug and a kiss and tell them she'll see them on the flip side. A memorial is planned for 11:00 a.m., Sunday, February 27, at the Mercury Hall in Austin. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Carrie's name to Hospice Austin. Online guest book at www.statesman.com.
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Kathy Dutton
February 3, 2020
Carrie and I worked together at UT System. Every Monday morning during our staff meeting we would start the meeting by going around the room and saying what we did that past weekend. Carrie always had such a positive happy attitude and would talk about what fun her and Jenny had. Her face always lighted up when she spoke about her family. I miss her and hope her family is doing good.
pk
February 6, 2006
Carrie and I have never met. I think if we had we would have been good friends. I look forward to learning more about Carrie through the memories of her friends. I am praying for Jenny and all of Carries friends today. I know she is missed.
Dona Kight
February 5, 2006
Jenny I just wanted to tell you how often I've thought about you in the past year. You only met me once but I will always remember you and wish the best for you.
Rick Weiss
March 16, 2005
Carrie will always be very special to both my wife, Mona, and me. Although we parted paths after living in Washington, D.C. at the same time, I did speak with her a few months ago, and finally got the chance to tell her about her namesake - our daughter, whom we nicknamed Carrie (formal name "Caroline") in large part because of our fond memories and hopes that she would turn out to be as special as the "original".
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Karen Keller
March 11, 2005
I was blessed to know Carrie--she was my "cousin" and my friend. When I think about her I can't help but smile--she was a blast to be around and an incredibly loyal friend. Carrie will always be remembered by so many people in so many wonderful ways. To Jenny and Carrie's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Love, Karen
Debbie Childers (UTIMCO)
March 10, 2005
I had the honor of working with Carrie for a few years, and working on the same floor with her. It was always nice to be able to stop by and visit with her. I would always get bits and pieces of a very full life.
Her area had moved to another building once she was diagnosed so I didn't see her much, but I was stunned with the news. When we took her to lunch, I was amazed by her courage. I told her she was an inspiration to me - I hope she believed me. She had courage to uproot her home and start a new life in Austin, and had so much courage going into the new life she is in now. She is one of my heroes.
When I went to her memorial service, I was so touched to hear all the wonderful stories about her. I wish I could have known that side of her better.
Carrie will be missed, but she certainly left behind so many good things. And she lived a life more full than some people who have lived twice as long as her.
I know God's peace is with Carrie. My prayer is that it is also with all her loved ones.
Anne Kaslander
March 10, 2005
I wish to thank every one for all of the loving memories and wishes for Carrie. This guest book will be printed and saved as a treasure for me and all who do the same. She lives in our hearts. I love you infinity, Carrie.
Carrie's Mom, Anne
Debbie Fink Smith
March 5, 2005
I am so saddened by the news of Carrie's passing. We had lost touch over the years, but Carrie remains very fondly in my memories. We were college buddies. Her heart and sincerity were undeniable. I remember her sitting in the dining room of our sorority house late at night eating the powder out of the hot chocolate mix. I remember a really true friend. I remember a very gracious person who had a style of her own. I remember a great sense of humor and of course, love of music. To her family and friends, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Even though I had lost touch with her, it sounds like she had a lot of love in her life and I'm not surprised.
Julie Wescott Weissend
March 2, 2005
I am so struck at this minute that Carrie isn't nodding her head to some very cool song that I am yet to be familiar with...maybe she is...She was so enlightening and so paradoxical. She was the coolest when it came to music (and many other things) and a finance geek at the same time. Unassuming and modest but really beautiful. She was very much aware of parameters but she had a great appreciation for whimsy and pushing the envelope too. We met in college as fellow members of the "rejected" pledge class. She made us feel so much cooler as a function of her being a part of it. She was profoundly sincere and ultimately loyal. She will be missed!
Philip Mento
February 27, 2005
Carrie liked to analyze people’s taste in music like some people read tea leaves. She would never criticize anyone’s taste in music; criticizing other people wasn’t in her blood. She would simply smile and give a polite nod to most people’s music collections. I had known her on occasion from work but she took a liking to me, and I to her, when she was flipping through some of my CDs in the beach house one year. “Oh, k.d. lang,” she exclaimed, “that’s great, she’s great.” She was excited and looked around the room to share that excitement, but everyone had a blank stare, as k.d. lang was completely new to the music scene, and no one we knew listened to country music. But Carrie was happy; she had this desire to uncover every rock for something different and new and experience it. I couldn’t keep up with her in that respect and I got old and my taste in music leveled off, yet Carrie kept on, bringing us cutting edge music, weird, soulful, or simply mysterious stuff, regardless of our indifference. She never gave up on me or anyone else though; she knew she was different and that it was just a matter of time before the rest of us caught up to her.
Sandra & Charlie Winkler
February 24, 2005
It was our great privilege and honor to know,love and be loved by Carrie.Her courage and concern for others in the midst of her own struggle was remarkable.Jenny's loving and gentle care for Carrie touched our hearts.We will miss Carrie so much.
Our deepest sympathy to Carrie's family and friends.
Beth Wiederaenders
February 24, 2005
What I remember about Carrie the most was her patience with anything and everything I had to share with her. No matter how many times I might drone on about the same thing, there she was nodding her head - saying "Wellllll" whenever I'd ask her an impossible question. Those lunches downtown were a stabilizer for me many a time. What a gift. I look back on the times we had together and can see how generous she was. She was wacky in her own way. I could always be myself with her. Thank you Carrie. I'll see you for sure on the flip side.
Julie Ortiz
February 23, 2005
The special times that I got to spend with Carrie were always full of fun and laughter. She was a great tennis player, but also a clown on the court. No matter who her partners were, she was always having a great time. I hold the wonderful memories close to my heart and will never forget you Carrie. My prayers go out to you Jenny and the family.
Misty Conn
February 21, 2005
I was fortunate to be Carrie's roommate for several years. What I always enjoyed about Carrie was her kind, calm manner. I know she will be missed by many. My heart goes out to Jenny and to Carrie's family.
Cindy Huyser
February 18, 2005
I am grateful to have known Carrie, and deeply saddened by her passing. Her sense of humor, great smile, and kind, gentle spirit were a gift to those around her. My heart especially goes out to Jenny; I am so very glad Carrie got to spend the last years of her life in such a loving relationship.
Jo Bridges
February 17, 2005
Carrie...so incredibly kind, generous, deep, witty, optimistic. My sadness is immeasurable. Jenny, I think of you every day. Love Jo
Rissa Trachman
February 17, 2005
Dearest Jenny,
It is not easy to find the words to express the love and gratitude that I have for having had the privilege of spending time with you and Carrie over the years. I feel fortunate to have been your friend when she came into your life and saddened now that she has gone. My heart is heavy and yet so grateful all at once for having known Carrie and having seen you and her in your relationship together. I have been nothing but amazed at your love for Carrie, and hers for you, against the most insurmountable odds. My heart is with you.
Love, Rissa
Joy Peterson
February 17, 2005
My connection with Carrie is through her grandparents. I saw her only rarely as she was growing up but through the loving eyes of her family I watched a very special young girl blossom into glorious womanhood.
The entries in this guest book confirm my thoughts that Carrie was indeed a person of much warmth, wit at the end of her life especially courageous.
My heart goes out to all who loved her and feel so berefit in losing her.
I maintain that she lives on in all who remember her.
Joy Peterson
bonnie mathers
February 16, 2005
I did not know Carrie personally but her sister Amanda is a dear friend and her loving comments and concern about Carrie's well being was very special. I am grateful to know Amanda and to have known about Carrie through her.
Laura Williams
February 16, 2005
I am forever graced with your presence in my heart and in my life. Thank you for your love, support and our never ending fun together. I love you more than I can express. You may have left but you are not gone.
It's always fun with Aunt Carrie!
February 15, 2005
Monique Henderson Lukacs
February 15, 2005
I will remember Carrie's incredible wit, wisdom and caring. There were many good times spent at Dewey Beach - she was a crazy/fun/beautiful girl. The light she brought to the world is still shining... in all those she touched. With Deepest Sympathy.
Tracie Austin
February 15, 2005
I remember Carrie through Jenny- before I got to meet her I got to hear all the great stories about her and how she warmed my dearest friend's heart (Jenny). But as the years have gone by what I hold dear in my Memory of Carrie is VALENTINES DAY. I always looked forward to the house being decorated and having the famous chocolate chip/ banana pancakes that Carrie made. That was one of my favorite days to look forward to. I will also hold dear in my heart how Carrie so much loved children and how Jenny and her were one of the first baby sitters I had. My little girl KD shared a similar haircut for a while with Carrie. Carrie I miss and love you and imagine you are just radiating in all the love going in your direction.
Love Tracie
Judy Siracusa
February 15, 2005
When we moved to Florida 30 years ago we met Carrie and her family. Although Carrie was a young teenager at the time she was already a fun loving, caring person. We spent many wonderful times with her on and off the tennis courts. Our Thanksgivings were made very special thanks to Anne! We will always remember Carrie with love and deep affection. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you - Jenny, Anne, Richard, Jamie, Amanda, family and your many, many friends!
Tracey Sullivan
February 14, 2005
I had the wonderful pleasure of growing up with Carrie at Seminole High School and the University of Florida. We shared many great tennis memories on the high school team. During Carrie's senior year, she was voted most valuable player because not only was she a great player but an absolute joy to be around. Carrie's humor and friendship are priceless treasures. My heart and prayers go out to Carrie's family and friends. Carrie will be deeply missed. I feel blessed to have known such a special person.
Deborah Richard
February 14, 2005
Amy and I have only know Carrie and Jennie for the past few years. We met Carrie playing tennis and became friends and subsequently met Jennie. Carrie was easy-going and a delight to be around. I have been so touched by her absolute grace and dignity during her traumatic journey. I also was awed by Jennie's love and devotion to Carrie and our prayers are with her during this difficult time.
Vicki Loucks
February 14, 2005
I haven't seen Carrie for years, but she, Jenny and both families have been in my thoughts and prayers since we got the word of Carrie's fight. She was such a fun loving and intelligent person. A true gem. From the words here in the guest book it is clear that she touched many lives, always with humor and love. I'll never forget the weekends in Dewey and how often we all collapsed in fits of laughter, usually due to something Carrie did or said. Thanks, Carrie, for being such a great part of my 20's and of course, many thanks to Jenny for being such an important part of Carrie's 30's and beyond. May the love that you shared help you find comfort is the days ahead. May Carrie's love and enthusiasm carry her in the everafter.
Thomas (Trey) Boydston
February 13, 2005
When I first logged onto this site, which was quite generously forwarded to me, I decided I would peruse through all of the entires. After scrolling the first page, and seeing 5 more to go it truly made me smile and chuckle- Carrie was loved by all she met, and loved each back equally (if not more).
My first concious/memorable recollection of Carrie was most likely while I was at their (Jenny and Carrie's) older house in whatever part of Austin having leaf races in that creek or park nearby and tossing a tennis ball around. We've come a long way since, and on the 'flip-side' I'm sure we have many more to go.
With Love and Sincerity(possibly some grammatical and spelling errors too),
Trey
Cathy (Winkler) Trahan
February 13, 2005
Several years ago, we had Carrie's name for our Christmas gift exchange. It was then that we found out she was interested in the Native American tribes of the Southeast. According to Native traditions, the stars in the sky are explained as being the hearth fires of those who have left this earth. Dearest sister, please search the sky for the brightest star and know that Carrie is still with you. We are sorry that Carrie didn't get to meet our little Olivia - they share the same dark brown eyes and hair, and we know they would have loved each other. Please know that Jeff and I love you and are so very saddened at the loss of Carrie. Our friends who met Carrie at our wedding send you all their love and their hearts go out to you. People who only met Carrie that one time could see how happy you were - should everyone be able to experience such a great love.
Judy Foster
February 13, 2005
I did not really know Carrie personally, but I knew her through her lovely mother, Anne. I lost my daughter, my only child, Shannon, at the age of 19 in 1996. I know that Shannon was there on the "flip side" to greet Carrie. Unless you have lost a child, you cannot truly understand a Mother's grief. I promised Anne I would be with her any time she needs me as she travels her grief journey...the most painful journey of her life. Bless all of you for your support of Anne and all of Carrie's family and friends. Please do not forget to stay in touch with them and let them know that Carrie is in your thoughts and hearts. Believe me, it means so much to know that others care...not just now, but for a very long time. The mention of our child's name may bring tears to our eyes, but it will never fail to bring music to our ears.
Christie Bonifer
February 12, 2005
Carrie was a great friend. I met her when we were in our 20's in Virginia and reunited with her and Jenny after I moved to Austin to live for a year. I enjoyed her outgoing personality and how she was always willing to help people. She will be missed. My prayers and sympathy go out to Jenny and her family.
Becca Hutcheson
February 11, 2005
It's hard to know what to say - Carrie was such a beautiful part of life, and the love between her and Jenny was so honest and pure. I will always remember how open, loving, and welcoming Carrie and Jenny were to me - thank you for opening your home to me during Christmas and visits. I could feel and knew your support and love for me, and that is a gift I carry with me. I am so sorry that you both went through this experience. I only hope that Carrie is at peace and that her illness brought her and Jenny closer. You both are in my heart. Love, Becca
Karen Markovic
February 11, 2005
I am so thankful that I got to know Carrie while she was working with the University of Texas. Her unique combination of strength and sweetness always made it a joy to work with her. Losing her at such a young age has brought home how precious life is. We all need to celebrate Carrie and celebrate life.
Terri Armstrong
February 11, 2005
It was a privilege to get to know Carrie and Jenny over the past year. Her warm and friendly nature came through, and many of us looked forward to her visits here to Houston. Jenny was always there for Carrie, whether it was to 'run for chocolate', ask the hard questions, or help her to do or say something on her own. You both will be missed and remembered.
Marie Cunningham
February 11, 2005
All my thoughts and prayers are for you,Carrie. You will be missed. Also many thanks and prayers to Jenny for her unending love and support through Carrie's illness. I wish you peace in the future and my deepest regrets on your loss.
Dona Kight
February 11, 2005
I am so grateful that Carrie had the courage to live her life on her own terms. I was so proud of her! But I am the most grateful that she had a loving partner for these many years. Thank you Jenny for everything you gave to my old friend.
Summer McKee
February 11, 2005
I only had the fortune of knowing Carrie a short time, but even then she made a lasting impression. As so many have already said, she was witty, kind and one of the most genuine people you'd ever meet. The grace and humor with which she always handled herself is what I'll remember most- that and her smile. Why angels are taken from us we never know, only that we are thankful to have had them while we did. All my love to Jenny, and everyone who Carrie touched with her warmth- can any of us ask to leave a better mark than on the hearts and souls of those who knew us? We miss you already, Carrie, and knowing you’re waiting makes the “flip side” all the sweeter.
Vito Inzone
February 11, 2005
I had the pleasure of working with Carrie through a mutual relationship that Dreyfus and the University of Texas has. Everytime I spoke with Carrie she was always so pleasant, kind and knowledgable. It was always nice to speak with her. I was saddened to hear the news. My thoughts and prayers are with her and her friends and family. May she be resting in peace.
Donna Manno
February 11, 2005
I had the pleasure of working with Carrie. The University of Texas and Dreyfus had a close relationship. I met alot of very nice people from UT. Carrie was one that shined. She was so professional, dependable, knowledged in her feild and had a bonus for me of having such a pleasant personality. She will be remember. Peace to Carrie.
Esther Cantu
February 10, 2005
I had the wonderful pleasure of working with Carrie in the Office of Finance. She was always such a professional. On the personal side, her face would light up when she talked about her niece and nephew! Those two little ones were very special to her. My deepest sympathy to Jenny, Carrie's parents, her siblings, niece & nephew and extended family & friends.
March H. Guevara
February 10, 2005
The test of Gold is Fire
The test of Truth is Time
The test of GOD's Love are the heavens above
And everything sublime
Treasures in life are many,
Dreams realized but few
But I know the test of GOD's goodness
Is when he gave me a friend like you.
Debbie Gaunt
February 10, 2005
Carrie was such a strong, loving, warm, straight-shooter. Once I called to talk with Jenny but she was unavailable. Carrie knew I had hit a hard spot and she took the time to check in with me and see how I was doing. I remember the kindness and thoughtfulness in her voice. Carrie and Jenny give me hope for what a true partnership is and they have shown me deep love and true respect for one another. My thoughts and prayers and heart are with you.
All my love,
Deb
Linda Groscurth
February 10, 2005
My colleagues at Dreyfus and I worked with Carrie in her position at UT System. We all found her to be extremely capable, professional, and very pleasant. We are all very sad that cancer has taken her from her life, her family and her friends.
I know that Carrie will be greatly missed and always remembered fondly.
Margi Hankins
February 10, 2005
Carrie Frances Wagner is a my neice. There were times when I even claimed her as my daughter and/or sister, thanks to the Davis genes(and probably poor lighting).
She always embraced the humorous side of life, bringing joy to everyone who knew her.
I am privileged to have known Carrie ever since she came into the world with those big beautiful brown eyes. Her brave spirit will always be a comfort to me.
Deena Davis
February 10, 2005
Carrie will be missed and I will always remember her for her wonderful personality, her intelligence and for all of her other great attributes . I worked with her in Finance for a few years and remember how much she loved her M&M's and Caffeine Free Diet Cokes...anytime of the day. My condolences to all her friends and family! I wish peace and comfort to you all. Jenny, I will keep you in my thoughts/prayers.
Diana Garcia
February 10, 2005
I had the pleasure of playing tennis with Carrie; her positive outlook on life was a reflection of the person she was. Her kindness and thoughtfulness towards others was beyond compare. Her friendly smile and contagious laugh will never be forgotten. I will always cherish the wonderful memories that we shared together. Carrie, we will miss you. May God bless you and your family.
Jon Lohse
February 10, 2005
Carrie was one of the sweetest, kindest, and most gentle souls I've ever had the pleasure to know. In this, she and Jenny were the perfect match and it was always such a joy to be around them. My sympathies and love to you, Jenny.
Kathy Dutton
February 10, 2005
To my dear friend Carrie, I will miss you so much. I really enjoyed the time we had together. Not only were we co-workers at UT System, but I considered you a true friend. It doesn’t seem possible that you are gone. I remember last year at this time when we were shopping at the mall for a surprise Valentines present for Jenny. Your devotion to others even when you were sick was an inspiration to everyone who got the pleasure of knowing you. I remember another time when I asked you why you lived in Austin and you said you came to a SXSW music festival and meet some really nice people and decided this was the place for you, well Austin was lucky to have a citizen like you live here. I will very much miss our lunches together but I look forward to seeing you again some day.
Carl Leefe
February 10, 2005
I worked across from Carrie for period of time and everyone at Kerbey Lane Cafe will greatly miss Carrie. I loved her spirit and outlook for life and it was a pleasure knowing her.
Kitty Winterhalter
February 10, 2005
Carrie, you will remain in the hearts of your family and friends forever. It was truly an honor to know you as a teenager and see you grow into a fabulous woman.
Kim Rathburn
February 10, 2005
Carrie was a wonderful friend and one of the funiest people I know. I will surely miss her, and treasure great memories of growing up in our 20's together. From beach house, to Italy, to graduate school for me Carrie will always be one of my favorite people. God bless Jenny and Carrie's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tommy Boydston
February 10, 2005
Carrie started out as "my best friend's girlfriend" and became one of my dear friends. I'd call to pour my troubles out to Jenny and get Carrie on the phone- she'd always listen, we'd always laugh, and I'd always feel better. You could never speak ill of anyone to Carrie- she always could see the other person's perspective. I got to be her date one year at a Christmas party when Jenny was working, she and Jenny called me their PIM (primary male) and they were my PIF's. One year Carrie went with me & my son to settle him in at summer camp, and then Jenny went with a few weeks later to pick him up- everyone thought I was quite the player. Carrie and my son had this special connection from the day they met- he's lost his best bud. I'll miss Carrie singing to me on my birthday and the pancake feasts on Valentine's Day, but mostly I'll just miss Carrie. I love you Jenny.
Christopher Hankins
February 9, 2005
I was lucky enough to be Carrie's cousin and will always carry her in my memory. She brought so much happiness to our family, and we shared a special bond when I was growing up. I like to say I owe my taste in music to her, something that will always make me smile when I think of her. I know this is not goodbye for good, Carrie! I'll see you again, but not yet..
Love Christopher
amy greaney
February 9, 2005
My dearest Carrie, You were an angel of mercy. I think the thing that I will cherish about you is your smile and your devotion to Jenny. Ya'lls relationship was so beautiful and full of honesty and love. If we all could experience that in our lifes,what a miracle.. You always made me feel loved when we saw each other and always welcomed me in your home. You will be missed by so many. Jenny my heart goes out to you. I will always be here for you in any way I can. I'm praying for peace for you. Amy Greaney
Diane Daggy-Cox
February 9, 2005
Carrie and I were best friends and neighbors in elementary school in Seminole, Fl.
Silly things come to mind, our thinking of all the nic names of vomit while we rode the school bus ! I can hear you laughing at that memory! Your trying to teach me the piano in the fourth grade, I am still going to learn! Camping in your back yard, swimming in our pool.
Our first Ken dolls, our playing in the sand dunes, where you were not allowed, sorry Ann. We didn't go back, she was a good girl, but the imagination we shared.
The singing to John Denver's Leavin On a Jet Plane. My first short hair cut which I wore short for thirty years, was because I adored yours.
Our playing tennis on Treasure Island and eating at The Brown Derby, all on our own. Skateboarding, we were the only high school girls I know of who skated, whew girl, you go!
You Rock Carrie, and our first softball team we were on together was the Red Barons.
You visited us in Indiana when I moved and we painted rocks at your Grand mother's and Grand Col.'s house. Your Grandmother let us throw a water balloon from the window of her driving car, sorry Ann.
I am so glad we got back in touch last summer, I never understood how ill you were, but now I realize it was your positive manner. You will be missed. Love, Diane
Carrie in Italy, 1986
Candace Ward
February 9, 2005
I don't think I can say goodbye to Carrie--she'll always be with me. I first met Carrie when I was a senior in high school and I'd gone up to Gainesville to see what college was like and to visit my sister Cindy, who introduced us. I thought at the time that Carrie was the coolest person I'd ever met, and time proved me right. She became my hero and my mentor and my very dear friend. When we became room-mates a few years later, I knew how lucky I was, but I couldn't have anticipated the impact Carrie would have on my life. We had so much fun, but more importantly, Carrie taught me the value of generosity and tolerance and goodness of heart.
I've posted a picture of Carrie, one taken when she, Gina, and I traveled to Italy and tried to pass ourselves off as women of mystery. It didn't work, but then again, why should it have? There was no mystery to Carrie: she was too open, too honest, 2 cool 2B 4-gotten.
I know I never will and that I'll carry her memory with me always.
To Jenny, we met only once, but it was always clear how precious you are to Carrie. The last time we talked, she told me you were an angel; I'm so happy that you were there for her.
Much love, Candi
Lucy Anderson
February 9, 2005
I remember Carrie as a sweet, spirited and kind woman. I met her and Jenny a few years ago and was struck by how unbelievably genuine and funny Carrie was. I know now it was Carrie that Jenny was helping out of the theater back in August at one of the AGLIFF films. I had no idea Carrie was sick but know this is a great loss to all who knew her. Jenny, and Carrie's family my thoughts and prayers are with you. Carrie will remain a peaceful soul among us.
Elizabeth C. Haymon
February 9, 2005
Carrie always made me feel special. she exuded kindness & joy. Her Aura felt good! Carrie will surely be missed by a LARGE amount of people. I'm glad to have known her. Definitely looking forward to seeing her on the flip side!!!!
Wade Boone
February 9, 2005
I remember one time Carrie and I were driving back to our neighborhood from a nightclub, The Other Side, in Washington, D.C. It must have been 1987. "Look at the moon!" Carrie said. There it was, a full moon, shaded a light purple, larger than usual, suspended over the Potomac River. Carrie really liked that moon. She mentioned it the next day at work.
Another time, in the mid 90's, we were driving around in northern New Mexico and got as far as Tres Piedres when Carrie said this was too flat, too empty for her. We both laughed, turned back, and spent the night in Escondido before going to the South By Southwest Festival in Austin the next day.
Carrie embraced life and was fun to be with. She had a creative spirit and could turn things on their side and look at them differently with a sense of humor. An artist. A good financial analyst. A positive person. Those that knew her best will miss her the most.
Dianne Torrez Tabitha Minyard
February 9, 2005
Both Tabitha and I had the great honor of having Carrie touch our lives. We met her playing tennis and got to play softball with her also. The thing we will always remember about Carrie will be her wonderful sense of humor,and how she found the cloud with silver lining in everything. She will truly be missed but she will never be forgotten.
Alisha Thompson
February 9, 2005
I was priviledged to work with Carrie often at System. She was always kind, helpful and extremely funny. Carrie will be missed!!!
Meg Hawley
February 9, 2005
I am very sorry for your loss. Carrie and I worked together 20 years ago when she worked for the now defunct Federal Home Loan Bank Board. We lost touch, but I will always remember her carefree, fun-loving ways.
Gary Seale
February 9, 2005
I worked with Carrie for several years at FSLIC. I will miss her very much.
Linda Gerardi
February 9, 2005
I had the pleasure of knowing Carrie through tennis -- she was a true competitor, yet always kind and generous.
My deepest sympathies for all our loss!
Christine Hartman
February 9, 2005
To my good friend Carrie, I will miss so many things in life without you. I will miss your laughing, your jokes, your positive outlook, and your quirky tennis style. Most of all, I will miss our friendship. You have provided me with a wonderful gift in life, giving me the chance to know you and spend time with you. I love you, and will miss you very much! You will always be in my prayers!
To wonderful Jenny, I am sending you my guardian angels to help you through this very hard time. Thank you for including me in your lives. But it doesn't have to end here, I will always be there for anything you need. You and all of the family are in my prayers. Love, Christine & Isy
Patsy Pena
February 9, 2005
Your beautiful, wonderful smile and gentleness will be greatly missed. Jenny I love you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Kerry's family at this time of great sadness and loss.
Dave Gilson
February 9, 2005
Carrie,
We have the same taste in movies, and you always laughed at my jokes. Both of which I can say about very few people. I will miss you and consider myself lucky for having known you. My thoughts are with Jenny and the rest of your family.
Dave
Gina Bonomo Myers
February 9, 2005
Back in Gainesville (at the University of Florida) Carrie was always "Wags" -- in retrospect, I think it captured her playful spirit, and play we did! Carrie was such a fun joyful person. A group of us -- Kim Fee, Candace Ward, Nancy Hale etc. -- were in a sorority with her during our early 20's. Carrie was a great student (she got her MBA later) but she was also a tremendously fun person. She was great dancer and had an ear for different kinds of music which she used to share with me by making me tapes. (I think she was secretly trying to help me see that there was something beyond Debbie Harry!) But Carrie was also so kind and compassionate. She was the friend who always made me feel good about myself and, really, the world around me. She just always had a great perspective.
Our lives took us in different directions--my loss--but she still called my new baby twins "her babies". I wish more of her had rubbed off on me. Sweet dreams Wags. You are so loved by so many....
Melissa Robbins
February 9, 2005
Carrie was a wonderful co-worker, and will be greatly missed in the Office of Finance at the University of Texas System. Being a part of Carrie's life throughout her illness has taught me many valuable lessons...The most important being that we shouldn't take a single day for granted. Although Carrie may no longer be here with us physically...Memories of her will remain forever.
Kim Fee Pomar
February 9, 2005
I will always think of Carrie when I hear the song, "What I like about you." She loved dancing and playing air drums to that song! It's a perfect song for her, everything about Carrie was likable. Carrie and I became friends when we met as Delta Gamma pledges. My favorite memories are dancing with Carrie, eating popcorn upstairs and all our jokes and pranks. I will always remember her wonderful sense of humor, quick wit and goodness. Anchor love and mine, Carrie, forever.
Rhonda Lands
February 9, 2005
I remember sitting next to Carrie and Jenny at dinner the first time the Chancellor had the Holiday Party at the Driskill. It was such a nice time. Carrie served on a committee our office works with, and she was always conscientious about her work commitments and took the time to read everything! After she was diagnosed, she was so strong and brave, but acted like her courage was nothing extraordinary. It was. I look forward to seeing her on the flip side.
Connie Moonen
February 9, 2005
I had the privilege of working over the phone with Carrie. She was a very sweet girl. She was always very helpful with any problems I might have and very knowledgeable.
I had the pleasure of meeting her at a meeting in Austin a few years ago. It's nice to be able to put a face with the voice at the other end of the phone line.
I want to express my deepest sympathy to all the family and I know Carrie will greatly missed.
Connie
Laura Martinez
February 9, 2005
It was a pleasure working with Carrie; she was always pleasant, knowledgeable, helpful and most of all kind. I send my heartfelt condolences to Carrie's family.
-Carrie, you will be missed. God bless you.
Patricia Renteria
February 9, 2005
I am very sorry for your loss. I live in El Paso but had the great pleasure of working with Carrie frequently over the phone. She was a wonderful person. Very intelligent yet very humble and kind. We will miss her deeply. She was in our prayers from the first moment we heard of her sickness and she will continue to be in our prayers.
Patty
Philip Aldridge
February 9, 2005
Carrie,
We miss you and we love you. May God bless you and your family.
Philip
Pam Clayton
February 9, 2005
Carrie's inner strength has provided inspiration to me and all of her friends. She will be missed.
Jenny Winkler
February 9, 2005
Hello, everybody. Thanks for coming. Leave a thought or a memory of Carrie, if you like. Thanks for everything. Love,
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