Cassandra Elaine Stolzenberger

I Miss You So Much . I Think About You Everyday . Every Day The Sun Is Shining I Know Your Smilling Bright & Watching Over Us All . Your Love Will Forever Remain In My Heart. Our Memories I Will Never Forget Those . Our Late Night missions To get snacks to our Gladstone Trips & Grabbing Our Men && Friends Snacks. Till The Day We Meet Again Rest Easy My Love ❤

Mom

I love you Cassie. I'm still so heartbroken. Justice is finally being served but that doesn't relieve the pain. I need you back...I need our silly string and water fights. Or watching you stuff your face with Carl's Jr. tacos. We have so many memories. I can't wait till the day we get to laugh about them again. I love you. Nobody will ever replace you in my life, you left such an impact on me during those 7 amazing years of friendship. I am so blessed to have been able to become so close to such a beautiful silly soul. I pray each and everyday that you are watching down on me from paradise. I love you my best friend.

Hi Cassie,
I miss you the last time I saw you we were playing hide in week at Nanna house,I always had so much fun with you,I miss you and wish you were here

Love makayla

Cassie,
Well where do I start sweetie, today marks one year that you were taken from us, I still haven't came to terms with the why question, I ask myself and god constantly why you? I feel you were such a sweet family person, people like you god doesn't touch,but I was wrong it was proven god will take whoever whenever,I can't say your death isn't a constant battle in my heart that will never be won.

Our family is trying day by day to get through,it's hard your mom and dad and Zack are doing the best they can,I wish I could help them and take away thier pain,all of our hearts hurt,

It's raining today hard as I look outside into the dark clouds i can't help but feel this rain and darkness is how we all feel down here, the only think that helps me is to know one day I will see you again,that giggly laugh and those bright beautiful eyes of yours,I have so much I want to tell you I could write forever,I love you sweetie and I hope you always knew that....

Love mimmy

Cassandra you were such a wonderfull funny person I've ever met you were so much different then anyone one I knew you knew what you wanted and went for it you were a person anyone could look up to you were always about your family your job and your car you loved your family so much that's all you ever did was talk about how much adventures and surprises that came along with the fun you had with your family I just wish you didn't have to be gone so sudden you were a outstanding person you were never about fighting you had your own opinion about that you rather worry about your fam then worry about drama that's what I liked about you you were so different you showed me so many things about life and what could be become of them you taught me so much Cassandra I wish I could tell you how much I cared about you I wish you could be here I wish you never left it's like it was just yesterday we were laughing in your car me you and makayla we had so much memories it's going to hurt alot more thinking about your death you never needed to die you deserved so much more in life I can imagen what you could have become I miss you so much Cassandra I'll never forget how real you were to me and how much you cared you'll forever be in my heart I just hope I'll be to

I went to high school with you and you were so sweet and nice. You were taken way too soon.

Cassie,
Words cannot or ever will be able to convey how much we miss you. To see you ripped from this world at the beginning of your adult life is heartbreaking. We watched you grow up and continuously bring joy and happiness to everyone around you. Life truly is lived in the blink of an eye. God has brought you home for what reason we don,t know. We love you and will see you again on the other side.
Love,
Uncle Mike, Aunt Kristin, and Cousin Kate

Hey sweetie,
Its been awhile since I wrote in here,I gotta admit i'm struggling.I missyou soo much I never knew my body could put me through this much pain. I think everyday about all the memories and our talks,,you can never be replaced I will forever have a void in my life.
I am doing the best I can to watch over the family but none of us are ok and never will be.

I thought of you today,but that is nothing new.I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence,i often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake,from which i'll never part. God has you in his arms. I have you in my heart.....

"Some people stay in our hearts forever. They leave their touch upon our lives and we are never ever the same." Cassie was that kind of person. We are thankful to have had Cassie be a part of our lives.

Cassandra Elaine,
I've wanted to write to you many times, but I couldn't find the words to say. Your passing caught all of us off guard. I still feel like one day I'll wake up and this would all be just a horrible dream. I don't think we'll ever understand the why part to it either. I have so many questions and there are no answers to any of them. Trust me, I've searched! I'm struggling to find the good in the world and I know it's out there somewhere. I just can't find it right now. I feel like my family was robbed by God and I'm angry! I want him to be put on trial for taking you! How crazy is that? What could he possibly say to me to convince me it was your time to go? I question his beliefs and words of love he preaches about. It's the cruelest form of punishment for any parent to be forced to bury their child and almost as cruel to witness it. I feel like he got it wrong! He made a mistake and needs to fix it. I know we didn't spend much time together the older you got, but Cassandra, if you could place your hand on my heart, you'd feel how broken it is inside without you here. I consider myself a pretty strong person, but your passing has put my strength in a different place. I honestly had no idea that a pain as much as the one I feel for you even existed. It's kinda like a tornado has entered my soul and messed up all my library of emotions. Nothing is where it's supposed to be and a lot of my emotions are mixed up. My heart is malfunctioning. I know people say time heals the heart, but there's no amount of time that could ever pass that will ever make this feel OK. We'll just be forced to divert our emotions. I see pain in everyone's face in our family. The story of you is written all over them. I see a lot of love which makes my heart smile, but there's an awful lot of pain too. You are really, deeply, loved Cassandra! There's no denying that you left a huge imprint on so many hearts. Your smile is contagious and infected tons of people with your love. Your service was painfully beautiful. You had people lined out the door to see you. That's pretty awesome Cass! I don't know that many people! Yet, they all flocked to you. I visit you often, but you already know that. I have this need to protect you and make sure you're not alone. I want to give you something, anything, to let you know that your Aunt Rhee-Rhee loved you and will always love you even if it's just sitting with you up on the hill with my handful of flowers watching the clouds above. Rest in peace Cassandra Elaine. One day we'll be reunited and I can't wait to hug you and kiss your forehead like I did when you were little.

Piper really wanted me to add this to your book. Cassie, you made a huge impact on her. She really did think you were something special. I wish she could tell you herself.

I truly feel like I knew Cassie longer than I really did... and that sums her character up so well. Always friendly, warm and inviting. I will never forget our random, silly jokes and talking about hopes for the future. A favorite memory: She would always give me a thumbs up & a smile, (even during crazy times at work). I think of Cassie and her family every day. Her family has been in my prayers... and will always continue to be.

Prayers from Arkansas-My name is Sherry Webb Gatlin (Roy Webb's daughter, Aunt Boots niece). I am praying for you everyday. I know we have never met, but my heart hurts for you, I will continue you remember you in my prayers. You Cousin Sherry

Cassie I have lots of memories of you and your mom we did lots of things but I have this memory of you helping me and your mom with a PTA event you where probably a six grader and your sweet mom was an over achiever anyways we needed to work with coconut oil or something like that anyways me and your mom we had no idea what we where doing but you where there to help no matter what crazy idea we came up with you like your mom just went for it and gave it all you had. Such an amazing quality. The world has lost a sweet girl but heaven has gained the most awesome angel❤

"When you feel lost, pause and look closely around you. Somewhere, somehow an Angel will be waiting to guide you home."
-Author Unknown

My heart still aches, knowing that I will never see you again and be able to get to know you better. You are more amazing then you know, you're are and forever will be severely missed. No day shall erase you from the memory of time.
I love you Cassie
Rest in Peace
McKenzie

I have known Cassie since she was very little and know that she, along with her brother Zach mean the world to their parents. Always have and always will. Cassie is my niece from a prior marriage and although we drifted apart over time, she and her cousin always kept me as their friends on the Facebook. Im very proud of the people they turned out to be. A couple of years ago I got a message from Cass asking me to take her senior pictures. I was honored that she would think to ask me! Well, Im no photographer, but my subject on the other hand, was quite photogenic and made the pics look fantastic! I remember how proud Steph was about all of Cass' accomplishments in life and her future goals and drive to get there. All the while I could see that she was still young at heart, living life to the maximum with all her friends and many many selfies on the Facebook. I will never forget my nieces and nephews, they are all fantastic people raised by awesome parents. One of the reasons this was very hard to deal with and knowing there was nothing I could do to fix it. But in looking at her Facebook and knowing her from the time she was small, I really think that she would want me and everyone else to go forward and love life. Live every day and be thankful for what you have. I will forever miss her.

Cassie,
What can I say but that I'm angry, I am so lost not understanding why god chose you,We had a special bond I wil never ever forget. As I watch the people you have left behind struggle daily,I'm not sure where we go from here, as I went through family photos almost every photo you were with one of your cousins, how they will miss you everyday being part of their lives. I wrote this for you.

If sunflowers grow in heaven,
lord please pick a bunch for me,
place them in cassies arms and tell her they are from me
Tell her I love her and miss her,
and when she turns to smile, please place a kiss upon her cheek and hold her for a little while,
even though my heart aches
remembering her is easy I do it everyday,
because I loved her soo much in our own very special way.................

love you sooo much sweetie love aunt mimmy

Hi Cassie, family, and friends
I took Evie to Viking Vet yesterday. She had to get one of her baby teeth pulled. Upon picking her up at, within 10 seconds of walking through the door, the song "let her go" started playing. I looked at the front desk gal and said how amazing this song is playing. She agreed and said it plays ALL the TIME in rotation now for the last week and a half. We both went to your service, so we both know it played as your last song.
How lovely a message comes forth as this song played, to let us know you are still around us as we move about our days. To think your energy surrounds those at the Vet, I know you wouldn't have it any other way so you can continue to care for all the furry babies. I know you were there, helping out as Evie had her sedation and cared for her as she recouped.
Thank you for being an Angel to us all and being there for Evie.
Much love...xo

Cassie,

You have touched the hearts of so many people in your short time on earth. I can't describe the way you will be missed so much, everyday by everyone who has ever met you. I found this poem that made me think about you and your family...

"I thought of you today,
but that is nothing new.

I thought about you yesterday
and the days before that too.

I think of you in silence,
I often speak your name.

All I have are memories
and your picture in a frame.

Your memory is a keepsake,
from which I'll never part.

God has you in his arms,
I have you in my heart. "


If you are watching down on us, please don't cry. We want you to be happy and at peace in your afterlife. Say hi to Granny for me and tell her that I love her. I will see you both again.

- Kendra

You'll never be forgotten, you will always be in my heart. Sometimes I will just lay and think about every memory we have had together. No matter what was going on you had a smile on your face and that smile would brighten my day. I still can't fully process this. I hope one day I can wake up and this would all be a night mare. You'll always have love from me. And I pray every day that you are doing okay up there and your family is holding up. I know you are up there looking over everyone that you care about. I love you Cassie. Rest easy beautiful.

Still thinking about you and your family with love! <3

My heart aches at the thought of you not here with your family anymore. Regrets roll down my cheeks as i wish i could turn back time and be in your life more. Forever in my heart. I love you cassie.

Very upsetting and shocking when we learned of Cassie being involved in this crash. Our hearts go out to The Stolzenbergers and hope they find support and comfort during this time. Our daughters played softball together a decade ago. It's wonderful to see how happy her short life was. She will be missed.

My heart aches when I think about the hole you left in this world. I know you didn't realize how much love there is for you. Unfair is really the only word for it. Driven, passionate, independent, courageous, and curious.. No wonder so many people were envious of you. You were able to stand tall, know yourself and be true to yourself.

Good art evokes emotional response, starts conversations, and is often controversial... It is also often not appreciated in its time. Cassie surely was a work of art.

Our sincere condolences to the Stolzenberger family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Our daughter Jordan played volleyball with Cassie and our uncle Steve went to Sunset high school with Doug. May you find peace and solitude during this difficult time.

I've already written in this, but I'm thinking about you a lot this morning . We had some amazing crazy memories. You made such an impact on everyone's life. I miss you. I wish there was something to make this easier for not only us, but your family. I just hope they know how great of a girl they raised. I can't even imagine how hard this is on them. Im so sorry. I guess heaven needed an angel like you. Have fun up there dancing around and playing with all the animals. Rest Easy Beautiful . ❤

I remember my first year in college I was so nervous! I remember walking into my first math class feeling so scared, afraid I wouldn't make any friends, but that was not the case at all, all thanks to you! I remember the huge smile on your face and you waiving your hands towards me and all I can think was, "Is she really waiving to me!?" You are so beautiful and kind, truly a good person... You made my first class experience amazing and full of positivity. I hope you know that you made such a positive impact in my life. Thank you so much <3 R.I.P

My heart is still breaking for you Stephanie.... I don't know you well but if u ever need an ear or just a shoulder I wld be honored. I'm on Facebook

Doug, Steph and Zachary, I have struggled for days to find words of comfort for a loss so big. I don't believe such words exist. Our hearts are breaking for you. Cassie, you left your beautiful mark on this world in your short life and you will never be forgotten. Rest in peace beautiful girl. With much love, Holly and Dennis

My heart goes out to your family. Cassie helped care for my furry children and I met her threw puppy playdates at our Vet. Cassie was a very special and kind young woman with lots of spirit. Your family is in my thoughts.
With Deepest condolences

Piper misses you so much and wants you to know you're in her heart forever :)

Dear Stephanie, Doug and Zachary...words just can't begin to express how sorry I am. I'm so glad you have such sweet, loving family memories; I sincerely hope that brings you comfort during this deeply painful time. Praying for God's blessings on your family.

I will never forget you riding in the back of my van with a few other JagCrew members. We went to Burgerville then shopped at dollar tree for Freshman gifts. Someone got the sheriff packs and because they came with toy guns which obviously couldn't go to school, we each kept a couple and we had our toy gun fight in my living room. Also I will never forget our time in drama in middle school. You made a wonderful senators' wife with your royal green dress.

You will be missed by so many. Good thoughts and prayers to your family. Have a great time in heaven. I'll see you on the other side. Rest in paradise sweet girl.

Cassie, you are one of the most insperational and beautiful people I know. I hope your soul rests in peace. You are loved and will only be thought of highly.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family today. I cannot imagine losing a child. The love I have seen for you has touched my heart. We will never forget the ones we love. Rest in peace. Gone to soon. Love & prayers.

I am so sorry for your loss. I have many fond memories of Cassie and her family. Cassie has a smile that is unforgettable. You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Can't even imagine the pain you are in. My heart hurts for you.

Stephanie and family, I know we haven't seen eachother for many years. I have felt so lucky to have grown up with you and your sisters in the neighborhood. I remember the day that my parents and I were visiting Evergreen church and your little kids were getting dedicated to Christ. It was the first time that I had seen you in years. All that I can say is that I'm so sorry for your loss and I pray for your family everyday and it just hurts me so much that this has happened to your family.

Cassie, yep, unforgettable. We met you through Volleyball and our daughter Raquel. You were a player that always tried her best for the team and had lots of positive spirit. Loved your smile and the way you made everyone feel they were your good friend. We send many heart felt blessings and prayers to you and your family. Sincerely, The Mellicks

Oh Cassie.
I've written, deleted and re-written so many times that I realized I just don't know what to say.
My heart aches for your whole family. This is a tragedy that should never have happened. There is nothing I could ever say or do to make it easier, better, or manage the pain. All I have is this:

And we wept that one so lovely should have a life so brief
William Cullen Bryant

Rest in Peace sweetheart.

Our condolences to all who knew Cassie. She always had a big smile and a wave to her neighbors - always! We met her when she was a young shy girl who grew to become a lovely young woman. We will miss her! The Hamelmans

My sincere condolences to Cassie's family and friends. Cassie will be missed by my missed by my entire animal clan. Signed: Kristin, Chiffon, Cashmere, & Midnight.

My dear Cassie, I only knew you within the last year, but I feel like I've know you longer. You were a radiant, beautiful, strong woman and someone in heaven must have needed a catcher... We often talked about life and the choices we both made and where it lead and how it made us who we are today. Your will to fly free will always be something to envy. The memories of you are sweet, loving, and kind, with a little feistiness and attitude! You were the trusted coworker that worked hard and I could always count on you to help. You could always put a smile on my face and I know you will continue to do so. Your passion, smile, and unconditional love for animals both big and small will truly be missed. You were a beautiful person inside and out and I was lucky enough to call you a friend.

Although we didn't speak much after high school I still consider you one of my close friends. We've known each other since middle school and were extremely close throughout the last 2 years of high school because of Health Services. Man, we struggled through that class haha. We even worked on our senior project together. All those times preparing for Challenge Day for the freshman. This honestly doesn't feel real. Love you tons Cassie!