Charles Patrick McCarthy

Charles Patrick McCarthy, 88, passed away peacefully on April 5, 2025, in Davenport, Florida.

Born on March 17, 1937, in Lowell, Massachusetts, Charles was the son of Charles and Mary McCarthy. He was raised in Chelmsford and attended the Chelmsford Schools, laying the foundation for a life defined by service, leadership, and deep personal connections.

Charles began his service to others as an EMT in the United States Navy-a role that reflected his lifelong commitment to helping those in need. After completing his military service, he embarked on a varied and successful professional journey. He first worked as a car salesman and civilian EMT before joining the police force in Tyngsboro, Massachusetts. These early roles showcased his versatility and dedication to public safety.

Later relocating to Davenport, Florida, Charles became a respected leader in the security industry. He began his work with Burns Security and quickly rose through the ranks to serve as Vice President at both Fox Security and Central Security. His expertise extended beyond corporate leadership into investigative work as a Private Investigator. He also played a prominent role in professional development through his involvement with ASIS (American Society for Industrial Security), where he held one of the organization's highest positions. As a gifted speaker and teacher with Dale Carnegie, Charles shared his knowledge widely and inspired many throughout his career.

A man of Catholic faith, Charles was known for his commanding presence and extraordinary ability to connect with people from all walks of life. He had an infectious enthusiasm for Boston sports-especially the Red Sox-and found great joy traveling across the country through his work with ASIS and Dale Carnegie.

Charles is lovingly remembered by his devoted wife of 65 years, Joan McCarthy; daughters Susan Gilbride and Donna Foley with her husband Ken; grandchildren Krystal Booth, Michael and Steven Stott, Aubrie Foley, Kenney Foley and fiancée Nicki Fitzpatrick, Dylan Gilbride, and Justin Gilbride; great-grandchildren Braxten, Braelyn, Kaori, Kenney Jr., Ethan, and Koleigh; sister-in-laws Patricia Walsh, Barbara Johnson, Doris McCarthy; Mable and Robert Bennett; several nieces and nephews; Nurse Rose who like a daughter provided exceptional care; special caretakers Cindy and Tina; cherished neighbor Kate Everest; lifelong best friend of over 65 years Robert Johnson; and dear friends Sandy Cowie and Dan Consalbo.

He was preceded in death by his parents; daughter Judy McCarthy; son John McCarthy; grandson Dean Gilbride; brother Philip McCarthy; and sisters Mary St. Hilaire and Judy Olsson.

A Funeral Mass will be held privately on April 16, 2025, at Saint Matthew's Church in Winter Haven, Florida. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

Charles was a mentor to many. If you were lucky enough to know him, you would never forget him. His dedication and pride will live on through his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. As he often reminded those around him: he was "a damn good human being"-and all who knew him would agree.