Charles K. Steiner

1951 - 2025

Charles K. Steiner obituary, 1951-2025, Chevy Chase, MD

Charles K. Steiner

1951 - 2025

BORN

1951

DIED

2025

Charles Steiner Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 14, 2025.
Charles K. Steiner (April 27, 1951-January 9, 2025)

Charles K. Steiner (Chevy Chase, MD and Crandon, WI), loving father, husband, artist, and museum director, passed away of natural causes at home on January 9, age 73.

Born in Champaign, Illinois to Louise K. Steiner and Gilbert Y. Steiner, Charlie was big brother to his siblings, Dan and Paula, who survive him. The family moved to the Washington, D.C. metro area when he was in high school. He went on to earn a BFA in Studio Art from Cornell University (1973) and an MFA in Painting from The George Washington University (1976).

Charlie began his professional career in New York City, where in addition to exhibiting his artwork, he spent two summers as a visiting artist at the Edward F. Albee Foundation. Building on his professional training as an artist and his conviction that everyone can enjoy and benefit from the arts (informed by his early experience working with people with disabilities at the Foundation Perceval [Saint-Prex, Switzerland] and at Camp Tapawingo [Manassas, VA]), Charlie initiated museum services and programs for visitors with disabilities, first as a Rockefeller Foundation Fellow at The Metropolitan Museum of Art and later as a member of the Museum's staff. At a time when few such programs existed-more than ten years before the Americans with Disabilities Act was passed (1990)-his efforts established the Met as a pioneer in this newly emerging field, not only through innovative programming but through Charlie's publications and lectures. While working at the Museum, he met Mary B. Shepard, who also worked in the Museum's Education Department. They married in 1981 and had two daughters, Frances and Hope.

In 1986, Charlie joined the Princeton University Art Museum (Princeton, NJ). During his tenure as Assistant and then Associate Director, he supervised a major building expansion, museum operations, and the installations of numerous special exhibitions. He was particularly proud of his work to establish an Andrew Mellon Foundation project to integrate underutilized collections in the University's teaching mission. In 2000, he became the Executive Director of the Wichita Art Museum (Wichita, KS) where he oversaw the design and building expansion of a 34,000 square foot addition, which provided additional exhibition space as well as an impressive great hall and event spaces, a new restaurant, shop, library, and art storage. He completed his twelve-year tenure with the celebration of the museum's 75th anniversary.

Throughout his museum career, Charlie continued to paint in both figural and abstract styles-always large (www.charleskingsteiner.com). He showed his work both locally and in exhibitions across the country. His works are included in a broad spectrum of public collections, including New York Health and Hospitality Corporation (New York, NY), 3M Corporation (Minneapolis, MN), Emprise Bank (Wichita, KS), and most recently, the Fort Smith Arkansas Regional Airport and the Windgate Gallery of Art and Design, University of Arkansas-Fort Smith (Fort Smith, AR).

When he retired in 2011, Charles and Mary moved to Fort Smith, AR where Mary established an art history program at the University of Arkansas-Fort Smith and he joined the faculty as an adjunct instructor in the Studio program. When Mary retired in 2021, they returned to Chevy Chase where he continued to paint and help Mary with the gardening.

Charlie was beloved for his creativity, kindness, support of others, and wacky sense of humor. His life-long dedication to the arts, especially in providing accessibility to all museum visitors, has left a profound impact. He was predeceased by his parents and is survived by his wife, daughters Hope and Frances (Kieran Coe), his grandchildren Brad and Kate, his siblings Dan and Paula (David Hellman), brother-in-law David Shepard (Laura), and many beloved nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Charles K. Steiner can be made to benefit Accessibility Programming at The Metropolitan Museum of Art-a cause for which he remained passionate.

- To contribute online, donors can go to www.metmuseum.org/donate and indicate in the "Donation Note" section that their gift is to support Accessibility Programs in memory of Charles K. Steiner. They can also select the button that says "Dedicate my donation in honor or memory of someone" just below the donation note.

- To contribute by check, donors can send checks made out to The Metropolitan Museum of Art to the following address. They should include in the check's memo line or in an accompanying note that the gift is to support Accessibility Programs in honor of Charles K. Steiner.

Development Department

The Metropolitan Museum of Art

1000 Fifth Avenue

New York, NY 10028

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December 4, 2025

Liz Childs posted to the memorial.

December 3, 2025

N G Riddlemoser posted to the memorial.

November 30, 2025

Lawrence Bassoff posted to the memorial.

Liz Childs

December 4, 2025

Have to weigh in that I too always loved getting Charlie's art cards at the holidays. Now wishing I had saved them every year, but I think I have last years. As well as honored to have two of his paintings in the house. Thinking of Mary, Hope and Frances at this time of year, and missing Charles. Still surprised to think of this, it just seems way tooooooo soon. Love to the family.

N G Riddlemoser

December 3, 2025

Mary and family,
Legacy invited me to share a holiday memory with you all. I always LOVED
receiving Charlie's handmade holiday cards! Thinking of you all this season and wishing you a bounty of beloved memories to reflect upon.
Peace,
Nancy Riddlemoser

Lawrence Bassoff

November 30, 2025

My name is Lawrence Bassoff, Cornell '73. Charles & I wrote on the Review staff of the Cornell Daily Sun from 1969-1973. I was so proud of his achievements in the arts in a long, successful career. I am saddened by his passing. My condolences to his family, friends & colleagues.

Tom Moore

March 5, 2025

Just heard through the Grinnell alumni's that Charlie had died. My heart goes out to Mary and to all his family and friends. He and Mary were so well suited for each other, it was obvious that they had a deep and binding affection for each other. I hope the good memories will provide some level of comfort in the days ahead.

Jill Horowitz

March 3, 2025

I was shocked when I read this obituary! I met Charlie at the Metropolitan Museum of Art in 1983, when I was accepted as a Docent in the DVS (Disabled Visitors Services) program. I worked with him until 1986, when he left for Princeton. He was an excellent educator, and we all learned so much from him. We got to know Mary, as well, and several years ago, I met Frances, when she got an internship. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Jeremy Kaufman

Planted Trees

Grove of 100 Memorial Trees

Dave & Laura Shepard & Family

Planted Trees

Nancy Riddlemoser

January 25, 2025

My sincere condolences to the entire Steiner family in the loss of your beloved husband, father, brother, father-in-law and grandfather.

I met Charlie back in the early '70's at Camp Tapawingo. We worked together in adminstration for two summers. First, when he was the assistant director and I was the program director. When he became the director he asked me to be his assistant director. Our work relationship became the foundation for our friendship that followed.

Our friendship spanned 50 years after camp, from his apartment in Chelsea, NYC, to his return to Chevy Chase. Charlie was a renaissance man-from his art knowledge, creative works, world travels and even his cooking! Charlie's deep love of family, his wholehearted support of Mary's career, and his pride in his daughters and extended family made him deeply and genuinely authentic.

I will miss Charlie and hope to relive the treasured memories I have of him.

John Scott

January 20, 2025

From John Scott, in NYC and rural SE Pennsylvania. Charles and Norman Muller managed several of my sculpture conservation projects for Princeton U -- for a while Charley and I often commuted together by car between P'ton and NYC. In those days we and our spouses were all rather optimistic young professionals; our futures looked great! Charrley and Mary left for Kansas, where on one of my trips "back home," he enjoyed showing me around the Wichita Art Museum. We always kept in loose touch and after their move to DC, we expected to coffee or lunch the next time I came through.

Quietly celebrating Charley's life

Barbara Pollard

January 19, 2025

Mitch and I had dinner in DC with Mary and Charlie four days before he died. We are shocked and saddened to hear about his sudden death. We were birthday buddies and would try to call one another first on April 27th. I met Charlie and Mary in 1977 working in the Education Department at The Met. I have always loved Charlie's frank and humorous perspectives of life. He will be sorely missed by his wonderful wife, Mary, and his devoted daughters. This is an early birthday wish, my dear friend!

Tom Cook

January 19, 2025

I knew Charles only briefly, when I served as Interim Chair of Fine Arts at Friends University in Wichita, KS, 2008-11. But I will always remember going to dinner with Charles and Mary right after Mary had been honored at Friends U Commencement as Outstanding Adjunct Faculty Member of the year. My wife, Janie, and I were invited to join them, and what a wonderful time we had celebrating! I am grateful for this "brush" with a truly remarkable man...

Su canada

January 18, 2025

My name is su dean canada...I worked at camp tapawingo with Charley for many years. I have a wonderful article with Charley on the front page of this local newspaper.I would love to mail this to mary and her family.,but don't have an address to mail it to. Any help or ideas are welcome.My email is [email protected] free to contact me..I'm sorry,but I don't know how to put the article on computer.Thank you,su canada

Paul Thieberger

January 18, 2025

So sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working for Charlie at Camp Tapawingo in the early 70's. I have so many fond memories and lasting friendships from that experience.

Jeff Schwartz

January 17, 2025

I met Charlie my first day at Cornell in September, 1969. We became immediate friends, roomed together at college and then in NYC when we started our first real jobs. We served as best man at each other´s weddings, shared oysters and beers in Grand Central Station, and managed to stay friends even when he and Mary moved to Wichita and then Fort Smith. I served as guinea pig for Charlie´s early attempts at pie crust and he introduced me to shadow puppets and abstract expressionism. I will really miss his wry observations, his wicked sense of humor, and our friendship of more than fifty years.

Debbie Deuser

January 17, 2025

Such a sad surprise to learn of Charles death. Having recently lost a beloved spouse I know the challenges ahead and send wishes for peace and patience as you and the girls move thru this new journey without him. I am grateful for having known Charles through working at the Wichita Art Museum. I enjoyed keeping in touch thru facebook these last few years.

Liz Childs

January 15, 2025

I met Charles in the Education Department at the Met, when he was a Rockefeller Fellow and I was running an intern program--1976-77--and we shared notes on the challenges on producing programming for the visually impaired. We have been friends ever since.I admire him as an artist, a museum professional, a devoted husband and father, and as a loyal friend. My favorite memory now will be the lunch we all were able to share at the Baltimore Museum of Art, just a week before this surprising and very premature event. Sending all love to Mary, Frances and Hope. Words are not enough. So I just look at the painting of his ca. 1985, and is part of his "Gridlock" series, that we have in our hallway, and smile. With that work, he is with us constantly.....

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