CHARLES ROSS WILDER
CHARLES ROSS WILDER
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CHARLES ROSS
30, in Philadelphia, suddenly, on August 31, 2012. He grew up in Pittsburgh, and was a 1999 graduate of the St. Paul Preparatory Academy in Phoenix, where he was inducted into the National Honor Society in 1998. He attended the University of Cincinnati from 1999 to 2004. He lived in Pittsburgh and Philadelphia, where he worked as a designer, architect and builder, up until the time of his death, and played a principal role in the design of several residential and commercial buildings in the Philadelphia area, principally Northern Liberties. He was born in Pittsburgh on September 30, 1981. He is survived by his father, Dr. Bruce Lord Wilder, of Pittsburgh; and several aunts, uncles, and cousins. His mother was Joanne Ross Wilder, who predeceased him on November 14, 2011. He is also survived by his loving companion, Celine Blache, of Philadelphia. A memorial service will be held at Calvary Episcopal Church in Shadyside, at 11:00 a.m. on Monday, September 10, followed by inurnment.
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June 9, 2019
You are always in my thoughts
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June 4, 2019
A lullaby for you
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Bruce Wilder
June 1, 2019
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Bruce Wilder
October 10, 2018
I still think of you, Charlie. Every day.
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With Maury Wills in happier days.
Bruce Wilder
October 10, 2018
Still thinking about you. Every day.
May 13, 2016
I found this overwhelming and too beautiful for words
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52Wn8ocU1k8
Wayne and Ruth Ross
January 29, 2014
Charlie...we just learned of your passing while visiting your father in Boston, so young and as I understand so talented, your father was very emotional when he told us of the sad news. He misses you for sure. Rest in peace
Bruce Wilder
October 2, 2013
July 8, 2013
Charlie:
Rest in peace brother. We will see you soon.
Walker
July 8, 2013
Chuck,
I am deeply sorry to learn of your death. I had been trying to contact you for quite some time. You were a great friend, and mentor during my time at St. Paul's and I have many fond memories of the times we spent together there. You were a positive influence on me during a trying time in my life. Thank you for your friendship.
Your Buddy,
Tom
Anonymous
July 3, 2013
I will always remember your guitar and your wonderful smile.
sean nolan
February 12, 2013
Charlie -- hello, and goodbye as well. I didn't know you too well Charlie, but when Iran into you in Pittsburgh at Dithridge house you always had a smile for me and a kind word...i hope you have found the ultimate resting place. your dad is still here with us being cool, though we missed him at the brunch yesterday in 804...he's going to make it through somehow i hope. sean.
Bradley Nice
January 29, 2013
Charlie,
My little brother... I met you on our first day at UC. You were 17 and I (being a non-traditional student) was 24. We were an odd pair given our diffenrent backgrounds and age but our love of music and playing music was the object of initial admiration. You were alway smarter than me and carried a vocabulary that was way above mine. I often reflect on the countless hours we spent together recording music, going to concerts, and enjoying life. You were kind enough to share your room with me (not only your house) but your actual room with me when things with my girlfriend didn't work out. Brother you have left a hole in my heart. The news has come to me as a shock. I was trying to look you up as I made a promise to you that you would design my first house that I built. I am getting ready to start that process and I am very sad that I waited to long.
Much, Much Love Brother - Rest in Peace
My Condolences to your father.....
Bradley J Nice
Thank you Mr. Elash for providing me a place to say good-bye
November 17, 2012
Aujourd hui plus que d habitude ton charme, ton humour, ta gentillesse et ton amour me manque. Il est difficile d apprendre a vivre sans toi...
September 27, 2012
Your star shone too bright, and so,
Crashed to Earth too soon.
May you reappear and live in all of us,
And be, forever!
September 24, 2012
Good night, sweet prince,
And flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.
Alex
September 19, 2012
I never knew anyone with such an appetite for life as Charlie. Funny, smart, outgoing, opinionated, friendly and loyal are just a few of the many, many positive traits that he possessed and effortlessly expressed during the short time I knew him. He was instrumental in so much of my own learning and growth, and I only wish I had gotten to see him one more time. I hope those who knew him will come away from this with renewed vigor not to take life or those we love for granted - neither may be around for as long as we would like. I am truly sorry for everyone's loss here, mine included. The world was a better place with Charlie in it. It just got a little less fun around here.
Jean-Francois PIQUET
September 12, 2012
We do not know you but Celine we spoke of you with so much love that we felt like you have shared time with you. We regret that you are gone so soon. We think to Celine and your family during this difficult time.
uncle and aunt Celine.
Andrew
September 8, 2012
Such a smart, funny, energetic kid. Charlie always had an idea. Sometimes, three or four at a time. Sometimes, they were brillant and hilarious. Sometimes, they were contradictory or incomplete. But, always, always, he infused the world with energy, humor and a smile.
Too soon. Way too soon.
My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. He was a smiling light.
Friend.
Fred Heckler
September 6, 2012
Franki and I are so shocked and saddened. We only hope that happy memories and that the knowledge that friends truly care can somehow offer some slight comfort Bruce. We are here if needed in any way
Peggy Ferber
September 6, 2012
Bruce - My sincerest condolences on this terrible loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this grievous time.
Barbara Handschu
September 6, 2012
Charlie:
I was lucky enough to also watch you grow up. You introduced me to the persons who were sitting under the seats in the plane when we all travelled to Academy meetings. If course, the people were under the First Class seats when you were crawling around there. My deepest sympathy tp Bruce and your family.
John Elash
September 6, 2012
Chuck, you were my best friend for a good part of my life. You weren't here long enough, but when you were you made everyday an adventure. You will be missed.
Marie Elash
September 6, 2012
I am so sorry to hear of Chuck's passing. I will never forget the bright smile that made his entire face light up. It is a terrible loss.
Mark Heine
September 6, 2012
I recently came across a picture of Charlie and Adam at Shady Lane circa 1984 and there is Charlie with that mop of red hair exuberant, irrepressible.
Jimmy & Eileen
September 5, 2012
We watched Charlie grow up through all of Joanne's wonderful Christmas Cards.
Susan and Peter Tanzer
September 5, 2012
Bruce, we are so sorry for your loss. We still remember Charlie as as a toddler, flaming red hair, running around Shady Lane. We cannot begin to imagine your sadness but we hope you know that you, Joanne and Charlie are in our hearts and thoughts.
Matt Shull
September 5, 2012
Charlie. You were one of the first friends I made at UC. I had a great time at DAAP with you and you always made me laugh. I'll miss ya bud.
Beth Mahood
September 5, 2012
Oh Charlie Ross, I too was one of the lucky ones who was able to watch you grow up. You introduced me to the wonderful things that Pittsburgh had to offer. The zoo, museums,inclines, Chucky Cheese, Toys R US. You chose Legos on one of our excursions and from there you became an architect. You were a curious adventures kid and maintained that quality into adulthood. You made the lives you touched better.
Andrew Brotsky
September 5, 2012
RIP Charlie. You were always a good friend and although we lost track over the years since UC, I have nothing but good memories. You will be greatly missed.
Bruce, my sincere sympathies.
September 4, 2012
A fine and good Man who will be missed. RIP
Lisa Hollins
September 4, 2012
Charlie it has been years since I last saw you.Remembering you as a little boy going on our Saturday adventures,sharing events with my family. I think back on those days and the joy you brought to all. Those memories bring a smile to my heart. You grew to be a fine young man and now Our Lord has another plan for you,another path to let your light shine!
My sympathies, Bruce
Mike Bass
September 4, 2012
Charlie you were always a great friend and someone I looked up to. We all will miss you!!!
Janice Dawkins
September 4, 2012
Charlie, I miss you like crazy. I'm so glad you came into my life and there's no way I'd ever forget you.You brought so much joy to me and my family. Peace and love. Janice
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