Charlotte Bettina Arrocha

1964 - 2020

Charlotte Bettina Arrocha obituary, 1964-2020, North Richland Hills, TX

Charlotte Bettina Arrocha

1964 - 2020

BORN

1964

DIED

2020

Charlotte Arrocha Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 23, 2020.
Charlotte Arrocha
January 5, 1964 - September 23, 2020
North Richland Hills, Texas - Charlotte Bettina Arrocha, age 56, ended her journey of life on September 23, 2020. With her positive spirit and determination, she lived a rewarding life with a diagnosis of breast cancer for over 7 years. This allowed her to fulfill her primary goal of raising her children through high school and giving them a good start in life as young adults. A mother, daughter, sister, partner, and friend, Charlotte supported us all with advice, encouragement, and enthusiasm throughout her life. She is dearly missed and lovingly remembered.
A native of Atlanta, GA, she grew up in Sandy Springs and attended Ridgeview High School. Perhaps influenced by her mother's advice for her girls to be financially independent, Charlotte always found a way to make money. Her first foray into business was selling her old toys to other kids in the neighborhood. She moved into babysitting, and other jobs including working at the Great American Cookie Factory at Perimeter Mall, and hostessing at Chinese Garden on Roswell Road. Charlotte was also a student of classical guitar during those years.
After high school she attended Georgia Tech for 2 years and went on to graduate with a degree in Business Administration from Rochester Institute of Technology in 1987. Charlotte worked continuously in the field of corporate accounting and finance for over 26 years. She held a variety of leadership positions, most recently, as Controller for Liberty Carton of Texas, where she retired in 2016. Throughout her career, Charlotte's skills in active listening and her can-do attitude inspired co-workers to place their trust in her. She provided for her family while setting an example for other women trying to break through to leadership roles in the corporate world.
Beyond the professional sphere, Charlotte was a talented artist who filled her home with beauty and color. She loved cooking healthy meals for everyone and documenting the lives of her family and friends with her camera. Some of her favorite pastimes included nature walks at Bear Creek Park, zumba classes, no-score ping pong games, laughing until she cried, and sharing a good movie and a bowl of popcorn with her family. Charlotte lived in North Richland Hills and Keller for over 20 years and spent much of her time since her cancer diagnosis supporting and participating in the programs of the Cancer Support Community of North Texas. She was also active in Cancer StrongHer, the Williams Syndrome Association, and Fellowship of Freethought Dallas.
She is survived by her two children, Sarah Arrocha and Roberto Arrocha, Jr, and her significant other, Jaime Hunter. She is also survived by her mother, Betty Pierce of Chapel Hill, NC and her sisters, Susannah Southern of Durham, NC, Scarlet Southern of Taos, NM, and Savannah Southern-Smith of Los Angeles, CA. She is predeceased by her father, Lewis Southern of Atlanta, GA.
In lieu of flowers, consider making a donation to the Cancer Support Community of North Texas.
Charlotte's family is planning to hold a celebration of her life when it is safe to do so.

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November 27, 2020

Heidi Slansky posted to the memorial.

November 25, 2020

Svetlana Earnest posted to the memorial.

November 25, 2020

Vivian DeHart posted to the memorial.

Heidi Slansky

November 27, 2020

Charlotte was a phenomenal woman, a tremendous inspiration, and shining role model. She gave her cancer battle everything she had, including a mean right hook in our Cancer StrongHER boxing classes. Charlotte always kept a smile on her face through it all! Her gentle and calm demeanor belied the fierce fighter beneath the surface. It has been such a pleasure and honor to fight along side her and to get to meet her beautiful family. She embodied the “Stay StrongHER” attitude and will always be one of our most beloved fighters.

Svetlana Earnest

November 25, 2020

I have known Charlotte since 2002 when Sarah and Aleksandr were in the same kindergarten class. I was lucky to call Charlotte my friend for all these years. I really mean lucky. I was not born in the US and I learned a lot from Charlotte. Sometimes small things that people take for granted. Charlotte liked to laugh, but she never laughed at me. She laughed with me. She always had compassion for other people’s feelings. She was a gentle and very considerate person. I miss her greatly.
People listed so many good qualities that characterize Charlotte and she was ALL of them. There is something else I want to add. The most important part of Charlotte’s life was her children, Sarah and Tito. She lived her life for them. She never did anything without considering how it would affect them. She was a SUPER MOM!

"Hotel California" by The Eagles has a line in it:
"We are programmed to receive
You can check-out any time you like
But you can never leave!"
I think it is about people we love who are no longer with us. I still feel that Charlotte is just a phone call away.
Svetlana Earnest
Charlotte’s friend

Vivian DeHart

November 25, 2020

I was one of Charlotte’s Zumba instructors at the Watauga center. She was such a vivacious, warm person. I loved it so much when she and Sarah could make it to class because they were both all smiles and fun enjoying it and dancing their hearts out! We would often talk before or after class about art and plants and cooking, and Sarah’s schooling or job, and always have a laugh about something. I admired her as a mother, her talent, intelligence, humor, never-give-up strength, and a kindness. I have missed her greatly since she wasn’t able to come to class anymore and loved keeping up with her through her beautiful photos on Facebook. My prayers are with her family and friends, especially sweet Sarah. We’ll miss you Charlotte. Love, Vivian

Julie Bass

November 25, 2020

Charlotte was an inspiration to many of us in the Cancer Community. Her positive attitude and love for her family was an amazing thing to see. I’m happy and lucky to have known her. Rest easy sweet Charlotte.

Anna Oakley

November 25, 2020

I met Charlotte under a somewhat different circumstance--she was getting ready to sell her house and enlisted me to help do that. At our first meeting we met in her vacant house, wandered, talked and just sort of clicked. We found common ground in kids, art, and life experiences. She shared her current health status pretty clearly, and I was so impressed with her "why" in selling-- preparing for her kids and Jaime in the upcoming months. It was clear to me that she had learned what was important, how to decide to make days matter, and insure the people in your life know they are loved. We were there way much longer than would have been necessary for the "listing appointment". Charlotte made me feel a part of her goals and drew me into her reality in a way that has stuck with me for more than a year now. I began to follow her via FB and saw her truths come through the photos of her kids, Jaime, her sisters, the neighbor kids, pets, art, etc...I ran into her in a restaurant last Christmas and she was again instantly so warm and friendly. That was Charlotte to me: unabashedly real, in touch with her limits and willing to share the warmth and reasons to live life full on. I REALLY liked her. I wish I had met her years earlier, but for the very short time our paths crossed, I was very impacted by the cool chick she was. I am positive she will be missed by many and equally positive she loved her people hard!

Ralph Nolan

November 24, 2020

Beautiful memories. She was one of the strongest people I have met. She was a great friend and will be deeply missed.
Ralph Nolan

Linda Mckesson

November 24, 2020

Charlotte thank you for your kindness and always listening & helping where you could. I left LDI in 2012 but we found each other on FB. I have missed seeing your posts. At just the right time, God has plucked you up. Too short for many but you leave a wonderful legacy.

Jaime Hunter

November 24, 2020

The box here said: “What would like to say about Charlotte?” Well, whatever I say here won’t be enough. I don’t have to say anything for those who knew Charlotte. You already know how wonderful a person she was.

Charlotte was my soulmate; not just my significant other, but my best friend of all times, as well. Simply put, Charlotte was the best thing that every happened to me.

At just over two months since her passing, my new relationship with grief, with all of its myriad stages, is ongoing. My father Howard passed away also this year, in February. Of course I was saddened by Howard’s passing, but he had lived a very long life, 87 years. It was time. With Charlotte’s passing, it’s a lot different on a lot of levels. I’m hammered by grief unlike anything I’ve ever known.

But hang on; this site isn’t about me. It’s about Charlotte. So in that spirit, I’ll share a “blurb” I had previously posted on Facebook in an attempt to “nutshell” Charlotte’s essence of spirit:

“Charlotte was so good in so many ways, it’s hard to capture in words. She was beautiful, highly intelligent, good-humored, generous, accepting, patient, loving, kind, loyal, superb parent, an expert planner, no-nonsense, clear-headed, 1st class manager (as evidenced at her past professional positions), resourceful, creative, artistic (you should see her works! Incredible!), caring, sharing (she was the best at fine-tuning and sharing photos on Facebook!), culinary-talented (so many delicious, nutritious meals!), active listener (the BEST), photographer, liberal-leaning, but always open to others’ ideas, naturalist (she loved taking close-up photos of flowers, butterflies, bees and the like), a spreadsheet 'guru', universally liked.”

A special “thank you” to Heidi Slansky, who runs the non-profit Cancer Strongher, who was not only a friend to Charlotte, but also provides free guided workouts to breast cancer survivors (which Charlotte enjoyed!), and who provided the wonderful photo that you see on this obit. Heidi sent us a framed version of the photo weeks before Charlotte passed; I treasure it and have it prominently in my house where I get to “greet” Charlotte every day!

Also, a thank you to to Cyndy Cervantes at the Cancer Support Community (CSC) of Tarrant County. Charlotte always talked about how well Cyndy ran things at the CSC. Charlotte and I both benefited via lots of good times, compassionate support, informative guest speakers / presentations, and important connections.

I thank all of you, family and friends, who have been supportive of Charlotte and our “nuclear” family (including Sarah and Tito) during all of the times—happy as well as difficult--of the 11+ years of Charlotte and my relationship we shared together. Priceless.

I will close here by saying that if the world had more Charlottes it would be a much better place--and make no mistake, it IS because of her. There would be more love, compassion, kindness, positivity, and less of all the other bad stuff (e.g. conflict).

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