Charlotte B. Wilder
Charlotte B. Wilder
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She was the beloved wife of the late Philip H. Wilder.
Charlotte was born in Newton. She graduated from Tufts University in Medford, with a Bachelor of Science degree in biochemistry. She spent her career in medical administration.
She belonged to the Mashpee Women's Club and loved golfing and dancing.
Charlotte is survived by her children, Charlie Wilder of Holliston, Peter Wilder of Powder Springs, Ga., Philip Wilder of Worcester, Andrew Wilder of Attleboro, Carol Wilder of Portland, Ore., and Matthew Wilder of Needham.
Charlotte is also survived by her siblings, Victoria Miyara, Ellie O'Toole, Janet Martel and Patricia Gunches. She was predeceased by her son, David Wilder.
A memorial service will be held at Christ The King Church in Mashpee at a later date.
Donations in Charlotte's memory may be made to Hospice & Palliative Care of Cape Cod Inc., 765 Attucks Lane, Hyannis MA 02601, or JML Care Center, 184 Ter Heun Drive, Falmouth MA 02540.
For online guest book, and obituary, please visit www.ccgfuneralhome.com.
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Jan Wilder (David's wife)
May 4, 2009
What a great picture of Charlotte! That signature smile that could light up a room and make you glow yourself. I will miss her very much. I am proud to be a Wilder. Will see you all soon. Love, Jan
Mike Madow
May 1, 2009
Charlie,
You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of mourning. My deepest sympathy to you and your family
Mary Jane Jewett
April 23, 2009
Dear Charlotte, your High School friends will all miss you. God Bless you.
With love, Mary Jane
Mary Jane Jewett
April 23, 2009
Dear Charlotte You will be missed by your High School friends. God Bless you.
Love, Mary Jane
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Denise Knepper-Corcoran
April 23, 2009
Dear Charlie and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. My condolences to you all.
Todd Alving
April 23, 2009
Charlie, so very sorry to hear of the passing of your mother, always available so please don't hesitate if you need an ear....
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April 23, 2009
Our condolences to Charlie and his family
Renee LaPierre
April 23, 2009
So sad to hear of Charlotte's passing, she was a very bright, sunny lady, who was always smiling and loved life.
She will be missed sorely by all who knew & Loved her..
Marion & Ed Bilzerian
April 23, 2009
It saddens us to read that beautiful Charlotte has passed away. Her smile and laughter will always be remembered. Charlotte and dear Phil are together again. We have such fond memories of the earlier years. Our love and deepest sympathy to the family.
dawn fiandaca
April 23, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
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