Raymond Jerome Pease

1951 - 2019

Raymond Jerome Pease obituary, 1951-2019, 06/25/1951 To 06/22/2019, NC

Raymond Jerome Pease

1951 - 2019

BORN

1951

DIED

2019

Raymond Pease Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 24 to Jun. 25, 2019.
Raymond Jerome Pease

06/25/1951 to 06/22/2019 - Raymond Jerome (Jerry) Pease, 67, was born in on June 25, 1951 in New Orleans, Louisiana. He was raised and lived in Slidell, Louisiana until his move to New Orleans in 1974. He moved to Baton Rouge, Louisiana in 1981 with his best friend and partner Laura.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Raymond Jerome Pease Sr. and Hazel "Dootsie" Powers Pease, by his Great Uncle Samuel "Skelly" Currie and Great Aunts Lottie "Nen" Currie Smith and Irene "Skeet" Currie, all of Slidell, Louisiana, as well as several beloved pets.

Ray graduated from Southeastern Louisiana University in Hammond, LA in 1973, putting himself through school by working part time and in summers primarily at the National Grocery Store in Slidell. He was employed by the State of Louisiana for over 33 years until his retirement in 2009. Over his years of State employment, he promoted to a Fraud Investigator for the Department of Social Services, then to Fraud Unit Supervisor, and finally to State Director of Fraud Investigations for DSS. He had a passion for his work and gave it his all, earning the confidence and respect of his staff and other DSS non-investigative staff, United States Secret Service personnel, United States Marshalls, United States Postal Inspectors, and local and state court and law enforcement personnel.

Ray and Laura shared a love of the Western North Carolina mountains and the Blue Ridge Parkway, visiting annually beginning in 1979, staying at the Pisgah Inn on the BRP, then visiting more often when possible throughout the years. In October 1986 they were married at Craggy Gardens, one of their favorite spots on the Parkway. Their dream was realized when they built a home in 2005 in the Biltmore Lake community in Candler, near Asheville, North Carolina and more importantly, close to the Blue Ridge Parkway. They made the permanent move from Louisiana in 2010 after both retired.

Ray loved his life in North Carolina, and took advantage of his proximity to the Parkway, hiking, picnicking, visiting Parkway centers, and just taking short and long rides to appreciate the scenery and remind himself how blessed he and Laura were to be there. He became an active member of St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church, visited almost every new beer brewery in the Asheville and surrounding area, and enjoyed the many friendships he made in his neighborhood, church and around Asheville, especially with the patrons and staff of Blue Mountain Pizza in Weaverville. He and Laura rarely missed a Friday night there, enjoying the food (and beer), laughing and sharing with their good friends Robert and Darlene Phillips, and the comradery with other Friday night regulars and the staff. Topping things off for him was the strong attachment and love for his little beagle, NOLA, who he always called the best dog in the world. That love was reciprocated, resulting in an incredible bond between two friends.

Raymond is survived by Laura Cazaux Pease, his loving, beloved wife of 32 years of marriage and 39 years of sharing life together. He is also survived by his siblings, Charlene "Tweet" Bacques and her husband Hal who was like a second brother, Carey Pease Grush, her husband Lou, and her son Christopher, all of Slidell, James "Jim" Pease and his wife Marcia of Birmingham , Alabama and their son David Pease and partner Michelle Olsen, and daughter Jordan Waller, her husband Mike and their new baby Jack, and Nancy Pease and partner Rick Townley of Baton Rouge, Louisiana. His ties with and love for his siblings were not diminished by miles of separation and the complexities and obligations of adulthood.

Visitation will be at the St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church, 768 Asbury Rd. in Candler, NC, 28715 from 9:30 a.m. to 11 a.m. on Wednesday June 26, 2019, immediately followed by a Funeral Mass celebrated by the Rev. Father Dean Cesa. Following Mass there will be a reception in the Church Activity Room. Inurnment will be held in the St. Joan of Arc Columbarium at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, Ray requested that donations be made in his memory to the Blue Ridge Parkway Foundation, brpfoundation.org, 717 S. Marshall St., Suite 105B, Winston-Salem NC, 27101-5865, or to St. Joan of Arc Catholic Church.

Raymond brought joy and love and generosity to many, and will be sorely missed.

The on-line register is available at GroceFuneralHome.com.

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July 21, 2019

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July 11, 2019

Shelia Jackson Montgomery posted to the memorial.

July 1, 2019

Cindy Meazell Ciruti posted to the memorial.

July 21, 2019

Laura, Max (YMCA) told me about Ray. I was very sad to hear about his passing. Kim

Shelia Jackson Montgomery

July 11, 2019

Laura,
You and your family have my deepest sympathy and prayers.

Cindy Meazell Ciruti

July 1, 2019

Nancy, Tweet, Carrie, Jim and family. I just wanted to say how sorry I am for you loss of Jerry. Your family has always been a source of joy to me, and it is hard to know that you have to suffer this devastating time in your life. Be blessed.

Cindy Meazell Ciruti

July 1, 2019

Laura,
I was so sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. Just wanted you to know that you are in my prayers through this difficult time.

Rhonda M. Mercadel, Esq.

June 26, 2019

Laura,

My condolences to you and your family. Ray was hilarious with his dry wit. Working with him at DSS on fraud cases was a highlight. I appreciated his knowledge and passion to find truth. He was missed when he retired and we still speak of him and laugh. He will be missed. Peace be still. My prayers to you.

Mae C McGuffery

June 25, 2019

So sorry for your loss. What an awesome legacy he left. May you find comfort in knowing we share in your sorrow.

Sharon Jones

June 25, 2019

Laura, I am so very sorry for your loss. May God protect and keep you in this most difficult time of your life. I will keep you in my prayers in the weeks and months to come.

June 25, 2019

Laura, At this difficult time may you see God's love in the faces of family and friends. We enjoyed many years of LSU baseball games with our dear friends ( Laura and Ray ) sitting close to us in Alex Box Stadium. Know that God's love is a caring and lasting love.

Thinking of you with sympathy and our prayers are with you. Myrna and Lester Falgoust

Gaynell Booker

June 25, 2019

Laura,
My prayers are with you.

Donna Clayton

June 25, 2019

Laura So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family

Gina Baudoin

June 25, 2019

Myself & all the girls at Ruffcuts Hair Salon in Baton Rouge are sending hugs & prayers to Laura & the entire Pease family.

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Cory Matessino

Sent Flowers

June 24, 2019

To Laura and the Pease family. I am so sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. He was such a great friend to me. You are in my prayers.
Brian Zschiedrich

Connie Gremillion

June 24, 2019

Laura I'm so sorry for your loss. Please know that you & the family are in my thoughts & prayers.

Rene Colson

June 24, 2019

So sorry for your loss, Laura. Prayers for you and family.

Alison Blevins

June 24, 2019

Laura,
This news has just made my heart and soul cry. Ray was always my biggest supporter in my work career with the state. He always encouraged me to be the best I could be and said such wonderful things in references I asked him to submit on my behalf. I wish I had just one more time to tell him "Thank you for all your influence in my life". It was a sad day for me on many levels when I had to leave Fraud and Recovery.
I also remember the talks and laughs you and I shared when I first met you when we all moved into the Iberville Building.
You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Frank Danley

June 24, 2019

Gone way to early. I enjoyed working with 'Ray' in my tenure with the state. Did not realize we were at SLU at the same time. Prayers for the family.

June 24, 2019

From the extended family of Nybergs (very extended), I want to thank Jerry for including all of us into the Pease family for over 50 years. From my daughter's fear of ovens (to this day), to early morning paper routes,to things best left unmentioned, to welcoming all of us to the Christmas Eve gatherings,. You have been a brother, uncle & much more to 3 generations of our family.
What you & Laura have done for Suzi & I years ago can never be forgotten.
Tell Ray & Dootsie hello for all of us.

God give Laura Grace & Peace as she goes forward in life without her best friend.

God Bless,.

Don

Summers Family

June 24, 2019

Sending love from the Summers Family! Best neighbors we could have asked for. We will miss Ray greatly and Laura we love you and we are only a phone call away!

Charles London

June 24, 2019

A truly great friend and neighbor. Ray was meant to be a service to others. He wanted to help others while pushing back if he thought he might need help. Walking NOLA in the morning was an opportunity to engage with his neighbors and catching up on things. We will attempt to continue your legacy.

Miss you greatly my friend.

Ida and Charles

Rhonda Grace

June 24, 2019

Laura,

May the peace of God and the love of family and friends bring you through this sorrowful time. Praying for you and the family. All is well!

Ben Bearden

June 24, 2019

Laura, so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and Ray's family.

Bonnie Pease

June 24, 2019

My Dear Laura and all of my extended family,

It is with great sorrow that I am writing to you all this day.

I have so many fond memories of Jerry.
I first had the pleasure of meeting Jerry and all of the family with Ken many years prior when the southern Pease family had a camping trip to Groton State Forest and the racoons ate all the fish that Jim & Jerry caught and left in the lake overnight!
It was love at first sight for me and I embraced this family as part of mine! I never laughed so much and continued to laugh whenever we had the opportunity to meet again or just talk on the phone. Jerry was so thoughtful of Justin, Ken and my Grandson. Justin did have the opportunity to meet Jerry and was totally taken with him and so enjoyed speaking with him on the phone from time to time.

Jerry will be greatly missed but will always have a place in my heart.

Laura, please remember that Jerry will only be a memory away, treasure them all!

I am sending to you all my love and my deepest sympathies

Zia Tammami

June 24, 2019

We will miss him greatly.
Best wishes to Ms, Laura and the family.
Zia Tammami
KLSU & WBRH Baton Rouge, LA

Keith & Debbie Powers

June 24, 2019

Keith and I are so deeply saddened over the loss of your dear Ray. It was always such a delight to talk to him about LSU sports and our shared Cajun memories. Please know that you are in our prayers to have strength and peach through the coming weeks and months. Hoping that all of the love and care from your neighbors and family will sustain you. All of those cul de sac rugrats will miss him but I am sure they will shower you with much needed hugs when you need them.

Susan Newman

June 24, 2019

I am sending thoughts, prayers, and condolences to the Pease family. I pray that fond and loving memories will sustain you and give you peace.

Sandra Honeycutt

June 24, 2019

Laura, I am so sorry. I remember Ray as such a nice,, kind guy and a true professional. I have many fond work memories. Please know you and the family are in my prayers for peace and comfort. Take care.

Jana Fox

June 24, 2019

Laura, Mom, Richard and I Love you and Ray
The Foxes

Doug & Bonita LaFleur

June 24, 2019

My heart and breath stopped when I heard the news. Among my first thoughts were of you and the heavy burden and sorrow you will bear if only for a while. I learned so much from Ray, over the course of our career, but even more about his commitment to honored values Because of this and the dear friendship we shared, I know that he will remain in my heart and will be a continuing influence, for the remainder of my life. Bonita and I are so sorry for your loss; so please don'sitate to call, even just to talk.

June 24, 2019

Laura, I am heartbroken for you. Cordell and I loved spending time with you both, and working with Rsy was an honor.

Sending prayers of comfort,
Nanette and Cordell White

Doug LaFlelur

June 24, 2019

Doug

Darrell Curtis

June 24, 2019

Laura: I am so sorry to receive this news. What a beautiful obituary! I remember fondly you and Ray from what I consider "The Alexandria Days", when I got to know you guys. So many good work memories, as well as memories of the laughter and fellowship. Our prayers go with you and the family right now. Love you, and God bless. Best always, Darrell & Susan Curtis, Gonzales, LA.

Jo Ellen Carruth

June 24, 2019

Laura I am so sad to hear of Ray's death. You were just the perfect couple and I remember how you went to the mountains every year. May God bless you with strength to get through this loss. I always enjoyed working with both you and Ray.

June 24, 2019

Laura, I am so sorry for your loss.

Carmen Weisner

June 24, 2019

laura, you know that i am so saddened to see this. you and ray ray stole my heart when you moved to b.l. we hit it off instantly and i grew to love you both! what an awesome life that you shared with ray. may those memories be a comfort to you. with much love~kendall and karen doan

Rhonda Brown

June 24, 2019

Laura, I am so sorry for your loss. Ray was an inspiration in my career and even within the last few months I loved when he called because he gave me the best advice and I valued everything he said. Ray was an amazing man who I always looked up to and admired. You two were so lucky to have each other for all those years. I pray you find peace and comfort over the coming days. God bless.

SA

June 24, 2019

May the God of tender mercy bring you comfort during this difficult time of your life.

David Jacobson

June 23, 2019

Laura - I am so sorry for your loss. Ray was a great influence in my career at DCFS. He was an incredible supervisor and friend. Those 10-11 years we worked together are years I will always remember fondly. I am grateful for the opportunity to have known Ray and for his contribution to my life. I pray God's peace be with you during this difficult time.

Darrell Blair

June 23, 2019

In memory of one of the nicest individuals I have ever known. He was definitely one of the good guys.

Shannon (Andersen) and Nick Lascaro

June 23, 2019

We are so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I retired in 2008 and Ray was ready to get to N.C. and get on with retirement! Ray was such a stand up guy, easy to like, easy to work with. You both were a joy to know. Our thoughts and prayers are with you..

John Broussard

June 23, 2019

Ray was a true professional with impeccable work ethics and outstanding leadership qualities. I will truly miss this wonderful person.

Candice Kinney

June 23, 2019

Laura,
I was so sorry to hear about Ray. I know you have to be broken hearted to have him taken so soon. Seems like just yesterday you'll moved to NC and started the the second phase of your life together. Just know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I know you have some wonderful memories of the good times you shared together which will hopefully help to carry you through this sad time. ❤

Sigfrido Della Valle

June 23, 2019

In Loving memory of Ray.

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