Clotilda Barsotti

Clotilda Barsotti obituary, New Milford, CT

Clotilda Barsotti

Clotilda Barsotti Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 18, 2025.
It is with heavy hearts that we announce the unexpected passing of Clotilda 'Clo' Barsotti of New Milford, CT on July 13, 2025, at the age of 78. Clo was a force of nature, a connoisseur of laughter, and a favorite guest of any gathering. She leaves behind a trail of fun memories, many friends, a beloved family and a caring wife.

Born in the Bronx, New York in 1947, Clo was a vibrant spirit from the start. She had a knack for turning any ordinary moment into a fun event, or spontaneously booking a last-minute cruise to the Caribbean with her sister Eleanor. Her infectious laugh could be heard across a room. and her ability to make friends with anyone, anywhere, was truly remarkable. Clo was a highlight of any gathering and could easily make a new acquaintance into a great friend. She was a very proud Noni to her many fgrandchildren and would often speak of them. She loved tiny dogs and had many over her lifetime. She had a particular fondness for spicy food, a slice of sharp Parmesan cheese and good Mexican beer. Her spirit was bright and colorful, her presence always brought joy and warmth to those around her.

Clo worked as a Correctional Nurse at the Garner State Correctional Facility for many years. She transitioned to a Correctional Social Worker when she received her Masters in Social Work from Springfield University, She retired in 2014.

She is survived by her devoted wife, Gail Fredette, who treasured every moment with her fun-loving wife. She also leaves behind her cherished daughters Debbie Milczarski and her husband Michael,, Donna Beidermen and her husband Ron, her sister Eleanor Cozzolino and her husband Joe, her beloved grandchildren Michael Milczarski, Alyssa Milczarski, Jake Milczarski, Chloe Milczarski, Amanda Beidermen, Ally Beidermen, her niece Danielle Shook and husband Jason, her niece in law Melissa Florio, in addition to many, many friends. All will forever remember her zest for life, her loving nature and her incredible ability to find the humor in every situation. Clo is predeceased by her parents Carmela and Louis Matranga and her nephew Christopher Florio.

A Memorial Mass for this remarkable woman will be held on August 2, 2025 at the First Congregational Church of Washington, CT from 1-5pm. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that you send a donation in Clo's name to the Animal Welfare Society, 8 Dodd Rd, New Milford, Ct 06776

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July 23, 2025

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Jennifer Geiger

July 23, 2025

So sorry for your loss, Gail! I didn´t know Clo but she sounds lovely. Sending hugs, Jen

Doris Caputo-LoSavio

July 22, 2025

It´s so hard to imagine Clo is gone. We shared a friendship of over 70 years. She was one of the older kids in the neighborhood and she made sure the younger ones were safe. Clo always stood up to anyone who wasn´t nice to the younger kids. She was fun loving and easy to be with. I have so many memories of fun times growing up. As friends we went through sad times too and Clo always stood strong. I loved the stories she would tell. Clo was honest and loyal. When she gave advice it came from her heart even if it might not be easy to hear. She was truly one of a kind. Everyone who knew her loved her. I´ll miss our chats. Until we meet again my friend, Rest In Peace, I´ll be thinking of you. Give hugs to those on the other side. My deepest sympathy to Gail and your beautiful family.

Karen

July 18, 2025

We will miss you terribly, Cloe. You made Marissa, Kay and I laugh and smile when we were all together.
We send our love and sympathy to Gail and the entire family. Say hi to Chris and Tyler.

Dave & Sandy Collins

July 18, 2025

Gail, we are so sorry to hear of Clo's passing. We offer our condolences to you and your family during this mournful time. Rest in Peace, Clo.

Donna Miller

July 18, 2025

Gail I am so sorry to hear of Chlo´s passing! I will always remember the fun times with our pizza party´s with Toots. Sending you prayers and hugs.

Pamm Meyer

July 18, 2025

Fly free sister~in~law. May the Goddess light your way to the Summerlands.

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