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Curtis May Obituary
Curt is survived by his parents, Ken and Dianne May; his wife, Kelli May; his daughter, Sidney May; his brother, James May; his nieces and nephew; and many friends he loved like family.
Curt was born in Rhode Island and had called Cottage Grove home over the last decade.
Curt was a devoted son, brother, husband, father, uncle and friend. He was the favorite of many in his life and was quick to smile and tell jokes as he enjoyed making others laugh. He enjoyed boating, fishing for that unattainable marlin, traveling, sporting events, listening to music, spending time with friends and family, talking about space, and singing his favorite karaoke song. His infectious personality was one of a kind. He cared deeply for all those who crossed his path and will forever be remembered for his empathy, compassion, endless love, laughter, and willingness to help anyone who needed it. To know him was to love him. His friends and family will deeply miss him.
A private celebration of life will be held on Saturday, April 27th, 2024.
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Annette Eicher
July 16, 2024
I met Curtis and his family when he was about 10 or 11 years old, and was asked to be his Godmother when he was baptized later. We went on memorable camping trips to the beach and enjoyed all of the fun 4 boys could have- I had 2 of my own. Now, we have only 2 left- my son, Chad, passed away 6 years ago, and now, Curt. It´s a very sad time, but we were all happy to be such good friends for all of these years.
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Allyssa Dedenroth
May 1, 2024
Curt and I had many conversations during his time at UMR. He was an absolutely amazing, kind, and thoughtful person. I truly enjoyed working with him. He will be missed dearly by his UMR family.
Darci Stai
May 1, 2024
Curt and I started training together. Throughout his career with UMR he was always a great resource and always a joy to work with. He was always kind, willing to help, and also to share his wisdom. He will be missed by many.
Cheryl Cervantes
May 1, 2024
I remember when Curt first started getting serious with Kelly. He was so excited and was so happy that his daughter and Kelly got along so well. He was on cloud nine and couldn't wait to come in to tell me about his trips with them to lake. He absolutely love the water and his new little family. He was a great son and always told stories about helping his folks. Good man.
Patti Illingworth
May 1, 2024
I also worked with Curt at UMR - he taught me so much - especially how to laugh at myself and not take all the work stuff too personally. Collaboration is a big word at UMR - Curt collaborated with me to bring a co-worker his favorite beer for his birthday as I could not get it in WI. Now there's a true friend! Spread your angel wings and share all the joy you brought to us here on earth to all those in heaven. Until we meet again my friend.....
Hollie Moon
May 1, 2024
I worked with Curt at UMR and I always enjoyed chatting with him & collaborating on many items through the years. Sending my love to his family. Curt was a funny & quick witted guy. He is missed.
Leyla may
May 1, 2024
I miss him so much He is the best uncle anybody could´ve ever asked for, we would always go for car rides and have long conversations and listen to music, he would teach me how to drive and would always make me laugh. And so much more Rest In Peace
Jo-Ann Hoban
April 25, 2024
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Jo-Ann Hoban
April 25, 2024
Our beautiful cousin Curtis, you will be dearly missed. A happy, positive, fun loving, gentle man. Wish we could have spent more time with you. Only happy memories of you. Lots of love and hugs to all the May family from The Hobans.
Bev and Joe
April 24, 2024
A mountain of joy! He will be truly missed. Bev and Joe
Jodi
April 24, 2024
Curtis was a great guy with a big smile all the time
My deepest condolences to entire family and friends he will be missed
Matt & Jodi McCorkel
Jackie Christensen
April 24, 2024
I first met Curt when he was helping out in Florida on our maintenance team. He always had a huge smile on his face no matter what craziness was going on. I saw him time and time again make a resident's or staff member's day with his help, laughter, and conversation.
My deepest sympathies to all his friends and loved ones.
Mike Rey
April 23, 2024
Could not of asked for a better cousin. Was an honor to be Curt's groomsman at his wedding to Kelli. Always loved my trips up to America and getting to spend time with him.
Love you buddy
Derek Anderson
April 23, 2024
I first met Curt on this wild adventure while working in FL. We clicked as if we had known each other since birth. The jokes and laughter I´ll hold onto forever. My sympathy goes out to the entire family.
Rest in peace buddy
Charlie and Mirtha Rust
April 23, 2024
Sending all our love to our dear friends Dianne and Ken. We met while stationed in Okinawa and our boys were close friends during our tour .
They were and are like family and hearing of their loss of Curtis there are no words . Heaven has gained a beautiful soul. I´m sure in heaven many souls will enjoy his beautiful nature and contagious smile for people that get to know him .
Rest in peace we love you Curtis
Charlie and Mirtha Rust
Domonique Hoban
April 23, 2024
I remember being at my Cousin Bec and Luke´s wedding. I watched Curt tear up the dance floor all night. I was quite young and in awe of his dance moves - he even did the move where you grab your own leg and jump over it. I´ll never forget that
Dommy xx
Donna Mossman
April 23, 2024
Sending love and deepest sympathy to our dear Navy friends, Dianne and Ken, and their loving family.
Donna Mossman and family
Stan & Jean Anderson
April 23, 2024
Curtis and Kelli visited with us at our home in Fort Myers, FL about a year or so ago. We so enjoyed talking with them and had lots of good laughs. It is with deep sympathy for the entire family that we send this note.
Curtis, rest in peace.
Stan & Jean Anderson
mary may
April 23, 2024
he was the most loving and caring person ive ever met. the best uncle anyone could have. i will always cherish our memories and time we had together.
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