Daniel "Dan" O'Brien

Daniel "Dan" O'Brien obituary, Emmetsburg, IA

Daniel "Dan" O'Brien

Daniel "Dan" O'Brien Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 20, 2023.

In Loving Memory
Daniel "Dan" O'Brien
September 20, 1954 - January 16, 2023

Dan's service will be livestreamed on the Martin-Mattice Funeral Home Facebook page.

VISITATION
Thursday, January 19, 2023
4:00 - 7:00 P.M.
Martin-Mattice Funeral Home
Emmetsburg, Iowa

ROSARY
Thursday, January 19, 2023
3:30 P.M.
Martin-Mattice Funeral Home
Emmetsburg, Iowa

PARISH VIGIL SERVICE
Thursday, January 19, 2023
6:45 P.M.
Martin-Mattice Funeral Home
Emmetsburg, Iowa

MASS OF CHRISTIAN BURIAL
Friday, January 20, 2023
10:30 A.M.
Holy Family Catholic Church
Emmetsburg, Iowa

CELEBRANT
Rev. Bill Schreiber

BURIAL
St. John's Catholic Cemetery
Emmetsburg, Iowa


Daniel J. O’Brien, son of Dean and Helen (Lorig) O’Brien was born September 20, 1954 in Emmetsburg, Iowa.  He began his education at Emmetsburg Catholic School and after completing 8th grade Dan continued his education at Emmetsburg High School, graduating in 1972.  While in high school Dan wrestled for the E’Hawks.  He was employed at Farlow’s Service Station during high school and after graduating.  Dan then enrolled in the Auto Mechanics program at Iowa Central Community College in Fort Dodge. 


On August 3, 1973 Dan was united in marriage to LuAnn M. Nelson at St. Thomas Catholic Church in Emmetsburg.  They were blessed with three sons and a daughter.  Dan and LuAnn had the joy of spending 49 years together.


Dan’s love of hunting, fishing and trapping led him to train as a Conservation Officer in Des Moines.  He then accepted a position with the Palo Alto County Conservation service.  In the 1980s Dan owned and operated Dan’s D-X and later became the grounds keeper at the Emmetsburg Golf Course from 1990 until 2005.  During this time Dan also drove bus for the Emmetsburg school district.  In 2005 he began working for the City of Spencer at the landfill.


Dan was a family man and loved spending time with LuAnn and their children  When his kids were young he made sure they learned the value of working hard but having fun was also a priority.  He enjoyed watching the boys wrestle and taking the entire family to wrestling meets and tournaments.  He was a supportive member of Little E’Hawk Wrestling and had been a member of Jaycees.  Dan served on the Emmetsburg Fire Department for many years.


Dan looked forward to snowmobiling in the winters, racing and riding motorcycles in the summers and working on his vintage cars throughout the year.  He rarely turned down an opportunity to go hunting and fishing and even tried his hand at doing taxidermy.  Dan’s friends and family will forever remember his sense of humor and the jokes he loved to tell ("Dan-erisms").  When Dan became a grandparent his life was made more special and he loved spending any time he could with his grandchildren.


Dan passed away Monday, January 16, 2023 at his home in Emmetsburg, Iowa at the age of 68.  He was preceded in death by his parents, Dean and Helen O’Brien; his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Charles and Edna Nelson; and a brother-in-law, Paul Elsbecker.


He is survived by his wife, LuAnn of Emmetsburg, Iowa; his children, Joseph (Nicole Newlon) O’Brien of Madrid, Iowa, Jason (Susan Kenyon) O’Brien of Ames, Iowa, Janell (Nicholas) Wanderscheid of Madrid, Iowa and Jeffrey (Emily Horan) O’Brien of Huxley, Iowa; seventeen grandchildren; two brothers, Jim O’Brien of Des Moines, Iowa and Mike (Gayle) O’Brien of West Des Moines, Iowa; two sisters, Therese Elsbecker of Zionsville, Indiana and Joan O’Brien (Andrew (Lietzow) of Des Moines, Iowa; nieces and nephews; as well as many other relatives and friends.



Arrangements by Martin-Mattice Funeral Home

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December 6, 2023

Mark Langerud posted to the memorial.

January 24, 2023

Tim & Sharon Weishaar posted to the memorial.

January 23, 2023

Ron and Roberta Hersom posted to the memorial.

Mark Langerud

December 6, 2023

LuAnn, so sorry to read of the passing of Dan.

Tim & Sharon Weishaar

January 24, 2023

LuAnn and family,
Our heartfelt sympathies for your loss of Dan. Always appreciated his "out of the norm" sense of humor and way of putting things. His passing has left a void in our lives and he will be missed.

Ron and Roberta Hersom

January 23, 2023

Our deepest sympathy to Dan's family.

Anthony Stubbs

January 19, 2023

I enjoyed Dan's love for Emmetsburg wrestling and his work ethic when we were remodeling the second floor of McNally's Bakery for Little E'Hawks. In addition, he was always fun to talk to about classic Chevy automobiles. The night of Bob Kenny's going away party, Dan dressed up in his early seventies Emmetsburg wrestling singlet and tights. It is a rare man that can fit into his high school wrestling uniform.

Maureen/ Joel Horsley

January 19, 2023

Deepest sympathy to LuAnn n family,
Dan left far too soon. May the memories n love of family n friends hold you during this time.

Kathy Frambach Kliegl

January 18, 2023

So sorry to hear of Dan's passing.Thoughts and prayers for all his family.

Linda/Steve Pitt

January 18, 2023

LuAnn and family, we are so sorry to read the news of Dan’s passing. My God wrap you in his loving arms.
Steve and Linda Pitt

Tim Coleman

January 18, 2023

Lu Ann and family! What a shock! Prayers thoughts and memories are what we are left with. Thinking of Moronies rock and all the good old days. Dan will be missed by many. Thinking of you and family!

Sheila Miller

January 18, 2023

So very sorry to hear of Dan’s death. Sending my sympathies and prayers to LuAnn and entire O’Brien family.

Garwin Anderson

January 18, 2023

My sympathy to all hard times o believe he’s gone same age as me

Greg & Norma Haack

January 18, 2023

LuAnn & Family,
So sorry to hear of Dan's passing, you have our deepest sympathies! Greg & Norma

January 18, 2023

I’m so sorry to hear of Dan’s death. My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family at this very sad time.
With sincere sympathies
Louise Wikert Smith

Maureen Horsley

January 17, 2023

LuAnn n family,
So very sorry for Dan's passing. Deepest sympathy. Maureen n Joel

Marilyn Gappa

January 17, 2023

Sincere sympathy. God bless you at this sad, difficult time.

Cheryll and Matt Schell

January 17, 2023

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your family

Dave Potratz

January 17, 2023

Luann and family, so sorry to hear of Dan's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Dave Potratz

Jim & Jan Stillman

January 17, 2023

Sympathy and prayers for Dan’s family.

Dick and Anne Marie Nelson

January 17, 2023

Our deepest sympathy to each of the O’Brien family members. Dan was the brother-in-law with the wry humor, not appreciated by all, that made us laugh out loud more often than not. We will miss that humoruntil we meet again

JoAnn Coakley

January 17, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss.

Judy & Dick Sample

January 17, 2023

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Our sympathies

Thomas Hauber

January 17, 2023

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Hugs to all, Tom & Tam

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