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July 26, 2007
"A day without laughter is a day wasted."
Dan never wasted a single day. I hope to follow in his footsteps. My thoughts are with your family in these difficult times.
Cynthia Colin
July 24, 2007
My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family. I was saddened by the news of the loss of your son. May you find comfort in knowing there are many, many who care and keep you and your family in their prayers.
July 24, 2007
If hugs could come to us from heaven in the form of tears shed, you would have a more than a million. Dan's catching smile and big hugs will be missed.
Brenda Surwillo
July 22, 2007
Dear Chris, Lisa and Selsor Family, We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.
Terry,Brenda, Terry & Johnny Surwillo
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Dianne Schuette
July 22, 2007
Pam and family,
We were very sad to hear of your loss. Please know we are praying for you and thinking about you.
The Schuette Family
(Gary, Dianne, Valerie, Andy, and Jamie)
Victoria Reinbold
July 18, 2007
Chris, Pam, Nate, Sam, and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Dan's sweet smile and contagious laughter. He was loved by many. I have been blessed with wonderful memories that will never be forgotten. Dan has touched the lives of so many people. He will be missed but never forgotten!!!!
Tori
April White
July 18, 2007
To Chris & Lisa and the entire Selsor Family. You have my deepest sympathy for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers in the coming months. May God's Peace Comfort You.
Joe Dreyer
July 18, 2007
Chris, Lisa & Family,
You are in my prayers... no words can express my sadness... I have read the entries and wish I had known Dan... Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you... just give me a call.
Eric Haislar
July 18, 2007
Dear Chis, Pam, Nate, and Sam
I still remember building all the club houses ,playing in the snow, riding bikes, and all the fun we had together around the neighborhood growing up. Dan always made me laugh with his wonderful sense of humor, I will miss that most of all. Please let me or my family know if there is anything we can to for you during this difficult time.
Aruna Mandadi
July 18, 2007
Pam, I was deeply saddened to hear the news about the sudden death of Dan. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.I know you will miss Dan greatly. You have my deepest sympathy. I will be in touch to see if you need help.
John & Tonya Eimer and family
July 18, 2007
Pam and family, We are sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
(Aunt) Kristin Lamb
July 18, 2007
Lisa, Chris, Dustin, Nate, and Sam--i am so sorry to hear about all that has happened. Dan will be missed so much. He was one of the best nephews I ever could have asked for..he is one of the best types of nephew--not by blood but by choice. My thoughts and prayers are with you all the way from Va Beach..wish i could be there in person but my heart is there with you...I love you all so dearly!!! Dan will be an asset to our family to help look over all of us..it is a huge job with as many of members of family he has..all my love...
Tammy Conger
July 17, 2007
The Selsor Family: We are so sorry for your loss, and for everyone who knew him. When ever you saw Dan he was always smiling and happy. He will be missed but not forgotten and everyday I walk out of my house I will think of him everytime I see the mailbox that he just replaced for me. It's a story a few of us know and will cherish that memory for a very long time. Dan we will miss you, but you will be with us eveyday!
Tammy,Steve,Matt&Andy Conger
Sr. Carolyn Pozarich
July 17, 2007
Dear family of Dan,
I was just told about Dan and wanted you to know how sorry I was to hear it.I enjoyed having Dan in my class in third grade. He brought us all a lot of joy. I send my prayers especially to Pam, his mom, and to Sam-I-Am, his little brother .
Andrew Greaves
July 17, 2007
To Mrs. Selsor, Nate and Sam:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My family will keep all of you in our prayers.
I can still remember melting crayons in the heater with Dan in Mrs. Stroup's room like it was yesterday.
Dan was one of the funniest guys I have ever known. He will be missed.
I am sorry-
Andrew Greaves
Sherry Price
July 17, 2007
Chris and Lisa,
I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Helen Greaves
July 17, 2007
To the Selsor Family:
We are all so sorry to hear about Dan. Please find the your strength in knowing that he is ok and in a happy place. I know this is hard for all of you. Please let us know if there is anything we can do.
With love, The Greaves Family
The Cantino Family
July 17, 2007
Chris, Pam, Nate, and Sam,
Please accept our sympathies. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Leigh Ann Tumbrink
July 17, 2007
Pam,
I'm so sorry to hear about your son. You and your family are definitely in my prayers.
Leigh Ann
Cedric Mitchell
July 17, 2007
I'm truly sorry for your loss. May peace and serenity come to you and your family soon.
Mary Ann Crow
July 17, 2007
To the Selsor family: My prayers are offered to our Lord during this painful time for you all. May He welcome Dan to His kingdom and protect him there.
Tony Drago
July 17, 2007
dan was a great guy. i just saw him last wednesday and when i found out i couldnt believe it. i was in shock to hear it. my prayers go out to the selsor family. stay strong
Don Hart
July 17, 2007
Chris,
Please accept my condolences. The Hart and Evans families' thoughts and prayers will be with you and yours.
Kathy & Greg Fister
July 17, 2007
Chris, Lisa, Nate, Sam and Dustin,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Dan was a great son, brother and friend. He was polite and always seemed genuinely glad to see us; greeting us with a handshake or a hug. We will miss him.
Denise Sielfleisch
July 17, 2007
We sure enjoyed Dan's humor over the years. He spent a lot of time with us in grade school. Always the polite, outgoing, and talkative young man. So sorry that his life was cut short. Words can not express the sadness we feel for his family.
Love The Sielfleisch Family
Cyndi & Jodi (Mindy & Kevin's nieces; cousins to Laura, Natalie & Jackie)
July 17, 2007
Dear Chris, Pam, Nate, Sam and the entire Selsor family... Please accept our deepest sympathies as we were so sorry to hear of Daniel's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time of sorrow.
Sam & Mimi Whaley
July 17, 2007
Pam, We were so sorry to hear about Dan. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family
Jerry Guignon and Family
July 17, 2007
Pam, Chris, Nate and Sammy,
Dan was a very likable young man who had a wonderful sense of humor, tons of energy and a friend to many. Our encounters with Dan were always most enjoyable. He will be missed. We wish only the best for the entire Selsor family during these very difficult times .
Suzanne Rainey (RSHS teacher/'06 mom)
July 17, 2007
Dear Selsor Family,
I can't even think of the right words to express my sorrow at the loss of your son and brother. Dan was a lively kid who always had something funny to say...he will be greatly missed by those who knew him. You all are in my prayers...God be with you.
Tammy Walker
July 17, 2007
Pam, I'll always remember Dan's smile and laughter. My heart aches for you and your family. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Sean Leisse
July 17, 2007
To the Selsor Family:
I had the privelege of knowing Dan through Cory.. and it's still a shocking realization to know that such a thoroughly sincere human being left this world so early. I surely will never forget him, or how I felt when I heard this news. I came back from Chicago as soon as I knew the dates for the services.
I offer my most sincere condolences.
Lauren Glover
July 17, 2007
Dear Selsor Family,
I am extremely to hear about the loss of Dan. He was a great guy he always knew how to make me laugh. He was such a great person and you should be proud of yourselves for raising such a great guy. He always made the best of everything. Remember him for all those memories and good times.. DAN i love you and will miss you very much thanks for letting me get the chance to know you... R.I.P. but live through all of us who love you.
Erika Davis
July 16, 2007
Dear Selsor family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I went to school with Dan and graduated with him. Dan was one of the nicest guys i have met, and always knew how to put a smile on your face. Stay strong. You are all in my prayers.
Michelle Selsor
July 16, 2007
There are no words, I love you all so much! Dan will be missed greatly!
Dustin Glover
July 16, 2007
Dan was one of those guys that could put a smile on any face and treated everyone as a friend. Dan will be missed by everyone that got the chance to know him and his family will remain in all of our thoughts and prayers.
Arnie, Carol, Jen & Shelley Feldmeier
July 16, 2007
Dear Chris,Pam,Nate& Sam,
Our very deepest condolences for your loss. We will always remember Dan as a very special young man and we will have all of you in our prayers.
Tim Selsor
July 16, 2007
Dan had that gift that the giants of industry and the leaders of the world have. He made everyone he talked to feel like he was so interested in them and what they had to say. He did it with the greatest smile and will be missed so much.
Carl Wood
July 16, 2007
I had the privilege of working with Dan for about three years. I will always remember his enthusiasm and his energy. I am deeply sorry for your loss. I consider it an extraordinary honor having known and laughed with Dan. He and his family will be in my thoughts and prayers as well as the thoughts and prayers of my family.
Robert and Stephanie Schrader
July 16, 2007
We are very sorry for your loss and wish you strength and healing.
Chris, Shelley(Feldmeier), Nathan and Brenna Sadler
July 16, 2007
We are so sorry to hear about Dan. I had the pleasure of taking care of your wonderful boys a few years back and am grateful for every moment. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Heather Van Gels
July 16, 2007
He was a great guy who was loved by many. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Kyle McCord
July 16, 2007
I went to grade school with Dan. He will be missed greatly. Dan will always be remembered for being the great guy that he was. My condolences to the Selsor family. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Corey Phillips
July 16, 2007
Everyone that knows this family loves them and you are in my thoughts and prayers
Corey
Sheri Strebler
July 16, 2007
Pam and boys,
We are so very sorry to hear about your loss on the St. Paul Prayer Chain. We are out of town and can not make the wake. Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and always.
Hugs,
Sheri and the Streblers
July 16, 2007
Chris, Lisa & Selsor Family: Words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy. We pray that God will comfort you and your family through the loss of your dear son, Daniel. As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. We will keep you and your family in our continued prayers.
Love, Debbie & Don Pyszka
Jeanne Kohlberg
July 16, 2007
Dear Selsor family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as deal with this tragedy.
Bill, Jeanne, Nick, Amy and Michael Kohlberg
Lauren Becker
July 16, 2007
Dear The Selsor Family,
I am terribly sorry for your loss. Dan was an amazing person and I am happy to say that I had the chance to know him. Dan was always very nice to me while we were at St. Paul. I will pray for your family. Be happy to say that Dan was part of your family because he is loved and missed by many.
Staci Faubion
July 16, 2007
Chris and Lisa, I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.
Marken Gannon
July 16, 2007
Pam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!
Theresa Fargo
July 16, 2007
Chris, Lisa and entire Selsor family; I am so very sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers~ Sincerely, Theresa Fargo
Kim, Janet, Chris, Nicole and Mike (The Miller's)
July 16, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Dan was a good friend to Mike, he will truly be missed.
Beth Slais
July 16, 2007
Dear Selsor Family, Dan was a very close friend of Tim and Scott.Dan always had a smile that could light the room. He was the only one who could get Scott to get off his duff and go do fun, active things, they would walk Chubb trail, to to the art museum,etc. Dan stayed with our family for awhile about a year or so ago, he really felt like another son to us.All of you are in our prayers and thoughts. We want you to know how very sorry we are for your loss. The Slais Family
Luke Fernandez
July 16, 2007
I went to High School with Dan and knew him well. Along with myself and all the students of RSHS 2006 we will miss him very much. As we wish the best to the entire Selsor Family through your rough times ahead.
Kasey Gannon
July 16, 2007
Pam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything that you need.
Nancy Bammer
July 16, 2007
Chris, I am very sorry for your lose.
Mary and Jim Maguire
July 16, 2007
Dear Pam, Chris, Lisa, Nate, and Sam,
Our deepest condolences are with each one of you. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers especially during the difficult days ahead. May your memories of the happy times that you shared with Dan and the deep love that he possessed for each one of you, bring you comfort.
Jane, Shaun & Stephanie (The Morgan Family)
July 16, 2007
To the Selsor Family:
My son Shaun was a good friend of Dan's. He was always well liked by our family and we will surely miss him. We are truly sorry for your loss as well as our's as he meant a lot to us.
Reina May
July 16, 2007
Pam, Rudy and I and our entire family ask that God give you the comfort you need at this time. I just ran into him about a month ago, he looked great. We love Dan like a son. He was a great kid. Our sincerest prayers are with you and your family. Love, The May Family.
Andrea Bonsanti
July 16, 2007
Dear Selsor Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I don't know if you remember me. My name is Andrea Bonsanti (Forchee). I tutored Nate in Spanish when he was in Kindergarten. I have thought of your family often over the years. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I too lost a brother recently.
Kathy Ledbetter
July 16, 2007
Dear Pam, Chris and family:
My heart goes out to you in your time of grief. It seems like only yesterday when Dan and Ben were hanging out, and Dan with his silly smile that could lighten up a room ... I am grieving for each and every one of you. I will be in touch with you, Pam, as soon as I return from my business trip in Houston. I am truly sorry that I cannot make the wake - but please know that I will be there in spirit, friendship and support. This world has truly lost one of its youngest, brightest lights. So much ahead of him. My love to you.
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