Danna Wilner Schaeffer obituary, 1943-2022, Portland, OR

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Danna Wilner Schaeffer

1943 - 2022

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Jeremy Carlson

July 12, 2025

To our friend, Danna. You are and will always remain our always.

Jenny

September 23, 2024

Grazie x aver messo al mondo Rebecca

Tonga Foster

September 12, 2024

So very sorry for your loss... May both of these beautiful Ladies be reunited in Heaven and watch over you Sir until you meet again. Sincerely Tonga Hartzell Foster Deer Creek Indiana

Mco

July 18, 2024

35 years ago today, the world lost Rebecca. I didn't know her mother passed away. I'm sorry to hear this, but glad they are reunited. Rest in peace, Rebecca and Danna!

billy

May 25, 2024

May the thought of Rebecca being reunited with her mother once again bring you all comfort and peace.

IVORY EVET E RANDOLPH

May 18, 2024

Rebecca r.i.p.. danna passed on rebecca's birthday. Wow they are together.

Karen Lawson

January 22, 2024

Hello Benson,

So sorry to hear about Danna's passing. I was 27 back in 1989 when I heard of the tragic loss of Rebecca. It still bothers and upsets me to this day. Now they are reunited again in heaven. God Bless you.

Roxanne

November 5, 2023

Danna I hope you're with your daughter Rebecca. Rebecca was a light. Amen

Sandy Jas

August 31, 2023

Lighting 2 candles for both Rebecca and Danna!

Harriet Helberg

August 30, 2023

This can not be?! How is it real? I just read something on your page Benson and am belatedly in shock.The world will never be the same without Danna.
My heartsick condolences
And LOVE

Mary Madden

July 18, 2023

Rebecca was exactly one week younger than me. Heartbroken her life was cut so short and for all the things she never got to do. So proud of her mother for all of her accomplishments and all she did in her daughter's honor. They are finally reunited forever. Mary Madden Shippensburg PA

Richard

July 3, 2023

A strong soul, and now joining her daughter in peace.

Al Wakelin

February 20, 2023

I recently completed and q self published novel -crime fiction - that was in part inspired by Rebecca's tragic loss. In the summer of 1989, I was an Intelligence Officer with the Canadian Security and Intelligence Service, who was reconsidering my move from the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. A culmination of occurrences, including Rebecca's femocide, determined my return to policing. I felt that I could do more good on the front line than in the shadows! While doing some research on Rebecca's case, including the huge influence her loss had on changing laws in California and federally, I came upon her In Memoriam web page. What a wonderful tribute; it speaks volumes to life, love and loss. Danna obviously had to channel her loss, her love and her life. I only wish we could have met. My most sincere condolences to family & friends. Both Rebecca's and Danna's lives and influences were felt!

Diane Solomon

February 12, 2023

I was so saddened and shocked to see this. Benson, I met Danna back in the mid-late-90s, and you also, in a book group at Broadway books. Danna even came to visit once when I lived in Hood River, and then we worked in the same building, downtown. I am so very sorry for your loss. Danna was an incredible, creative, brilliant, loving woman. We are all diminished by her death. May you be comforted among the mourners of Zion.

Judith Pullan

February 5, 2023

Dear Benson, I'm so, so sorry for your loss of Danna's bright, smart, sturdy, complex, caring companionship. I'm glad I knew her. Judith

Pam H.

February 1, 2023

This incredible woman was a true light in my life. Danna´s wit, grace, and accepting nature inspire me, and make me smile each time I think of her... which is often. I will miss you Danna, I love you, I was very blessed to know you.

Greg and Martha

January 31, 2023

We are so sorry to learn about Danna's death. She dealt with her sadness about Rebecca in creative ways that were helpful to us in our grief, and we appreciated her openness and sharing. We are so sorry, Benson. What a huge loss. Not fair.

Karen Fisher

January 30, 2023

Danni was really a very special person. My heart goes out to you Benson as I know this is a huge loss. I am so happy that I did get to reconnect with her.

Mark Weinbrenner

January 29, 2023

Benson: Please accept my deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences on the passing of your wife.
May God bless her soul and reunite her with Rebecca for all eternity.

Jeff Hicks

January 29, 2023

Benson: I am so sorry to read of Danna's passing. My heartfelt condolences to you.

Phil Lewis and Dominique Brillanceau

January 29, 2023

We had not seen Danna for several years but were saddened to hear of her passing. We got to know Danna, Benson and to some extent their daughter, Rebecca, many years ago when our sons were little, and Rebecca was a young successful actress in LA. We remember their lives being shattered by Rebecca's murder and seeing how everything changed. We still speak of that loss. And, we will still be speaking of both that and of Danna's amazing and varied talents.

Carol Walnum

January 20, 2023

My beautiful, talented friend.

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