Darla Cole

Darla Cole

Darla Cole Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 18, 2024.
Darla Jean Cole, age 72, passed away on November 8, 2024, in Lakeside, CA. Born on October 20, 1952, Darla's life was marked by her profound love for animals, her dedication to her family, and her passion for gardening. Darla is survived by her mother, Edna Crist; her husband John Cole; her sons, Jason Shackelford and James West; her grandson Jason West; and her half-brother, Art Gustafson. She was preceded in death by her stepdad, Clifford Crist, and her daughter, Amanda West. Darla's memory will be cherished by all who knew her as a beacon of love and care.

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November 20, 2024

Julie Freeman posted to the memorial.

November 18, 2024

Dawn planted trees.

November 18, 2024

Dawn McGrosso posted to the memorial.

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Julie Freeman

November 20, 2024

God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. May her soul rest in peace, and may God give you peace and strength to go on.

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Dawn McGrosso

November 18, 2024

Darla was one of my best friends, sister in law and partner in crime since I came into the West family at 19 years old. Her, Angela Mullarkey and I had the best times together. Without too much detail we were hellions....love you my dearest friend and will always cherish the memories we shared. rest in peace until we meet again!!!

Christine

November 18, 2024

Darla, you will truly be missed but never forgotten. Hummingbirds and butterflies will be the gentle reminder of you.

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November 20, 2024

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November 18, 2024

Dawn planted trees.

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Dawn McGrosso posted to the memorial.