Darryl L. Vincenti Jr.

It's been a while! It's raining today out here in Vegas. Feels quite refreshing considering the heat. Things are good. Love ya friend

Hello my friend. Times are tough here on earth. You are missed but I'm sure you're chillin somewhere looking at all of us wondering the same thing we are. What's next? You're still in my heart. Just thought I'd stop by and say hi. Since the day you went away, every year I have a monarch butterfly land on me. He hangs with me for a few and then flies away. Thanks for stopping. Love you DJ.

July 28, 2010 There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you or talk to you. Thank You for always making me feel "special" with so many memories. There's only ONE "DJ" and no one can ever replace you. I am very Thankful to have been a part of your life. Thanks for still being able to make me SMILE. I will MISS you Always and LOVE YOU Forever. Pat Nicolai Round Lake Beach, Illinois

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

I remember DJ when he was about 12 years old: What a great kid. Always kind, respectful, good to his sisters, his mom & dad. ... To Dana, I'm so very sorry for your loss; to Nelly and Dynette, I send you a very big hug ... Maria

DJ,

I remember the stories you use to tell back when we were so young. And I cannot forget the memories we had in recent years, only you and I could tell. I will cherish those memories with you as long as I live.

I recieved the card from your sister today, and cried like a baby.I truly believe we connected as cousins on a different level. I love you, and miss you. Hard to imagine.

I'm sorry I couldn't come to your wake, my friend. I only found out this day, on the internet. I enjoyed the times we have spent togeather. You were a great friend and I always had great respect for you and your mother.

DJ - I'll miss you more than you can ever know. My heart goes out to Dana and his family.

As the days and weeks past im still shocked..You were and always wil be the best boss i ever had..I still can hear you say you want 52 dances from me..you always had confidence that i could do it..You always took your time to listioned to my ideals though i had many..I'ma miss you..Thank you and thank you Dana for having me work for you two..

R..i.p Deej

Darryl,

my classmate and my friend since we were like five years old. I have often reflected on your wonderful sense of humor and your ability to make people feel better. I remember meeting your wonderful son on several occasions and he has your kind disposition. My prayers are with your family at this great time of loss. Peace and Grace of God be with you all.

Vicki Lynn Bihun

Vicki Lynn Bihun

When my little friend Ambyr Sweet called me last Week and told me the bad news I wondered what is this some kind of joke? But I knew by the urgency and seriousness in her voice that she feared the worst and common sense told me she wouldn’t joke about something like that. Although, neither of us were sure if it were true or only a bad rumor, I told her I would find out and thought to go to the source and call your phone. When your sister answered my heart sank to my toes. I knew at that moment I wasn’t gonna like what I was about to hear.
The past few weeks you were all pumped up about that motorcycle I remember you telling me how you couldn’t wait and I also remember thinking if anything would put you here it would be that bike and I was quite honestly more worried than enthused about the prospect of you getting it. Nothing on you bro, I know you were a great biker but I’ve lost a lot of friends and acquaintances because the other guy didn’t see the biker and hit them.
I’ll never forget about how when I was about to leave for three years you kissed me on the cheek and said “take care bro I’ll see you when you get back.” No other guy would have done that and I knew it was from the heart and regarded it as the highest compliment. I also remember how upon my return, you told me “Dave your too good hearted, watch out bro some of these girls will chew you up and spit you out” if I wasn’t careful! That was great advice but like you, unfortunately I can’t help my nature.
When I criticized you for being unfair to some of the girls, on one occasion in particular you did the stand up thing and invited her to your house you joined two friends back together and got re-acquainted. That took a real man to not only admit in your own way you were wrong but to go so far as to allow all parties to set themselves straight and enabled their friendship to rekindle. I greatly admired that about you.
Deej, it was just last week we were at the gym and you seemed vigorous and strong pushing 300 pounds of weight………How could this happen so fast? For me the gym and the club will never be the same without your spectacular charisma.
Deej, over the decades I have known you, we suffered through highs and lows and through human weakness and addictions that can consume us all. The newest one was the weight training and you told me it was your new high and pushed yourself to the limits like you always seemed to do in life in your extremism. But it was a good addiction and you were so positive. I was honored to be your workout partner. I will always hear your voice in the gym and use your training advice. I won’t forget how you helped me train and how you always called me bro. After having lost two brothers, I feel no different with your loss.
I’ll never forget how you would say to me “you don’t understand bro” when you tried to explain something to me, then went on to shed light on whatever the subject.
When I look inside that wooden box that holds the shell of your mind, spirit, soul and essence I can only hope some of what was contained therein has found its way into each of us and from your untimely death and some good comes of it all. This makes me realize all the more of how each minute I spend with someone I care about or love is irreplaceable and to be cherished.
Deej, you left us all and we feel the loss of your awesome presence in uncountable and various ways and with that I can only murmer the lyrics of Pink Floyd, the band you loved so much and say…..

…..wish you were here.

To Darryl's immediate family and friends and especially his mother Dana words can't express the sadness i feel for you. I will extend my shoulder to cry on. call 203-5122.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this sad time. May time and your memories help ease some of the pain. Our deepest sympathy to the family.

I'm so sorry to hear about Darryl passing away. I have many fond memories of time spent around Lake Como.
My condolences to the family.

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

It's still hard to believe that you are gone DJ. You were always a great and caring guy to everyone. You could make anything smile or laugh no matter what kind of day they were having. I'll miss you!!!! And little Darryl you hang in there if you ever need me email me at: [email protected]
And my deepiest sympathy for the rest of DJ's family and friends.
With love,
Anna Grenlund(morris)

To all of Darryl's immediate family, as well as his extended family and friends I offer my deepest sympathy.

Nancy Gawlik
Janesville, WI

To all the Vincenti's:

Darryl was a big part of my younger year memories. I will always remember him. My condolences to his sweet sisters Dynette, her younger sister Danial, and his mother Dana. With Deepest Sympathy to his extended family and friends.
Nancy Gawlik
Janesville, WI

Dear Dana and Family,I heard about Baby Darryl's death and was shocked.I will always remember the first time I saw his beautiful smile and how much happiness he brought to me when I was around him. He was always respectful to me. It was so untimely. I will always remember him. Our deepest sympathy to you Dana. I know how much you truly loved him.Sincerely, Margie and Vic Giannotti

Dj-
I wish I could change things. I wish I could bring you Back. I know you will be watching over us. You took me under your wing for three years and in your famous word "Schooled me" to become one of your guys at the shack. Things were going good. We were going places. I was proud of your accomplishments this past year. I never enjoyed working somewhere as much as I do at the shack. Thanks to you. You will never be forgotten and I will carry on with what you wanted and the way you schooled me Bro. I won't let you down. Every time I mark that dance sheet Ill be thinking about you. I love you man!

Mike Aka Pretty Boy

DJ and I have only been friends for a short time but I felt an unbelievable connection with him. I lost my brother a few years ago and he and DJ were not only the same age, I swear they were soul mates. Both shared a similar past, same body type, voice, personality, etc. I was helping DJ to achieve his physique goal and was so proud of him. We were consantly talking about the riding we were going to do when his bike was done. I called him Wed morning to see if he was getting the shovel and was horrified by the news. My girlfriend Tina and I have been praying for Rachel, Darryl jr, and the rest of the family. Bro, you will be missed....

Jeff and Tina....

I will love and miss you my friend. Save me a seat, because on day I will see you again.

DJ, you always welcomed me with a smile when I saw you. Thank you for all of the advice you have given to me over the years. Your life was taken to early. Your memories left in us will live forever. Keep smiling! (J: Conan the Barbarian 1995-1997)

Darryl my friend, your life was far too early to end.
The world seems so much emptier without your essence, soul and charisma.
I'll miss you in the gym, I'll miss you at the club and I'll miss youi in my life. I feel like I lost a brother.
May the light of your life shine on bro.

I will miss your 5:00 A.M. phone calls. I will miss your laughter and your smile and the way you could make me smile just by BEING YOU. Thank you for the Surprises you gave me. All I had to hear was your voice and you would put a smile on my face that would last for a month. I will LOVE YOU forever. Pat Nicolai - Round Lake,Il

DJ man you were a great person I will for sure miss ya man. You'll be in a hell of a lot better place now man. I'll drink a couple for you

BJ

My girlfriend and I were both friends of DJ's. We are shocked and sadddened for the family. He will be missed.....

I use to work for DJ at the Sugar Shack a few years ago. I also use to babysit his son Darryl. When I found out the news about DJ's death I didn't believe it at first. He was a great guy and he will be missed by many people.
R.I.P. Darryl Vincenti we will all miss you.
With love,
Anna Grenlund(morris)

Darryl, "DJ" you will forever be missed!! Your smile lit up the room, your laugh was contagious....you are the most incredible man I have ever met and I will truly miss you. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH DJ!!