Dr. David L. Common

Dr. David L. Common

David Common Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 11, 2010.
OBITUARY DR. DAVID L. COMMON It is with sadness and love that the family of Dr. David L. Common announce his passing on December 7, 2010 at St. Joseph's Hospital in Toronto. David was born June 23, 1926 the youngest of Frank and Ruth Commons four children, and grew up on Edgehill Road in Westmount with siblings Frank Jr., Doris (Munro) and Annette Wallace). David attended Trinity College School, the Royal Canadian Naval Academy and McGill University. He was a solid student and fine athlete, winning the Canadian Heavyweight Boxing Championship. Despite great admiration and affection for his parents and siblings, he left a comfortable life in Montreal to pursue ideas and dreams. First stop was to earn a Bachelor of Divinity from Union Theological Seminary in New York City; David's lectures with Coffin, Neibhur, Stein and Van Dusen helped shape his personal philosophy and humanity. David welcomed the chance to be a counselor at a storefront church on 125th Street which was always a fond memory. New York City was also good to David since it was there that he met Laura Stanley, a pretty and intellectual American then attending Barnard College. They married in 1950 and moved to London two years later, where residual post-war recovery and a new national healthcare system held great allure for David. He attended London College and interned at Westminster Hospital, going on to become a general practitioner. In that capacity he treated health problems of all sorts, had his share of proud moments and regrets and was greatly enthused by prenatal care and delivering babies. The City Temple became David's spiritual home and when asked by Rev. Leslie Weatherhead to create a needs-blind counseling service he jumped at the chance. David's London years were filled with joy; he and Laura were blessed with three boys in seven years. In 1970 the family moved to Canada to be closer to David and Laura's families. Health and other setbacks made the 1970's years of tumult. However, in 1981 David remarried, to Sophie Jasinski, and was warmly welcomed by her family. Stalwart friendship from Robert Dunton, Urmas Suits and nephew Donny Munro provided David with unusual consistency and strength. In the 1980s and 1990s David worked at a slower pace, mostly back in England, and travelled extensively, while this last decade presented more frequent health challenges. David was almost always enthusiastic and personable despite his own circumstances, retaining his zest for learning. Periodicals, books and lectures on audio tape covered his desk and shelves. David was predeceased by his older siblings Frank Jr., Annette (Wallace), and Doris (Munro) and his son Stanley. He is survived by his sons David and Paul, granddaughters Miho and Celine, and many nieces and nephews. Special thanks to the staff of The Westbury in Etobicoke and St. Joseph's Hospital in Toronto for their compassionate care of a former healthcare professional who, during his time, cared for so many himself.

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December 13, 2010

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Aaron Sanchez

December 13, 2010

I just learned of David's death. As I write this from Equador, I send my deepest condolences to the entire Common family, and all those who loved him. Anne told me so much about him and I am grateful I had the opportunity to meet him and spend time with him. It is not surprising that he influenced the lives of so many in positive ways.

Anne Curry Sanchez

December 12, 2010

Dear Uncle David.. I always felt close to Uncle David and am grateful to have had truly meaningful communications with him, particularly as I have gotten older. As a child, he seemed larger than life to me, but never in a way that was frightening.. only in a way that made me wish I could see him more often. His intellect, his empathy, his kindnesses to me, even when he was going through challenging times- these are experiences I will carry with me always. His humor and energy added to the mix of a man I will never forget. That he was my uncle makes me feel that much more fortunate.
I send my love and sympathy to you, David and Paul. Blessings,
Anne Curry Sanchez

Donny Munro

December 12, 2010

Uncle David was a very special man and a very special uncle. Interesting, philosophical, empathetic, well-read and very intelligent. He also had a great sense of humour as a riveting story-teller with a booming boisterous laugh. You knew when Uncle David was in the house. Having lived in London, Uncle David could imitate English phonetics while formulating sentences like the British can only do. He could do an East End of London working class Cockney accent in full-blown conversation. He could talk-the-talk of upper society British nobility. As a teenager when I was expecting a call, I would ask Uncle David to answer the phone to have a short conversation using a British accent before handing the phone to me. My friends were genuinely convinced that my uncle was from British aristocracy. When I was in my early twenties, David and I would have summer conversations sitting on a bench in Murray Park, about God versus Darwinian Theory. I have childhood recollections of Reverend Common officiating at family funerals and later my brother's wedding. He always wanted to play a supporting role for his extended family in challenging times and in good times. His sense of humanity propelled him to be there for people. When my parents divorced, David traveled to Montreal several times giving emotional support to my mother, his sister, and myself as a nine-year-old. He tried to be there for my brother, Duncan, and he surprised me at the house when I was in high school, arriving from Toronto, because my mother called to tell him I was seriously depressed. David was at his brother's side, as Uncle Frank was slowly dying over a period of many weeks in 1994. When Uncle Frank was still able to speak, he said of his younger sibling, "I could have learned a lot from my brother." David said that his father never ever spoke of his success, nor did David speak of his own accomplishments. Looking at his nose, it had been broken more than once as a young boxer who was determined to be the Canadian Heavyweight Boxing Champion. I was proud to introduce David to my friends. I called David about four weeks ago. I hung up the phone knowing I was lucky to have a special relationship with a great guy I'll never forget.
Donny Munro

Diana Dempsey

December 11, 2010

In past few years I was able to have wonderful conversations with Uncle David, who was always my favourite uncle. He was such an empathetic person and so intelligent. It was a real privilege to have an uncle like him. My thoughts go out to both of you. Love, Diana Common Dempsey

Sheila Molloy

December 11, 2010

I have fond remembrances of David in my youth. I am the youngest daughter of Dr. John S. Common and we would go up to Uncle Frank's home every Christmas Day and David who was abou 6 years older than I would pay me great attention. Frank Jr. was always good to me as well. So now that leaves me the only Common of that generation alive, an intimidating thought. Sheila Molloy ([email protected])

December 11, 2010

Paul, David and family's:
Our heart felt sympathy goes out to all of you for your loss. I am proud to have known your father and admire not only what he accomplished in life but that his children are direct reflection of the quality of his character.

" Cry not for me but rejoice"
I am sure this is what your father is asking you to do during this hard time.

Our deepest sympathy and much love:
Scott Brooks and family.

David Common

December 11, 2010

A celebration of our Dad's life is planned for Spring 2011, in Montreal . David & Paul

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