David N Feldman

David N Feldman obituary, Cambridge, MA

David N Feldman

David Feldman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 14, 2023.
David Nathaniel Feldman, 57, died in Boston in October 2023 after living with gusto for three years while undergoing treatment for glioblastoma. He enjoyed his final weeks at Dana Farber-Brigham surrounded by family and friends who came from across the country to reminisce, laugh, read and write poetry, paint, sing and celebrate his remarkable life.

David grew up in Belmont and graduated from Concord Academy. He earned a BS in Computer Science from Dartmouth College and an MBA from Harvard Business School. In 2023, he served as Distinguished Visiting Technologist at the MIT Center for Art, Science & Technology, and received an honorary Doctor of Fine Arts from the Maine College of Art and Design for developing the technology for the monumental sculptures of Studio Janet Echelman. At Apple Computer, David served as principal engineer for the file system on System 7 and invented the concept of an alias to a file or folder. He often laughed that perhaps his most well-known computer science legacy would be his recording of the "quack" beep sound, the first human voice on all Macintosh computers. He co-founded several successful startups, and founded Feldman Advisors, a technology investment, strategy and development consulting firm.

David met artist Janet Echelman on a blind date in 1997. Their fourth date was in India. They married in Tampa, lived at Adams House at Harvard and then Manhattan before settling in Brookline to raise their children. He later achieved his retirement goal of becoming an "art husband," leading the development of soft-body computer modeling for his wife's engineering-intensive net sculptures. They traveled the world to install pieces in the Renwick Gallery of the Smithsonian American Art Museum, San Francisco International Airport, the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, Arizona, Oregon, Texas, and across the globe in Portugal, Australia, India, Italy, Netherlands, UK, Spain, Finland, Germany, Switzerland, Singapore, Indonesia, Japan and China.

David was an unabashedly curious polymath whose counsel was deeply valued. He enjoyed artisanal baking and installed a wood-fired brick oven at home and delighted in creating and serving pizzas for many joyous gatherings. In college, David performed the Strauss French Horn Concerti, and played in both the Dartmouth Brass Quintet and the Marching Band. A lifelong athlete, David was an avid and daring skier, tackling steep couloirs and backcountry runs; toured parts of Europe by bike and played tennis competitively. As a cancer patient, he played the National Father-Son tournament the night before surgery (Boston Globe), and last year received the #1 New England singles player medal for his level. David also distinguished himself as a tennis parent and entrepreneur. He helped purchase and transform a failing tennis club critical to junior tennis into the now thriving Longfellow New Hampshire Tennis Club, which recently won the best large facility in the nation from the USPTA and established the annual David Feldman Tennis Parent Award to recognize parents who exemplify unconditional acceptance, sportsmanship, and community building.

His greatest love was spending time with Janet and their children, Sam, a junior at Brown University, and Lilly, a first-year student at the University of Chicago. David is also survived by his parents, Cecily (Sachs) and Wallace Feldman of FL, his sister Jennifer and brother-in-law Judge Daniel Klau of CT, brother-in-law Todd Echelman of FL, and beloved cousins, nieces, nephews, and uncle.

Funeral services will be tomorrow, Sunday, October 15 at 10:30 am at Temple Beth Zion, 1556 Beacon Street, Brookline. Burial to follow at Mishkan Tefila Memorial Park, West Roxbury.

Shiva will be observed at the family's home on Sunday and Monday evenings, and on zoom Tuesday evening with a link to follow.

In lieu of flowers, support for the David Feldman Endowed Scholarship at the Asian University for Women, an institution he loved and aided, https://asian-university.org/donate/david-feldman-fund/ or/and the Dana Farber Cancer Institute Fund for Dr. David Reardon Glioblastoma Research is deeply appreciated.

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November 3, 2023

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Laura Dierks

November 3, 2023

My memories of David are filled with him being curious, passionate and so smart, sparring with my husband Tim and discussing everything under the sun (and might have included the sun as well!)

Our thoughts are with you. He will be missed!

Bill Han

October 28, 2023

Janet, Lilly, and Sam - I'm so very sorry for your loss. I played on a USTA team with David. I never actually teamed up with him but, one time, I had to give him a ride home from practice. I really didn't want to give David a ride home since it would take me out of my way.

During the ride, David and I talked about different things: work and other topics I don't remember now. David was engaging, articulate, and knowledgeable about many of the things I had to say. What started out as a ride I didn't want to give, turned out to be an enjoyable experience. But I'm sure you know that about your Husband and your Father.

David led a life well lived.

Pam Scheinman

October 16, 2023

Dear Janet:
The funeral service was such a beautiful tribute to David who had so much love of life and had his priorities perfectly right. The world is a less bright place without David here but his spirit lives on. May warm memories of him help comfort you during this time. May his memory continue to be for a blessing. Thinking of you and sending much love,
Pam and Igor

Susan Doherty

October 15, 2023

David left an impressive legacy of love, compassion and action. An amazing partner and father.

Jeffrey S Davis

October 15, 2023

So sad and devastated to hear this PM of the passing of David. My experience with David was with tennis. I always enjoyed playing with David and looked forward to being matched up with him
as he always had a great attitude. My thoughts are with you and the family during this hard time.

Rajshree Pathy

October 15, 2023

David was extraordinarily brilliant !He pursued Janet to India and proposed at my home in Coimbatore . His positive energy and passion was infectious. Janet, Lilly & Sam , David will always walk your path . Rest in Peace dear David

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Filipa Frey Ramos

October 15, 2023

Dear Janet, We met when you came to Portugal for the installation of the "She Moves" sculpture in Matosinhos 18 years ago, when I was working on the Programa Polis and pregnant with my first daughter. I remember your good energy as a couple very well. Over the years, I've followed the evolution of your work and that of your family. And how proud you are of what you've built together.
God bless you and all your family in this time of sorrow.
Thinking of you all and sending my love!
Beijo grande, Filipa

Jenny Carey

October 14, 2023

Janet - I met you and your husband in Greensboro. I had come to see the install of Where We Met, and write about the work.
During one of the events, I found myself next to your husband David.
We spoke about your work, and I asked him how the work was transported and stored. He shared they were in some nondescript plastic containers.
I didn´t think that was very glamorous and suggested you needed your own Indian Jones wooden crates seared with a unique logo.
David got a real chuckle out of this idea. He really liked it.
That is how I knew your husband for a brief moment. I liked him very much.
I shall think of him now off on some Indian Jones adventure or designing crates for the future.
May you find peace in the memories of your life together. He clearly thought the world of you.

Best,
Jenny Carey

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Sonia Lo

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Jody Beasley

October 14, 2023

We shared two years as section mates at HBS and then directly shared our tennis playing and tennis parenting passion, notably meeting up at Kalamazoo with Sam and Jake (plus Cindy) as captured in this picture! Rest in peace my friend David!

ERROLL NELSON PIRES

October 14, 2023

May God Grant Eternal Peace to the Departed Soul and strength to All Family member at this difficult time .
Accept Our Heartfelt Condolences .

Kind regards
Erroll Nelson Pires.
Retired faculty member - NATIONAL INSTITUTE OF DESIGN . Ahmedabad . India .

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