David Rexel Handy

David Rexel Handy obituary, San Francisco, CA

David Rexel Handy

David Handy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 1, 2024.
David Rexel Handy passed away on March 26th, 2024, after a courageous battle with cancer. Throughout his fight, David remained grateful for the blessings in his life.

Born on December 8th, 1947, in Ogden, Utah, David was the oldest of three boys. In 1955, his family relocated to Seattle, Washington, where his love (and obsession) of Washington Huskies football began.

During his college years, David attended three universities-Weber State, the University of Washington, and the University of Utah-yet still managed to graduate in four years. He later served as a Second Lieutenant Officer in the United States Army during the Vietnam War.

Following his military service, David earned his MBA in San Francisco, where he met his beloved wife of 46 years, Joanne. Together, they raised two children, Casey and Shannon (Kate).

As a father, David was always the loudest person at every sporting event. He loved seeing his kids shine, and it showed. He was known for his wisdom, humor, and ability to engage in conversation with anyone, anywhere, about any topic, at any time. It was a trait that may have annoyed his kids on occasion, but one for which so many people now remember him.

As a husband, David was devoted and selfless. He supported Joanne's career, and in 1998, encouraged her to accept an executive healthcare position in Boston while he stayed behind with the children. He joined her the following year, and during their time on the East Coast, David left his storied career in the international shipping business behind and pursued other interests, including working in Massachusetts politics and bookstores. One of the secrets to his vast knowledge is the amount of time he spent reading books. He was an avid reader and writer, writing the annual family Christmas card and serving as the anonymous author of the popular Huskies blog, 'Meanderings.'

David's intelligence, wit, and love for storytelling endeared him to all who knew him. He was well-traveled, often going to Europe, Russia and China for work. He was a man of faith, having been a dedicated member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

No words will truly encapsulate the person David was. His passing leaves a profound void, but his family finds solace in the support they've received and the knowledge that his life was rich and meaningful.

In the words of Shakespeare's Hamlet, "He was a man. Take him for all in all, I shall not look upon his like again."

He is survived by his wife, Joanne; children, Casey and Kate; their spouses, Victoria and Noah; grandchildren, Tucker, Siena, and Keira; and brother, Scott.

In loving memory of David, a celebration of his life will take place on Friday, May 3rd, at 11:00 AM, at the LDS Sunset Chapel located at 1601 22nd Avenue, San Francisco, CA. Following the service, a reception will be held at a nearby venue. Further details will be announced soon.

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April 23, 2024

David anchored the Back Bench Sunday mornings at Church, where a squad of OG's enjoyed his company and gab and admired his humor and courage in the face of the Inevitable. In addition to the Back Bench, he and I shared (without knowing each other at the time) several experiences in the early '70s in the service of our Uncle Sam: Ft. Benning and the jump towers, Jungle School at Ft. Gulick, Canal Zone, and a year as Army first lieutenants in Viet Nam, between Saigon and the Cambodia border, where David survived a land mine which sent him airborne for 30 feet or so. For the past several years, we have observed Memorial Days and Veterans Days together at the San Francisco Presidio Post Chapel, next to the National Cemetery. David was a hero.

Mary Rose Loew

April 22, 2024

I met David for the first time in Redondo Beach on a visit from NJ. Joanne is my best friend from high school. Right from the start , I knew he was a "keeper ". I enjoyed his stories and visits over many years on both the east and west coasts. He was a person who filled the room when he entered. David never gave up, fighting his difficult cancer for so long. He did it with dignity and grace.
Well done to Joanne, she did a wonderful job caring for him.
He will be missed by his family. They are lucky to have so many memories of all the great times they shared together.

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Art Johnson

April 22, 2024

I came to know David during the last years of his life. He was what the LDS religion called my ministering brother. He would always end our conversation asking if there was anything I needed. I had no doubt that he would do his best to meet my needs. I was happy to meet his need the week before he passed when he needed visitors in the hospital. He will missed by many, including myself.

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Mike McCann

April 4, 2024

I'll miss our hour+ chats about Husky football and life. Dave was a good friend, an especially great man who loved his family. Handy family, you are in my prayers and thank you for sharing him. He will be missed.

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Mike Nielsen

April 4, 2024

I was a high school classmate of David's and a teammate on the Shorecrest High Baseball Team. David was a hilarious guy and he always kept the rest of us laughing. He was a good friend back then and I have a lot of great memories of time spent with him in High School, including some hijinks at DIcks Drive-in one Friday night that he probably would rather I not divulge (it was harmless). The last time I saw David was at a tailgate at a Husky football game some years ago. I am saddened to hear of his passing, but I am glad I knew him. He was a unique and interesting guy. RIP Dave.

Nancy kennedy

April 4, 2024

I am very saddened to hear of David´s passing. David and I were classmates at Shorecrest High in Seattle. David had written about the death of our classmates during the Viet Nam War and sent the pages to me to read. Such a great writer. He lived life enthusiastically and with purpose. I hope his passing was peaceful as he deserved no less. I offer heartfelt sympathy to those who loved him. Nancy Kennedy

David Billings Brown

April 3, 2024

We shared a name and some genes. What short time I spent with D. was time well spent. His encouragement and mentoring were appreciated and took my own life in directions that I never considered. A huge loss for the world, the clan and his family. To paraphrase Patton "Let us not grieve that this man died, but rather thank god that such men lived".
LTC David Billings Brown -cousin,

Susan Odegard Wood

April 3, 2024

I met David through Lew Johnson while working at SPNB in San Francisco. Met Joanne. Kept in touch over the years. Enjoyed many conversations about whatever!!!

Ryan Belcher

April 3, 2024

Appreciate David's friendship over the years and will miss him. Will always remember his sense of humor, "gift of gab" and connections to everyone. Will never forget how he battled cancer with faith and was blessed to see the marriage of his daughter and experience being a grandfather. Much love and condolences to Joanne and the Handy family.

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Jeff Otis

April 3, 2024

I´ve enjoyed reading his blog posts on the Huskies for well over a decade now and never knew who the author was. Just found out recently he had passed, and this is first time knowing who the author was. Sounds like an amazing person who lived an incredible life. Amazing to impact not just the people you actually know in life but also complete strangers as well. Very sorry for your loss.

Matt Jurewicz

April 2, 2024

Knowing only a message board profile and having enjoyed Meanderings, I was blessed to meet the man at a Dawgman get-together. Easy to talk to about anything is definitely accurate. Even as a non-booster in my first year with cheap season tickets, he contacted me for my ticket for a game I was missing. It didn't work out logistically, but it still made me feel good that he would even consider dealing with me.

Weber State University Alumni Association

April 2, 2024

Dear Mrs. Handy,

Our office noted with sadness the passing of your husband, David, and we wish to send our condolences and sincere sympathy to you and your family at this time of bereavement. As a member of Weber State University´s extended family, friends and associates will miss him.

While we realize a condolence letter cannot lessen your sense of loss, we want to let you know that his achievements and contributions were appreciated at Weber State.

Sincerely,

Nancy B. Collinwood
Executive Director of Alumni Relations

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