David M. Hellman

David M. Hellman obituary, San Rafael, CA

David M. Hellman

David Hellman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Feb. 12 to Feb. 16, 2022.
David M. Hellman David M. Hellman, a lifelong resident of San Rafael, passed away on January 19, 2022 at the age of 74. He was preceded in death by his parents Roland and Jorna Hellman, both were longtime accountants and residents of San Rafael; his sister Annette Dean of Lufkin, Texas; and his beloved rescue dog, Ami, with whom he was frequently seen walking around the neighborhood. David is survived by his longtime partner Carol Chalker; four children from his marriage to Candace Hellman: Kia, Alaisha, Shana, David Hellman Jr., and his wife Sarah. David was looking forward to the upcoming birth of his first grandchild, a granddaughter. He is also survived by his sister Karen Rivers, her husband Michael Cohen, and his niece Cherie Rivers Ndaliko of Chapel Hill, North Carolina. David graduated from San Rafael High in 1965 before earning his bachelor's degree from the University of California at Berkeley in 1969, where he would also obtain his law degree in 1972. An attorney for almost 50 years, David was well known and respected in the Marin County legal community for his practice in the areas of taxation, estate planning, trusts, probate, and real estate through his firm the Law Office of David M. Hellman, as well as being the owner and President of Marin County Exchange Corporation, a 1031 Real Estate exchange facilitator. David was active in many civic and charitable organizations in the community. His current involvements included that he was a charter member of the Rotary Club of Mission San Rafael, Board Member of Marin Council Boy Scouts of America, and a Trustee of the Marin County Board of Education. David believed in living up to the ideals of the community organizations he served. An active Rotarian, he believed wholeheartedly in the principle motto "Service Above Self" and was never without his Rotary pin. David was as "trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean, and reverent" as the standard of Boy Scouts of America. Serving on the Marin County Board of Education for 28 years, David demonstrated his support for the youth and education in Marin with a goal of providing equity, access, and opportunity. David tirelessly and consistently gave of himself for those around him. He will be greatly missed. There will be a celebration of his life at the Elks Lodge in San Rafael, 1312 Mission Ave., from 1-3 p.m. on Saturday, February 19, 2022. In lieu of flowers, please donate to 10,000 Degrees, Marin Council of the Boy Scouts of America, or Mission San Rafael Rotary Club Foundation.

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July 6, 2022

Jennifer Harris-Marks posted to the memorial.

March 19, 2022

Rick Trono posted to the memorial.

March 14, 2022

jamie and greg wishart posted to the memorial.

Jennifer Harris-Marks

July 6, 2022

David was kind, knowledgeable, and dependable. He raised the bar (pun intended) as an honest and decent attorney. I am very sad to hear of his passing, and send my deepest condolences to his family.

Rick Trono

March 19, 2022

I will miss David Hellman. He was a instrumental in helping me close complex transactions in West Marin over the years. David was the consummate professional

jamie and greg wishart

March 14, 2022

SO shocked to find out today that David had passed over almost 2 months ago. He was brilliant, kind, versatile, caring, and honest - always a willing listener, and life-long contributor to make society. I met him in Rotary almost 40 years ago, and we even went to high school the same years in Marin County. He became our CPA and at times legal counsel...he will be missed and remembered with fondness and admiration.

Nick Tarlson

February 19, 2022

David was a stalwart supporter of Marin Council BSA, helping them with a wide range of legal and organizational matters. He was quick to point out that he was not only an attorney but a CPA, and volunteered his time on Chuck Finney's "Your Legal Rights" radio feature on public radio, taking calls from viewers with questions about their income taxes during tax season. Deepest condolences to his family. May his memory be eternal.

Stephen E. Backhus

February 16, 2022

How sad and shocking it was to hear that Attorney Hellman has passed away. David and I worked together for more than 30 years on tax and real estate issues, doing many exchanges over the years with his Marin County Exchange Corp. He also did my small non-profit Foundation's taxes and other legal matters for nearly 20 years, including its closing in 2017. Attorney Hellman was a consummate professional at every endeavor. As so many others know, David Hellman was a man of the greatest integrity and character. His grand daughter will be so pleased when she is old enough to appreciate her grand father's exemplary life. He will be sorely missed by all. My deepest sympathy to his family and colleagues as you now must deal with the aftermath of this great loss.
Most Sincerely, Stephen Backhus, Dayton, Nv.
(formerly of San Rafael, Ca.)

(photo is from 10/02/2015, at David's Law Office)

margritha fliegauf

February 15, 2022

My condolences to the family.
Mr.Hellman was a very nice man and a good attorney,
He was helpful and always gave me good advise when i needed it. I am sorry for your loss.
I am very sorry for your loss.

Linda O´Connor

February 15, 2022

Our deepest condolences to David´s family, friends and coworkers.
He will be deeply missed.
My late husband used to get all his Grateful Dead tickets from David over the years. That´s how much David went out of his way to help.
He was our accountant and real estate attorney as well. He was simply the best.

Betsy Denison Lester

February 14, 2022

Deepest condolences to Dave's family and many friends. We shared many classes together at San Rafael High School, and were on committees together and in student government together. He gave his all to everything he did! He also helped me and my mother greatly years ago, with her decisions for her trust. He was so kindly supportive of her during that time. He will be greatly missed!!

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