David Robert Montgomery

David Robert Montgomery obituary

David Robert Montgomery

David Montgomery Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Dec. 1 to Dec. 9, 2022.
David Robert Montgomery, "Dave", age 56, of Durham, CT, passed away at his home on November 29, 2022.

Dave was preceded in death by his parents Barbara Montgomery of Durham and Robert Montgomery of Cheshire. He is survived by his daughter Lillian (Lilly) and former wife, Christine Montgomery of Durham; his two sisters, Leslie (Arnold) Ozols of Durham, Lynn (Paul) Breton of Killingworth; his step mother, Jane Montgomery of Milford; his aunt and uncles, Anne & Roger Cargill of Seminole, FL; Richard Harding of Hamden; Annie Grenier of Middletown; his nieces and nephew, Christina White, Stephanie (Thomas) Wells, Celine Breton, and Alex Breton.

Dave was a graduate of Coginchaug Regional High School- Class of 1985. During high school he played on the soccer, track and basketball teams, served on class council, sang in the chorus, and was in the entomology club (who knew that was a thing). After high school, Dave pursued various work opportunities. He was a hands on type of guy who worked as a machinist for Pratt & Whitney, utilized his culinary skills in different roles at The Chart House and Fiddlers to name a few and ended up making a career in carpentry. Dave was more than a carpenter, he was a craftsman, specializing in restoring historic buildings, creating custom cabinetry and taking on unique challenges, like building a salt cave. Dave's eye for detail could be seen in his finish work that was unmatched.

A man of many talents and interests, Dave loved music and played the drums in local bands during his youth. In later years he could be found walking around strumming on his guitar. He was a true outdoorsman, hiking locally and in the Cascade Mountains when he lived in Washington State. Camping was a four-season adventure- just ask his friends about winter camping! Boating was another passion of his, including an annual canoe trip down the Connecticut River to Selden Island with his brother-in-laws and friends. He enjoyed golfing, from playing in leagues to his backyard par 3. He was a gifted cook, famous for his lobster bisque and baker where everyone clamored for his peanut butter cookies.

He was a family man who carried forth traditions and celebrated the changing seasons and their uniqueness. He was proud of the family home and excited Lilly could be found playing in the same yard. Dave's passion for adventure was infectious and he could be seen building giant ramps for sledding and creating larger than usual bonfires in the backyard. Dave enjoyed spending time with his dogs, Marble, Missy, and Zoey. Can anyone guess his favorite holiday? Yup- Fourth of July. He was well-known for hosting "Fireworks on the Hill." One of Dave's most loved qualities was his storytelling. He would tell endless stories from his childhood adventures in Durham with his pack of friends- Kyle, Mike, Sam, Ed, Jeff, Matt, Daryl, and many others.

The family would like to thank all his loyal, lifelong friends and his crew from AA who have supported both him and his family through challenging times.

Friends were invited to attend a memorial service on Wednesday, December 7th at the United Churches of Durham, 128 Main Street, Durham, CT, beginning at 6:00 pm. A reception of soup and sandwiches followed. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Nathaniel B. Field Memorial Foundation (www.nathanielfield.org).

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Pete Spicer

December 5, 2022

Dear Lynn, Leslie and Family -

I was am very saddened to learn of Dave's passing. For so many years of early adolescence me and Dave were together through many adventures. I also recall a lot of Monopoly games with the two of you and other friends from the neighborhood.

My sincere condolences. Dave was a good soul - may he Rest In Peace.

Joanne COZZOLINO

December 4, 2022

Dear Lynn,

I know how much you loved your brother. You spend countless days thinking about him and praying for him, always saying that he was a great guy. The obituary was just beautiful and it gave such an insightful picture of his life in its entirety. You are in my prayers my dear sweet friend.

Love, Joanne

Joe Munno iii

December 3, 2022

Leslie and Lynn, it's sad to know David had this early. I had not seen him in 15 years. We lost touch after high school. I'll always remember him in a good way. Our teenage years were absolutely an adventure. Non stop. Soo many stories that I remember but can't put in print. Dave, Kyle, Ed, Jeff, Mike G, Sam,myself and a few others called ourselves "THE GANG" . Mischief was our specialty. He was a very talented guy right from the start. A good hearted guy who just wanted to have fun. He definitely be missed. Every time I hear an old Rolling Stones song I will think of him. May He rest peacefully. Very respectfully, Joseph Munno III

The Fraulino

December 2, 2022

So sorry for your loss

Jane Greebel

December 2, 2022

Dear Lynn, Leslie, and family..so sorry for your loss. May you go forward in peace. Jane

Stephen Pietrzyk

December 2, 2022

Our deepest sympathies to all of Dave´s family and friends.

May loving memories of Dave ease your loss and bring you comfort during this difficult time.

Fond memories of attending High School, and playing soccer and baseball with Dave. A genuine, great competitor and fun guy to be around.

Cindi and Stephen Pietrzyk

Cheryl Nugent Salva

December 2, 2022

Leslie and Christine and family,
So sorry for your loss.
I have so many fond memories of Dave. From the building out of the Core Club to many Fourth of July extravaganza fireworks.
Also, his passion for cooking and all of those nonprofit events that he was right there making sure everything was built out and ready to go.
R.I.P. my friend

Al and Dawn DiVincentis

December 2, 2022

Leslie and Family, We are so very sorry for your tremendous loss. May warm memories help to bring you peace and comfort.

Wendy & Glen Manemeit

December 2, 2022

Dave had the wonderful quality of lending a hand to anyone who needed it. His talent was immeasurable to the fair's 100th anniversary gala and the beautiful wishing well he made for the town's fundraising efforts for Ukraine. I loved our conversations as they always had a tone of love for family. I hope Dave is enjoying a donut and building the finest wood pieces in heaven. RIP

Jeff Wiederschall

December 1, 2022

So much to say, yet so hard to get the words out. I love you like a brother, Dave. You made my life a better place. I miss you deeply already. All my love to Dave's wonderful family and our friends who knew and loved Dave so much. Until we meet again my firend. Stay Gold... xo - Your pal forever, Jeff Wiederschall

Shawn Swarz

December 1, 2022

Just the best! Always smiling and an all around great dude, not to mention a fantastic soccer player. A part of our whole was taken...huge bummer. I am truly sorry.

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December 5, 2022

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