Debbie McFarlane

Debbie McFarlane

Debbie McFarlane Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Jun. 1 to Jun. 3, 2011.
McFARLANE, Debbie Esther (Steinman) June 25, 1967 - May 30, 2011 It is with great sadness that we mourn the sudden and tragic passing of our beloved Debbie (Deb) who died at the age of 43 years. She will be sadly missed by her husband Darren, and their three children, Deanna, Dustin, and Devonna; parents Gordon and Esther Steinman; siblings Dennis, Donald (Lucy), David (Bev), Dale (Julie), Bud (Susan), Darcy (Tracy); "outlaws" Gerry (Joanne), Rob (Melody), Amy (Roger), as well as numerous nieces, nephews, aunts, extended family and friends. She was predeceased by infant son Darrison and her siblings, Daniel and Delores. Deb will be remembered for her tremendous zest for life, amazing sense of humour, compassion and generous nature with all who knew her. With a passion for travel around the globe and a great love of animals, Deb lived every moment of life to the fullest with a kind of vitality rarely seen. Those wishing to pay their respects may do so at McINNIS & HOLLOWAY'S Chapel of the Bells (2720 Centre Street North, Calgary, AB) today, June 3, 2011 from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. A celebration of Debbie's life will be held at McInnis & Holloway's, Chapel of the Bells (2720 Centre Street North) on Saturday, June 4, 2011 at 2:30 p.m. Forward condolences through www.mcinnisandholloway.com . If friends so desire, a memorial tribute may be made to a charity of the donor's choice. In living memory of Debbie McFarlane, a tree will be planted at Big Hill Springs Park, Cochrane.

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July 2, 2011

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June 30, 2011

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June 9, 2011

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Kristy Auchstaetter

July 2, 2011

My deepest condolences to you Darren. We appologize for not saying this to you sooner as we had no idea. If there is anything at all we can do for you please do not hesitate to call.
Debbies smile and laughter will live on in the hearts of everyone that knew her.

Ramona Beaulieu

June 30, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin and Devonna, I love you guys so much and will cherish all the good memories I have spending time with you. I am so sad, can't even imagine how difficult it must be for you. Please keep her memory alive, I know there will never be another Debbie. Darren, I loved your poem they read that day. Cheers to the next chapter of your life. Wish you all the best!
Love, Ramona

Deb Zelinski

June 9, 2011

Most Sincere condolences to you Darren and your family.

June 8, 2011

My Thoughts and prayers are with your family. John and Holly Kubbernus

Doug Davies

June 7, 2011

Doug Davies, the Davies family and the staff of Equity Capital Management and Realty Ltd extend our deepest sympathy to Darcy and family . May God give you strength in your time of need

Kari Rawlinson

June 5, 2011

I met Debbie and Darren through sorrority many years ago, when we were all starting our families. I left when Dustin was just a little baby, so it has been a while, but memories of her are still clear. I can only imagine what you all are going through right now, but obviously Debbie will leave a trademark with all of you as she was such a fun woman and pleasure to be around and I know anyone who met her will only have fond memories and funny stories. Delta Chapter

Jillian McClennan

June 4, 2011

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of Debbie's friends and family - I knew her a long time ago, and not very well, but she was unforgettable. A very bright spark.

DeShaw Holloman

June 4, 2011

Darren, my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. My prayers are with you.
DeShaw

Janine Castro

June 4, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to Debbie's family...I haven't seen Debbie in a long time but my memories of her are of a fun, loving, joy filled person...I am so sorry to hear of her loss to all her family and friends.

June 4, 2011

We know that only God has shoulders big enough for your grief. In this time press into the nature of His love and celebrate her life as she deserves. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Charlie & Norma, Fredericton

Suzanne Gieg (Verhaeghe)

June 3, 2011

With deepest and heartfelt sympathy - my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May God bless you.

June 3, 2011

Gerry and Joanne McFarlane and family
May God be with you all at this very sad time. Our thoughts are constantly with you. The Peace of the Lord be with you.
Anything we can do please ask.
Diana and Bob Sawatzky, St. Albert

June 3, 2011

Darren and family- I am so sorry to hear of Debbie's passing. If there is anything we can help you with, please CALL us, anytime......From neighbors Darrell Miller & Nora McLean

Nathan, Delia Shillingford

June 3, 2011

We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sarah Barrie Claire Baskerville

June 3, 2011

Darren and family. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.

Toni Steer

June 3, 2011

May the wonderful memories that you created and shared with Debbie bring you comfort and peace through the years ahead.

Toni Steer

June 2, 2011

On behalf of the Pomerleau families we wish to send our condolences to Esther, Gordon and families on their loss. Your loving cousins.
Theresa Webb (Camrose, AB)

Carolyn, Stephen, Trista, Matthew Neish

June 2, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin, Devona, Buddy and Wiggles, Our hearts are aching at the loss of such a wonderful lady. She was a sister to me and a mom to my kids. Always there to help out at whatever the cost. As a family, I have never known any to be as giving and extending as yours is.. as we remember Debbie we always end up with laughter and smiles. The fun memories of the times we shared are endless. As the years go on we will continue to create more in Deb's honor. Darren, I love you and your kids with all my heart. No ask is too big. Always remember that.

June 2, 2011

Darren and family - Our thoughts are with you & the children. We are so sorry for your loss.

Colleen Currie & Boys

Naomi English (Tyrrell)

June 2, 2011

Although we haven't kept in great touch over the years besides the coincidence of our daughters dancing at the same studio. I have many fond memories of growing up with Debbie in all our school years. I am very sorry to hear of your loss Darren, and I wish you and your family heartfelt condolences at this time.

Val, Joel Eden

June 2, 2011

Darren and family, Our prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Kathryn Robertson-Downey

June 2, 2011

Thinking of you all during this difficult time. Debbie was a great person and will be missed.

Patty Kohl

June 2, 2011

My heartfelt condolences to you and your children Darren. My thoughts are with you and I'd like to offer my support in any way I can.

Laurel and Tim

June 2, 2011

Darren Deanna Dustin and Devona,
Our prayers are with you,Debbie could light up a room.Keep your memories close.

Dave and Maureen Slater

June 2, 2011

Gerry, Joanne and family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts are with you during this grief-filled time. May God give you strength and most especially His peace.

Kelly, Jodi, Melissa, Zack & Mark McKague

June 2, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin & Devonna ~ We are so sorry to hear of your loss. May God Bless you and comfort you during these difficult times.

Keith Johnson

June 2, 2011

My deepest condolences to Debbie's family.

Robert Baldwin

June 2, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Myrna Chorney

June 2, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin and Devonna, my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Debbie put her heart and soul into everything she did and I will always remember her sense of fun. What a loss.

Dale and Julie Steinman and family

June 2, 2011

Debbie lived life to the fullest. She will be truly missed. Darren, Deanna, Dustin, and Devona, take comfort in the memmories, knowing how much she loved you and that she didn't want to leave. Anything you need, we are here for you.

Tara Sampson

June 2, 2011

So very sorry for your loss.
My thoughts & prayers go out to you Darren, Deanna, Dustin & Devonna at this difficult time. So many memories, may you keep them close to your heart & bring you comfort. Debbie will truly be missed...my deepest condolences are with you & your family.

Nora Mailey

June 1, 2011

Deanna,

Although I do not know your family, my heart is broken for "you" and all of your family. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you as you grieve this wonderful person you called "Mom". Take care of each other and God Bless each and everyone of you.

June 1, 2011

Darren, words feel so inadequate at this difficult time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Trever and Jolinda Bowman

Glenn, Cindy & Andrea Harding

June 1, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin and Devonna, from my family to yours. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you during this difficult time. Debbie was such a great lady and will never be forgotten.

Deanna Graham

June 1, 2011

Dear Darren, Deanna, Dustin and Devonna. We are so very sorry to hear about Debbie. I still cannot believe it. Our hearts go out to you and pray God will carry you through this horrendous time. I have lots of wonderful memories of Debbie and my time spent with you all. Laughter was always connected with her. So sorry.

Monica Wegmann

June 1, 2011

Take care of yourselves during this difficult time. Take comfort in the memories you have of a wonderful wife and mother.

Barb & Gord McArthur

June 1, 2011

Darren, Deana, Dustin and Devonna. Gord and I share in your loss. Our hearts go out to each of you. You will all be in our prayers.

Scott Johnson

June 1, 2011

My heart goes out too you Darren and your family. My thoughts are with you

Hayley Carter

June 1, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin and Devonna, we are praying for you. We love you all. You will meet with her again.

June 1, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin & Devonna - we are praying for you all during this most tragic time in your life. During difficult times, God is our strength; our prayers is that he will strengthen all of you at this time.
Love & Prayers
Klaas & Charlene Raukema

Keller Family

June 1, 2011

Darren, Deana, Dustin, and Devonna. Our deepest sympathy and prayers are with you.

Shirley Curtis

June 1, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you Darren and with your family. Debbie was such a vibrant beautiful lady.

Brenda Hickey

June 1, 2011

There are no words. Thinking of you Darren and family. May you find strength in the memories.

Amber Boisvert

June 1, 2011

Thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

Rob Anderson

June 1, 2011

Darren, my thoughts are with you and your family.

Karen Hutchinson

June 1, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you Darren! Hold your kids close and your memories of your beautiful wife even closer!!

Leanne Fedrau

June 1, 2011

My condolences to you Darren and your family... She will be greatly missed, the loss of a "Sister" will be felt province wide. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.

Amanda and Clarke McChesney

June 1, 2011

I will miss that smile. Our thoughts and prayers are with Darren and family at this difficult time.

Clarke and Amanda, Calgary

jen chiola

June 1, 2011

Darren, my heart goes out to you, Dustin, Deanna and Devona. Anything you need...I'm there. Jen.

Keani Guthrie

June 1, 2011

We will miss your beautiful smile Deb. You brought joy to many people and touched many peoples lives.

Jennifer Lesack

June 1, 2011

My heart breaks for all of you. Darren, please know everyone here is thinking of you and we are here if you need anything at all. You are all in my thoughts.

Sherry Dahl

June 1, 2011

My deepest condolences to the McFarlane Family during this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you to stay strong. "Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."

Sherry Van Kruyssen

June 1, 2011

My condolences Darren to you and your family, my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.

Gerry Braun

June 1, 2011

Very sad news I hope the best for your family in this time of grief.

John Morrissey

June 1, 2011

Darren, Deanna, Dustin & Devona, our condolences to you and your family.
John & Marleane

June 1, 2011

Our condolences to the McFarlane family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Kevin and Jackie Myles, Airdrie

June 1, 2011

Our condolences to the McFarlane Family. Our thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Kevin and Jackie Myles, Airdrie

Tracey Flynn

June 1, 2011

Darren, you and your family are in my thoughts. Take care.

June 1, 2011

Hug those kids extra hard Darren. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Katie Currie

Loretta Paglinawan

June 1, 2011

My condolences to the McFarlane family. My prayers are with you all during this time of sorrow.

Hal

June 1, 2011

Always a friend and forever a smile

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