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Dianne Olson
April 22, 2025
My heart is broken my sweet snack cakes, you were a beautiful soul who will be missed by so many. I will always cherish the memories we made over the last 40 years. My thoughts and prayers for Doug and Jonathan.
Dianne Olson
Joan Owens
April 13, 2025
Love & prayers to Doug, Jon & family. Debbie seems to have been a wonderful partner to Doug a favorite, fun & much loved cousin. Love, Joan
Sue Gerstle
April 13, 2025
Debbie Heckmann was one of a kind! She only lived for one thing and that was to love others. I first met her when we moved to Dallas in 1981, and she was always so kind and so accepting. We moved in with our five, including our youngest daughter who had just turned one. Doug and Debbie´s son, Jon, was just a few months younger. Debbie`s husband is my first cousin, and I was so happy that there was family in our new hometown. They became frequent visitors at our home, and Emily and Jon are friends to this day.
Debbie and I didn´t get to be true friends until many years later after I had moved back to Kentucky, and at that point became a frequent visitor to their home. She and Doug were always so welcoming, and I was always a bit sad to leave, knowing we now lived so far apart. But that didn´t stop her from reaching out to me and showering me with her love, her concern, and her Jesus. I´ve never known anyone with such an unwavering love for Christ, and the courage to show it.
She and Doug never hesitated to take my son, John, under their wing when he moved back to Dallas some years later. I´ve never known a kinder, more generous and selfless individual than Debbie. My John passed away in 2022 and she grieved for him as if he were her own. I´m sure he greeted her with open arms as she crossed heaven´s doorstep. As I said, she was one of a kind, one who showered her love on others, never thinking of herself.
You left a hole in our hearts, Debbie, you will be missed . . .
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Sue Gerstle
April 13, 2025
Michael Wigginton
April 12, 2025
What a kind sweet person.
I met Debbie the Summer of 1981 when my family moved
to Dallas. I was 15 and so excited to be at the Home of the Dallas
Cowboys.
I was always looking to make a dollar and when the Doug Debbie and
baby Johnathan stopped by for a welcome visit an opportunity arose.
Debbie was so welcoming and I really enjoyed talking to her. Even though it was the first time I had met her she acted like we were old friends.
The Hickmann's were in an apartment that needed a little TLC and after
a brief discussion of my skill set Debbie decided I was the perfect professional to help with some paint work. I spent several day at the apartment cleaning and painting.
I'm not sure my quality was great but even if I did a terrible job I believe Debbie would say it looked great and then fixed it herself after I left.
Debbie never stopped talking the whole time I was there and I may have spent more time taking breaks and eating lunch than working.
She was truly a wonder soul and I will never forget her.
Sincerely,
Michael Wigginton
Shannon Stewart
April 11, 2025
Debbie was one of the kindest people I've ever known, and I will miss her.
She was my idol as a little girl - I thought she was so beautiful and glamorous (she was!)
Heaven gained another angel, and I know she is right beside her mama now.
Winfield Zangrilli
April 10, 2025
What a beautiful legacy and compilation of her life. Debbie was indeed a treasure and will be missed and remembered. The memories we made for over 40 years are impactful and forever lasting. Thinking of you Doug and Jonathan.
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