Deborah Schwenk

Oh Debbie, my precious daughter, my first born, my friend. Your smile, your bubbly personality, and your loving cheerful spirit made everyone want to be around you. Your way of making me laugh no matter what we talked about. Your love and devotion to your family, your animals, and your friends will make you forever remembered and cherished by everyone who knew you. You will live on forever in our hearts and our memories. You are the newest angel looking down on us and as you and I truly believe, we will be together again. I Love You Sweetheart. Til Then Mom

Nanny I still can't believe your gone I keep waiting for you to come get me and take me to your house but I know you will always be with me your not only my nanny but also my guardian angel.Dont worry I will take care of pappy. I LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say,
But first of all to let you know that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from Heaven, where I dwell with God above,
Where there are no tears or sadness, there is just eternal Love.

Please do not be unhappy, just because I'm out of sight,
Remember that I'm with you, every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me, and said, ” I welcome you”.

“It's good to have you back again.
You were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here so badly as part of my big plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man”.

Then God gave me a list of things he wished for me to do.
And foremost on that list of mine, is to watch and care for you.
I will be beside you, every day of the week and year,
And when you're sad I'm standing there, to wipe away the tear.

And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight,
God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on Earth, and all those loving years,
Because you're only human, there's bound to be some tears.

One thing is for certain, though my life on Earth is over,
I am closer to you now than I ever was before.
And to my many friends, trust God knows what is best.
I am not far away from you, I'm just beyond the crest.

There are rocky roads ahead for you and many hills to climb,
Together we can do it, taking one day at a time.
It was my philosophy and please I'd like for you,
To give unto the world, so the world will give to you.

If you can help someone who's in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to God at night, my day was not in vain.
And now I am contented that my life it was worthwhile,
Knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

When you're walking down the street and I am on your mind,
I'm walking in your footsteps, only half a step behind.
And when you feel a gentle breeze of wind upon your face,
That's me giving you a great big hug, or just a s oft embrace.

When it's time for you to go from that body to be free,
Remember you are not going, you are coming home to me.br>
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2012


I will be in touch again soon.
P.S. God sends his love.

- Author Unknown

BB, Brandon, and Missy
Our deepest sympathies go out to you.It is never easy losing a loved one, but remember they really aren't gone, they are always in our hearts and knowing that one day we will meet again. We never know why she had to go, just that she had to. God had a very special job for her. I'll always remember Deb as the very strong, giving, kind hearted person she was. Always having a smile, even if she was having a bad day. She loved BB and her children and grand children so much. Deb was a very hard working person, always had two or three job (some not paying). How she helped take care of Jean Marie and Uncle Ray. I always like to here her stories how when she would visit Uncle Ray in Rest Haven, and no matter how much of a bad time he would give her,she still went back. That's just the kind of person she was. She was alway moving, had to be on the go all the time, she hardly ever took time for herself. Well Deb, now you can sit back and take it easy. I know that you will be looking out for all your family and friends. Just remember that we love you and will miss you so much, till we meet again. Love Ya!

I knew of you through your Brandon who I had the privilege of meeting and working with... He is a very likeable, loving, and caring person and with that being said, you had to be a remarkable person too... A good parent, a kind, lovable, and loyal friend to many. It certainly was evident that you were beautiful in and out! RIP

Brandon and family. My heart goes out to you . Brandon I met your mom when she worked for Walmart and was instantly pulled in by her kind spirt and wonderful smile . Then I met her son and could see that same kind smile and loving soul . Love ya Brandon. You know where I am if you need me

To Deb's family, May the good Lord hold you all in the palm of his tender, caring hands....

Aunt Deb,
I don't even know where to begin. You're home now, in a place that people dream exists, Christians know exists, and the world simply stares at. There is no more tears there, no more sorrow, no more pain. Sickness is a thing of the past after those gate swing open wide to accept you. Mortal life has ended. Eternal life has begun.

I am jealous that you made it home before me, proud of where you are, saddened that I'll never see you again, never get to chat with you on facebook, never see your smile that always made me smile. You warmed my heart even 3,000 miles away.

I love you, I miss you, and I'll see you soon

With Love,
Larry R. Schwenk Jr

Deb was like a mom to me and many others. She was always there with a kind word and never minded when Brandon and I were at the house and stayed up until 4am. She was so supportive and just an all around amazing person. She was always good to make you smile or laugh.

I never met Deb but I have had the honor of working with her son and seeing the type of man he is. He had to be raised by an amazing women just on the way her son is so caring,and loving towards other people.Brandon Iam so very sorry for loss,she will forever be with you in your heart and spirit. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time

So sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. She was a wonderful woman loved by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. She will be missed.

I never got a chance to know Deb, but I Am lucky enough to know her son, Brandon. And I can easily tell that Deborah is a gentle, kind, and loving person, because that's what I see in him. I'm sorry I never got to meet her, and I'm even more sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you in your time of grief.

I am so sorry for your loss. May your special memories of your Mom help ease your grief.

To Brandon and his family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Nothing can replace a parent, but I know that she will always be watching and guiding all you do.

"Life is but a Stopping Place"

Life is but a stopping place,
A pause in what's to be a resting place,
along the road to sweet eternity.

We all have different journeys,
different paths along the way,
we all were meant to learn some things,
But never meant to stay.

Our destination is a place far greater than we know.
For some, the journey is quicker,
for some the journey is slow.

And when the journey finally ends,
we'll claim a great reward and find an
everlasting peace together. with the Lord.

Kenny and Jeanne:

Just heard the news last night. I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Debbie and I were probably the first best friends in her life. Making mud pies at the creek won't be the same. We will have to do that in heaven one day. I can't imagine the loss of a child. It really touches home how precious each day of life truly is. My thoughts and prayers are will you through each day.

Missy, your mom was an amazing individual. My family and I are deeply sorry for your loss. Our condolences and prayers go out to you and your family in your time of need.God bless you all. With deepest Sympathy, Deanna Ciccocioppo Mease

Barry, I was in total shock to see that Deb passed away. I never knew she was sick. I'm so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Deb in my thoughts from doing the newspaper n stopping at her place for yard sales. I will keep u all in my prayers n again I'm very sorry for your loss. I will always remember n never forget Deb. What a total shock. My prayers go out to u n the family Barry.

Barry and family, sorry to hear about your loss. Deb will be missed very much. We will keep you in our prayers. God bless.

I was happy that I had the privilege to know such a wonderful woman as Deb, I cared for her a great deal as a friend, and I will miss her very much. She was a very special woman and I will treasure her memory in my heart forever and I will never forget her.

Barry& family
My prayers are with all of you's. I am here if any one of you need some one to talk to. She did a lot of great things for me, I will never forget. I loved the most that I could talk to her about anything, I will miss that a lot. Deb please tell all the family I lost that I still love them all and some day we will all be together again! Love and miss you!

Deepest Sympathy and Prayers for Brandon and his family in their time of need. God be with them every step of the way.

Aunt Deb you left us too soon and I didn't get to say good bye or that I love you!I miss how nice and loving you were. I really miss all the great hugs you gave me. Please tell nanny jean I still love and miss her! I shed tears every time I think about you. I will love and miss you forever!

I am just a year old but I know you Love me. You and Missy giving me belly aches with all the food you's fed me. I really loved it when you rocked me in your rocking chair. I will Love You forever!

Dear Aunt Deb I really miss you! Will you please be my guardian angel, never mind I know you are! I Love You!

Barry and family,I am sorry for your loss. Deb was the greatest friend a person could have, I will miss her a lot. She taught me so many things. Texting was one and now I lost my texting buddy. Deb I will love you forever, till we meet again!

Kenny, Jeanne & family, We are so sorry to hear about Debby. We will miss her smile & her kindness. She was a special part of our lives. All our love & sympathy. Judy & Charlie.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

I am very sorry for your loss Brandon. Continue to stay strong for the rest of your family; you are doing a wonderful job.

i am sorry for your loss but my heart is with you at the time of sorrow

I am sorry for your loss. I am sure your mother will continue watching over you with a proud smile. Keep your memories of her close to your heart and she will always be with you when you need her.

Brandon, I am sorry for your loss. I started work at Walmart the same day as your mom. She was extremely nice to me and told me her son will take care of me as a cashier. She was so very proud of you. She will always watch over you, just remember that.

Marci,
I never knew Deborah, but am sorry for your loss.

Brandon & Family, so sorry for your loss.

Deb, I did not know you but i do know your son Brandon. You raised a wonderful son to be proud of and you will live on through him

brandon,
I remember when you brought your momma to meet me, you said oh she is gonna love you haha, I remember how much she smiled that day, she is a very sweet lady. I am blessed that day you thought me worthy of meeting her! I know how much you love her and i cant imagine how you feel right now, but im thinking of the both of you with lots of love.

Brandon,
I just wanted to let you know how sorry I was to hear about your mother. May all the wonderful times you have had with her, comfort you! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

Ken & Jeanne / Marcella & Dave,
We were very sorry to hear about Deborah. Y'all are in our thoughts and prayers!
Pam & Bill Hoy

Barry, Missy and Brandon,
Although I didn't know Debbie as well as I should have, we are still sisters. It is clear from the all of the beautiful words of sympathy, that Debbie was loved by everyone. May you find comfort in your memories, and peace, in knowing that your angel is watching over you.

My dearest Brandon and Melissa..I don't even know where to begin. I have had so many great memories with Deb through Walmart. She kept me sane there and always made me laugh. Her personality was so caring, loving, and she always had a smile. What I do know is that she loved her kids very much. Brandon was attached at her hip. She was your best friend Brandon, and I know it hurts. Melissa, I know as a daughter it is killing you inside, as I know how that is loosing my mother. Memories, just keep remembering all the great memories of her, never give up. She would NEVER want you to do that. Make her proud like you have been doing and remember she is not suffering anymore. It was such a shock and I am so sorry I didn't get down to say good bye to her. I will always remember her smile and her love for her family. I am also sorry I won't be able to make the services, but please remember I am here for you and if you ever need to talk I am just a phone call away. Love you guys and it will get better one day, just keep thinking of her and remembering her. She is playing with all her animals now in peace. God bless you all!!

My Heart Goes Out To You Now And The Days Ahead You Are In My Thoughts And Prayers

Missy,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom's passing. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I know how hard it is losing your mother especially when she was so young. Stay strong and remember your friends. They are there for you to lean on in this sad time.
Karen Liebner

My Deepest Sympathy goes to your family at this time. Debbie was a loving, thoughtful caring person who talked about her family all the time when we had conversation. She will always be present in your heart and memories. My thoughts and prayers will be for your family today.

My deepest sympathy to the friends and family of Debbie my thoughts and prayers will be with you all

Missy and family, my deepest sympathies to you and your family.Deb was such a caring and loving person. She will be missed by everyone that knew her.She will always be here in your hearts and memories. May God be with you Love Terri and Joanne

Debbie, almost 40 years ago you were handed a baby and was told ' Here ya go, Debbie. This one is for you.' A baby you embraced and took that responsibility whole heartedly. 3 years later you and I got Missy. and yes that is exactly the way I saw it. For only being 17 you got it right and Miss and I couldn't of been any closer. there was no jealousy, third wheel nonsense, me no longer belonging...you and I now had a baby. Although I did not understand that then, I thank you because you and her are a major, loving strong point of my childhood and I would not be who I am today if it was not for you. As time past our family drifted in its own ways. Why? Well to do this day,I still do not have that answer but I was so happy the day I refound you 2 on facebook and even more happy when you and all your family became part of our family again. You guys belong with us and I am so glad that is now, once again the way it is supposed to be. However, you leaving this world I can not fathom. I know you are still here and I know I talk to you constantly but it will take some time for me to actually accept what all has happened and that we cannot physically see you anymore but that you are still indeed here with many loved ones and that Caitie is now in the best hands that I can possibly ever ask for until I and the rest of us are finally able to join yous where you are but until then I can not promise you that I won't be sad or that I will not cry sometimes when I think of any of you but I do promise you that the majority of the memories will make my heart sing and I will smile or laugh at them...I have told you multiple times in the past few months that you and I must of been sisters in a former life, but I now know I am wrong. You, my dear, are my sister in this life. We act like sisters with everything that goes along with it, including thinking a like and even fighting like one....but sadly now I am lost.. just like if you were my real sister. You have always been, still are and forever will be loved by me, Neil, Aunt Mae and the kids and we'll carry you in our hearts till the day that we will meet again.Until then I will do my best to make you proud and try to carry on your legacy for you here. I love you now and forever. Your Donna Lee <3

Brandon & Missy, my deepest sympathies to you both and the rest of the family. It's never easy losing a loved one. Deb was always a nice lady and she always had a smile when I saw her. She will be missed by many! May God be with you both in this time of darkness!

Love,
Tabby D.

Debbie oh Debbie I'm feeling so sad,your passing has left me feeling so bad. I will think of the good times that you and I had, I will always be honored that you called me Dad. As time goes on by, the pain it will ease,then a thought about you will come calling to please. The tears will hold I won't feel so sad. But I will be proud that you called me Dad

My Deepest Sympathies to the family, I am so shocked at this, Deb was always so full of life and laughter! I will treasure the memories of her and our dear furry feline friends who brought us together,(Patches, Cocoa, Hershey, Tinker Bell, and the lone survivor, my little Bazzi) but left us too soon. Now she will be reunited with them and I know that will make her happy! I will miss her, and If I can do anything please let me know Melissa, Brandon, and Barry & family! I will do my best to help if I can, I am so sorry I wasn't able to be at the services, but my heart was with all of you! Take Care!
Love,
Sharon Frantz

Missy and Brandon, It is always difficult lossing a love one especially a mother. she was and is a true angle and will be forever loved and missed by many.

Our deepest sympathies to the Schwenk family, Deb was a great person and she will be trully missed

My momma you were my rock,my everything.I'm trying so hard to stay strong for the kids but I just feel so lost, part of me left with you.I love and miss you more than words can say

I'm sorry for your loss, I know how it feels to lose a family member. She was such a wonderful person, always loving and caring for her family, be they human or feline. I haven't known her in recent years, buy my memories of her will always be from while visiting Brandon after school or the weekends, she was like a second mother to me then, and I know she will be missed.

My sweet Debbie,you were my freind and my(step)daughter. Ilove you so much.You were always there when I needed you through good and bad times.We had a special bond that could not be broken. You always told me you would be there to take care of your dad and I when we were to old to care for our selfs, I never thought or could imagine we would loose you first. We miss you terribly and we will love you forever.
Your dad and mom,

Brandon and family.. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.. I didn't get to meet your mom but by the way you talked about her I know she's a great person. And she also has a great son..

brandon and family:jen and i didnt get a chance to meet your mom but we know that she was a great person and great mother,and that she raised such a great son like you.brandon you and your family are in are thoughts and prayers may god bless you all.

Brandon and family, I am so very sorry for your loss. She was a wonderful woman who will be missed by many. Always keep your memories in your heart.She will be with you always .

Ever since I can remember, she always called me her second son. She knew all of the things I had to endure as a child and she was always right there to comfort me and let me know that I was loved. I think she was as close to being an angel that one can be. She will be loved and missed.

A mother is the foundation of life. She helps create you, harbors your fragile body as you prepare to be born, and nurtures you into a strong person. Sacrificing her needs and putting her child's own life before her life, her wants. Once you become a mother you live for something better than yourself, you live for your children. I am so very sorry to those of you mourning. I worked with Brandon, and it was a wonderful experience . The person he is, is a testament to how wonderful Deb must have been. May you all find comfort and strength in each other, during a hard time like this. You'll always have the memories and lessons she has given you. My prayers go to the family & friends.

I know you are your sons best friend and that you ment the word to him. Watch over him and guide him and let him know you are there.

Brandon to you and your family, I am so sorry for the sudden loss of your mom my thoughts are with you guys.

I have only met your mother once once and I know from that moment she was one of a kind...so sorry

Brandon and family, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. She will be watching over all of you forever.

Brandon Missy Barry and family, Heaven has received a true angel. Deb was one of the most supportive and loving people I have ever met. She treated me like one of her kids. Always gave great advice and never judged anyone. I loved that about her. My thoughts and condolences are with you during this difficult time. Rest in Peace Debbie

i am sorry to hear of your loss you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so sorry for your great loss Missy and family. My heart and prayers go out to you all at this very difficult time. May your memories, God, and family and friends help you through. If you need anything let me know! God Bless!

Debbie, I didn't know you very well but you were a very friendly neighbor and I enjoyed what conversations we did have. I wish I could have known you better. Missy and Brandon I am truly sorry for the loss of your Mother.

Missy and Brandon and grandkids and family,
So sorry for your loss, keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.Hold all your memories close to your hearts and just remember sheis your angel in heaven looking down on you all.

it was the best 26 years of my life.i hope your wish came true of being one of gods angels.love you see you later

Jeanne and Kenny and family: We are SO SORRY for your loss. May all your memories get you through this difficult time of your life. But, remember Deb is pain free and has no more suffering. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

I would like to offer condolances to the family of Deb Schwenk. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I used to work with Deb at McDonalds, she truely had a heart of gold. Although I do not know any of you personally, I can say with confidance she loved you all very much, and you are blessed to have such a wonderful mother, and wife. She was filled with pride for her family, and will be missed by many. I am so very sorry to hear about her passing.

Dear Mr. Schwenk, I am so sorry for your loss. My son John though the world of Deb. May the great spirit watch over you and the family.she will always be in our hearts always. John Reilly and Dianna reilly.

Missy,Brandon and Barry,
Your Mom/Wife was a wonderful woman. So sorry to hear this but she will keep watching over you. My sincere condolences from one of your older neighbors.

Melissa and family,
I have never had the chance to meet your Mother , but I am sure she was a great person. I know how hard this is for all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers to give you comfort, I am sending a lit candle for you Mother to find her way home.

Nanny, I never thought of you leaving me as a possibility, living without you around never crossed my mind. I mean we were going to work the bait shop together, I was going to drive you around for a change, and I was going to buy you a husky like the one on Snow Dogs and you would name it Demon. You're in a better place now though, a place without pain or worries and I know that while you're not here with us in body you'll always be here in heart and in spirit. I love you Nanny and will never forget all the advice and memories that you have given me.

Barry, Missy, and Brandon, I am sorry to say I didn't really know my half-sister very well, but clearly she was loved by a lot of people. I am very sorry for your loss

In loving memory of Deborah Schwenk.

I was happy that I had the privilege to know such a wonderful woman as Deb, I cared for her a great deal as a friend, and I will miss her very much. She was a very special woman and I will treasure her memory in my heart forever and I will never forget her.

To the Schwenk family, I am deeply sorry, please accept my sincerest condolences at Deb's passing. May God's peace and love be with you at this sad time.

im so sorry for your lost.your mom was so nice to very one .

I am so sorry for your loss. Brandon your mother was an amazing,wonderful woman and you carry a lot if her in you. She will be missed greatly.

Brandon and family,

I am very sorry for your loss. Your mom was a very caring, loving and sincere person. I am so glad I had the privledge of knowing her and loving her. Her wonderful smile will be in my heart forever.She was a beautiful person in so many ways. Brandon, I will always be there for you. Love you always. LU LU

Brandon,
I was so sorry to hear about the death of your mom. I can tell your mom had a hand in modeling you into the person you are today– by your kind heart and compassion. And your love of animals. I hope the memories of your mom will be a comfort to you while you grieve this loss. Know that I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

In memory of Deborah Schwenk. I never had the privilege to meet you in person, however it breaks my heart that you have passed. I only knew you through your son Brandon, whom I have loved since the moment I met. I must say that to raise such a beautiful person, you had to have been a truly remarkable lady. And if I learn that he has made some crazy purchase, like those mega hundred dollar jeans again, I promise to yell at him for you. May you rest in peace and I know you will continue to be an inspiration in the lives of those who you touched.

Barry, Brandon, and Melissa, I am so sorry for your loss. Deb was a wonderful woman who would help anyone and everyone. She was a very hard worker. I will always remember her and our memories. Fishing at stoyers will never be the same without her at the bait shop. She loved all of you very much, she was one proud mommy. If you need anything, don't hesitate to ask.

Sincere condolences to the family of Deborah Schwenk from your friends at the Hillside SPCA.

Brandon I am so very sorry for your family's loss, and for it to have come so quickly that way. Deb was a sweet woman, gone too soon, but you can feel safe knowing that the person who cared most for you is now your angel, and still you greatest protector. I can't imagine the sorrow you feel so I don't know what more to say, you are in my thoughts and prayers!

Oh my dear sweet Mommy... I don't even know what to say... I don't want to take too much space on here, because if I stated what I felt in my heart, I would crash this page! I just want to say to you here that I love you, more than I could or would ever love anyone else in this world. You taught me most of everything that I know, and I have really built a great life for me, and I know that was always the only thing that you wanted from me! What I will always remember about you is how you would call me your sunshine, and that would brighten my day simply because you let me know that I brightened yours. You are the only mother I will ever have, and you are the only one that I could ever want, so this is a hole that cannot be filled. But don't you worry about me! Our friends are taking care of our little family, because I know you are out there worrying something horrible. WE GOT THIS MOMMA, I am just so sad that it took this for you to truly get time to yourself, and for that I apologize. Again, I love you SO MUCH MOMMY, and I will miss you to the point of tears forever, but I know you are with me, and that will keep me going. I miss you!

Missy and Family,
Im so sorry for your loss...Your mom was a good woman, the fun times we had picking at work...Your wedding that she worked so hard to make it so nice for you and she did a great job...May she rest in peace.....

I am sorry that you have been given this difficult and painful road to travel the loss of your beloved Debbie. But please take some time to review the great memories created by years of togetherness ,caring and love. We have joined you in this sorrow and we wish you the best through this difficult time. We had many great laughs and fun at the auction, this will be forever remembered by all. Peg and Doug

Kenny: So sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept our condolences.
Ed (Hap) and Joni Hoffman, Landenberg,PA

Brandon & Family

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to ask.

Barry, Kenny, Jeanne and Family.. We are so sorry for your loss. Debbie was a good neighbor. If their is anything we can do, please do not hesitate to ask.

Dearest friend. I met you through a squirrel, and we continued to fight for the critters together. Your an awesome person and you will be missed. Your suffering is over, find peace now.God speed.

Debbie you will be greatly missed. Not only are you my family but you were also my boss at McDonalds. Brandon and the rest of my family i'm sorry for your loss..

I'm so shocked and saddened by Deb's passing, She will be missed so much by so many. My sincere condolences to her entire family. I'll love ya always Deb, Rest in peace