Dianne Marie Allen

1943 - 2014

Dianne Marie Allen

1943 - 2014

BORN

1943

DIED

2014

Dianne Allen Obituary

Published by Contra Costa Times on Feb. 1, 2014.
Dianne Marie Allen
Oct. 21, 1943 - Jan. 23, 2014
Resident of Concord
Dianne Marie Allen passed away in Concord surrounded by the love of her family at the age of 70. Dianne is survived by her loving husband of 53 years, Larry Allen, her children Teresa (Claudia) Allen, Tracy Allen and Tara (Dale) Ruyle, (8) Grandchildren and (5) Great-Grandchildren. Also survived by her sisters, Sue Kittleson and Judy Harrington, (2) nieces and (5) nephews. Dianne was quick witted with a spark of humor and was the center of our world. She will forever live in our hearts.
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May 11, 2025

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January 26, 2025

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January 20, 2025

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Tara Ruyle

May 11, 2025

Mom
Happy Mother´s Day in heaven!
We miss you lots and love you lots.
#3

Tara

January 26, 2025

Mom
11 years ago you left and went to heaven. Not one day goes by that we don´t think of you. Teresa and I take the best of care of dad as you know.
He loves when I come stay the night with him. He always says to Teresa and I you are a chip off of your mom´s block. Dad said we are just like you. We never stop. We just keep going. We are a team and we getter done as best we can without you.

Love your baby girl

Tara

January 20, 2025

I love you mom!
Our Christmas picture, first time we took in many years.

Eric baum

January 19, 2025

Dianne....I was so saddened to hear of your passing. You were a hoot! FAMILY,FRIENDS, and FUN you were there. A sweet woman and a GREAT in-law...GREATLY missed and always in my prayers!!

#3

October 21, 2024

Happy 81st Birthday to you,
I love you and miss so very much. Teresa and I are taking care of Father, mostly Teresa as you know. He is missing you as always. Mom our family is still lost without you as am sure you know. Happy Happy Birthday Mother!
Love your baby Girl

Tara

May 12, 2024

Happy Mother's Day in Heaven!
Miss you lots! Dad's sister passed on 5/10/2024 at 12:30 pm as you know I felt you with us the whole time. Thank's mom for being that special mom that never gives up on her children! Enjoy your day!
#3

Grandkittys

#3

January 22, 2024

Mom 10 years ago you left us! I miss you so much. Teresa and dad miss you terribly also!
I have struggled for the last 10 years with your death and with sister#2 passing 3 years ago it has been a big loss for us as you know. Teresa and I have become the best of sisters and the bond so strong between both us. So very thankful we have each other. She does a great job helping father. So very blessed to have you as my mother.

#3

October 22, 2023

Happy 80th birthday mom!
I hope you are dancing in heaven with Tra and many others.
Miss and love you so much.
It´s so difficult without you both.
#3

#3

January 23, 2023

Mother:
9 year´s ago today you left us. I miss you more and more each day. I always say wwdd what would Dianne do! You were the best mom ever
Love you with every beat of my heart

#3

May 8, 2022

Happy Mother´s Day in heaven!
Miss you very much mom . We had Mahi mahi fish dinner with Dad and Teresa last night. Forever broken without you mom.
Oxox
Your baby girl#3

Susan Kittleson

January 24, 2022

I miss you everyday. I wish I could just pick up the phone and say hi I love you. Or drop in for coffee and chat. Watch over us as you always have.

January 22, 2022

Mom you left us 8 years ago tomorrow!
How I miss everything that you did for us each and every day. Am sure you and TRA are dancing in heaven. I miss you more and more each day. I love you mother!
Love your baby girl

#3 Daughter

December 25, 2021

Mother:
So sorry it has been a while, as you known I have been overwhelmed with my sister death. It´s very hard on us all. I thought I would never every be able to move on after your death, but you made us stronger and you made us able to handle it with grace as much as we possible can. Miss how you made each and every Christmas bright and special for your family. We miss terribly! Hugs and kiss to you in heaven.
I love you,
#3 Daughter

Tara Ruyle

May 9, 2021

Happy Mother’s Day in heaven!
Missing you lot’s. Am sure you and TRA are dancing in heaven, just seeing how lost and sad we are without you both.
Love you much, forever broken without you.
Love your baby girl

Teresa

January 24, 2021

Mom
I know your fine watching over all of us! Now you have some company with you Tra, Aunt Judy,Marlene and others! 2020 has been a ruff Year for all of us But we are all STRONG we will handle it!!! Love you Mom,Tra Aunt Judy! Party On!

Your # 1 Teresa Lynn Allen

Teresa

January 24, 2021

Teresa

January 24, 2021

Teresa

January 24, 2021

Teresa

January 24, 2021

Susan Kittleson

January 24, 2021

I miss you so much watch over us.

January 23, 2021

Mother,
Missing you as always. It is 7 years today you left us. Still look for all your great wisdom you shared with us. Missing all the cooking endeavors we all shared as a family. It’s so hard right now for all us do to Tracy leaving us and joining you in heaven. So sad without you both. You and dad did such a good job on us three girls . Miss you both each day. I hope you are dancing in heaven.
I love you and miss,
Your#3 Daughter

Tracy Alen

October 26, 2020

Teresa Allen

October 23, 2020

TRACY R. ALLEN

October 22, 2020

My dearest Ol Mom you were my hardest critic and always made me walk the walk and TALK THE TALK! I MISS YOU DEARLY MOM HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY!
Mom THANKS SO MUCH, FOR ALL THE LIFE LESSONS NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY WERE! THEY MADE ME WHO IAM TODAY! LOVE YOU! YOUR TRA!♥

#3

October 21, 2020

In loving memory of you today for your 77th Birthday love you and miss you always. Happy 77th Birthday! Thank you mother for all your irreplaceable memories.
Love#3 Daughter!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

May 10, 2020

Mother,
Happy Mother's Day! Love you and miss you more and more each day! Just wanted to let you know that I am going to do what you like best today, Cooking, Cleaning and taking care of my family! Happy Mother's Day!
I love you lots!
#3

TRA ALLEN

January 27, 2020

Mom I love & miss you so much but then again all of us do! I carry a piece of you everywhere I go. Please guide especially me through life it's been so tough for us all with out you here. Love your bratty daughter TRA♥

Susan Kittleson

January 23, 2020

Another year has passed and I miss you so much. Watch over us as you always have. I love you.

January 23, 2020

Mother,
It was six years today we lost you, we miss you and love you lot's mother every day! We still are trying to make all your recipes taste as good as you did. Still a working in progress! I love you mother!

#3

Mrs. Ruyle

December 12, 2019

Mother,
Thanks for being suck a great mom and bring me into this world! Today at 9:00 AM 56 years ago I was born to you and Father! Oh how I miss you so much! Mom I am who I am because of you and Father's good way of life with your children. We are so blessed to have both!


#3

Tara Ruyle

October 21, 2019

Happy 76th Birthday Mother,
I miss you lots. So much to say and so much guidance still needed each day from my loving and understanding mother. We made lasagna for dinner, know way was it your recipe, missing your cooking. We all talk about your recipe's and who is going to cook what. Missing you lots as always your #3 Daughter. Happy 76th birthday.

Susan Kittleson

October 21, 2019

Happy Birthday!!! Another year has passed and I miss you every single day. I visited your granddaughter and grandbabies yesterday!! Jackson and Alice are so cute. Well Desi is all grown up and a great mom just like you.
Watch over us as you always have. Love you!!!

May 11, 2019

Happy Mother's Day!
I miss you more and more each day!
I love you! Forever broken without you!
Love your Baby girl!

Jackson

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Jackson

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Kali and Bailey

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

The Boss Baby Alice

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Alice

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Dad Jackson and Alice

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Desire' Tom Jackson Alice 2018 Christmas

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Teresa Allen

January 29, 2019

Me

Teresa Allen

January 28, 2019

I love you dearly Momma thank you for being here to Tracy through some really tough times. I do feel your presence all around us. We all miss you terribly!!!
Our new little baby Alice she so special thank you for picking that beautiful girl out for us! Desire' and Tom are doing excellent in school and loving Jackson and Alice soooooo much! Britney moved with her Boyfriend Zach and his parents she seems to be doing great too. Dad's doing a lot better now better than he was he still misses you!!! Thomas is doing excellent to went to school and graduated from SF state university he got a very good Job $90,000 and benefits he is getting ready to give Jessica a ring to get Married! Sarah do great too working hard she bought herself a brand new car this year.Tara and Dale are doing well with their Trucking Business but you already knew that Tara had it in her Tysheena and Steven are doing well being great parents. Claudia and I are prefect! I'm getting ready to have Back surgery February 22nd I know you will be in my back Pocket taking Awesome care of me ❤ I LOVE YOU FOREVER

Susan Kittleson

January 23, 2019

I miss you so much and love you.

October 22, 2018

I LOVE YOU MOM!
I MISS YOU SO MUCH!

YOUR#3

Susan Kittleson

October 21, 2018

Happy Birthday!!
I love and miss you so much. If only we could talk and share everyday events.

Tara Ruyle

January 24, 2018

Mother,
Like the song says you are always on my mind. You are always on my mind for the rest of my life. I miss and love you lots! The last four years of my life have been very hard with out you, but I know you are in a better place now! Say hi to all in haven with you. A big hug to you!

Suzie,Dianne,Judy

Teresa Allen

January 13, 2018

Teresa Allen

January 13, 2018

Dianne,Teresa,Tracy,Tara

Teresa Allen

January 13, 2018

Teresa Allen

January 13, 2018

Tra Allen

January 10, 2018

Mom, it is so hard for me without you, I know you'd want me to lean on my sister's so I do a lot! I just wish I could have said I love you & heard you say it back one last time! Now MaMa Marlene is with you along with others. I just hope you are all free from pain and sickness! Party on MOM! WE LOVE YOU!

Tra Allen

January 10, 2018

Mom, I love and miss you! Love your bratty middle child!

Susan Kittleson

January 4, 2018

My prayers are for your best friend Marlene has joined you in the everlasting life with God. May you both celebrate peace at last. No pain. I love and miss you all so much. I know Mom and Judy are by your side.

Tara Ruyle

October 21, 2017

Mom,
Happy 74th Birthday! We miss you and love you lots. I will eat your share of cake, LOL! I love you!
Your#3 Daughter

Tracy

July 25, 2017

Today I stood at The Head of Bodega and cried my eye's out, I miss you so much mom I just want you back! I know you had to go it was for the better! I miss and Love you more and more each day!

Tara Ruyle

May 14, 2017

Happy Mother's Day!
I love you and miss you each and every day!
I took Dad to the Giants game on Thursday. Dad seemed to enjoy his time at the game. We all know how much you enjoyed the Giants and the Warriors.
Love you and miss you lots.

Lee and Tracy at the Giants Game May 2017

Tara Ruyle

May 14, 2017

Dad and I at the Giants Game May 2017

Tara Ruyle

May 14, 2017

Tra Allen

October 25, 2016

Dear Mom, we celebrated your birthday at Bodega Bay we cried and we laughed! We all love and miss you every second of each day! I miss you more then you could ever know! Mom you are so important to the family and I. YOU MAY NOT BE HERE BUT I CARRY YOU IN MY HEART EVERYDAY! Love you more then words can say! Happy birthday Mom!

Your girls

Tara Ruyle

October 23, 2016

We love you mom

Tara Ruyle

October 23, 2016

SUE KITTLESON

October 21, 2016

Happy Birthday!!!! Knowing you are in God's hands puts me at peace. And knowing you are with Mom and Judy make me happy. But I miss you so much. I am the last sister. And it's very lonesome without you. Watch over us and keep us safe as you always did. Love you! !!!

Tara Ruyle

May 8, 2016

Mother,
It's our 3rd. Mother's day without you. Our heart's are still hurting without you! We love and miss you! Happy Mother's Day!
We Love You,
Tara & Dale

February 8, 2016

Mom of coarse there is not a single second since you past that we don"t miss or just think of the precious memorie's we have with you! You made me the person I'am today! I'm going through a health crisis right now and this is selfish but I really need you! But don't worry, please because my Wonderful sister's and our family's got my back littterally! I know I've only made it this far because you taught me to NEVER GIVE UP! You and my Wonderful family are my life force! I and the family misses you more than any words can express. I know you will be with me at my important Doctor's appointment tomorrow as you are alway's are. I love and miss the crud outta you my mommy my best friend my partner in a little trouble and my partner in some of the best laughter ever! Your the greatest MOM EVER!!!!!! LOVE YOU TO PEICE'S #2 DAUGHTER TRA

Tara Ruyle

January 23, 2016

Mother:
It's been 2 years ago today you left us and went to heaven. Not one day go's by without thinking about you, how you were the best wife,mother,grandmother, sister and friend anyone could ever have! We all are broken without you forever! Dale and I are in Bodega Bay celebrating your life at your favorite place where we have many great memories of our life with you! We all miss you and love you! Forever broken without you! We love and miss you lots!

January 16, 2016

Mom I'm so sorry it's taken me so long to write something! It's hard for everyone without you and I can't believe your gone! I cry because I miss you, but then I hear your voice tell me suck it up it will be OK! I miss you so much mom! We didn't get to hear you say I love you one last time and that tears us girls apart! You are the best mom ever, I in know you'd want me to write something beautiful so I'm working on it! I love you so much much and I promise I will write somethi
ng beautiful very soon!<3<3<3. Love you #2 daughter TRA

Tara Ruyle

December 12, 2015

Mother,
Today my heart is filled with joy and love for you as it is everyday. Remembering what a great mother you have been for me from birth till now! you brought me in to this world 52 years ago today. So lucky to have such a great Mother as you have been. My father and Family are lost with out you forever!
We love and miss you!
Thanks for being such a wonderful mother.

November 27, 2015

Happy Thanksgiving Mother!
We Love and miss you!

Sue Kittleson

August 15, 2015

To my sister that is now with my other sister...Dianne and Judy I miss both of you so much. You are both in God's care with no more pain. I love you both. Be at peace. Watch over our family's as you have always done.

May 10, 2015

Mother,
It's our second Mother's day without you. Our heart's are still hurting without you! We love and miss you! Happy Mother's Day!
We Love You,
Tara & Dale

Molly Stevens

February 4, 2015

Sending love and Hugs to the Allen's, you are in my thoughts always.

Teresa Allen

February 4, 2015

Well its foggy outside one of those days we'd love to be in our favorite places Bodega Bay Id love to just be there with you! Well I'll just think about all of our memories there together

teresa allen

February 2, 2015

my mother was the best mother around she is of many other she knew them or not you love them I think some days I will live and I can still go over there and spend the day with her how I feel because she still here

Sue

January 23, 2015

It has been a year now… I know you are in God's hands now and suffer no more. Bu that doesn't make me miss you any less. If only I could drop by and say Hi or pick up the phone and talk for hours about nothing. Like we always did. You will always live in my heart, I love you.

Tara

January 23, 2015

Mom,
It's been 1 year today and all of our family memory's are fresh in my mind of how much of a wounderful mother,
grandmother,wife and friend you were to all! I am here in Bodgea Bay celebrating your life. My sisters,father and family will be forever broken without you! We Love you and miss you lots!

Tara Ruyle

October 21, 2014

Mom,
Happy 71st Birthday! We love and miss you lots!

Teresa Allen

July 29, 2014

Our mother was great at everything she did

Teresa Allen

July 28, 2014

Mom I love you! I miss you more and more as the days go on! The days leading up to your last day on our earth were heartbreaking but we couldn't be selfish we had to let you go! Sad but true their won't be a second that goes by that we don't think about you and what an Awesome mommy you were I can't express how wonderful you were and still are always in our hearts and souls how beautiful you are and always will be forever our beautiful mother! Our Dad is so sad without you he's going to be ok we as a family will stick together forever! I love you too Toad hang in there

Tara Ruyle

July 27, 2014

I love and miss you Mom!

larry

July 24, 2014

At birth we boarded the train and met our parents, and we believe they will always travel on our side.

However, at some station our parents will step down from the train, leaving us on this journey alone.

As time goes by, other people will board the train; and they will be significant i.e. our siblings, friends,

children, and even the love of your life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum.





Others will go so unnoticed that we don't realize they vacated their seats. This train ride will be full of joy,

sorrow, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. Success consists of having a good

relationship with all passengers requiring that we give the best of ourselves.





The mystery to everyone is: We do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. So, we must

live in the best way, love, forgive, and offer the best of who we are. It is important to do this because

when the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty we should leave behind beautiful

memories for those who will continue to travel on the train of life.





I wish you a joyful journey on the train of life. Reap success and give lots of love. More importantly, thank

God for the journey. Lastly, I thank you for being one of the passengers on my train

Love you honey

Tara Ruyle

May 9, 2014

If Roses grow in Heaven,
Lord please pick a bunch for me,
Place them in my Mother's arms
and tell her they're from me.
Tell her I love her and miss her,
and when she turns to smile,
place a kiss upon her cheek
and hold her for awhile.
Because remembering her is easy,
I do it every day,
but there's an ache within my heart
that will never go away
I Love You Mom!

Tara Ruyle

March 24, 2014

Well its been 60 days without you mom, it makes each day harder and harder without you. Forever Broken Hearted. I Love Mom!

Baby Jacksen great gandson

February 16, 2014

February 16, 2014

Larry Allen

February 16, 2014

Teresa Allen

February 13, 2014

I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!

Kim Touchstone

February 9, 2014

To my Aunt Diane.....
I have had trouble knowing what to say here. All the things that normally spring to mind for this sort of thing just don't seem to satisfy my sorrow about you being gone or my heartbreak for Uncle Larry or your girls. So I'm just gonna say this...,......I'm sorry beyond words that I was in such a hurry and couldn't stop to say hi when I saw you and tracy at safeway the week before christmas. UPS is important to me but not more important then my family and I regret that more then you'll ever know. And finally you gave me the most prized childhood possession. My baby blanket. Something that is no longer of this earth either. As a result of my deep love of it my Mom would trick me and destroy it because it was so torn up and apparently stunk to high heavens. I still remember how it smelled and the sound of your laugh. Please keep in touch. Love you Kimberley Kaye

Dianne at Bodega Bay Head

Larry Allen

February 7, 2014

Andrea DAMGAARD

February 5, 2014

all my love to you and your famiely

Christie Fisher

February 4, 2014

Our thoughts are with you and the family.

Christie and Josh

Pat Touchstone Lerseth

February 4, 2014

My sympathy and love to Larry and the girls. I have fond memories of Dianne and all of you.

Mary & Barry Kramer

February 4, 2014

Our thoughts and love go out to the Allen family

Teresa Allen

February 3, 2014

All I know right now is I miss you terribly my Best Friend my Mother my partner in everything

Molly Stevens

February 3, 2014

My heartfelt sympathies to the Allen family. I wish you peace and love, free from pain.

The sunset at Bodega bay,Ca

February 2, 2014

Lee Ruyle

February 2, 2014

we love u and going to miss you.We cherish the time that We had with u. It was good to see u at Christmas, I really enjoyed seeing u & grandpa.Grandma keep a warm spot open for us,love u ,god saw u getting tired and a cure was not to be.so He put His arms around you and whispered"COME WITH ME" you r in our prayers & our dreames.You're not around, but your memories still remain captured in our hearts. You were an angel that came and made our lives beautiful, and now that you are in heaven, we know you are doing the same.Now that you are gone, let us honor and cherish their memories with smiles and not tears ... Wouldn't grandma have wanted that?ask your self.......love u guys

Waverlyn and Algin Grant

February 1, 2014

We are so sorry and so sad over the loss of Diane, and our thoughts and prayers go out to all the family she left behind. She was such a sweet and loving lady, and will be missed by everyone who knew her.
Love and Blessings from her Aunt in Ga.

One of grandma Allen's favorite place , Bodega Bay ,Ca

February 1, 2014

Lee Ruyle

February 1, 2014

We love and miss u grandma gg.

my first fish

February 1, 2014

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