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Prom, 2018, when she suddenly slipped behind the piano and blew all of our minds.
Ciara Barstow
October 26, 2021
Somehow, I never seem to get tired of reading the lyrics of so many songs as if the “you” were you.
You know, I had to move the folder I made of pictures of you to the bottom of my camera roll... I couldn’t bear to look at it each time I wanted to save something else and have to see someone I loved that I couldn’t.
Too many poems written for you, my aibo, my Aoroi.
Gokhan Kalayli
March 15, 2021
Heard the tragedy and was shocked. We extend our condolences to Dilara's beloved family, my university friend Feyza, and Mike. May God give them patience. Gökhan Kalayli, Turkey
Michelle Trepanier
January 2, 2021
I first met Dilara back in the fall of 2019- my daughter Madison was a freshman at UMass Lowell and was suite mates with Dilara. Dilara was the first person we met and she was the kindest and most genuinely caring person we met on that campusMy daughter was very nervous and anxious about making friends, fitting in and Dilara made her feel right at home. I was so impressed with Dilara and then when I heard she was in the nursing program- I remember thinking- Wow! She is gonna make a difference in people's live over and over again.I know Dilara helped my daughter when my daughter felt anxious and depressed and I feel awful that I never got to thank her 4 that. My daughter depended on her for many things and Dilara helped her out with picking out classes and introducing her to friends. The last time I saw Dilara was probably the time I was most impressed by her- It was February of 2020- it was an
early Sunday morning and it was the last day that we could come up to the dorms and remove Madison's things because the school was closing due to Covid 19. At that time - My daughter thought it was only temporary and then she could return back to her dorm that she loved and be with her suite mates-When my daughter saw that everyone was moved out and that everything's things were gone, she had a breakdown- began hysterically crying - we thought we were the only ones there by Dilara was still there- in the next room- Dilara was sleeping - but Dilara came out- and we had obviously woken her up- She looked at Maddie and said it's ok Maddie- I'm always here for you and gave her a huge hug- I was so impressed with her concern and realness and love she had shown Maddie- something I couldn't do at that moment- as I was just trying to figure out how I was gonna move all of her stuff into my small car. I was not prepared for the emotional part but Dilara was and I will always be grateful to her and all she did for my daughter- xo Michelle Trepanier
In your memory, a North American origin tulip tree has been named after you in Nezahat Gökyiit Botanical Garden in stanbul. Your mother's friends will look after you here. Rest in peace sunshine. Anl Alk, Arzu Süerdem, Aslhan Dizdarolu, Emine S
Engin Öüt Gezer
December 1, 2020
In your memory, a North American origin tulip tree has been named after you in Nezahat Gökyiit Botanical Garden in stanbul. Your mother's friends will look after you here. Rest in peace sunshine.
Anl Alk, Arzu Süerdem, Aslhan Dizdarolu, Emine Sezgin, Engin Gezer, Gamze Pekel, Müge Seferciolu, Nee Öç, Özlem Hiçylmaz, Özlem ansal, Yeim Ertan
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Açelya Erten
December 1, 2020
Ben çok ama çok üzgünüm. Canmn cannn haberini almak çok ac. Canm yanyor uan. Umarm gittiin yerde huzur bulasn Dilaracm.
Linda Harris
November 29, 2020
I am heart broken, my deepest condolences. I love you guys!! I'll always remember the sweet little girl who became such a beautiful young lady inside and out! So happy to have met Dilara. She will be greatly missed! Prayers going up to comfort the family and friends.
Deirdre OConnor
November 16, 2020
OMG Faiza! My heart is broken for you all!!!
Elizabeth Gillis
November 9, 2020
Dilara made an immense impact on those around her, even if the encounters were brief. She was her authentic self wherever she went, and I regret that I did not get to know her better. Her kind heart will not be forgotten, and she will be greatly missed.
Kelly Fitzsimmons
November 7, 2020
I had the rare but wonderful opportunity of having Dilara in my art class two years in a row. I remember my first day teaching at Westford Academy, Dilara was in my class and her warmth and conversation eased my nerves about the first day of school. From that moment on, Dilara was a constant source of positivity and kindness in my class. My sincerest condolences to her family and friends, she will be missed.
Karen Devereaux Melillo
November 7, 2020
Extending heartfelt sympathies on the passing of Dilara O'Connell, whose impact on her peers, faculty, and staff, and the entire UMass Lowell community, has been profound. May the love and support of family and friends sustain you in the days ahead, and the wonderful memories of this most remarkable young woman bring peace and comfort.
Lizzie Kimble
November 6, 2020
I had the opportunity to know Dilara when we were in daycare together years back. I have countless memories playing Legos together and doing homework together everyday after school at daycare. As we got older, Dilara was always such a positive light. Whether that was her saying hi to me in the hallways at school, or making conversation with me in one of the many classes we had together. She was so genuine and passionate about her hobbies such as art and skiing. Dilara was beautiful inside and out and she has made a forever impact on my life. My deepest condolences and prayers to her family and friends.
Patricia MacCulloch
November 6, 2020
Dearest, Dilara
For your Mom, Dad, Brother, and all of your family and friends, I chose to share a poem by Henry Van Dyke in an effort to share sentiment of hope amidst the tremendous sadness they are experiencing.
"I am standing upon the seashore. A ship, at my side, spreads her white sails to the moving breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength. I stand and watch her until, at length, she is like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then, someone at my side says, "There, she is gone." Gone where?
Gone from my sight. That is all. She is just as large in mast, hull and spar as she was when she left my side. And, she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port. Her diminished size is in me -- not in her. And, just at the moment when someone says, "There, she is gone," there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout, Here she comes!" (Henry Van Dyke 1868). Dilara, the deep sorrow of those who are missing you is immense, and I pray that they feel your spirit surrounding them, comforting them, and guiding them, just as you always have.
Lauren Cappellini
November 6, 2020
I had the opportunity to meet and be suitemates with Dilara last year at UML. She was incredibly helpful in teaching me to navigate through my freshman year of nursing school. I will forever be thankful for her kindness and positivity. My condolences to her family, she will be missed.
Diana McAuliffe
November 6, 2020
Dilara was joy and pleasure to have in clinical this semester. I will miss her enthusiasm and willingness to participate so openly. She was always kind to her peers and very supportive. She left a mark in all that knew her. My sincere condolences to all that knew and loved her. She will be missed.
Ian Keleher
November 6, 2020
Dilara and I met at UML. She was always like a ray of positivity, with a never ending smile. I'll miss game nights and hockey games with her, but I'll miss talking to her the most.
Brenna and Torin Bourke
November 6, 2020
Dilara had a beautiful spirt. She was kind to all and I am grateful for the time we spent with her. She was an amazing person who was gifted in so many ways. We will miss her greatly. The lives she has touched are countless. We will not soon forget the lesson she taught us in her time here. Love Brenna and Torin
Elle Whitehead
November 6, 2020
I am thinking of and praying for Dilara's friends and family. Dilara was an incredibly kind soul who brightened the halls of Westford Academy and the day of anyone who talked with her. I am so glad I had the opportunity to meet Dilara, she will be incredibly missed.
Julianne D'Ambrosio
November 6, 2020
Dilara attended every single class with such an intense passion to learn and always strove to help & welcome those around her. Whether it was asking questions that were so above & beyond, or putting her best effort into every single thing that was asked of her, she always brought her brilliance & creative sense to the table. Being able to leave such a profound impact on others is one of the most remarkable qualities that someone can ever possess. She will be deeply missed by the UML SSON. My deepest condolences go out to her friends & family during this time.
Julian Zabalbeascoa
November 6, 2020
My deepest condolences to Dilara's family and friends. Dilara had been a student of mine last year. She brought her unique energy to each of our classes, which helped make them the special and profound experiences that they were for all of us. She was enthusiastic about each topic and excited to share her thoughts with us and to listen to others. She was a truly special student and person. I am grateful for the time I was able to share with her, and I am so very sorry for your loss.
Amanda Carmichael
November 6, 2020
Dilara was a bright star. She was always so engaged in nursing. She was a true leader and inspiration to many. I will miss her spirit. My heart and prayers are with her family. I wish you peace during this time. I will always remember her kindness and energy.
Kaitlyn Coppenrath
November 6, 2020
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of Dilara's friends and family. Dilara was an active member of the nursing school at Umass Lowell. She always sat front row and was so engaged in all of our classes. Dilara was such a positive and vibrant soul and it was a pleasure to take classes with her. We could always rely on Dilara to advocate for our class and put a smile on all of our faces. You will be deeply missed. Sending lots of love and prayers to the O'Connell family during these times.
Daniel Wilk
November 6, 2020
My thoughts and prayers are with your family in this difficult time. Dilara was one of the few people at UMass Lowell that I could truly call a friend. She was always so kind, passionate, and caring. I wish I had gotten to know her more, but I feel lucky to have known her for the past two years. She was always able to make me and those around her smile. The world lost a truly amazing person, but her memory will carry on. I will miss our talks in the UML dining halls that always made my day. She made such a positive impact on my life and many others. Thank you for everything Dilara, you will be missed.
Jaclyn Leest
November 6, 2020
Dilara was one of the first people that made me feel welcomed at UML. She hosted Game Night in my dorm building and it was really fun. I always looked forward to going to it and everyone had such a good time. Dilara was a very good host and so welcoming to everyone. I will always treasure the time I spent with her at UML.
Domenic Carrillo
November 6, 2020
My deepest condolences and all of my prayers for Dilara's family and friends. I will never forget the adventures we shared playing Dungeons and Dragons and UMass Lowell. Dilara will live on in all of our hearts and minds and she will be with us on whatever adventure we have next.
Wendy Seltzer
November 6, 2020
I knew Dilara as a wonderful teacher in the NVSP OEC class, valued patrol colleague on the slopes, and a cheerful presence wherever I saw her. May her memory be a blessing.
Jenifer Whitten-Woodring
November 6, 2020
Dilara was a valued and vibrant member of the UMass Lowell Honors College Community. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family in this difficult time. We will always be grateful for the contributions Dilara made in and beyond the classroom.
Karen Wilson
November 6, 2020
I had the opportunity of meeting Dilara and Feyza while working at Nashoba Valley Ski Patrol. I was always so impressed with her ability to juggle so many things and so well at such a young age. Although her time here was much too short it's clear by the many posts that she's made a lasting impression on many. May you find peace in the days ahead. God bless.
Zeynep Kacmaz
November 6, 2020
Dear Feyza, Michael and Daniel,
Please accept our deepest condolences. She will remain in our minds as a truly amazing and creative girl. May she rest in peace. Zeynep, Alastair, Ekin and Berk
Jen Keene-Crouse
November 6, 2020
Dilara - You had a sense of calm about you like no other. In the realm that we worked together it was such a much needed trait. Any student who had the pleasure of meeting you is better because of it. The last time we spoke I saw the Legend of Zelda poster on your wall and shared with you how much I loved and played that game as a kid. It made me pause and feel youthful and innocent again for a moment. Thank you for that. You will be missed greatly.
Rachel Nunes
November 6, 2020
My thoughts and prayers go out to Dilara's friends and family. I enjoyed every moment I spent in class with Dilara, she was always so warm and kind. She will be dearly missed.
Emily Sergeant
November 6, 2020
Dilara was always good to me. She always thought about others before herself but she always knew exactly what she wanted. Never did I feel unloved by her when I was around her, and no one will be a confidant like she was to me. She was a strong young woman, and I am honored to have been able to call her my friend. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family. May you all find peace in this difficult time.
Robin and Chip Herzog
November 6, 2020
Feyza, our heart goes out to you, Mike and Daniel for your sudden loss. You spoke of Dilara with such pride and joy. I hope that in time there is healing and peace in her eternal memory.
Noah Barnes
November 6, 2020
My thoughts and prayers go out to Dilara's friends and family. I have never met someone as kind, welcoming, and talented as her. Dilara was a truly amazing person, who went out of her way to put a smile on everyone's face. I feel blessed to have ever had a friend as incredible as her. May she rest in peace.
Jerome Moore
November 6, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss.
Lucy Xiao
November 6, 2020
My thoughts and prayers go out to the O'Connell family during this time. I first met Dilara during WA's production of The Little Mermaid. Her smile and enthusiasm was contagious. On top of her many talents, Dilara brought passion and excitement to all that she did.
Dilara, thank you for the art that we created together. I am honored to have known you. Fly high my friend, you will be missed ❤
Lisa Abdallah
November 6, 2020
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the Family and Friends of Dilara. I was fortunate to have been one of Dilara's sophomore level faculty at the University of Massachusetts Lowell, during last spring and fall semesters. Dilara was always prepared and enthusiastic in class. It was truly a pleasure to have worked with her. I will always carry fond memories of her with me. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May Peace be with you as you hold on to your memories.
Ina Donescu
November 6, 2020
Our hearts and prayers go out to you Feyza, Mike and Daniel through this difficult time. Please receive our deepest sympathy on Dilara's passing. She was a great friend to our daughter and a warm and wonderful person which will remain present in our memories and spirit.
Erik Swartz Swartz
November 6, 2020
The Department of Physical Therapy and Kinesiology at UMass Lowell wish to share our deepest sympathy with Dilala's family, friends, and UML community. We were heartbroken to learn the news of her passing. We have amazing, incredible students here at UML, and in reading more about her we can truly express how honored we were to have her here with us. To our friends in the Solomont School of Nursing, please know your colleagues in PTK are thinking of you during this very difficult time.
Elizabeth Burrows
November 6, 2020
My heart goes out to her family and friends at this most difficult time.DIlara was an inspiration to many of the students, faculty, and staff at the Solomont School of Nursing. She shared her knowledge with many other students to help them succeed, she showed her courage by asking the question everyone else was afraid to ask and always answered the question asked to her correctly. She shared her love of music and art with her peers.
Vincent Colavita
November 6, 2020
Dilara was one of the most creative and artistic people I have ever had the privilege of meeting. She looked to new opportunities with excitement, and her spirit was second to none. I will always cherish the time we spent together. She will be missed dearly.
WABC Club
November 6, 2020
Dear O’Connell family
We offer our deepest condolences. We are truly sorry for your loss.
Dilara was a dear friend to us all and a valued member of our WABC club. She was kind to us all, she always managed to make us laugh and smile, even on the darkest of days. Dilara was a committed member and put a lot of work into making the club great. She was there every morning, ready to work and help out any way she could. She was brilliant, she always brought great ideas to our club and had a lot of club spirit. Beyond that, Dilara was kind and willing to lend a hand, willing to do the jobs that needed to get done without complaint. We will all miss Dilara, but also continue to treasure the time we got to spend with her and the memories we made along the way.
Signed WABC club
Rachel Gillis
November 5, 2020
I send my thoughts and prayers to Dilara's friends and family. It was an absolute pleasure to take classes with Dilara and get to learn from her. She was always super helpful and kind to her classmates and teachers. She will be dearly missed.
Madison McDonald
November 5, 2020
Sending thoughts and prayers to the friends and family of Dilara during this difficult time. She was such an enthusiastic classmate and was truly a pleasure to know. She will be dearly missed.
Colleen McEwen
November 5, 2020
What beautiful tributes to Dilara are coming in from so many people whose lives she touched. I am so, so sorry for your loss, Feyza, Mike, and Daniel. My deepest condolences to you. Lifting you up in prayer, my friends.
Geoff O'Connell
November 5, 2020
Michael, Feyza, Daniel --- Our deepest sympathies go out to you. I had the pleasure of meeting Dilara but once, and only briefly. She immediately impressed me with her warmth and spirit. May she rest in peace and may you also know peace through memories of her. -- Cousin Geoff O'Connell and family.
Emma Thompson
November 5, 2020
Dilara was one of the most engaged students and peer I have came across. She was front row no matter which class, always asked the questions that everyone else was thinking, and always stood up for herself and classmates. She was an active member of our nursing community and everyone could rely on her to have a smile on her face. As hard as these times are, I wish peace to Dilara and her family.
Olivia King
November 5, 2020
You will be greatly missed.
The Twombly Family
November 5, 2020
Our prayers and heartfelt condolences go out to your family We are so sad to hear about Dilara. She was a beautiful girl with many talents. May she rest in peace.
Kelly Bray
November 5, 2020
I met Dilara a couple of summers ago while working for the Orientation Office at UMass Lowell. It was her first summer as an Orientation Leader, and I was on the leadership team, so I had the pleasure of hiring and training her, and subsequently watching her grow as a leader over the course of the summer. As her supervisor, I was always incredibly impressed by her positivity, work ethic, and passion for making the Orientation program the best possible experience for every student coming through. More importantly, though, there were many things I admired about Dilara as a person.
I will always remember how much she cared about her friends and acquaintances, and how she always seemed genuinely proud of her friends for their achievements, and even though I had not known Dilara for that long, she had this ability to make me feel like she was my biggest fan and supporter.
Dilara will be remembered by many for her unique character and how she set an example to many on how to be unapologetically yourself. She had such an incredible impact on so many people, and will be missed dearly.
Kathy Lynch
November 5, 2020
Dear O'Connell family and close friends, I am so saddened by the loss of this special young lady and offer my sincere condolences. She was one of my daughter's best friends. Dilara was very talented. I will never forget her amazing performance at the Westford Academy Talent Show where she danced and sang with such pride and gusto. I remember her acting and having a keen interest in improv. She also was a good artist. She played the piano really well too! She was so much fun to have around our house and during outings like the Escape Room for Kerry's birthday. Dilara was kind, funny, smart, generous and, most of all, she had a big heart. We are so fortunate to have known her. My daughter and I will miss her. To me she will always be a very special angel.
Brenna Morse
November 5, 2020
Dilara's energy, creativity, and engagement in class helped us all enjoy Monday and Friday mornings together this semester. She set the bar for class participation and preparation. I feel honored to have had the opportunity to spend time with Dilara over the past few months. Please accept my sincere condolences.
Venil Kathiravan
November 5, 2020
When I first came to UML in the Fall of 2019, I knew no one and found my self lost on campus. Although Dilara and I only vaguely knew each other in high school, she saw that I was struggling and showed me how to find everything on campus. On my first day when I was alone and had no one to talk to, she sat with me in Mcgovern and reassured me that I would be fine. That's just the kind of person Dilara was. She was thoughtful, helpful, and kind to everyone she met.. I just wish she knew how much she helped me and how much her kindness affected those around her.
Emily Veiga
November 5, 2020
Dilara was a friend and breath of fresh air in this gloomy world. We sat next to each other in Anatomy class, and she was always so excited to learn. We studied for exams together, she was so helpful and caring, a kind and gentle soul. My thoughts and prayers are on Dilara's family, she will be dearly missed.
Ulla Figwer & David Goss
November 5, 2020
Feyza, Mike, and Daniel, our hearts go out to you and your extended family upon hearing of your tragic loss. The last time we saw Dilara she was excited about moving on after high school. She left a strong impression on us then -- a young woman coming into her own, smart, quirky, and ready to take on the world... a gentle, powerful soul. We will remember her that way always. You are in our thoughts.
Julia Zuber
November 5, 2020
Dilara was one of my orientation students coming into her freshman year at UML. She did so much for the university and was so present in the nursing school. I just know she would've been an incredible nurse. I'm sending my love to everyone who had the chance to know her.
Heidi Collins Fantasia
November 5, 2020
On behalf of the faculty and staff at the UML Solomont School of Nursing, please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of Dilara. She was an amazing student who touched so many lives at the University. Dilara accomplished so much during her time with us and she will be remembered by all who knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family and friends during this profound time of grief.
Rae Mansfield
November 5, 2020
Dilara was a wonderful and talented member of our theatre community at UML. I find myself wishing I had saved one of her dragon heads to share with everyone or had recordings of some of our conversations. May Dilara’s memory be a blessing and may everyone let their creative light shine a little brighter for her.
Michael Aloisi
November 5, 2020
"Dilara and I worked together for the past two summers and she was truly a beacon of light. She was an amazing orientation leader and her gave her students everything. Her energy and her passion for everything she did was so infectious on everyone. She could light up a room and give it so much life. She truly loved and accepted everyone she meet for who they were. She will be dearly missed but never forgotten."
Meghan Oelerich
November 5, 2020
Dilara was a beloved member of the WA community. I will never stop being inspired by her vibrant spirit. She was a phenomenal artist, an intelligent mind, and a kind soul. Dilara radiated compassion and I loved her dearly. I will forever cherish the time we spent together as she painted a mural on my classroom wall and visited with me. Much love to Daniel and the family, what an unimaginable loss.
Gillian LaFosse
November 5, 2020
I met Dilara while working as an orientation leader a few years ago. I have never met a more passionate, enthusiastic, and caring person. Everything she did was to make everyone's lives better, and that was shown through everything she's ever done. There are some people you meet that stick with you forever, and Dilara is one of those people. Every memory I have with Dilara makes me smile, and will never leave my side. My thoughts and sympathy go out to her family and friends - she will be greatly missed.
Ciara C. B. Barstow
November 5, 2020
Dilara was my best friend in high school— she’d greet me first thing every morning in a full-bodied bear hug with that contagious smile creasing those beautiful blue eyes. We were the first ones out on the dance floor during our senior prom, the goofiest pair during Last Night, and the perfect partners in crime. I love and miss you, aibo. I wish we could have made more memories together, but I will treasure the ones you gave me. I’ll make you proud.
Bridget Porter
November 5, 2020
I know Dilara and Feyza through ski Patrol. I really can’t speak highly enough of such a kind young woman, wise and mature beyond her years. Feyza and family, I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and what you must be going through. Dilara, rest In the sweetest peace sweet girl.
Isabella Azaroff
November 5, 2020
Dilara was such a beloved member of the UMass Lowell Improvisation club. Her kindness, generosity, and sense of humor was valued so much. Over the years she had become a very good friend to everyone involved in the club, and will certainly never be forgotten. She never failed to lighten up the room with her laugh and her jokes. She was one of the kindest souls I've ever met. My deepest condolences go out to her family and close friends.
The Kenney Family
November 5, 2020
Our deepest sympathies to Feyza, Mike and Daniel. We are so sorry to hear about Dilara. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May Dilara rest in eternal peace.
Matthew Chan
November 4, 2020
I first met Dilara as an Orientation Leader in UML. I was a returning OL and was instantly wowed by her kindness, her enthusiasm, and her optimism. We ended up being close friends and did so much together. We would stay up watching YouTube videos in the common area, just talk through the night, play games together in a group, and so much more. We had an amazing back and forth in the Orientation 2019 skit and I can still remember all her lines. Even after the summer of 2019, I would keep in contact with her. She donated her time to helping people out and also creating fun. She helped me move out of Fox and into Bourgeois. In exchange, I gifted her a large official UML flag. I went to one of her game nights in USuites and had a blast. We'd have lunch occasionally together in the dining hall, and I got to meet some of her Nursing friends. She also helped me out with a big project I had, too. And my favorite picture of myself was taken by her.
So many great memories I have of Dilara. She was always willing to go the extra mile and then some if it meant helping people out. I am so, so, so incredibly sorry for your loss. My greatest sympathies go out to her family and friends. The world lost a compassionate and shining star this week, but I will always remember her, and cherish the memories we made together. And I have no doubt that in times of sadness, everyone that Dilara touched with her kindness can reflect back on the happy times in their lives with her, and smile at the legacy she left.
May she rest in peace, and may everyone hold strong in unity during this challenging time.
Caitlin Ashe
November 4, 2020
My deepest sympathies go out to Dilara's family and friends. You are all in my prayers and I am so sorry for your loss. I had the blessing of having Dilara as a lab partner two semesters (Microbiology and Chemistry); she was absolutely brilliant. Whenever questions were asked in any class we shared, Dilara would always have an answer ready. She was always so kind to me along with other classmates. Never have I met a girl who would advocate for her peers and put other people first like she did. I will never forget our afternoon FaceTime calls where we would spend time cracking jokes and completing our lab reports. She was a shining star in the UML nursing program and we will all miss her dearly.
Kathy Rainovic
November 4, 2020
My deepest condolences go out to the O'Connell family. I am truly sorry for your loss. She was an amazing person as well as a great friend. We were in WABC together, she was always so kind to me and the other kids of the club. She always made me smile and laugh. I am so glad to have known her. I will deeply miss her. You will be in my prayers and I hope God grants you strength. May she rest in peace.
Schmaltz Family
November 4, 2020
Our most heartfelt condolences to Feyza, Mike, and Daniel. We are so sorry for your loss of Dilara. Our family has many very fond memories of Dee playing together with Charlotte and Kathryn making snow forts, video gaming, annual trick or treating, drawing together, pool fun, fire pits & s'mores, and so much more. We will miss her. May she Rest In Peace. ❤
Katie Estes
November 4, 2020
Our deepest sympathies go out to Dilara's family and friends. It is just heartbreaking for them to have a world without her as she was such a bright light. May she rest in Peace.
Katie (O'Connell) Estes - Wolfeboro, NH
Catherine Woods
November 4, 2020
My deepest condolences go out to the family and friends of Dilara. Her passion and positivity inspired everyone she touched and I will always admire her optimism. We were lucky to have her as an integral part of the UML nursing program and will cherish all that she brought to the classroom. You will be in my prayers during this difficult time and I wish you strength.
May she rest in peace.
Jordan Kessloff
November 4, 2020
Sending love and prayers to your family. Dilara always brightened up every class. Previously being one of my lab partners, she always knew how to make the experiments enjoyable as she showed her fascination and helped those around her if needed. Dilara's appreciable personality, hard work ethic and contribution to UML's SSON will never been forgotten.
Olivia Wilson
November 4, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies are with you and your loved ones. Although I was not close with Dilara, we did work on a project together during freshman year. She was always so helpful and was willing to do anything she could to participate within the group. In class, she always so happy and upbeat, and her lively energy was contagious. It was inspiring how much she loved to learn and how kind she was to other students. She will be deeply missed throughout the UML community, and will be remembered for years to come. I pray that she rest in peace, and that you are able to find tranquility during this difficult time.
Shelly Singhal
November 4, 2020
Dilara and I took movie making together my freshman year at WA. She was the only upperclassman that would help me out and was always ready to answer any questions I had. She treated everyone with kindness and equality, a trait that is often hard to find these days. May she rest in peace.
Emma Valentine
November 4, 2020
Dilara and I were in theatre together and she was brilliant. She was intelligent, high-energy, and always a positive spirit. We will miss having that energy around us. My thoughts are with you all.
Julia Donovan
November 4, 2020
To Dilara's friends and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Dilara always stood out in our nursing class with a bright smile and an infectious desire to learn. Although I was not too close with Dilara, it was apparent that she had a strong drive to learn and participate in every single class which was truly inspiring. She will be remembered here in the UML SSON.
Nadia Djan
November 4, 2020
Although I never spoke to Dilara, I always saw her in class and she always had brilliant answers for any question that could've been asked. Her presence will be greatly missed by us all. I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm praying for endless strength for your family everyday. Rest in peace Dilara
Sarah Sullivan
November 4, 2020
I'm so sorry for your loss. Dilara's positivity and smile brightened up every nursing lab even at 8am. She had the kindest soul and was such a bright girl. She will be dearly missed in the UML community. Dilara and family will be in my thoughts and prayers❤
Nicole Lupo
November 4, 2020
To the family and friends of Dilara-
You have my deepest condolences for the loss of such a kind hearted and beautiful woman. Although I was not very close with Dilara, as her classmate, it was easy to notice the bright smile on her face each time we met as a class. Her drive to learn and active participation in something she seemed so passionate about is truly inspiring. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerest condolences,
Nicole Lupo
Drew Banta-Ryan
November 4, 2020
Dilara was a wonderful classmate and human being. I feel lucky to have had such a friendly and vibrant colleague. Wishing you peace and strength during this difficult time.
Kayleigh Semeter
November 4, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and all of Dilara's loved ones. Her lively personality radiated throughout the WA community and our UMass Lowell campus. May she rest in peace.
Kevin Brooks
November 4, 2020
Dilara was a beautiful person who brought infectious positivity and smiles wherever she went. She was loved by all of us, and we will always cherish her memory. I am so, so sorry for your loss. I wish you all the best. Keep going. She had a unique light within her that we should all strive to carry on. The night sky will be a bit brighter with her watching over us. Dilara was truly a star and I am blessed to have known her.
Lynda Vernalia
November 4, 2020
Dilara was a lovely, energetic student at WA, I will always remember her smile. Sending care and strength and courage during this difficult time
Holly Pritchard
November 4, 2020
Dilara was loved and will be missed by her friends in the WA Game Club. Please know that we are lifting your family in prayer.
Jennifer Ganley
November 4, 2020
My heart goes out to you all during this most difficult time. Dilara was my student in Spanish, she was so bright and special. Everyday when I go to school, I look at the amazing mural that she painted outside, and I will continue to do so with much love.
Caryn Reilly
November 4, 2020
Friends and family I am so very sorry for your loss. It's truly amazing how one person can touch and affect so many others. It's hard to understand this tragic loss but I give you my love, strength and support to help aid you during this time.
Amanda Barnes
November 3, 2020
Feyza and Family I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Dilara was the sweetest of souls and I will remember the fun times an laughs we shared at Nashoba Valley Ski Patrol class. Thinking of you during this time.❤❤❤
Amanda Barnes
November 3, 2020
Feyza and Family I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Dilara was the sweetest of souls and I will remember the fun times an laughs we shared at Nashoba Valley Ski Patrol class. Thinking of you during this time.❤❤❤
Amanda Barnes
November 3, 2020
Feyza and Family I am so sincerely sorry for your loss. Dilara was the sweetest of souls and I will remember the fun times an laughs we shared at Nashoba Valley Ski Patrol class. Thinking of you during this time. ❤❤❤
Trinity Cook
November 3, 2020
She was always so positive and energetic. Always telling me to “do it” do anything and everything. Even if she was a little nervous, she would try anything she wanted to do. Dilara was and is still someone I will always look up to and try to embody. She had such beautiful eyes and a shining smile. I will always remember her doing everything with confidence, as if she was held aloft by birds and was not afraid to fall. I love you Dilara. You may go on in peace.
Niamh McEwan
November 3, 2020
We lost a great friend, but the universe received a new beautiful star. Dilara was one of the kindest and caring person I have ever met. We were in kindergarten together and reconnected in high school and I'm so glad I got to meet such a kind person. I wish I was there when you needed me the most I love you aways ❤
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