Donald J. Kiesler

Donald J. Kiesler

Donald Kiesler Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 18 to May 19, 2007.
KIESLER Dr. Donald J. Kiesler, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Clinical Psychology at Virginia Commonwealth University, died May 16, 2007. He was predeceased by his infant daughter, Rachel Hall Kiesler. He is survived by his wife, E. Allison Hall Kiesler; three children, Sarah Hall Kiesler, Benjamin Hall Kiesler and Barry Donald Kiesler. He was born in 1933 in Louisville, Kentucky to parents John Valentine Kiesler and Mildred Foushee Kiesler, both deceased. Dr. Kiesler is also survived by his three brothers, John Valentine Kiesler Jr. of Columbia, Maryland, Dr. Thomas A. Kiesler of Rockville, Maryland, and Michael J. Kiesler of St. Louis, Missouri. As a research psychologist, Dr. Kiesler was internationally recognized as a seminal authority in study of contemporary interpersonal psychotherapy. In 1973, Dr. Kiesler assumed directorship of VCU's doctoral program in clinical psychology, and spearheaded its accreditation in 1975 by the American Psychological Association as the first accredited doctoral clinical program in the Commonwealth of Virginia. Dr. Kiesler received his bachelor's degree in 1958 from Bellarmine University in Louisville, Kentucky and his Ph.D. in clinical psychology in 1963 from the University of Illinois. Before arriving at VCU in 1973, he held research and academic positions at Wisconsin Psychiatric Institute in Madison, the University of Iowa, and Emory University. Upon his retirement in 1999, he continued to conduct research at VCU's Medical College of Virginia in the physician patient interpersonal relationship. The family will receive friends at Bliley's Central Chapel, 3801 Augusta Avenue, on Sunday, 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated 12 noon on Monday at St. Peter's Catholic Church, with interment to follow in Hollywood Cemetery.

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May 29, 2007

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May 29, 2007

Katy Sproul posted to the memorial.

May 25, 2007

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Steve Nowicki

May 29, 2007

Don was my mentor and my friend. I learned more from him than from any other person in my life. He was good and strong and forgiving. I hope his family can take some comfort in knowing that he lives on in the lives of his students and his colleagues.

Katy Sproul

May 29, 2007

I would like to offer my deepest sympathies to the Kiesler family.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Katy Sproul

Anton Hafkenscheid

May 25, 2007

I am deeply moved by hearing of the passing of Donald J. Kiesler. Donald Kiesler enthousiastically supported my research with the Dutch version of his Impact Message Inventory for several years, ultimately leading to a co-publication to be published next month. I will remember Donald Kiesler as a very dear colleague. I will sourly miss his frank, thoughtful and witty email messages, which had become so familiar in my daily life. My thoughts are with his wife, children, brothers and friends.

Lydia Noble

May 22, 2007

You are in our thoughts and prayers as we are saddened too for your loss. We miss you and we hope you come back to school soon. From your 2nd grade student, Lydia Noble

Bob Falk

May 21, 2007

I was saddened to hear of Don's passing and wanted to pay my respects to his family. He was a mentor to me while I was a student at VCU's clinical psychology program in the 1980's and during my residency year. Time with Don was always stimulating, rewarding and fun. He was a gentle man who was generous with his time, his knowledge, and his skill. I continue to use much of what I learned from Don in my work with patients. His impact will live on.

Sarah Rausch

May 21, 2007

My sympathy to the Kiesler family, as well as close friends and colleagues. Don was a mentor to me while at VCU. It was such a pleasure to work with him, and he was always very positive, empowering, and helpful. I always appreciated his enthusiasm and pleasantness.

Donald J. Kiesler

May 20, 2007

Maddie Karalus

May 19, 2007

The Kiesler family is in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. - The Karalus family.
I feel very sorry for your family that your father passed away. George - 3rd grade.
Your father has accomplished many things - You should be very proud of him. Pray to your father and he'll pray back. - Maddie - 2nd grade Ms Kiesler's class

Sarah Christian

May 19, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the entire Kiesler family. Don was a mentor to my father and an important person during my upbringing. I will always remember him fondly. I hope that all of you may find some peace in the fact that he is no longer suffering. I'm saying special prayers for both him and Rachel. Love, Sarah Perkins Christian

May 18, 2007

We are thinking of you and hope you know that we are here if you need anything. All our love, Robert Hall, Penny and Alex Parker

Aaron Pincus

May 18, 2007

My deepest sympathies to the Kiesler family. Don was a senior leader in our field of interpersonal psychology and an inspiration to me. As a first year graduate student at Berkeley, Don was among the first scholars I ever contacted for help. He was welcoming and positive in response. This was the beginning of an ongoing scholarly friendship. I am deeply grateful to have known Don first as an iconic leader of my field and later as a beloved professional colleague. He will be greatly missed.

Ev Worthington

May 18, 2007

My deepest sympathy at this time of loss for you. When I joined the VCU faculty in 1978, Don served as one of my clinical supervisors for licensure. We continued to be colleagues since. It has been a great privilege for me to know Don and count him a friend as well as colleague. His life touched many people, and his humanity affected me as a person, a therapist, and a research scientist. He had one of the best work ethics I've seen before he retired, and his dedication to finding more truth has been evident continually since his retirement. He left a big and positive footprint on this earth.

Sonja Jackson

May 18, 2007

To the Kiesler family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of such a wonderful and kind man. I worked for 9 years in the Psychology Department at VCU and Dr. Kiesler was one of the first to welcome me to the department. He always brought a smile to my face and made a point to always say hello to me everyday he was on campus. He wished me well and gave me names of contacts to make when I left Richmond to move to Atlanta to work at Emory. I've always remembered him for that. He will be missed.

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