Donny Lee Porter

my Brother, I love and miss you dearly. Forever in my heart and soul. I will carry you with me always for you are a part of me . Your sister , Taylor

Donny the father of my beautiful 3 girls. Someone who was my best friend for many years. My house is full, my girls, their guys, my Caroline, Caroline's little sister Anatasia on the way, 4 dogs and a cat. Part of me is feeling warm with all of us here and my wonders to where of what our future is to bring. We have had such tragedy the past month with ups and downs. The happiness, the sadness, laughing, crying, fighting and hugging. His life was taken to soon, so many wonderful things to come even tho we are not together. Even tho his death is horrible, we will forget the bad and remember the good. The tears flow with sadness but with joy and heartwarming thoughts of my family and friends. Everything has been in a spiral. And has ended in such sadness. My ex was my best friend for 25 years. Our life began at 15....My little Chloe, oh how she loves her daddy....he was the typical Disney dad. And she looked forward to always seeing him. My lord at 9 he was still helping her get dressed! My Britney pregnant with grand baby #2, he was so excited about her coming. He got to help a lot with babysitting Caroline. Brit is so strong, true first child! Amber is my one that holds it all in, she is so sad he will never walk her down the aisle or experience any of her children. I've lost someone so dear to me...I will remain strong, my girls are my world and I will do anything for them. As you are the same way! Thank you Thank you all, those that bought food or texting every day. I love you all so much! My life will go on strong because that is who I am....the stronger the better I am. He will be sooo missed but not forgotten. Always in our hearts....

My dad was an amazing dad. I was a daddy's girl for as long as I can remember. I couldn't of asked for a better male figure in my life to look up to for guidance. He taught me so many things through my life and I am who I am because of him! I have so many memories that will last me my entire life time. From the lessons I learned from him to the laughs we shared through my childhood to my adulthood. Every time I think of him I smile....he loved my husband, my daughter, and me so much and he did so much for us. He will live on forever through the memories and stories I pass down to my children about how awesome and amazing their grandfather was.

Love you daddy, you are such a great man!!! And always will be!

Donny was a brother n law I loved. I loved him like a brother I never had. I love you brother. Romans 12:9-10
Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good.
10) Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves. Love you brother!
Jason

Aunt Norma my best memories of Donny is when he worked at Showmars .We would cut up in the kitchen just to make the day past by talking and laughing. Aunt Norma I am so sorry for you I know it will be hard. I Love you so much!!!

My Donny and I had a love that was so strong that know one will ever know, except for my sister Norma. She allowed me to love Donny when I was at such a young age of needing to be wanted. Donny was like my own baby I wanted to do everything for him and Norma you always let me be mommy to him .My best memories are when we lived together at Swan Run and how we saw the Lord's Hand every day in your children's lives that made my faith so strong. I Thank God every day for you Norma you have always been my guardian angel that God put in my life. It is the most wonderful thing to have been a part of your son's life he got me through a lot of life chapters. My heart hurts so much for you and the family I pray that the Lord will give you the comfort that you need and that we will see our Donny one day and I can't wait to give him the biggest hug and see his beautiful smile. Just know that I am here for you always. Love your sister Kathy

Looking through Donny's photo gallery tonight, I couldn't help but to notice a common theme....charismatic, jovial, confident, and loyal. That is the way I will always remember Donny Porter.
I first met Donny in 1994. Jennifer and I worked together in the salon and Donny would bring his family in for haircuts. Although our stations were on different ends, I can remember hearing Donny's laugh throughout the salon. He always seemed to enjoy that time with his little sister. He had a way of bringing cheer wherever he was.
My favorite memory of Donny was around the early 2000's. We all packed up and went to Holden for the weekend. We hit the beach at early morning and stayed till sundown. Around 3-ish, we decided to build a sandcastle. The men quickly decided that we didn't have the right tools and headed back to the beach house for some landscaping shovels. They dug for what seemed like eternity, but finally we had a moat close to 8 ft around our castle! It was a group effort, with each of us contributing our special talents. As you can imagine, Donny came prepared with his own talents.... He was dancing, laughing, cracking funny jokes and singing along with the radio. He made sure that we were all happy and having a good time. He knew how to make everyone feel loved and welcomed. On that day, we had forgotten we were adults. It felt as if God granted each one of us a special day from our childhood and we took Him up on it. We cast our cares out into the ocean and was lost in enjoying our time together. With a sense of accomplishment, we all left the beach that day carefree and sunburnt.
Donny was truly blessed with a gift of making others feel loved. I count it a blessing to have known him and will forever hide that beach memory in my heart. RIP sweet Donny.

My heart breaks to hear the news of Donny's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. Donny was a funny, outgoing and nice looking guy. I will never forget my time at UFCA and the crush I had on him. Specifically, I remember a look-in UFCA sponsored and Donnie and Danny playing basketball. My crush was so huge, but Kelly got his attention in those years. You will forever be missed and loved Donny Porter!

Norma my heart aches for you and all the girls. I'm so sorry your having to travel down this terrible road. I remember when Donny was born and Kathy thought he belonged to her, she didn't want anyone else to ever babysit him. And his wonderful smile and laugh that would just brighten your day. He is now resting in the Father's hands never to hurt or shed a tear. I pray God covers you with is love, comfort and peace. I love you all God bless and keep you always in His loving care.

I knew Donny mostly in his pre-teen to teen years. I remember him as someone who was always the cool guy and who was swooned over by many teenage girls. I attended United Faith Christian Academy with him and went to United Faith Assembly of God for many years with him. He was usually the center of attention, very athletic, and a natural leader. I am still good friends with his cousin, Stephanie, and so even though I have not seen Donny since we were young, she has been able to keep me updated through the years with how he and his family were doing, and so I am saddened to hear of him passing with so much more life ahead of him. My heart and prayers go out to Norma, Jennifer, Taylor, Kelly, his beautiful daughters and all of his extended family. May God speak healing words to your hearts and give you peace during this time.

Norma, I know your heart will always ache and long for Donny. My heart hurts for you because I love you so much, but we know Our God has gotten us thru this loss and gives us peace. Please know we are still praying for you and Jennifer, Taylor, Britney, Amber and Chloe and all the great grands as well. Love you.

I met Donny in the eighth grade. I had just moved to NC from Oklahoma and attended UFCA. I remember clicking with him immediately. He was so funny and as I would learn during our friendship, incredibly sweet. He and I dated each others best friends so we spent a great deal of time together. We attended both school and church together. I remember learning I would be moving back home to Oklahoma. Donny was at his beloved Sunset Beach during the summer after our freshman year. I called him to say goodbye thinking that this phone call was going to be our goodbye. The night of my going away party, as I got ready to leave, Donny pushed through the crowd of teenagers and grabbed me in an enormous bear hug. He kissed my check and whispered in my ear, "Do you really think I was going to let you leave with out a hug?" That was the Donny I knew. The wonderful friend who wouldn't dream of letting me leave forever without a proper goodbye. Even at 15, he knew how important it was to say goodbye. I wish I had the pleasure of knowing Donny as an adult. I imagine he would continued to be my very good friend. I am so sorry to hear his light no longer illuminates this world. I am peace knowing although I was not able to return the favor by telling him goodbye in this life, I know I will see him again in the next. Rest in Peace dear friend.

Norma, I am saddened to hear about Donnie's passing. I will always remember the great times we had together as teens trying to figure out what growing up was all about, enjoying lots of camping and sleepovers and pool parties!
May you have peace soon.
Mike Engels

Donnie, as I look through the scrapbook I kept in middle and high school- there you are on about every page from youth conferences, ski trips, beach trips, class trips with UFCA, church outings and family gatherings. And most of these outings being asked "Does your cousin have a girlfriend?" or "Who does Donnie like?"
You have left a void in your family that only you can fill.
Praying for you Aunt Norma, Jen, Taylor and the whole family during this time of grieving and loss.

Donnie, no matter what it was (except maybe grades) we were always competing. On the youth ski trips who could get down the slope the fastest, at Mike's house at his pool who could do the best dive or best gainer ( to impress the girls) or make the biggest splash, or in skate boarding who could do the best trick or face it who could get the least hurt on a ramp. We even made up the song that got us in trouble at church "At the ramp at the ramp where I first saw the Hawk" - somehow I got the most in trouble for that one. Time served together at UFCA then high school at East Meck then who knew ( except maybe Steph) you would end up a groomsman in mine and Steph's wedding. Then we could act up and get in trouble at family functions for years to come..
You will be missed.
Steph and I are praying for you Aunt Norma and the family during this time of loss.

Looking through a scrapbook I made as a teenager in middle school and high school- Donnie there are you. Ski trips, beach trips, youth conferences, pool parties with mutual friends, being asked each week "Who does Donnie like?" and "Can you tell me if your cousin has a girl friend?" Our families were close- Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve celebrations even lived on the same block.
I know your family has a void without you there.
Praying for you all as you are grieving and making it through this difficult time.
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Donnie and I spent a childhood together when concurring the world was a young boys dream. Taken from family way to soon so we will look to his children to reach for the star's and accomplish the things he was not able to finish. We will watch his children and grand children accomplish great things and carry his memory on for generations to come.

Carson is Donny's nephew. He said he is sorry you were not able to come to the beach. He misses you and loves you. Carson loved when you watched him play his iPad. He said he had lots of things to show show you. He said I love uncle Donny because he will sit and watch me play my games. I love younUncle Donny.
Carson McAllister

My dear sweet Brother, a loss that can never be replaced. Until we meet again in heaven before our Heavenly Father I will miss you with all my heart. Your sister, Jen

Taylor and the Porter Family, Gary and I are so very sorry for your loss. I myself, have walked in your shoes (lots of times). My daddy, my mom, my late husband and then my oldest brother Wade. I was only in the 8th grade when my daddy died,and then later in my life all the other heartaches! I'll ALWAYS love and miss each one, as now I know you'll miss your brother Donny. Our prayers are with all of you and Taylor, I love you !

Gary and Faye Pittman,
Spruce Pine, NC

Norma, we are just learning now about Donny's passing. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. We have prayed for Donny for years. We love you! Please let us know if we can do anything for you. God bless you and family. Psalm 91

I am so sorry to hear about Donny. Doug and I and our girls had some great times when are kids were growing up. Sending prayers and love to all of the family.

Anita Dougherty

Our hearts are breaking for you and your family. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. If you need anything at all, please don't hesitate to call on us. ~ Lisa and Eddie Thompson (Freedom Acres)

My deepest condolences to the family.

" I am offering my deepest condolences during this difficult time. Please remember that GOD always cares about you PSALMS 18 :1,2