Douglas STOKES

Douglas STOKES obituary

Douglas STOKES

Douglas STOKES Obituary

Published by Calgary Herald from Jan. 25 to Jan. 28, 2012.
STOKES, Douglas George, Q.C.
April 4, 1958 - January 22, 2012
Douglas Stokes, beloved husband of Patricia Rowbotham and devoted father to Charlotte, Anne and Michael Stokes, passed away on Sunday, January 22, 2012 in Calgary. Doug was born and raised in Saskatoon and attended the University of Saskatchewan where he graduated with a B.SC. (cum laude) 1978 and an LLB 1981. He moved to Calgary to start the practice of law and was called to the Bar of Alberta in 1982. His almost 30 years of legal practice led him to several Calgary firms. He articled at MacLeod Dixon, and practised for several years at Fenerty Robertson Fraser and Hatch (now Fraser Milner Casgrain). There he met Pat and the two young lawyers started on an amazing life together with successful careers in the legal profession, but more importantly a 26 year marriage and three fantastic children. Doug's legal journey took him to Miles Davison LLP, Rooney Prentice, back to Fraser Milner and then in 2009 back to Miles Davison, the firm with which he had the longest relationship and with whom he was associated at the time of his death. He was appointed Queen's Counsel in 2002. Doug's practice involved primarily the representation of other lawyers. He was the lawyer's lawyer and was so very proud and honoured to represent and assist his fellow members of the Bar. He had a keen legal mind, good common sense and practised law to the highest ethical standards. He was a mentor to junior lawyers and a sounding board for practical and ethical problems for many lawyers at all levels of the Bar. He served on several committees of the Law Society of Alberta. Doug had a sharp intellect, an inquiring mind and a great sense of humour. He loved history, art and Rumpole of the Bailey. He enjoyed cycling and spent many hours on the pathway systems in Calgary. He loved travel, especially Europe and his fondest memories were of family holidays there and at Boucherie Beach on Lake Okanagan. But most of all he loved his family and he whole heartedly supported the endeavours of his wife and children and was incredibly proud of their accomplishments. In addition to his wife and children, Doug is survived by his sister Janice Stokes and her husband Kent Campbell of Regina; sisters and brothers-in-law, Elizabeth Rowbotham and Thomas Funk of Littleton, Colorado and Victoria Rowbotham and Neil Berman of Lions' Bay, BC; his mother-in-law Marie Clarke Rowbotham; nephews and nieces Kevin and Kristen Funk, Jonah and Sacha Berman and Sarah Campbell; cherished member of our family Florenda Sousa; godfather Joe Shaffer, and many relatives in the Stokes, Kist, Rowbotham and Clarke families. Doug was predeceased by his father and mother, George and Charlotte Stokes, and his father-in-law Harry Rowbotham. Prayers and Tributes were held at McINNIS & HOLLOWAY'S Park Memorial Chapel (5008 Elbow Drive S.W., Calgary, AB) on Friday, January 27, 2012 at 7:00 p.m. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Mary's Cathedral (219 - 18 Avenue S.W.) today, January 28, 2012 at 2:00 p.m. Graveside Service to follow at Queen's Park Cemetery. Condolences may be forwarded through www.mcinnisandholloway.com . In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Calgary Legal Guidance or to the College of Law, University of Saskatchewan in Doug's memory. In living memory of Douglas Stokes, a tree will be planted at Fish Creek Provincial Park.


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June 13, 2016

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July 14, 2015

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March 28, 2012

Jan & Walter Paradowski posted to the memorial.

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Judy Schweitzer (nee Horsley)

June 13, 2016

Patricia & family - I just hear of Doug's passing. My sincere condolences to you. I enjoyed working with both you and Doug, through the Fenerty years and later. All the best to you,

Duncan Thompson

July 14, 2015

I had the extraordinary privilege of working somewhat oppoisite to Doug who was counsel for a lawyer that had been "third partied" into a lawsuit. I was so extremely impressed with everything about Doug's character, personailty and professionalism. It was very easy see his warm, kind nature and his inate desire to do what he felt was right.

I recognize that some time has passed since he left us, but I wish you to know that I still feel so especially close to him. He will always have my gratitude and my admiration.
Sincerely,
Duncan C. Thompson

Jan & Walter Paradowski

March 28, 2012

Patricia and Family ~ we just heard of Doug's passing and we are sending along our sincere condolences. I enjoyed working with both Doug and you over the years.

Jan & Walter Paradowski
(retired in Peachland, B.C.)

February 7, 2012

Dear Pat and family, Andrew and I can scarce believe it.

As I think about Doug, there are so many memories; how much he (and you) helped me through my first years of practice, spoons and tiny talent time, how he made me laugh and how he helped me let my conscience be my guide. As I marvel at what was "the wonder of Doug", I appreciate that much of life can never be explained, only witnessed and, hopefully, shared. How lucky we all were to have had him in our lives! His support will go on and on...

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Andrew and Deb (Wilk) Huitema

Ed and Artis Williams

February 6, 2012

Dear Stokes family:
We became very close friends with Janice and Doug's parents when we lived in Wilkie. Though we moved in different directions, we kept in touch and always enjoyed hearing how proud they were of their children and grandchildren's accomplishments. It is with deep sadness that we hear of Doug's passing. Please accept our sincere condolences.

Tim Adams

February 1, 2012

Tim Adams

February 1, 2012

Tim Adams

February 1, 2012

Boucherie Beach Good Times

Tim Adams

January 31, 2012

Rick Hook

January 30, 2012

Pat and Family; So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you.

January 29, 2012

Dear Pat & family,
We were very sad to hear of Doug's passing. He was always a very kind & thoughtful person. Please know that you are in our thoughts & prayers.
Deepest sympathies from the family of Uncle Mike & Aunt Annie Schwab.
Agnes, Harvey, Marion, Larry & families

Peter Pastewka

January 28, 2012

Pat and family: the Pastewka family sends its sincere condolences at this time of loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Fred Vogelgesang

January 27, 2012

I remember starting school with Doug at St. Gerard School. I remember he sat beside my desk in grade one. We became good friends. I will miss Doug

Francis Saville

January 27, 2012

Dear Pat. We were shocked at this sad news. We arep thinking about you and your family at this most difficult time .Francis and Linda SAVILLE

Bev MacGillivray

January 27, 2012

Pat and family,
I was fortunate enough to meet Doug at Miles Davison in the 90's. He was always so pleasant and kind, to everyone. My heart goes out to you during this sad time and hope that the fond memories and laughs you shared will soon fade the sadness. May he rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Bev MacGillivray

Julian+Janice Lalonde

January 27, 2012

Dear Stokes family, We were neighbors of your grandparents when your dad was growing up in Saskatoon. I worked with your grandfather at Shelly bros. for many years.Your father was very close to his parents and was the apple of thier eyes.We are sorry to hear of his passing. Please accept our sincere condolences at this time.Julian+ Janice Lalonde.

Gloria Bowyer & the Wiebe Family

January 26, 2012

Pat, Charlotte, Anne, Michael,
As a very close friend of Janice for 40 years I knew Doug my entire life, although not closely as an adult. The Stokes family were neighbors and friends and we are all very saddened by this sudden loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Drew Berg

January 26, 2012

Dear Pat, Mike, Anne, Charlotte, and Flora, my deepest condolences go out to you and everyone who knew Douglas. Your family is in my prayers and I am always thinking of you guys.

David McKernan

January 26, 2012

Charlotte I'm very honored to have met your father. He was a remarkable man. Pat, Anne, and Mike, you guys are in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeff Larson

January 26, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Doug's passing. He was truly a fantastic guy and an excellent litigator.

January 26, 2012

Dear Pat, Charlotte, Micheal and Anne
We hope that you will find strength and comfort among your family and friends. Hold the wonderful memories of your father close to your hearts. We are thinking of all of you .
The Ribecco family

January 25, 2012

Pat, Charlotte, Anne, and Michael, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort from your memories and strength in one another. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy, Kim Lambrecht

Harris Hanson

January 25, 2012

Very sad to hear of your loss.
Doug was a gentleman and a good person. May the pain of your loss pass and leave you remembering only your good times with him.

Evelyn Hickey

January 25, 2012

Dear Charlotte - I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You are a wonderful person and I know you will be strong during such a difficult time. I'll be thinking of you and your family. Lots of love.

Joanne Berg

January 25, 2012

Pat,Charlotte, Anne, Michael and Flora, Hold wonderful memories close to your hearts.You are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy,Joanne, Fred, Traci,Scott and Drew

Mary and Marvin Kist

January 25, 2012

We were saddened terribly upoh hearing of this news. He will be missed. Doug was always the life of the party and had a cheerful countenance.

If there is ever anything either of us can do, please call. Mary and Marvin Kist.

Jane Sidnell

January 25, 2012

Pat, Charlotte, Anne and Michael: My deepest sympathies on the passing of such a wonderful man. From both a personal and professional perspective, Doug will be sorely missed by his many friends and colleagues.

January 25, 2012

Pat, our thoughts and prayers are with you, Charlotte, Anne and Michael. We will always have very fond memories of Doug and our fun times that we all had at Boucherie! Love, Pete, Deb & Kurt Stangrecki.

Tim Adams

January 25, 2012

Pat, our most sincere condolences to you , Charlotte, Anne & Michael during this very difficult time. Doug will always be in our hearts, and we will forever cherish the wonderful memories of all the fun vacations we spent together at Boucherie!! God bless you and the kids. Tim , Karen & Kelly Adams xo

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