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George F
May 14, 2025
Jocelyn K Foy
February 12, 2025
Dr. Holmes stretched my perspectives on a host of subjects. I am sad to hear of her passing.
Cliff Berrien
December 9, 2024
Dr. Barbara A Holmes was one of the most significant teachers I have ever had the honor to learn from. After reading her book, Joy Unspeakable, I wrote her to express my sincere appreciation for the profound insights she shared. She wrote me back! Her response started a correspondence that lasted for years, until the year of her passing. I've been blessed to not only meet and work with her, once accompanying her beautiful presentation on drums, but to also meet her beloved husband, George. Prayers of condolence and blessings to you and all your family George. And so many thanks to you, Dr B. I'll do my best to continue sharing your remarkable work with integrity, honesty, humor and compassion.
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Kerry Wright
November 11, 2024
Sorry to hear of the passing of Dr. Holmes. Her desire for spiritual things and love for helping others will long be remembered. May her loving disposition bring comfort during this time of grief. May you also reflect on our Heavenly Father for comfort.
Jonell Carol Johnson
November 6, 2024
Joy Unspeakable:
A Reflection for Barbara
Barbara Ann Holmes was a gifted, brilliant, creative person whom we all love.
I Corinthians 12:12-27 gives is a framework of the Body of Christ and it can be likened to Barbara´s life. Let me read just a snippet of this word: I Corinthians 12:24b - 26 (New Revised Standard Version Updated Edition)
(24b) "But God has so arranged the body, giving the greater honor to the inferior member, (25) that there may be no dissension within the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. (26) If one member suffers, all suffer together with it; if one member is honored, all rejoice together with it."
Now in Barbara´s body - In her life - she had many members.
George, you came into Babara´s life in 2012 just before Mommy Holmes transitioned to heaven in 2013.
Barbara Loves you. You shared great times together. You shared her senior years and made fun times together moving across the country to Florida, fishing, and camping in Michigan. You were her husband and her playmate. PLUS: you allowed her to be her creative self.
Jason and Marcie, you allowed your Mother to be a Mother. To give birth to two wonderful sons whom she loves and adores.
Tommy, Millie, Susie, and Eileen - you were the foundational stones upon which Mommy and Daddy Holmes raised each of you. Barbara loves each of you. She knew that she could count on you to support her and to have her back.
Then there were the supporting cast Kathy Barrett Davis you joined in the early days of Barbara´s youth.
Kathi Randall you were selected to join the cast under the direction of Marcus Stokes.
I joined the cast in 1967 at 443 Norton Parkway.
Barbara enjoyed a stella professional career. She used 100% of her brain power to be all and do all that she accomplished - under the direction of the Holy Spirit, her Shepherd and her Guide.
But the most important thing to remember is Barbara Loves the Lord. She committed her life to Christ over and over again as she grew in her understanding of The Holy Spirit.
And that brings us to I Corinthians 13:8 which teaches us that Love Never Ends. Love never fails. Love is Eternal.
I Corinthians 13: 12-13 gives us the hope of eternal life:
(12) For now, we see only a reflection, as in a mirror, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known,
(13) And now faith, hope, and love remain, these three, and the greatest of these is love. (NRS-UE)
We who believe will see Barbara again. Barbara is now with the Ancestors. With Granny, and Daddy Holmes, and Mommy Holmes. With the Gullah Ancestors. And even with Lucky.
Let us celebrate Barbara´s life today. She has completed her course on earth. But she leaves a rich legacy in her writings, and podcasts, and in the way that she touched each of us.
Barbara now has a glorified body free from sickness and worry. Barbara has stepped into Eternity.
Well done thy good and faithful servant: thou has been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. (Matthew 25:21)
Barbara stepped into Joy Unspeakable. The Joy Unspeakable of Eternal life in the Lord.
Linda Janet Holmes
November 4, 2024
Barbara will always live as my admired independent and free first cousin who has always been an inspiration. Our Dads were super close. So that meant, I was always aware of the super bond between us. Her writing opened doors that led me to believe that I could also climb the mountain of writing and being published. Thank goodness I had time with Barbara a year ago celebrating her birthday. Thank goodness also for the joy and laughter that came from Barbara inviting me to be on her podcast. Barbara will live in my dreams and in my work forever.
Dr. James Stokes
October 31, 2024
The World will miss your presence and all your contributions. Rest In Peace
Lynda Freund
October 27, 2024
I was blessed to have her as a Living School teacher. I was truly and deeply touched by her courage to claim her mystic self and uplift it in all of us! She will live on as a deeply personal and prophetic Being full of love, openness to transformation, courage and grace.
I offer much gratitude for her life on earth she will have continue having a lasting effect on. I send a joyful dance to celebrate her ongoing journey
Reverend Liz Walker
October 25, 2024
On one level the world has lost a teacher and a mystic. Thankfully on that deeper and higher level of truth and love your spirit persists. I thank God you will remain a true sojourner of divine wisdom.
Wuzzy Wu
October 24, 2024
Dr. Holmes led an online Advent meditation
Marcia Y Riggs
October 24, 2024
The power of her presence was equal to the power of her voice--written and spoken. Having Barbara in my seminary classes expanded my capacities to teach. I am grateful to the Spirit for the journey that Barbara and I shared.
Mary
October 24, 2024
Thank you Lord for this beautiful Gift of Barb! She radiated you and was your Precious Presence. Rest In Eternal Peace! Condolences to all especially your family and loved ones! Dr sr Mary Shaw
Mary
October 24, 2024
A woman of Wisdom!a woman of God!
Larry Motzel
October 24, 2024
Deepest condolences, she was a remarkable woman. I first started reading the daily meditations from CAC during COVID (great suffering). I don´t remember what she was quoted about in the meditation but I do remember being thunderstruck. After that, every time she was quoted I anticipated a similar reaction and was always had one. This world is certainly a better place for her having lived in it. I am looking forward to meeting her someday!
Cindy Craig
October 24, 2024
As a long distance follower & supporter of CAC I have been blessed by so many I have never met. And yet, spiritually know. I remember seeing a sweet video of Barbara fishing off a dock with George. I laughed as she said she relied on him to put the worm on her hook. Felt instant connection, a sharing of sameness. And I laughed
Cindy Craig
Julia M Simmons
October 24, 2024
God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. As I read Dr. Barbara's contribution to a Center for Contemplation and Action daily message about a year ago, i saw my life as a spiritualist and as a follower of Jesus clearly reflected. I was delighted and wrote to Dr. B and told her a little of my story. She responded immediately and warmly asking me how I was going to leave a legacy regarding this story. My gratitude is deep for Dr. B, her writing and her unforgettable message to me.
Kathleen Paylor
October 23, 2024
I always enjoyed and appreciated Dr. Holmes' teachings through the Center for Action and Contemplation. I will miss them and her as I know so many others will. I trust that she is dancing somewhere!
Sonia Lindsay
October 23, 2024
Dr Holmes has inspired me as a woman of colour who held together spirit and brain, conflicting cultures and did so with joy and warmth.
Linda Etim
October 23, 2024
Dr.B and my mother shared a name, a birth year, and a deep belief in the interconnectedness of African spiritual traditions throughout the diaspora and the indigenousity of Christianity. My mother passed in 1995, but learning from Dr.B´s work and life has helped me throughout these years to grow into this lineage even in seminary. I honor her for her life and work. I grieve with those who love her. I remain committed to the lessons that she left behind.
Dr. Cheryl Kirk-Duggan
October 23, 2024
Dr. B and I have been friends for several decades. I met her at Memphis Theological Seminary when she was Dean. I edited a volume, where she and her sister Susan co-wrote an article, and we've remained friends through her tenure at United Theological and after she became emerita. We visited via Zoom in early 2024. For her life and legacy, I give thanks.
Cris Amburgey
October 23, 2024
No words only
Jennifer Troy
October 23, 2024
Thank you, Barbara, for teaching me to live with joy.
Nicholas Kramer
October 23, 2024
Dr. B was at once fierce and gentle, and her spirit impacted my life. It was a gift to sit behind a camera for hours and listen to her teach with deep conviction and clarity, and then watch her laugh and play as she fished with her beloved George. I'm saddened she's no longer visible to us, but I feel a peace that she's not far away. Here's a fun video we made together: https://youtu.be/eBWgb1v1rQ0?feature=shared
Sharie Aldren
October 23, 2024
I have not meet her, however, I hope to meet her someday as well. I can feel her energy. Helpful and Joyful.
Anna Larson
October 23, 2024
Proud to have had her as my seminary President at United Theological Seminary. Dr. B. was someone who inspired you to be the better version of yourself by being bravely dedicated in the way and the words she lived.
Rebecca Hemphill
October 23, 2024
Race and the Cosmos fills me with "ahas!" in recent days, weeks, months of slow reading, speaking to my soul, spirit, mind and making sense of my decades-long interest in quantum physics and astronomy as it relates to prayer, healing, and contemplation. Excerpts of her inspired teachings full of art, movement, and wisdom in the CAC daily meditations nourish and delight. I´m so grateful.
Sr. Joyce M. Hanks
October 23, 2024
She had a way of touching your heart with her wisdom, humor and sincere love of life. I will miss her wonderful reflections.
Joyce M. Hanks
New Orleans, LA
Jason Myers
October 23, 2024
I have been so sad since learning about Dr. Holmes' death. I loved her writing and will continue to cherish the books she authored. It was wonderful to hear her voice on the podcast, which had the joyous and resonant timbres I would have expected from encountering her on the page. She was very kind to me personally in my own endeavors as a writer, editor, and theologian. I'll be forever grateful for the small connection we had, and miss her bright, indelible voice. I know she's running around Heaven all day. R.I.P.
Sandra Oppermann
October 23, 2024
Always a smile and caring energy for everyone.
Lynn M Mark
October 23, 2024
I am saddened by the news of Dr. Holmes' transition. I only know her through her writing. "Race and the Cosmos" is my favorite. I loved her words in Richard Rohr's daily meditation. I wish peace and solace for all who knew and loved her.
Lynn Mark
Saint Louis, Missouri
Marty Leary
October 23, 2024
Through the many years of reading Daily Meditations, when Dr. Holmes teaching was the focus I be would be excited in wisdom was about to happen. Smiles happened immediately. Thx Dr. B.
Gerri Leder
October 23, 2024
She helped us understand God´s creation -all of it - in a more profound and inclusive way. She was holy and wholly of service to God and us. She will be missed by the vast CAC community, even those like me whom she never met.
Samba Nyirenda
October 23, 2024
Thank you for the git that you were. I been blessed by the reminders of the Divine Union to all that is.
Samba
Francistown, Botswana
Stephanie Williams
October 23, 2024
I would like to extend my heart felt condolences to your family. I will be praying for comfort and peace to guide you during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Stephanie Williams
Joanne Sullivan
October 22, 2024
I remember the first time I listened to Dr. Holmes speak. I had just found the website of Fr. Rohr's meditations and she was listed as a teacher . There was a talk that she was giving on line, so I tuned in to see who she was and what she was saying. I can't tell you what the talk was about at this time, because my soul listens and keeps only the truths of what I hear or read. I remember being so impressed by her wisdom and the uniqueness of her thoughts and style . I remember thinking..." This is a strong spiritual woman". I feel blessed to have shared such a small part of her life wisdom and grateful for the blessing it brought to my life. I pray in love and thanksgiving to her and for all of you . Joanne Sullivan
AmieO Alaysinta
October 22, 2024
Spiritual connections do happen mysteriously and with Trinitarian inspiration kairos experiences occur and gratefulness is our only response-grateful prayers to our Triune God whose unfathomable love embraces everyone who lives in wisdom, truth, justice and peace as our sister Barbara did.
Darlene Bilsley
October 22, 2024
Dr. Holmes, her writings, her knowledge and especially her Spirit so helped me on my spiritual journey.
Liza J. Rankow
October 22, 2024
Dr Barbara A Holmes was (and will always be) one of the most brilliant, creative, ethical, funny, generous, accomplished, and kind people I know. We met more than 20 years ago at the Church for the Fellowship of All Peoples, while she was there doing research on Howard Thurman for her classic text _Joy Unspeakable_, and again in 2002 when she was keynoting a symposium at the Sophia Center in Oakland centered on her book _Race and the Cosmos_. She wrote in my copy: "The Cosmos intended for us to meet. Sisters should know one another. I am blessed by your friendship." It was I who have been blessed all these years.
She encouraged me as I completed by PhD, and basically dragged me into the community of religious scholars, introducing me to colleagues who have since become friends, and giving me my first visiting professorship while the ink was still wet on my degree. We have laughed, cried, celebrated, commiserated, encouraged, and prayed together through the joys and hardships.
She meaningfully touched so many many lives, and it is no exaggeration to say her imprint will live on through generations. I send so much love to her cherished husband (who made her happier than I have ever known her to be), her family, friends, colleagues, students, and beyond. Truly a life well lived. Thank you, my precious sister, may the Unbounded Cosmic Divine bless you as you take your place among the stars.
Jennifer Zona
October 22, 2024
What is life?
It is the flash of a firefly in the night.
It is the breath of a buffalo in the wintertime.
It is the little shadow which runs across the grass
and loses itself in the sunset.
- Crowfoot, Blackfoot warrior and orator
Walk to beauty Dr B
Ade
October 22, 2024
Thank you for being fearless.
Thank you for your courage to reveal the unseen.
Thank you for being a spiritual warrior.
Thank you for your deep love for humanity.
Thank you for BEing LOVE!
Tija Andriamananjara
October 22, 2024
Presence and unforgettable smile in the seminary. Rest in peace, Dr. B. Forever grateful
Teresa Bridges
October 22, 2024
She brought me to the Ancestors and a profoundly embodied and joyful mysticism, the cosmic consciousness where she will always be available to all.
Gail Robinson
October 21, 2024
She was a Beautiful experience and I shall miss her. I am so grateful to God for sending Dr. Holmes my way.
Mary Ann Knechtel
October 20, 2024
Having the honor and privilege of being a student of Dr Holmes at the "Living School", I must say she now lives within me. Her words and teachings resonate deeply spiritually, mystically, and lovingly. Transformative growth has enriched my soul while listening and absorbing her word. With reverence I thank you Dr B for your grace, honestly and love you have freely gave. I send love and prayers to the family and dear friend for healing your sadness during this stage of grief. I also thank God for his gift of spiritual paths intersecting on the journey of Action "and" Contemplation. May God's blessings, mercy, and grace be with us all. Peace Mary Ann Knechtel Butler, PA
Corii Gino Varner
October 20, 2024
If it had not been for the presence & encouragement of Dr. B, I would not have had the motivation to finish in 2017 with my MDIV! Rest well & in peace my President!
Meredythe Jones Rossi
October 20, 2024
My President and friend. Rest in peace and power
Meredythe Jones Rossi
October 20, 2024
Annmarie Brennan
October 19, 2024
As a student in Living School, I have only come to know Dr. B in the last 9 months. I am so grateful to have had the privilege to learn from her. My heart is with her family as they transition from having her around them in the flesh to having her around them in spirit. What a beautiful woman!
Sharon Tan
October 19, 2024
Don't forget that Richard Rohr personally asked her to join his Living School, where she taught after leaving United!
Luther Ivory
October 19, 2024
In a word, Dr. B was a world class scholar, a committed disciple of the way, a seeker of truth, love, beauty, and justice, and a gentle spirit that embraced difference and modeled empathy and radical love. Fly free now Barbara!!! Much Love
George Ford
October 18, 2024
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