Dr. Paul Wesley Schaper

1934 - 2023

Dr. Paul Wesley Schaper obituary, 1934-2023, Ballwin, MO

Dr. Paul Wesley Schaper

1934 - 2023

BORN

1934

DIED

2023

Dr. Paul Schaper Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 24, 2023.

Dr. Paul Wesley Schaper, 88, of Chesterfield, MO passed away on January 23, 2023 at his residence. He was born October 3, 1934 in Lincoln County (Troy) Missouri, son of Lawrence and Esther (nee Knipmeyer) Schaper.


He was educated in Elsberry, MO and went to college at Central Methodist, Fayette, MO and Greenville College, Greenville, IL. On September 1, 1956 he was married to Evangeline Porterfield. Paul received an MD from the University of Missouri in 1959 and completed a residency in General Surgery at Saint Louis County Hospital in Clayton, MO. He became a fellow of the American College of Surgeons and certified by the American Board of Surgeons. In 1964 he moved to the town of Benton in Marshall County, KY where he practiced general surgery at the local hospital for over 40 years until retiring at age 70.


Paul lived a life of love and service in both his community and abroad. As a devoted family man, he took great joy in spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He was active in Benton Church of the Nazarene, the Gideons, youth sports coaching, and various committees. Upon retirement he was appointed to the hospital board and was instrumental in the selection of the location and construction of the current Marshall County Hospital. Paul took up golf late in life and became a regular at the Benton Country Club where he enjoyed the camaraderie of his friends. He enjoyed golf on holidays and annual Hilton Head vacations with his son, sons-in-law and grandsons.


In 1975 Paul and Evangeline began mission trips to Haiti, Swaziland, Kenya, and Zambia where he allowed surgeons at mission hospitals to take furloughs. These trips proved to be some of the most joyful, challenging and rewarding in his experience as a surgeon.


In 2017 Paul and Evangeline moved from their home in Kentucky to Friendship Village Chesterfield, MO (FVC) to be closer to their daughter Diane and family. He quickly became involved in the many activities at FVC where he loved the friendly banter and intellectual stimulation of his many new friends. Paul rarely missed Trivia night, where his exceptional memory was an asset. He joined the Creative Writing group where he was inspired to write his memoir, “Stories From My Journey” which was published in January 2023.


Paul is survived by his wife Evangeline, his sister Althea in Independence, KS, son Dr. Lawrence (Larry) and his wife Kim in Louisville, KY, daughter Diane and her husband Ned Mozier in St. Charles, MO, and daughter Julie and her husband Phil Shomo who live in Hilton Head, SC. He is also survived by eight grandchildren: Caitlin (nee Mozier) Yang, Jessica (nee Schaper) Finney, Luke Shomo, Hannah (nee Mozier) Grooms, Alex Schaper, Dylan Mozier, Caleb Shomo, and Austin Schaper, and 7 great grandchildren.

Services: A Memorial Service will be held at Friendship Village Chesterfield, 15201 Olive Blvd., Chesterfield, MO 63017 Saturday January 28th at 2:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Chaplain’s Fund c/o Friendship Village Chesterfield, 15201 Olive Blvd. Chesterfield MO 63017, Gideon’s Marshall County, P.O. Box 206, Benton, Ky 42025, or Salvation Army, 1130 Hampton Ave #3147, St. Louis, MO 63139. As a service of the SCHRADER Funeral Home and Crematory, friends may sign the family’s on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.


 

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Marc Chary

April 8, 2023

I met Dr. Paul June 23rd 2012, the first year he rented my beach house in Hilton Head. We visited that year, and I knew then that Dr. Paul was a very special man with a very special spirit. We would talk about the importance of family and making memories. I remember him telling me about his and Evangaline's move from the house to the retirement community and how easy it made his life.

I looked forward to his return every year and the visits we would have during the week. We would sit on the screened in porch looking out over the ocean and watch the kids play on the beach. He was very content as he should have been with a life well lived.

I will miss my visits with Dr. Paul and extend my deepest condolences to his family.

Marc Chary
Hilton Head, SC

Shane Freeland

February 13, 2023

Hello Dr Larry and family , was very sorry to hear about your father's passing....Dr Paul had been on WCBL several times for the morning coffee call program and various things several years ago , before they moved back to Missouri ......Always an inspiration to talk with him........ hope you and yours doing well ....Shane, Trish and family

Peggy Rice

January 29, 2023

Dr Schaper was a real inspiration in my life he is truly missed

Harry Curry

January 28, 2023

I love Dr. Paul Schaper! I am saddened by his passing, but overjoyed that I got to know him.

I remember a few years ago I thought he had been killed I a chain saw accident. I was so very sad. Then I saw him at a TNU board meeting and I was overwhelmed with joy!

He was a great man of God. Thank you for sharing him with all of us.

Evangeline, Anita and I will be especially praying for you.

Rick Dye

January 28, 2023

I am so saddened to hear the news of Paul’s passing. I will never forget the kindness, love, and acceptance of all of you when I moved to Benton in 1972 as your new minister. There are too many good memories to recount. My growth as a minister and human being can be attributed in no small part to having your all in my life. I am so glad I was able to visit with you just before you moved.

I have come to realize that life isn’t measured by just beliefs, but by actions that lead us to engage in our wonderful world. Paul was engaged in life and that is more than can be said of many others. You all are in my heart and I wish nothing but strength, insight, and love for all of you.

Grace & Peace,
Bro. Rick

Jonathan Shumaker

January 28, 2023

I didn't get to know Mr. Schaper, but I've heard a lot of good things about him.

Cheryl Schmitt

January 27, 2023

When I worked at the Benton Hospital as Medical Transcriptionist, Dr Schapker was one of my favorites. I enjoyed transcribing his surgery histories and working with him. He had a wonderful sense of humor and incredible humor and humility. He was truly a good man. May he rest in peace.

Samantha Futral

January 27, 2023

I am so sad to hear this news. Dr. Shapher really was a great man. My love goes out to Vangie and his family.

joetta ross

January 27, 2023

dr. schaper was my doctor for a long time l he was the best. every one was his friend. he will be missed by all/ will keep you in our prayers.

Marlene Bake

January 27, 2023

To the entire Schaper Family,

Please accept our sincerest condolences and deepest sympathy from FVC’s Saturday morning Continuing Education class on Dr. Paul Schaper’s recent passing.

Unequivocally, his presence will be greatly MISSED and ALWAYS remembered. Dr. Paul’s specialty was explaining medical issues in layman’s terms we could understand. He was “in his element” simplifying and describing complex, technical medical procedures relevant to any topic. His delivery was most impressive; it was delivered in a down-to-earth, unassuming manner. We all knew what he was talking about; it was amazing how he connected with us. Dr. Paul truly was a master explaining/clarifying ANY medical condition. We all admired his photographic memory and were in awe with his vast knowledge. Also, we’re so fortunate Dr. Paul had a real affinity for history and strongly believed in the old adage “you never stop learning.” I can still hear his wife Vangie comment, “My husband loves history; my response was “lucky us.” Dr. Paul’s passing is a void that can’t be filled. His demeanor was kindhearted and compassionate – he was “all heart.”
FVC is praying for the Schaper family during this difficult and challenging time. God Bless You All. We wish you peace.

Finally, a special thanks to Vangie and her daughters for sharing Dr. Paul’s condition with me Saturday after our January 21, 2023 session. I’ll treasure that conversation forever.

Marlene Bake
Continuing Education Instructor

larry melton

January 27, 2023

I have known Dr. Schaper since I was a child as both a patient and father of my friend Larry. God Bless him. I send my sympathy to the family. The world has lost a Saint.

Linda McGregor

January 27, 2023

Dr. Schafer was loved and respected by all who met him and used his medical services in Marshall County, Kentucky.

Jeanne york

January 27, 2023

He was a very kind man and one of the best doctor my dad is in heaven now and he loves dr shaper he was the only doctor my dad would let do surgery or sew him up ha will be great missed May God guide you through your struggles and guide you through your days

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Debbie Morgan

January 27, 2023

Such a fine man! Such an example of Jesus...

Sandy

January 26, 2023

Dr Schaper was a great surgeon. He was a Christian man and I feel very honored to have known him, along with his wonderful family. My mom worked for him the years he served in Marshall County. He always treated her with respect. Keeping the family in my thoughts and prayers.

Sandy (Sirls) Donohoo

Bruce David

January 26, 2023

There has never been a more honest and honorable man in my life. It was my privilege to work side by side with Dr Schaper in surgery for over 20 years. He made me a better man and Christian by his influence. He will be greatly missed.

Bob & Tami Prince

January 26, 2023

So very sorry to hear of Dr Schaper's passing. We've missed him here in Benton Ky since he moved where he was our doctor & friend. Praying for his family. He was the best of the best. Sincerely, Bob & Tami Mathis Prince

Esther (Raney) Fetterhoff

January 26, 2023

He and my brother, Dr. J.L. Raney were friends as boys. I have fond memories of he and his family.

Pamela (Phillips) Ray

January 26, 2023

So sorry to hear this, he was one of best surgeons

Phyllis Devers - Benton, Ky.

January 26, 2023

Dr. Schaper along with all of his other wonderful qualities, had a sense of humor. I was blessed to have him do surgery on me and when he realized that he lived out passed us, made the remark..."I've often thought if I had to come down your driveway with snow on it I would end up in your storage building." His kindness and sense of humor greeted me on rounds and my recovery was swift. He was a man of God and it showed in his daily life. Prayers for his wife and family. God bless all of you as He fills your hearts with hope and your minds with joyful memories.

Missi Holley

January 26, 2023

Dr. Schaper touched so many lives for many years in Marshall County. We were very fortunate to have such a kind, dedicated and very gifted physician in our small community. He was also blessed with a wonderful family. My condolences to all of you.
Missi Jones Holley

Helen Burd Hall

January 26, 2023

So sorry for your loss prayers for the family love lueva burd

Sharon Sirls

January 26, 2023

My deepest condolences. Dr. Scraper was one of the finest men I ever worked with, it was a pleasure to have him as an example to follow Christ and how to live a good life. Thank You Sharon Sirls

Phillip Tynes

January 26, 2023

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

Franchesica Fulcher

January 26, 2023

So sorry to hear of his passing, he and his wife always treated me like I was there's, they kept my child daily so I could finish high school and graduate. The best Doc Schaper ever. Love and prayers to Evangeline and the family. Love you

Raymond Kisner

January 26, 2023

He was a great man. He will be missed by many. One of the best Sunday School teachers, I had. So sorry for your loss.

HILARY HUNT

January 26, 2023

Paul served under me in 1959-60 as an intern. We were good friends and a great surgeon. He consulted with me about orthopedic cases often and never hesitated to refer difficult cases. He was one of the very last 'truly inclusive' general surgeons (everything but eye) trained in US. I am certain the city of Benton, Kentucky misses him and so do I. My sincerest condolences to Evangeline and family.

Randy Walton

January 26, 2023

What a great man who took care of so many people. I remember what a great influence he and his whole family were to our community. My prayers are with you all. May God Bless.

Lloyd and Jill block

January 26, 2023

A great doctor for Cville and hard worker for the Gideon organization. Always a joy to be around

Tammie

January 26, 2023

Prayers are being sent to Dr. Schaefer´s family. He was a great doctor!! As a child he removed my tonsils. When I married and our family was complete we reached out to him to do my husband´s vasectomy. I will never forget him allowing me to stay in the room and watch. My husband passed out after receiving the shot to numb him. I was a bit nervous about worried. Dr. Schaefer said to me " go get a wet wash cloth and wipe he forehead, he will come back to us", and he did. I´ve told that story many times over the years. We were blessed to have him as a doctor in Marshall Co.
Sending our condolences to his family

Lance Derington

January 26, 2023

He was a great man ! He saved my life 2 different times. Great surgeon , Dr, and a person. Thoughts and prayers for the family.

Rhonda DuFriend (Thompson)

January 25, 2023

You will always be one of the greatest people I have known. Your Angel of a bride is another! You both were instrumental in my childhood and my growth in Christ in our Nazarene church. You were always so supportive and encouraging to me-no matter what. I thank you for that. I will never forget you! Prayers of strength for Vangie and the family. Sending you all love.

Cheryl Griggs Beasley

January 25, 2023

Dr Schafer was a wonderful asset to Marshall County, Kentucky, highly respected.

Jimmy clapp

January 25, 2023

Was such a good man and doctor.

Ronnie King

January 25, 2023

It was a great honor to serve with Dr. Schaper in the Gideons at Marshall County! He and Vangie were such incredible role models in my Christian journey. The Schapers made me want to be a better man through their godly inspiration! Ronnie and Linda King

Robert and Barbie Tillson

January 25, 2023

Fond memories of a kind and wonderful human that Marshall county was blessed to have ... prayers for the family at this time

Doug & Sarah Sanders

January 25, 2023

Marshall County was Blessed to have Dr Schaper. anyone that worked with him has wonderful memories. Prayers for his family

Darrell & Valerie Van Meter

January 25, 2023

Dear Larry,

So sorry to hear of your father's passing. Knowing your father as my surgeon and you as a friend, the Benton community was very fortunate to have your family a part of us for so long. Sincere condolences to your mother, sisters, extended families, and friends.

Rev. John Ford

January 25, 2023

So sorry to hear of Dr. Schaper´s passing. He was a true gentleman and a man of God. My wife, Latrice, and I held a revival at the Benton Church of the Nazarene and the Schapers kept us in their home. That is one of our favorite memories. The Schapers were so warm and welcoming, just great people. Good bless you, Evangeline, we are praying for you and the family.

Bill MCDANIEL

January 25, 2023

So sorry to hear this Dr. Paul and Evangeline are great friends to us for years. I served with him on the DAB of the Kentucky District. We will miss him dearly.
Bill & Barbara McDaniel.

KY District Church of the Nazarene

January 25, 2023

The KY District has so many fond memories of Dr. Schaper and Evangeline. We will always be grateful for the example of servanthood set before us.

Greg McClain

January 25, 2023

Remembering a passage of scripture Doc often quoted while I was in college, “ “Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble; for so an entrance will be supplied to you abundantly into the everlasting kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.” - 2 Peter 1:10-11 NKJV
What an abundant entrance into heaven he has no doubt now made.
Grace and Peace to all the family.

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