E. John Wherry Jr.

E. John Wherry Jr. obituary, Southington, MA

E. John Wherry Jr.

E. Wherry Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 24, 2010.
SOUTHINGTON, Conn. — E. John Wherry, Jr. died on March 21, 2010, in Southington, Conn. at the age of 68. John was a graduate of: The Delbarton School, in Morristown, N.J. in 1960; Villanova University in Villanova, Penn. in 1964 and The University of Florida School of Law in Gainesville Fla. in 1967.

He was honorably discharged from the New Jersey Army National Guard, having served from 1967 to 1973, as a Sergeant in the Military Police and received the New Jersey Governor's commendation and the good conduct medal.

John was admitted to practice law in New Jersey (1967) and Massachusetts (2001). He practiced law in Trenton, N.J., certified by the New Jersey Supreme Court and The National Board on Trial Advocacy as a Certified Civil Trial Attorney and a Certified Criminal Trial Attorney, for twenty-three years and then joined the full time faculty of Widener University School of Law, in Wilmington, Delaware. At Widener, he was the co-founder of the Intense Trial Advocacy Program which won the prestigious Emil Gumpert Award for excellence in trial advocacy education. Following that, John was the founding Dean and Professor of Law at, what is now, Barry University School of Law in Orlando, Fla. Following that, John retired to Cape Cod, Mass. where he performed pro bono legal service. He served for five years on the New Jersey District VII Ethics Committee. He was a prolific author of Law Review articles, CLE materials and scholarly legal books and articles. John was the Prosecutor in the Hightstown, New Jersey Municipal Court for eleven years.

John was born and raised in Trenton, N.J. and then lived in Yardley, Penn. for 25 years, where he raised his family, then for 12 years in South Orleans, Cape Cod, Mass.

He was a volunteer faculty member of The National Institute for Trial Advocacy for more that 25 years, teaching trial advocacy to law students and practicing lawyers through out this country and the world in such places as, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, California, Minnesota, Colorado, Florida, Delaware, Georgia, Massachusetts, Hawaii, Puerto Rico, Ireland, Uzbekistan, and Armenia. He was a frequent CLE lecturer in New Jersey, Delaware and Pennsylvania.

He was an avid collector of antique inkwells and an avid fan of The University of Florida "Fighting Gators" football team.

He was a descendant of the Skillman family who settled in the new world in 1664 and the founders of Skillman Hardware Manufacturing Company, in Trenton.

He was predeceased by his parents, E. John Wherry and Rita (Convery) Wherry, his wife of thirty-eight years, Sherlene (nee Lang) Wherry, his sister Mary Anne Villante (nee Wherry) and a dear aunt, Addie Elizabeth "Betty" Wherry.

He is survived by three children: Dr. E. John Wherry, III and his wife Susanne Wherry, Esquire, of Havertown, Penn., Christopher Lang Wherry and his wife Christina Testo-Wherry of Southington, Conn. and Patricia Wherry-Harris and her husband Sean Harris of West Hartford, Conn., four beloved grandchildren: Alana, Natalie, Alexa and Braeden, and many cousins nieces and nephews.

A memorial service and interment in the Wherry family cemetery plot in Ewing Church Cemetery in Ewing Township, New Jersey, will be private.

In his memory, donations may be made to The Wherry Trial Advocacy Endowment fund at Widener University School of Law, P.O. Box 7474, Wilmington, Delaware 19803.

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December 19, 2010

Edward Cerny posted to the memorial.

November 1, 2010

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June 3, 2010

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Edward Cerny

December 19, 2010

I was checking John and Mickey's address online for Christmas cards and found he and she had died. I met him on the other side of a case, and liked him and respected his professional skills so much that we practiced together in an informal relationship for many years until he retired from practice, and then kept up with him as best I could (and he moved fast). A very fine man. I think he knew every judge in New Jersey, and most of the bar, and I never met anyone who said anything against him, whether as a lawyer or a man.

Jane

November 1, 2010

John was an amazing lawyer, good friend, and passionate inkwell collector. He encouraged everyone to get involved with the Society of Inkwell Collectors, and I relied on his advise during my early collecting years and during the re-organizing of the SOIC. I greatly miss his expertise and friendship.
My condolences to all.

fletcher

June 3, 2010

I lost a very dear friend and colleague, but God got one
heck of a great lawyer....
fletcher baldwin

Theresa Henson Kaymak

April 30, 2010

I took many of John's classes at Widener. Loved him. I recently moved to Turkey and decided to look him up - thinking he would enjoy my misadventures here. So sorry to find this news. He will be missed.

Charles Reiling

April 16, 2010

I was a student of John's at Widener. He was one of the best professors I've had. I learned a lot and enjoyed the class. He was very entertaining and obviously loved what he did. He was one of the good ones.

Patricia Anne Williams

April 9, 2010

I taught in the NITA NE Regional with John for over twenty years and in the Trial Ad Program at the University of San Francisco Law School for about a decade. I was privileged to call him my friend. His irreverence and bawdiness were as much a part of him as his passion, his kindness and his skills as a trial lawyer and a teacher. I will miss him sorely, but will never forget all he managed to teach me as he was teaching others.

Rock Harbor Cape Cod

Ken and Gussie McKusick

April 4, 2010

We were close Cape Cod friends of John and Mickey, and enjoyed their conviviality, love of food, and John's uncanny telling of unending stories from an interesting past. He was a defender of the underdog, and helped many local folk who just needed some good basic legal guidance. John loved his profession of law, and readily shared his understanding of the academic basis of decisions that were of mutual interest. We will miss those times and talks. An early riser, he had several favorite quiet scenic spots, including Rock Harbor, where he would tackle and finish the daily cross-word puzzle. It is tragic that he had moved to Connecticut only a few months ago, for the last message we received from him exclaimed about how pleased he was to be near to some of his grandchildren. Our deepest sympathy to John, Chris, Trish and your children.

Janet Hirt

March 26, 2010

Memories are what sustain the living when a dear one passes. I worked with John at Widener and then again in the founding of what is now Barry University School of Law. His commitment to professional standards and his love of the law was contagious. He inspired many. His great love was his family and to them, know that he was proud of you.

John Wherry

March 24, 2010

To all...my sympathy for his passing. Words are inadequate, but they can provide a sense that others care, and that the survivors are not alone. His light shines on, and will do so for a very long time.

March 24, 2010

As a young lawyer who was prosecuting in Mansfield Twp., John taught me alot. He always did so with a smile and although we were adversaries, he would always take the time to talk to me. I have great memories of those times. He was a great guy. Brian Brodowski, Bordentown.

Brian Rossi

March 23, 2010

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of John. He was great to work with in Hightstown. We became friends over the years he served as prosecutor and he will be sorely missed.

Jerrold Kamensky

March 23, 2010

My thoughts are with you, John Chris and Trish. John was a dear friend, a mentor and wonderful and creative colleague. I and many of us at the Mercer County Bar have fond memories of our days together in the practice. My deepest condolences to all of you on your dad's passing. He will be well remembered!

Laurie Marie Vetick Masserini

March 23, 2010

To John's Dear Family and Friends,

Kindly accept My Sincere Heartfelt Condolences. I share your loss and will always treasure the memories. May they always provide comfort to you as well.
John a I worked with each other. Best Prosecutor any Court Administrator could have ever hoped for. Memories of his acts of Kindness & silly acts of randomness:) will always be with me and continue to make me smile.
John, Thank you. You were a world of Information & Inspiration to me, as I'm sure you were for many. You will be missed by many, but respected and remembered fondly, by all of us you touched.
Good Night & Good Bye for now, my friend.

Paul O'Gara

March 23, 2010

I am sorry to learn of John's death. I had the pleasure of trying cases with John as well as participating in the program at Weidner. He was a good lawyer and an even better man.

Pat Cunningham-DeGrave

March 23, 2010

PEACE be with all of you.

Pat Cunningham-DeGrave
Childhood friend on Overbrook Avenue and Blessed Sacrament, Trenton. Also attended several dances at Delbarton with John and his friend Richard. Good times.

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