Edward John Raley

1929 - 2024

Edward John Raley obituary, 1929-2024, Coralville, IA

Edward John Raley

1929 - 2024

Edward Raley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 7, 2024.
Born in a log cabin in southern Illinois, Edward John Raley was an identical twin to Edmund James Raley. Did you catch the problem here? Let's just say, life for the Eds was filled with elaborate schemes of trading places at school, work, and even personal relationships,ask his wife of 73 years, Joan Raley.

Lillian and Luther, parents to Edward and Edmund, oldest son, Wayne, and youngest son, Robert, may have also played the shared genetic makeup game. During the Korean War, citing Life Magazine's article suggesting there are medical emergency benefits to having identical twins in the same military division, kept the brothers together. Edward served in the United States Air Force (San Antinio, TX) providing physical therapy to wounded soldiers at Brooke Army Medical Center and later special services at Hanscom Air Force Base (Bedford, Massachusetts).

In addition to the playful twin, there was a serious and gentle kindness side to Edward, who passed on September 4, 2024, at age 95. He was a talented athlete. During his time serving in the Air Force, Edward coached the Air Force basketball and softball teams. Edward also had the rare talent of playing music by ear and enjoyed playing tenor sax and piano. It has been said that he once played the harmonica in his PE class in Deerfield, IL to get kindergarteners to dance in time! Perfect pitch would have saved his four children and ten grandchildren massive amounts of hours practicing their instruments-oh well.

Edward received his B.S. in Physical Education at Illinois State (Normal, IL) while waiting tables in the dining hall. This provided ample opportunities for Edward to serve Joan's table, or whichever Ed-she couldn't tell. Joan and Edward were married a year later.

At Indiana University, (Bloomington, IN), with Joan by his side, Edward received his M.S. in Health, Physical Education, and Recreation, and gave up the cafeteria gig for hours of taping up ankles, padding bruises, and working out cramps, attending to IU's football players.

Edward spent decades leading in the suburbs of Chicago as a middle school principal. He worked at Gurrie Central Junior High (La Grange, IL), Skokie School (Winnetka, IL), Shabonee School (Northbrook, IL) before the honor of being selected to open a brand new junior high in 1972 (Northbrook, IL). Wood Oaks Junior High School is where he served until retirement in 1989. He continued to support athletes during the summers as the (first) manager of the Tennauqu Swim and Racquet Club in Deerfield, IL.

It was during early retirement; that Edward noticed the sensation he felt every time he saw a yellow school bus. He missed leading and teaching, so he found a way to serve again, this time near his childhood home, where he and Joan retired. As president of the Sauk Valley Community College Foundation, he brought housing solutions to the students on campus.

Having never lost that principal vibe, Edward was the family conductor to his children and adoring grandchildren, whom he taught to drive, encouraged studies in music and athletics, and the love of national parks. Edward and his family spent summers exploring the parks with a pop-up camper, and stickers from all fifty states to prove it.

Edward is survived by his love of his life, Joan; son-in-law Jonathan Haile; children John (Margaret Street) Raley, Robert (Diane) Raley, and Nancy (Clay) Bush; and grandchildren Tom (Annabelle) Haile, Jonathan Raley, Kate Haile, Nicholas Raley, Grace Raley, Elizabeth Raley, Beau Bush, Charlotte Raley, Jeffrey Raley, and Reese Bush; brother Edmund Raley of Phoenix; sister-in-law Mary Ellen Raley, of Williamsburg, IA; and many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his oldest daughter Jane Haile of Highland Park, and his brothers Wayne Raley of Grass Valley, CA, and Robert Raley of Henderson, NV.

A private service will be held for the immediate family. Memorial donations may be made to North Shore Unitarian Church at nsuc.org or to the Polo Lifeline Food & Self-Help Project at 113 N Green Street Suite A, Polo IL 61064.

The family offers its deepest gratitude and appreciation to the kind and capable staff at Grand Living at Bridgewater (Coralville, IA), for making his final years happy and comfortable; as well as the medical professionals at the University of Iowa Hospital for their excellent and compassionate care in the last two months.

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September 30, 2024

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September 28, 2024

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September 18, 2024

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Kimberly Rose

September 30, 2024

My Uncle was a huge influence on me during my childhood and a part of the reason I finished my degree later in life . His emphasis on the importance of education including having me tested at an early age and sharing the results helped me to build the resolve and strength to finish my degree. He was a role model of how both strength and kindness can be combined to make a child feel secure and welcome. I remember his laugh, the smell of his pipe , his strong voice and his eloquent stature . As a child I was so proud to have him as my Uncle and Principal . My Aunt Jo and him so deserved the incredibly rich life seen and expressed by their family . His legacy is great and I am confident it will be carried on by them all .
His Canadian Niece, Kimberly Rose

Mark Stephen Raley

September 28, 2024

As a child, it didn´t matter which one
( Dad or Uncle Ed ) I went to, they both love all their children the same.
RIP Uncle Ed , I Love You.
Mark Raley

Alan Rautenberg

September 18, 2024

I will always remember uncle Ed´s warm smile and gentle spirit. I feel so fortunate to have visited him recently one last time before passing.

He left behind a devoted wife and loving children, a true measure of his successful person. You´ll be missed by all his nephew, Alan and niece Leeann.

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Rebecca Recor

September 16, 2024

Mr. Raley had a huge effect on many of us young teachers in the early days at Wood Oaks Jr. High. As principal , he created a family atmosphere, supportive and inclusive of many kinds of people--staff, students, and community. He never let us forget that as important as curriculum and policies were, it was the people who counted most. When the school day was over, he often welcomed us into his home in Deerfield for dinners with Joan's famous cheesecake for dessert . After years of working together plus sharing celebrations of life's highest and lowest moments with your family, it was during a visit to his lovingly restored childhood home in Polo that I finally stopped calling him Mr. Raley, and he became Ed. As both Mr. Raley and as Ed, he was an amazing role model for me and for many others. He made the world a better place for being here.

Rudnick Family

September 12, 2024

Mr Raley was a wonderful man and a very good principal. He had a kind heart, a ready smile and a warm handshake. Even when a situation was serious he approached it with caring and compassion. May he Rest In Peace and may his memory be a blessing.

Chuck Hix

September 12, 2024

Sorry to see your father´s passing, John. It was a life well spent and you are a testament to that good life. Carry on with good memories.

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Charlotte Thiemecke-Floyd

September 11, 2024

I remember Ed and Joan as friends, but also when Ed was principal at Wood Oaks Junior High School. As Assistant Superintendent with Dr. James Rohrabaugh as Superintendent, we worked closely with the school administrators. Ed was a beloved principal with great empathy for children, his staff, and the parent community. He was such a natural person, never pretentious, often with a chuckle and a smile. There was a calmness and sense of comfort when one entered his building. I always felt too, that there was a sense of family in the district with respect and caring among all concerned: the children, staff, and community. He left a wonderful legacy to those who knew him and worked with him. Sincerely, Charlotte Thiemecke-Floyd

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Gail piersen

September 10, 2024

Respects to a gallant man

David Handler

September 9, 2024

I just told someone the other day how we had a nice principal at wood oaks- back in the late 70s when I attended. Always greeted us students at the door. Sorry for your loss.

Martin Wolf

September 9, 2024

Ed Raley took a chance and hired me -- a 21 year-old, fresh out of college, with a B.A. in education and a lot to learn about teaching and, well, life in general. Ed was my hero and role model. During my 34 years in education, half of them as a school principal, I would often ask myself, "What would Ed Raley do?" and then I had my answer. I loved Ed. When my own father passed away Ed stepped right in and guided me as my "second father". He was so integral to my experience as a person and as an educational leader. I will never forget it. When I was sitting on the fence with regard to moving from the classroom to a principalship, Ed said to me, "You'll always be a teacher, just with a different classroom." He was profound, inspiring, kind, and just about the most wonderful human being that I have ever known. Rest in peace, my hero.

Linda Langhorst

September 9, 2024

Ed hired me in the Fall of 1974. I had the pleasure of working with him as I taught physical education at Wood Oaks and retired here after 35 years. He was the best principal I had there. A very compassionate man and supportive of his staff.. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Linda Langhorst

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