Ella Mae Harlow

1929 - 2021

Ella Mae Harlow obituary, 1929-2021, Longmeadow, MA

Ella Mae Harlow

1929 - 2021

BORN

1929

DIED

2021

Ella Harlow Obituary

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Ella Mae “Penny” Harlow, 91, died peacefully on Friday, July 9, 2021 at Glenmeadow Assisted Living in Longmeadow. Born in Lowell, MA to the late Hugh and Marcia (Burrill) Penney, she was a graduate of Northfield Mt. Herman School and the New England Deaconess Hospital School of Nursing in Boston. Penny worked as a Registered Nurse at New Britain General Hospital for 4 years before working at Baystate Medical Center in Springfield for 30 years in the ICU then the Renal Unit. Later, she worked at Pioneer Valley Dialysis for 5 years until her retirement. Penny was a faithful member of the Wilbraham United Church for over 50 years. She enjoyed gardening and traveling in her spare time. Vacations with her entire family to Old Orchard Beach and cruising gave her great joy. She often said her proudest accomplishment was her family.
She was predeceased by her son James Harlow in 1976 and her husband Franklin W. Harlow in 2009 and her son in law David Thomas in 2019, as well as her loyal canine companion “Bailey.” Penny is survived by her children; David Harlow and his wife Renee of Swanzey, NH, Linda Thomas of Spofford, NH, Susan Cunningham and her husband Paul of East Longmeadow and Laurie Whittaker and her husband John of Chesterfield, NH, sisters; Ruth Carter of VA and Jean Fickett of CA, 12 grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren. The family would like to thank the caring staff at Glenmeadow, especially Vanessa, caretaker and wonderful friend to Penny.
A memorial service will be held on July 15th at 11:00 AM at Wilbraham United Church, 500 Main St. Wilbraham. A private burial will be held in Woodlawn Cemetery in Ayer, MA at a later date. Wilbraham Funeral Home, 2551 Boston Rd., Wilbraham is in charge of the arrangements. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, PO Box 22718, Oklahoma City, OK 73123-1718 or online at www.cancer.org.

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July 13, 2021

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July 12, 2021

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July 12, 2021

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Vanessa Hooper

July 13, 2021

Where to start you will be deeply missed. I miss you so much already. Work is definitely not the same. It will never be the same. I miss walking by your apartment and calling my name because you needed something. I miss are jokes we had together. We had a bond like no other. I will be forever grateful for being a part of your life. You definitely had a huge impact in my life. I will always cherish are memories we have together. Rest In Peace.

Judy Carter Roudebush

July 12, 2021

So many wonderful memories of Aunt Penny (she will always be Aunt Speed to me) and the rest of the family growing up. After listening to her stories all those years is why I became a nurse as well. She was an amazing role model as a mother, grandmother, sister, friend, nurse and wife. Hugs to the whole family as you are in my thoughts. Love you all.

Peggy Remillard

July 12, 2021

My Deepest Sympathy to the family of Penny. MY client lived on the same floor as her. How I became friends with Penny was through Vanessa. She was a great person. I will miss her

Wayne & Laurie Smith

July 12, 2021

Dear Dave and the entire Harlow family
Our thoughts are with you and we are so very sorry for your loss.
I have the greatest memories of your mom back when I was in high school and afterwards.
Knowing Penny was knowing you always had a friend.
Rest in Peace my friend

Monica Trejos

July 11, 2021

Penny has special place in my heart. RIP dear friend

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