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Kathy
June 27, 2025
Barry & Kathy celebrating the unveiling of Mr. Wu's statue - June 26, 2025
Kathy
June 21, 2025
Kaleb, Kyler, Chris & Jenny (Hay) Hartzheim - Christmas, 2024
Kathy
June 21, 2025
Joni Miech (Metzinger - daughter of Uncle Ralph & Aunt Lois) born July 7, 1952. Passed away June 18, 2025.
Kathy
June 20, 2025
Uncle Ralph & Aunt Lois's daughter Joni passed away at the age of 72. Born July 7, 1952 - June 18, 2025
Bonnie
May 26, 2025
Happy Birthday Mom,
Its been 21 yrs you passed away. The years have gone by quickly sometimes and not so quickly other times. Guess thats called Life.. We wish you a good HEAVENLY Birthday today up high with Dad and many other family members. It pretty nice here today so getting more like spring. Weather pattern has changed since you left earth.
Lots to see kids and grandkids and others we know. Wish you could have been here to meet all of them thats for sure. I see Kathy and Hailey are doing such a great job of sending you photos of different families and stages in their lives. We surely thank both of them for thinking of you and us in taking the time to do that.
Guess thats all for today MOM. Again HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY
until Next time sending all our love and Prayers!
Love Bonnie and Family
Kathy
May 26, 2025
Barry & Kathy celebrating Barry's 81st Birthday - May 17, 2025
Kathy
May 26, 2025
Happy Memorial Day Weekend Dad & Mom!
Kathy
May 26, 2025
Happy 112 Birthday Mom,
Wish you were here to celebrate your birthay. It doesn't seem possible you have been gone 21 years.
It's a typical Memorial Day weekend but more sunshine than usual.
We are in Milwaukee celebrating but mostly doing yard work as the Dandelions and weeks have taken over the entire yard. We are raking leaves we left last fall and taking one area at a time.
We celebrated Barry's 81st birthday last week with family by eating downtown at St. Paul's Fish Market in the Historical Third Ward.
Haven't talked to many relatives except Stacy who is busy with Deli orders. Last week Kendra graduated from high school.
Miss you today and forever. Happy Memorial Day Weekend!
Love Much,
Jesse, Robin & Thomas
Justin
BonnieLaBay
April 10, 2025
Happy Birthday Dad!
Sending you another Birthday Wish today! Your 120th Birthday to be exact. Lots of years and changes have taken place since your left in 1986. Wish you could have been here for most of them. We think of you often and have lots of happy memories. Hope Mom and all family and friends are around you today!
Love,Bonnie and Family
Kathy
April 10, 2025
Happy 120th Birthday Dad,
You passed away November 20, 1986 at the age of 81.
Today would be your 120th Birthday if you were still with us on Earth.
We miss and love you!
Barry & Kathy
All your Family still on Earth.
Kathy
February 13, 2025
Aaron, Sonja & Mira - November, 23, 2024
Kathy
February 13, 2025
Graham, Michael, Stetson, Kate & Scottie - December, 2024
Kathy
February 13, 2025
Michael & Kate's son, Stetson, born on Decembeer 26, 2024 weighed 7 lbs, 20 inches long - Mom's Great, Great Grandson
Kathy
January 4, 2025
Happy 78th Birthday Julie, Mom & Grandmother!
We Love You Very Much!!
All of your family here on Earth & in Heaven
Kathy
December 30, 2024
Merry Christmas Gram, Great Gram & Great, Great Gram!
Jon, Sam, Rachel, Kate, Michael,
Gail, Rowan, Graham, Todd & Scottie
Kathy
December 25, 2024
50 Years of Marriage Cross for Dad & Mom from Justin - December 25, 2024
Kathy
December 25, 2024
Kathy & Justin on Christmas Day - December 25, 2024
Kathy
December 24, 2024
Merry Christmas Mom,
Miss you today and always,
Kathy
December 24, 2024
Kathy
December 24, 2024
Merry Christmas Great, Great, Great Grandma,
Rowan, 7 months old, daughter of your Great Grandson Sam and wife Rachel - December 24, 2024
Kathy
December 24, 2024
Merry Christmas Dad, Mom, Bobby, Gloria, Kenny & All of our Relatives!
Miss & Love You Forever!!
The Decker Family
Kathy
December 20, 2024
Merry Christmas from Dorene & Michael Buchanan - December, 2024
Kathy
December 13, 2024
Hi Mom,
It's been 20 years ago today we had your "Celebration of Life" and Jesse's 26th birthday. Today Jesse is 46. We all think of your life and all of our Family Memories.
You have many family members with you in heaven and can celebrate the Christmas season together.
As we gather today for Jesse's birthday, we will remember all of the wonderful times we shared for many years.
Merry Christmas Family,
We Miss All of You!
Love Forever,
Barry & Kathy
Jesse, Robin & Thomas
Justin
Kathy
December 12, 2024
Merry Christmas Mom, Grandma & Great Grandma,
Miss & Love You Forever,
Julie, Stacy & Hailey
Chhristmas, 2024
Kathy
December 10, 2024
Flowers for Mom for 2024 Christmas!
Kathy
December 7, 2024
Kathy with 2 Mounted Police at Christmas in the Historic Third Ward in Milwaukee, WI - December 6, 2024
Kathy
December 7, 2024
Jesse, Kathy, Thomas, Robin & Barry at Christmas in the Historic Third Ward in Milwaukee, WI - December 6, 2024
Kathy
December 1, 2024
Aaron & Sonja's daughter, Mira, . born November 23, 2024 - Weighed 8 lbs, 21 inches long - Mom's Great, Great Granddaughter
Kathy
November 20, 2024
Hi Dad,
Today you left us 38 years ago. It doesn't seem possible all those years have went by.
I don't think you would like the world as it today. It was more peaceful when you were here from 1905 - 1986. The weather has changed dramatically. It's all about computers, laptops, internet, cell phones and social media.
Many of our family members are in heaven with you but we are thankful for our sons, grandson, brother, sisters, nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews and great, great nieces and nephew.
Thinking and missing you today and always.
Love Forever,
Barry & Kathy
Jesse, Robin & Thomas
Justin
Kathy
November 1, 2024
Kathy
October 23, 2024
Hi Mom & Kenny,
I wanted to share a picture of Kenny's Grandson Oliver in 2021. Zak is married to Fleur. They had a baby girl in August, 2024. They live in Rapid City. Fleur is an Endodontist and just did Root Canals on Barry's teeth. Zak is still working in the Eye Care business as a Ophthalamic Plastic Surgeon. They have two
dogs and enjoy all outdoor activities.
Mom you have another Great Grandson Oliver and Great Granddaughter.
Thinking of all of you in Heaven as Danny and Dianne have joined you.
All of the family misses everyone and relies on fond memories and great laughs.
Love Forever,
Kathy
Kathy
October 23, 2024
Aunt Anna (Klein) 1908-2000 & Uncle Fay Metzinger 1908-1969 - Valentine, NB
Kathy
October 15, 2024
Celebration of Life for Dianne (Metzinger) Bigelow - September 27, 2024
Kathy Decker
October 2, 2024
Dianne Metzinger Bigelow passed away September 23, 2024
Mom's Baby Picture - May 26, 1913
Kathy
August 25, 2024
Danny Hay - May 6, 1952 - July 26, 2024
Kathy
July 30, 2024
Kathy's 75th Birthday - July 24, 2024
Kathy
July 25, 2024
Stacy, Jaci & Rob - June, 2024
Kathy
June 25, 2024
Kathy, Barry & Hailey on Wild Bill Days - June 15, 2024
Kathy
June 17, 2024
Kathy, Barry & Stacy on Wild Bill Days - June 15, 2024
Kathy
June 17, 2024
Kathy & Barry on Wild Bill Days - June 15, 2024
Kathy
June 17, 2024
Barry & Kathy on the cabin deck - June 15, 2024
Kathy
June 17, 2024
Kathy
May 26, 2024
Happy 111th Birthday Mom,
It's been a cool weekend in Deadwood this week but lots of fun. We went to a concert on Friday night and one last night with hundreds of people. It was cold and we needed a warm jacket and gloves. Two more days of activities as there is something to do every day in Deadwood.
We are getting ready to go to a Slot Tournament at First Gold and dinner. Tomorrow a party at Gold Dust own by Kesslers and Lamonts from Aberdeen.
Stacy & Hailey are planning on visiting us in June and we hope to show them some historical places.
Thomas will be graduating from high school June 7th.
We are having lots of health problems but that's too expected as we are aging. You always said "wait until you get to be my age."
Miss you forever and all the rest of our family that are with you in Heaven.
Love Forever,
Barry & Kathy
Jesse, Robin & Thomas
Justin
Bonnie
May 26, 2024
Happy Birthday Mom! Gosh it would be your 111th as you so well know. That would be an almost unheard of length of life tho as we all know. You had a nice life of 91 yrs without a lot of health issues so we all appreciated that for sure. Its a nice sunny day today and tomorrow is Memorial Day as you also know. We will stop out to Sacred Heart to visit and bring some pretty flowers that you enjoyed this time of yr.
We have one new Great Grandaughter to tell you about. She is Rowan Rae Heintzman and Is Sam and Rachel Heintzmans first child. We have not met her yet but have seen photos and she is a pretty precious baby girl. We now have five" Great Grands "as I call them. Probably have more to add sometime in the future!
Hope your birthday today is a happy one with all family that have joined you up there especially Dad and Bobby and Glo and Kenny,and all of your and Dads siblings as well.
Just wanted you to know we think of you every day but especially on your" BIRTHDAY'
Forever in our hearts Mom!
Love Bonnie and family
Happy 80th Birthday Card for Barry from Rich & Bonnie - May 17, 2024
Kathy
May 21, 2024
Barry's 80th Birthday Cards & Scratch Off Tickets from Julie, Stacy & Hailey - May 17. 2024
Kathy
May 18, 2024
Barry's 80th Birthday Gifts - May 17, 2024
Kathy
May 18, 2024
Sam & Rachel's daughter Rowan born May 15, 2024 - Weighed 7 lbs 14 oz, 20 inches long - Mom's Great, Great Granddaughter
Kathy
May 18, 2024
Hailey graduated from Northern State University - May, 2024
Kathy
May 6, 2024
Hailey & Stacy at Hailey's College Graduation - May, 2024
Kathy
May 6, 2024
Hailey's College Graduation from Northern State University in Aberdeen, SD - May, 2024
Kathy
May 6, 2024
Mom & Dad's Gravesite at Sacred Heart Cemetery - Mary, 2024
Kathy
May 6, 2024
Happy 119th Birthday Dad,<br />Snow Storm in Deadwood, SD - April 10, 2024
Kathy
April 11, 2024
Happy 119th Birthday Dad,
April 10, 2024
We have had 2 Snow Storms, one on Easter Sunday and another the next Sunday. We have a couple of feet of snow in Deadwood, SD but it's suppose to be 60 degrees on Friday. Weather changes hourly here.
Thinking of you today and missing you but you have many family members with you now. I think we have more family and friends who have passed away then we have alive here on Earth.
Hello to Mom, Kenny, Bobby & Gloria.
Love Much,
Kathy
Bonnie
April 10, 2024
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!'
We wanted to drop by and wish you another 'Heavenly Birthday". They just keep coming around dont they and its nice to hear from Family and friends I know you agree with that. We wonder what you must think about how the world has changed and how all of us have changed as well.
today is kind a spring day and thats good as we are sick of snow but you would not believe how the climate has changed and the wind blows so much of the time .NOT just a little but very brisk. I suppose that means summer could be interesting.
Hope You and Mom, Bob and Glo,Kenny and all other relatives and friends are feeling comfortable up there!
All of our love and prayers until next time Dad.
Love
Bonnie and Family
Stacy & Hailey celebrating Easter in Las Vegas - March 31, 2024
Kathy
April 7, 2024
Barry & Kathy at Outlaw Square Bar on St. Patrick's Day in Deadwood, SD - 2024
Kathy
March 21, 2024
Thomas's 18th Birthday PC built by Digital Storm & 2 Monitors - December 30, 2023
Kathy
February 23, 2024
Thomas's opening his presents on his 18th Birthday - December 30, 2023
Kathy
February 23, 2024
Thomas at Round1 playing Video Games
Kathy
February 23, 2024
Happy 18th Birthday Thomas - December 30, 2023
Kathy
February 23, 2024
Kim Hardin, his Son & Kenny - Kim passed away January 26, 2024
Kathy
February 22, 2024
Merry Christmas Gram/Great Gram!<br />Love Much,<br />Michael, Kate, Rachel, Sam, Gail, Todd & Jon - 2023
Kathy
December 30, 2023
Merry Christmas Great, Great Gram!<br />Love,<br />Scottie & Graham Schmidt - 2023
Kathy
December 30, 2023
Bonnie
December 26, 2023
Merry Christmas Mom and Dad, Kenny , Bob & Glo,
and all loved ones that have passed from this life!
Weather has been really nice this fall and winter but changed a lot yesterday. Real danger of falling and breaking bones etc. We stopped out to Sacred Heart and left a Christmas Wreath on the big Smith Headstone this yr instead of on Yours and Dads. Grandpa Jerry Smith, Dads dad did in fact have that nice big stone put there in 1946. I dont remember if we ever spoke about that stone when you were on earth so I checked with a deacon at the Church Office. Sacred Heart Cemetary is now expanding across the road to the west. Im glad we will all be near one another on the east side off the road.
Sam Was married at the beginning of 2023 and now going to be a Dad in May of 2024. He married a nice gal named Rachel who is a Nurse here at Avera or St. Lukes as you knew it. Kate and family were here and we were invited to watch their kids Graham 2 and a half and Scottie their daughter who just turned 1 yr open their gifts this yr. That was fun and different. Jon was there and is not married yet and Kates husband Michael was there, Saw Rob and Jaci for a while Christmas Day. Gail has retired and Todd said he will never retire ! He works a lot and doesnt rest much.
Guess thats all that happened around these parts for Christmas 2023! Wanted to send our prayers and thoughts and love to all of you and other family members that we keep in our hearts as well!
All our love and prayers until next time,
Bonnie and Family
Merry Christmas Gram!<br />Wish I Could Have Met You<br />Robin
Love, Kathy
December 24, 2023
Merry Christmas Gram<br />Love & Miss You So Much!!<br />Jesse
Love, Kathy
December 24, 2023
Merry Christmas Mom - 2023
Kathy
December 23, 2023
Merry Christmas Mom, Gram & Great Gram!<br />Love Always,<br />Julie, Stacy & Hailey - December, 2023
Kathy
December 21, 2023
Merry Christmas Mom, Gram & Great Gram,<br />Love Forever,<br />Barry & Kathy<br />Jesse, Robin & Thomas<br />Justin - December, 2023
Kathy
December 20, 2023
Fresh Fraser Fir Christmas Tree at Decker Family House - December, 2023
Kathy
December 20, 2023
Mom, Jesse & Dad - December 13, 2023
Kathy
December 13, 2023
Robin, Jesse, Thomas, Kathy & Barry on Jesse's 45th Birthday - December 13, 2023
Kathy
December 13, 2023
Kathy
December 10, 2023
Hi Mom,
I didn't forget about you on your death December 10, 2004. It was 19 years ago we were at your bedside as you left us and God came for you. We didn't want to let you go but your suffering was ending and you were at peace.
Stacy, Hailey, Jesse and I texted and remembered You. The years have flown by but we all remembered you and how you kept the Family together.
Now you have Bobby, Gloria and Kenny with you. It doesn't seem possible they are also not here.
Jesse will celebrate his 45th birthday on Wednesday, December 13, 2023. He is always sad that day because we Celebrated your Life that day in 2004. It was cold and windy but little snow for December.
Barry & I bought a fresh Fraser Fir Christmas tree but haven't decorated it. Christmas comes and goes by quickly. .We are in Milwaukee.
The Family wanted you to know you will never be forgotten and we have many Memories of you.
Words can't express how much we love and miss you today and everyday.
Love Forever,
Decker & Sharp Family
Kathy
November 20, 2023
Hi Dad,
Today on November 20, 1986 you passed away at the age of 81.
If you were still here on Earth, you would be 118 years of age.
The years have flown by and you have many family members with you in Heaven.
We miss all of you and sometimes can't believe all of you are gone.
Life is busy with computers, cell phones, internet, etc. but I think I enjoyed life more with it was quiet and families spent their Sundays, Holidays, and Summers together.
Love Forever,
Barry & Kathy
Jesse, Robin & Thomas
Justin
Happy 79th Birthday Kenny!<br />We miss you today but our Memories together bring us all Joy.<br />Love Much,<br />Barry & Kathy<br />Jesse, Robin & Thomas<br />Justin<br /><br />
Kathy
November 6, 2023
Kathy & Barry - July 24, 2023
Kathy
August 10, 2023
Happy 110th Birthday Mom!
Kathy
May 26, 2023
Happy 110th Birthday Mom,<br />Thinking and Missing You Today,<br />Love Forever!<br />Barry & Kathy<br />Jesse, Robin & Thomas<br />Justin
Kathy
May 26, 2023
Bonnie
May 26, 2023
Happy Birthday Mom!,
Hope your Day is good with close and extended family. Memorial Day too so we will be out to Sacred Heart to visit You and Dad, Kenny, Bob and Glo and others special to you and us. Not much news as we stick close to home and are in pretty good health.
Hugs for You and everyone there.
All our love and prayers today and always.
Bonnie and family
Kathy
May 14, 2023
Happy Mother's Day Mom!
Miss & Love You,
Barry & Kathy
Kathy
April 10, 2023
Happy 118th Birthday Dad,
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Thinking of you on your birthday today April 10th (1905).
We went to Easter Vigil on Saturday evening at St. Patrick's in Lead, SD. It was a very special service and the real meaning of Easter.
Sunday was a beautiful, sunny day as we celebrated Easter dinner at Legends in the Historical Franklin Hotel in Deadwood, SD,
Finally warmer weather and the snow is melting. We hope to put Spring Decorations out on the deck.
Love Forever,
Barry, Kathy, Jesse, Robin, Thomas & Justin
Bonnie
April 10, 2023
Hi Mom , Dad ,Bobby Kenny ,Glo and all other family, Its beenmany years ago in 1986 that Dad left us for heaven.
So much has changed since then its kind of strange for most of us.
We have had good time s and not so good . Best are change s and addition to my family. New brides and grooms and Grand babies. Wish you could have been here to meet them.
Weather still stinks here and this past winter was the worst ever.
Wanted you to know we miss you and think of you often no matter what else is happening.
Guess thats all for this note! Bye for now. Hugs for you and Mom,and the rest of the gang.
Love Bonnie and Family and extended family
Happy Easter Dad, Mom, Bobby, Gloria & Kenny!<br /><br />Love & Miss All of You!<br />Decker's & Sharp's
Kathy
April 9, 2023
Bonnie, Bobby, Julie, Doug, Mom, Kathy & Kenny
Kathy
April 5, 2023
Kenny, Kathy & Julie
Kathy
April 5, 2023
Kathy
April 5, 2023
Dear Kenny,
It's been 2 years today, April 5, 2023, you left your family for your home in heaven.
Remembering you today and share all our Happy Memories together.
Miss and Love You Forever,
Barry, Kathy, Jesse, Robin, Thomas & Justin
Julie, Stacy & Hailey
Happy 21st Birthday Hailey - 2023
Kathy
March 16, 2023
Hailey & Stacy at the Grand Canyon - March, 2023
Kathy
March 16, 2023
Stacy & Hailey in Las Vegas - March, 2023
Kathy
March 16, 2023
Hailey & Stacy celebrating Hailey's 21st Birthday - March, 2023
Kathy
March 16, 2023
Dianne (Bigelow-Metzinger) with her 1st Great Grandson Wesley Coronado - December 19, 2022
Kathy
January 2, 2023
Thomas's 17th Birthday - December 30, 2022
Kathy
January 1, 2023
Merry Christmas Great Grandpa Fay & Great Grandma Anna!<br />Love Ya,<br />Cameron (Bigelow/Metzinger) & Linda - Las Vegas - December, 2022
Kathy
January 1, 2023
Merry Christmas Great, Great Grandpa Fay & Anna,<br />Love,<br />Landan, Morgan & baby Wesley - December, 2022
Kathy
December 31, 2022
Great, Great Grandpa Fay & Anna Metzinger,<br />Merry Christmas,<br />Morgan (Parents - Wendy (Bigelow/Metzinger)& Travis Reynolds - December, 2022
Kathy
December 31, 2022
Hailey and her beautiful Quilt from her Mom for Christmas, 2022
Kathy
December 26, 2022
Merry Christmas Mom/Gram/Great Gram!<br />Love Much, <br />Stacy, Hailey & Julie
Kathy
December 25, 2022
Merry Christmas Gram/Great Gram/Great, Great Gram!<br />Love Much,<br />The Heintzman's & Schmidt's - Christmas, 2022
Kathy
December 21, 2022
Kyler, Jenny (Hay), Kaleb & Chris Hartzheim - Christmas, 2022
Kathy
December 21, 2022
Christmas Angel for Mom - December 10, 2022
Kathy
December 10, 2022
Merry Christmas Mom - December 10, 2022
Kathy
December 10, 2022
Hi Mom,
We miss you today and remember your long life as you left us on this date December 10, 2004. Thankful Barry, Jesse and I could care for you at that time.
It's been a very mild winter in Deadwood and Milwaukee as we prepare for Christmas, Jesse & Thomas's birthdays and Justin's college graduation from UWM-Milwaukee.
We worked in the yard since coming back November 1st. We got a lot done but the rest will have to be done next spring. We had a professional tree service come out and trim trees. That will help bring more sunshine to the yard.
We will be returning to Deadwood and the beautiful Black Hills for New Years as we share the celebration with our friends. We enjoy seeing the Ball drop at the historical Franklin Hotel as we issue in 2023.
Love You Forever & Will Never Forget You,
Barry & Kathy
Jesse, Robin & Thomas
Justin
Aberdeen American News
Posted an obituary
December 12, 2004
Ella Smith Obituary
Aberdeen - Ella Elizabeth (Metzinger) Smith passed away Dec. 10, 2004, at the age of 91, surrounded by her loving family at her home. Ella was born May 26, 1913, at Farmer, S.D., to Frank and Flora (Davis) Metzinger. At the age of 5, she moved... Read Ella Smith's Obituary
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