Elmer John Bechtoldt

Elmer John Bechtoldt

Elmer Bechtoldt Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from May 16 to May 17, 2008.
Bechtoldt, Elmer John 90, May 14, 2008. Visitation Sat., 9 a.m. until Mass 10 a.m. at Peter's Cathedral Catholic Church, Belleville, IL.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Elmer Bechtoldt's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

June 17, 2008

Pete Wilhelm posted to the memorial.

May 19, 2008

David Wilhelm posted to the memorial.

May 17, 2008

Mike and Helen Andersen posted to the memorial.

Pete Wilhelm

June 17, 2008

Rosemary,
I must admit that I didn't know Elmer that well. I remember that he used to love cards and playing gin rummy for nickels. I remember the aroma of his cigars, they were a sweet smell to me as a kid. You were a good sister to have taken care of him as you did. Life is short, but I think loving kindness and a heart of service are eternal qualities.

David Wilhelm

May 19, 2008

Aunt Rosemay,
I was very sorry to hear of Uncle Elmer's death, but I'm sure he is in a happier place now. I have memories of helping to load hay bales on summer afternoons after Elmer had baled them earlier in the day. And I especially enjoyed staying at your house when you went on vacation, and I tended to the chickens and ducks. Uncle Elmer would let me help him with various projects that he had to do. One time, I remember that a peach crop got ripe sooner than expected, so Grandma, Elmer, and I had to put them up before you got back; I don't imagine you were too unhappy! One time he treated me to a Cardinal's baseball game with a church group. And I do remember that he loved to play cards.

Mike and Helen Andersen

May 17, 2008

Rosemary,
We are sorry to hear of Elmer's death. We fondly remember him from our visits to your home and in the nursing home, and treasure those memories. We will keep him and you in our prayers.

Mary Mosir

May 17, 2008

Sorry to hear for Elmer's passing away. He was a nice person. He had so many stories and information to tell which I enjoyed.
Love & God Bless

Andrew & Christy Eunpu

May 16, 2008

Rosemary,
We are sorry to hear of Elmer's death. We pray that you will find God's peace in the midst of this hard time.

the Parciak family

May 16, 2008

I know he went on to a better place.

Marcia & Dave Sanson

May 16, 2008

Rosemary - we are sorry to read of
Elmer's death. We know that you were so faithful and caring to Elmer
always. He will be smiling down on
you from Heaven.

Love Marcia/Dave

Showing 1 - 8 of 8 results

Make a Donation
in Elmer Bechtoldt's name

How to support Elmer's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Elmer Bechtoldt's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Sign Elmer Bechtoldt's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

June 17, 2008

Pete Wilhelm posted to the memorial.

May 19, 2008

David Wilhelm posted to the memorial.

May 17, 2008

Mike and Helen Andersen posted to the memorial.