Emmett Varley

1982 - 2020

Emmett Varley obituary, 1982-2020, Asbury Park, NJ

Emmett Varley

1982 - 2020

BORN

1982

DIED

2020

Emmett Varley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 15, 2020.

Emmett Hopkins Varley, 38, of Ocean Township left this world suddenly on Friday, September 11, 2020 at Jersey Shore Medical Center. Emmett was the beloved son of Geraldine and Michael Varley of Allenhurst. He leaves behind the love of his life, Tiffany Varley, and their two gorgeous children, Emmett Jr. (11) and Tatum (8), his parents,  brothers Michael, Rutledge, Myles and Greer, their spouses and many uncles, aunts, cousins, nieces and nephews.
Emmett was a free spirit and one of a kind. He spent his youth traveling the country, seeking adventure and action through his sports of choice; skateboarding, surfing, snowboarding, and hiking.
His work ethic was incredible, he was proud to be a foreman and brother of the International Alliance of Theatrical and Stage Employees Union in NYC since 2012. He was a member of Allenhurst Beach Club and a parishioner  of St. Mary's Church, Deal.
Emmett had a larger than life personality and he could light up a room within seconds. He was magnetic, people were drawn to his infectious, full of life energy. He was an amazing husband, father, son and friend and adored by all. He was a true legend. Emmett will be greatly missed and never forgotten by all who loved him.
A visitation will be held Wednesday Sept 16, 2020 7:00- 9:00 pm and Thursday September 17, 2020 4:00 - 8:00 pm at Buckley Funeral Home 509 Second Ave Asbury Park. A Mass of Christian burial Friday 10:30 am St. Marys's Church 46 Richmond Ave, Deal. Interment immediately following Mass. Mt Calvary Cemetery Neptune. Due to COVID- 19 restrictions 50 grievers are allowed . Please be sure to enter the funeral home wearing a mask and practice social distancing. For condolences please visit www.buckleyfuneralhome.net
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in his name to boards4bros.org

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August 15, 2021

T posted to the memorial.

September 28, 2020

Catherine Balto posted to the memorial.

September 27, 2020

Marie Behnke planted trees.

T

August 15, 2021

I just found out today. #covid
My heart breaks for the family.
Funny, nice, good hearted guy.
Rest in peace Emmett.

Catherine Balto

September 28, 2020

Michael & Geri, Our hearts break for you over the death of Emmett. Our prayers are with you and your family to have the strength to endure the pain. With deepest sympathy, Andy & Cathy (Waldron) Balto

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Marie Behnke

Planted Trees

Geoff DiMasi

September 19, 2020

My deepest condolences to the Varley family.

I have such fond memories growing up together at ABC. I remember so well Emmett’s first summer and all the love that surrounded him then and I’m sure throughout his life.

Much love,
Geoff DiMasi and family

Helen White

September 19, 2020

I pray Emmett’s wife, children and extended family are able to heal. Emmett was my son’s playmate as a child. He was a cool kid, and a cool man.

Gina Ryan- Allenhurst

September 18, 2020

My wholehearted sympathy go out to the entire Varley family on the untimely loss of your beloved son, husband and father.
May your beautiful memories keep Emmit forever alive in your hearts. I am so very sorry for your loss. Godspeed.

Gina Ryan- Allenhurst

September 18, 2020

My wholehearted sympathy go out to the entire Varley family on the untimely loss of your beloved son, husband and father.
May your beautiful memories keep Emmit forever alive in your hearts. I am so very sorry for your loss. Godspeed.

Frank & Nancy Ten Broeck

September 17, 2020

Michael, Gerri and The Varley Family,
We were saddened to hear of the passing of Emmett. Please
accept our deepest sympathy at this time. May the Lord be with
you during this time of sorrow.
Frank & Nancy Ten Broeck and Family

Shanobia Brooks

September 17, 2020

It was a honor knowing and working with you.You will be miss.. R.I.P

Joyce Sharkey

September 17, 2020

Our deeply heartfelt condolences to you, Gerry and Michael, Tiffany, his lovely children, and all his wonderful brothers. There are no words to help assuage such grief, but we hope the love of your family and friends will help you all find strength. Under any other circumstances, we would be there to pay our respects and extend our personal condolences, but we are keeping a very low corona profile and just can't be there. Know we are with you in spirit and prayer. Joyce and Vin Sharkey

James Clark

September 17, 2020

God Bless....my heart goes out to Emmett and his family! I remember Emmett as a kid/teen hanging out at the Pennotti house in Allenhurst. Always and nice guy and full of life.

Michael Stephens

September 17, 2020

My condolences to everyone in Emmett's family. I am so sorry for your loss.

Lorraine Govoni

September 16, 2020

To the entire Varley family,
The lose of a loved one, especially, one so young and vibrant, is without a doubt, difficult and painful. We are deeply sorry to hear of Emmett's sudden passing and we wish to extend our deepest condolences, to each and everyone of you, along with our prayers.

Germano & Lorraine Govoni (Laurino)

Peggy Lawson

September 16, 2020

Kathy Baechtle told me about your son. I was so sad. I know you were such a close family. You must be devastated. I see he had two children. They are lucky to have such a wonderful grandmother. I am sure you will see them through this very difficult time. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Peggy Lawson

Eddie and Rachael Hidary

September 16, 2020

So sorry to hear about the passing of Emmett. Our deppest condolences to Gerry and Michael and to his wife and childrens. We are new to the neighbohood but it was obvious of the joy he brought to you.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rachael and Eddie Hidary

Claire & Peter Glover

September 16, 2020

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones. Rest In Peace! Emmett.
Our deepest condolences to the Varley Family. Sincerely & Love , Claire and Peter Glover

Nickie/ Cliff Lazzaro

September 16, 2020

Our deepest condolences to Gerry and Michael on the loss of your son
Emmett
We remember your beautiful boys
growing up In Allenhurst
Such happy carefree days
Our love and prayers are with you
And your family always.
Fondly , Nickie and Cliff Lazzaro

Maureen and Greg Rawson

September 16, 2020

Prayers for the all the Varley family. God Bless.

Kathy Pierson

September 16, 2020

To The Varley Family, I'm so sorry to hear about Emmett passing.My condolences to all of his brothers Michael,Rutledge,Myles and Greer.Emmett was very happy and energy person and a friend growing up in Allenhurst N.J. I remember him running around at the ABC and wanted to jump onto the trampoline and be with the Recreation children. I'll miss seeing him around the area. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jon & Kathy Harrington

September 15, 2020

Gerry, Michael and family Jon and I are so sorry To hear of Emmitt’s passing. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Larry & Anne Gruner

September 15, 2020

Emmett will be greatly missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of the Varley family.

Charlotte Scholter

September 15, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy. The cabanas will not be the same.

Chris Tilton & Family

September 15, 2020

He was a friend, and a fixture to all in Allenhurst. He brought a great energy to what he did and always had a funny story to tell. We will miss him dearly.

Irene/Eamon Joyce

September 15, 2020

Sincerest condolences for your loss.

Kate Boyce

September 14, 2020

Emmett you will be greatly missed by all that knew you. The love you left here is forever.

Shelby & Rich Johnson

September 14, 2020

We are so very sorry for your tremendous loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Frank Fischer

September 14, 2020

My deepest condolences to Emmett’s family. May his memory assuage the pain of his loss.

Garrett Marx

September 14, 2020

No words are good enough. Love and miss you! Rest in Power

Joe and Donna Cocalis

September 14, 2020

We are saddened over the sudden loss of Emmett. Our prayers are with all of you.

mary talarico

September 14, 2020

Every day at 2:00 on the beach I will think of you It just won't be the same You will be missed Your family is in our thoughts and prayers

Nancy V . Zielinski

September 14, 2020

So very sorry for your loss , My thoughts and prayers are with your and your family.

Frank McCann

September 14, 2020

Your family is in our thoughts at prayers.

Candace Cain

September 13, 2020

Sending prayers of comfort to the whole Varley family. A special hug to Gerry!

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