Eugene Courtney Hoopes

Eugene Courtney Hoopes obituary, Charlottesville, VA

Eugene Courtney Hoopes

Eugene Hoopes Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 2, 2023.
Courtney Hoopes, age 78, passed away on January 29, 2023 at Martha Jefferson Hospital. He was born in Baltimore, Md., and graduated from Towson H.S. Courtney is survived by his wife of 35 years, Debra; his daughter, Erin; four nieces, Michele, Denise, Kimberly and Tracey, many nephews and extended family.

Courtney left Baltimore as a teenager and moved to Charlottesville, Va., where he attended the University of Virginia School of Commerce. He was an honorary member of Theta Chi Fraternity and graduated in 1971 with a degree in Business. It was while he was at UVA that he discovered rugby, and fell in love with the sport that is often referred to as a t'hooligans game played by gentlemen." It was a sport that suited him well as he played with great skill and intensity. He would be the first to welcome the opposition with a cheerful song and cold drink following the match. He was twice selected to represent the State of Virginia as the state's "select side" captain. After he graduated from UVA, Courtney attended the College of William and Mary where he received an MBA and co-founded the William and Mary Rugby Club. Courtney was inducted into the Commonwealth of Virginia Rugby Football Hall of Fame in 2013.

Courtney had a long career in finance and accounting in Charlottesville and later in the Washington, D.C. area, where he met his wife. He had a great love of life, sports, dogs, and family as well as his many friends whom he met through UVA, Rugby and work. He will be greatly missed by all.

Former William and Mary ruggers already know that in the end, you will not be remembered:

For your wealth

For your wisdom

For your good looks

For your knowledge

For your beautiful wife

For your achieving children

For your magnificent home

For your contributions to mankind

But rather how hard you played the game.



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January 28, 2024

Mike Scheer UVA class of 1971 posted to the memorial.

June 15, 2023

Martin Millichap posted to the memorial.

March 26, 2023

Michael Richwine posted to the memorial.

Mike Scheer UVA class of 1971

January 28, 2024

I played Rugby with Courtney 55 Years ago .... 1969-1970 at UVA.... a Class Act... a Great Player.... A Leader.... and a fine person. RIP
Mike Scheer (2nd Row... #4)

Martin Millichap

June 15, 2023

I was very sad to see Courtney´s name listed among the deceased alumni in the Memoriam section of the Summer edition of the UVA Magazine. I remember Courtney as an outstanding athlete and inspirational teammate during our time together as members of the UVA Rugby Club. He was a fast and elusive runner who would likely have been a star on the Virginia football team had he elected to play that sport. Fortunately for Virginia Rugby and for those of us that we´re lucky enough to have played with him he was drawn to rugby where his uniquely gregarious spirit was allowed to shine.
My sincere condolences to his family.

Martin Millichap June 14, 2023

Michael Richwine

March 26, 2023

Courtney's passing is unbearably sad. He was a brilliant all-round athlete and rugger. It was an honor to have taken the pitch with him. Yet he was so much more: a man of consummate charm, wit and humor. Who among those in the VRFC that toured Scotland and England in the Spring of 1970 will ever forget the magnificent manner in which he held forth in our hotel that Saturday night in Edinburgh after the Calcutta Cup besting the Scots (no mean feat) in their drinking games.
"Gently they go, the beautiful, the tender, the kind;
Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave."
My heartfelt condolences to Courtney's family.
May he rest in peace.

Donna Collier

February 4, 2023

So sorry to read of his passing. He taught me in high school. He would come in all bruised up and once with broken nose from playing rugby. I have often thought of him and wondered where he was. He definitely had an impact on all of us in the class. Won´t tell you my age but a long long time ago. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

Madalyn

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John Elliott

February 2, 2023

Courtney was one of those larger than life people that we are occasionally fortunate to meet and befriend. I have known him since college and fraternity days and cherish our friendship. Condolences to Deb, Erin, and the rest of the family.

Bill Dickie

February 2, 2023

Many memories,all fond until we meet again Slainte

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